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dearweirdme · 1 year

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#so we’ve got new neighbors #I already talked to her and she seams nice #a bit shy maybe #today i met with her hisband for the first time #and you know when sometimes you meet someone and you get this feeling #that someone just isn’t a great person #well #i got that feeling with him #and it bugs me #because on the surface he was really nice #we spoke for quite some time even #got our dogs to play together #and he told me a lot #that’s where things got uncomfortable for me though #because within 10 minutes #he already told me that he has two adult daughters whom he has no contact with #and an ex who is still bothering him about money #and a grandchild that he has never seen #and I know that doesn’t necessarily have to be his fault #but then he goes and makes comments about his wife #that are belittling #just small comments in passing #but still #and then he goes and jokes about her being quiet ‘but not because I’m abusing her’#and i just cannot get it out of my head because it was just so weird #buh i hate this #i’m not often wrong about people #but i want to this time

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valengory1234 · 4 months

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While I love the storyline where Alfred was there from day one and helped raise Bruce, I think the original where he’s just some guy who shows up one day and Bruce and Dick just have to cope is extremely funny

#Alfred belongs in the family because he really is just as insane as the rest of them #he just knocked on their door and said I live here now #and both dick and Bruce are like ???#but then he learns their secret and he’s like cool!#I can also be a great detective!#and he isn’t but he really good at getting things accidentally #give me weirdo Alfred that becomes the respected father figure over time #and all the younger robins know him as the family butler who been there ages and knows Bruce better than anyone #and they’re like it’s really great he had someone when he was younger #and then they find out that’s not true #he was just a guy that showed up #and forced his way into the family #a lot like the rest of them #but it still absolutely throws them for a loop #so they try not to think about it too hard #can you imagine Gordon??#oh Bruce I didn’t know your family had a butler #oh we didn’t he just showed up one day #Gordon: ????#the fact that dick was part of Bruce’s life first #is something so personal to me #and the fact that he was there watching Alfred break and enter his way into the family #is something so funny to me #batman comics #batman #bruce wayne #dick grayson #alfred pennyworth

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lunarrosette · 6 months

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My kiddads brainrot (primarily lark & nark focused) is back and the things I would do for like a season 1.5 comic series focusing on the kiddads RAAAHHHHH

#dndads #dungeons and daddies #lark oak garcia #nick close #nark #nark nation #terry jr #sparrow oak garcia #grant Wilson #I need their messy queer friend group drama plus fighting the doodler and shit #I would potentially Mayhaps be down to collab with someone to do with Mayhaps Mayhaps #like me writing other person drawing….#just cause my art isn’t really great for comics #lunarrosette’s shit #shit post

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trash-bin-ary · 7 hours

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I can go on that ramble about the future and housing and aromanticism though now. It’s like man, the future is already something that is so inconceivable to me. To then have the sexuality that does not allow me to slot in the cookie cutter you find a romantic partner that you end up moving in with is terrible. And like In this economy I sure can’t live alone, and I know at least when I’m sick I desperately want someone to be there. And then there’s I’m likely to move around a bunch how do you deal with that housing, other than the work having paid housing. like constantly having to find somewhere that’s looking for roommates and it isn’t terrible? And then long term, when I find a job I stay at for a while (that’s remote so I’d love to live in a remote place) is it like I find a place to stay and then I’m stuck there forever and I just have to hope that I make good friends at this new place. (Friends that don’t want to live exclusively with a romantic partner no less.) I want to live with close friends so bad and I’m not sure if that’s a feasible thing for my future. I’m a person that has so much hope so I have to assume that yes it will work out, I do believe that. But man just hearing someone mention it, sparks that hope.

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tariah23 · 6 months

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Well, I’m still glad that Gojo was always a character who was growing and learning at least. He’s literally one of my favorite characters of all time now. Like, he’s never been as perfect as how the fans would make him out to be despite canonically being viewed as an absolute nuisance to everyone around him (I don’t think his peers necessarily hate him but a lot of them probably hate to see him coming and the ones who’ve dealt with him long enough to consider him a friend, tolerate him and groan whenever he opens his mouth, too 😭… out of love. He’s extremely childish so there is only sm the other adults around him can take and to an extent, his students. I think the only characters in canon who adore him and their eye’s sparkle whenever he’s around, and being a silly teacher was Yuuji and Miwa (she asked him for his autograph (he’s the most famous sorcerer in the jjk world) and when she was alone, she did a little dance in the empty hallway 🥺…) from what we’ve seen even though the others still care about him, too. They just find him rather annoying, which he most definitely is. And he does it on purpose. He plays too much.)

#I’m also not usually one to get annoyed whenever ppl shit on the things I like #like I’m an adult sorry idc 😵‍💫#but it’s always annoying seeing ppl who know nothing about the story complaining about it #even just as recently with the Gojo being racist shit 😭..#like he’s a really great character despite all of that and even though Gege’s #execution of that could’ve been better or didn’t need to happen at all #because idk what gege was doing even though I do strongly believe that he used a moment like this to showcase Gojo’s ignorance and #that how he’s also human and makes mistakes since if you’re familiar with the series Gojo isn’t really treated like person at all #more like a deity and he doesn’t like that #but he’s never been one to voice his personal feelings and talk about his trauma ever #he gets treated like a god and because of this he’s never felt like he could truly connect with other people #so that’s why he puts on that whole act of being overly friendly/ playing with others and even rude to shut others out because of his #aversion to opening his traumatized self To other ppl like he’s so cool #and when he’s friendly he gives the others just enough of his affection so that he wouldn’t be worried about and not have others pry #but he’s incredibly flawed as well #I feel like gege could’ve showed Gojo being ‘humbled’ some other kind of way over the racism tho 😭. But it’s fine lmfao #I’m still so grateful that he had Gojo actually apologize instead of waving Miguel off like he didn’t matter because like I’ve said before #he literally never apologizes (this is probably the first time that I’ve ever seen gojo apologize to anyone in canon I’m so serious 🗿)#that’s literally not part of him #like he feels regret but he never apologies or shows that he actually cares about what others are expressing to him when they’re upset with #him. like this is crazy. but it shows that he did care about the mistake that he made which I appreciate…. like idk how I would’ve felt #about his character if he showed that he could care less when hurting someone like this🗿…..#I adore him so much sorry sorry for taking about anime I’m just 😭…. ❤️❤️❤️#rambling #I’m glad that everyone is fucking with Miguel now because he is a really interesting character even though we haven’t seen much of him #he’s one of the few ppl who Gojo trusted enough to look after someone who he cared about despite the horrors #because he knew that Miguel would protect yuuta and do right by him #it’s very 😭❤️…

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reflectionsofgalaxies · 4 months

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having a normal one over here

#i think the meds overcorrected #i cannot sleep and i am bubbling with Emotions #can i tell what most of them are? No #but there’s a lot of them #and they’re not actually super shitty??#they’d be nice if they could just dial it down a notch #also this isn’t vague posting to be clear i’m not having Emotions because anything happened #this is run-of-the-mill confusion posting #kinda nervous for the comedown after these like. several consecutive pretty great days in a row???#other than the late night panic attacks i was giving myself by reading the news #my doctor literally made me go into my settings and turn off notifs for my news apps #while telling me ‘at least you’re self aware’#(bc i knew it was the news fucking me up i just wasn’t Allowed to turn off notifs)#anyway i’ve gone on a tangent #tumblr is back to being my journal #which means i’m gonna get like. at least 3x more annoying with my posting.#anyway i’m also thinking about Women but like. what’s new right?#also it’s Pride Month if there was ever a time to be gay over women it is NOW #someone’s gonna have to talk me out of dating apps again soon #(i hate dating apps and i don’t even want to date)#(but like maybe there are other cool queer people who wanna have queer movie nights and be casually gay together)#(you never know unless you try!)#anyway i’m not gonna be embarrassed for those tags bc if you’ve read this far that’s on you #personal

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litres-of-cocaine · 5 months

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okay as much as i agree that groups under the lgbtq+ umbrella are stigmatised by other people in the community please be so fr and stop calling it ‘double discrimination’ you just want to say ‘monosexual privilege’ but are aware people get kind of mad about that

#queer discourse #to clarify this isn’t about ableism racism sexism transphobia etc exhibited by people within the community #it’s more about the presentation of stigma witin the community as a disparate and equal thing to bigotry coming from outside the community #like it’s all coming from the same place guys just being wielded by other oppressed people #like lesbians do not represent a unique evil to bi women and vice versa #or trans men exhibiting transmisogny is not a result of their transmasculinity it’s white supremacy and patriarchy #it’s not a sign that these groups of people are your enemy #(disclaimer: this is completely online problem no one under the age of 14 genuinely seems to push this irl as their brains aren’t rotting)#and i’m not saying that bigotry from other queer people should be ignored bcs NO we need to be pulling each other up #but framing it as a ‘double’ discrimination instead of the same goddamn thing is just saying you’ve got it worse than everybody else #if someone attacked me for liking coffee and then a different person /also/ attacked me for liking coffee that’s not double discrimination.#that’s the same type of discrimination done by different people #we are a goddamn community force the internet leeches OUT of your brain don’t let them take you alive #it’ll suck the joy out of everything #this is largely in response to a long as text post that had some great points but this glaring welt of online behaviour in the middle of it #i’m also aware no one is going to read this i just can’t be arsed to waste any real life person’s time in discussing it #godspeed campers

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ringneckedpheasant · 2 years

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had the second worst great clips visit of my life today but thank fucking gd my hair turned out Okay despite the other horrors

#there are 2 in relatively close proximity to me & the one I like more had like 90 minute wait times #as opposed to 15 at the other place #and I knew it would be awkward & bad bc it always is at that location no matter who the stylist is #And Then It Was #stylist repeatedly misgendered me to her coworker who was giving some other guy almost an identical haircut to mine #said coworker did too despite me checking With My Name Which Is Marcus #& then she accidentally nicked my ear w the clippers #& I think she was worried abt doing it to the other ear so I had to trim around it a little when I got home #very stilted conversation which was mostly my fault and isn’t a crime #but she kept telling me I should try a specific style after she’d already started #& I was just like oh haha maybe next time. like three times over the course of 20 minutes or w/e it was #and ALSO sometimes the great clips employees do not really help you get cleaned off #I was spoiled last time the stylist gave me a dry washcloth to get all the little Bits off my face #but todays stylist just sent me out into the world after using the blow dryer for about 10 seconds #got out to my car. hair all over my face. itchy. nothing to wipe it off with.#anyway. worst time was when someone gave me an extremely incorrect haircut bc of a language barrier & I wasn’t really mad about it #but I did cry in my car after bc I felt So ugly & dysphoric #also last complaint abt this poor person #she seemed to have Very little confidence in her choice of tool and changed the guard on her clippers and what clippers she was holding #like 3x more than was necessary & I know this because I get basically the same haircut every time w very little variation #& it just made me anxious that it was going to look bad bc her behavior was #making me feel like she wasn’t very experienced w the kind of haircut I was asking for #marc.txt #last last complaint for real not abt her #her coworker who was also misgendering me cut my hair last time I was there 😔

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vcrnons · 10 months

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Yo fr fr those things are exactly why I stay away from twt fandom, twt is already the trash bin of humanity but it also applies to fandoms imo 💀 Also went back on Insta recently and tbh sometimes it's not much better... like... I'm so sorry those people count as fans

like. okay. im sure they mean well, you know? im sure this is either very well intentioned, or a lt worst, it’s a bad attempt at a clout chase. and as someone vernon biased of course i want to see him getting good opportunities and being recognised for more things. but when every single argument in your big mistreatment thread can be disputed by ‘hey, maybe he didn’t/doesn’t want to’ or ‘he was fucking busy?’ ………

there are leaves on trees out there, man. grass on the ground. birds, and shit. getting outside is good for the soul n maybe some people need to give it a try

#💌 - mailbox.#💝 - nonnie.#this isn’t very sunshine rainbow cupcake core of me I know. im sorry #would I have loved to see a black eye music show stage? of course I would’ve. are u kidding. but it didn’t happen for whatever reason #maybe he didn’t want to / maybe he couldn’t / they were touring and busy and it dropped over the holidays but it was also awards season /#maybe the song wasn’t deemed to be appropriate for that / we just. don’t. know!#(but this is from me who likes to imagine he went into a meeting and said ‘i’m only doing a band live ver if you let me say fuck uncensored #so maybe im not the person to talk to about this matter specifically 💀#don’t get me started on ig fanpages either there was one I had to unfollow because all they ever posted was about how woozi would cry if he #saw all the height jokes online. as if the one time he mentioned it he wasn’t responding to someone asking if he got taller by saying #don’t joke about that #like. no fr tell me do you think he’s actually weeping himself to sleep at night over being 5’5.#im sure he can wipe his tears with all his awards babe. I think he’s okay. his height is not some great secret #he isn’t t*m cr*ise standing in boxes to not look tiny in frame. he is aware. we are aware. it does Not matter to anyone how tall he is 😭#I went on a tangent SORRY. anyway im done now. jesus wept😭#it’s rough out here

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butch-himbo-king · 2 years

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why do ppl on here get so fucking pressed about someone saying they don’t want to have kids or they Do want to have kids or what age they think you should have kids like… y’all realize you can want different things and that’s fine and saying i want something that someone else doesn’t want literally has nothing to do with the other person like just fucking chill a little huh

#personal #if someone says ‘i enjoy being 20 with 3 kids’ and someone else says ‘that’s great for you but i couldn’t do it i don’t want kids’#the second person is like. fine?#they’re not fucking demonizing the first person or bullying them abt their life choices #and vice versa the first person isn’t mocking or belittling ppl who don’t want kids just bc they said they enjoy their life with kids????#literally the dumbest shit you could get mad abt

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jrwiyuri · 1 year

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My teacher said I should try making some of the symbolism in my art less obvious but like.. idk how? Or how that would benefit it?

#stupid snake talk #like especially the knife #he was like ‘we all know what a knife means in art.. what if u made it smth else’#but it’s like.. idk the knife isn’t the important part of the symbolism it’s just a tool to use there #I do not need the audience to come to the conclusion that the feminine one is dying #I need them to come to the conclusion of WHY she is dying #what does this death of feminity represent?#like I can’t see a way where I could replace the weapon with something else and have it convey what I want it to convey #it’s already not exactly a very easy thing for someone to understand unless they have specific understanding of the experience of trans ppl #and more specifically non-binary trans ppl..#so idk if I want to make it even less obvious #I don’t think it needs to be either #like what’s the benefit of making it less obvious.. art doesn’t need to be hidden to have great meaning #not to mention it’s ‘give tangible form to feeling and idea’#I do not feel like I am metaphorically laying my feminine side down gently in her grave #I am violently and unjustly stabbing her in the back after she has given her heart to me #that is how I FEEL #I do not need to change it.. it would no longer be personal #I know he explicitly told me that I didn’t HAVE to take that advice but it pissed me off anyway..

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areyouwho-ithinkyouare · 1 year

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even in early access Wyll was always my fave bg3 companion like he’s the only one that i’d actually WANT to spend time with in real life but in all my time playing this game (both EA and full release) i CANNOT romance him. the characters i make just. none of them would choose him. i would choose him 100% of the time but my characters are always like. eh.

#if i’m being honest i preferred his EA voice #i get why they recast him like the rewrites they did for that character were HUGE #i get wanting to bring someone fresh into that who isn’t gonna be caught between old wyll and new wyll #and the new VA is great don’t get me wrong it’s literally just personal taste

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rosesradio · 2 years

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#…#when i was taking an order for work they stacked the boxes wrong & one opened & spilled spaghetti in the bag #kinda the usual ‘someone get me a cigarette it’s a long day’ stuff #so they got me a replacement but for the wait they got me two replacement spaghettis #& i had noticed a homeless man outside the restaurant earlier & instead of keeping the extra spaghetti for myself—#(the customer didn’t have to know there was an extra I do that stuff all the time whoops :/)#i gave it to the man #& i don’t mean to make this post about ‘oh look at me i’m a great person’ bc i’m mid but like.#he looked so surprised that i even talked to him & was grateful for the food #growing up my parents told me to avoid homeless people & don’t look at them bc they could be dangerous and/or ‘faking homelessness’#(nothing against my parents i love them that’s just what they told me)#& i don’t know if that man was ‘faking’ it or anything—I just felt bad especially bc the weather isn’t great rn #& i know my parents would be upset if i told them bc i potentially put myself in danger or whatever but i thought I’d say something here #bc this blog is like a diary for me #that’s all #rose.txt

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wwerewwolves · 2 years

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HELPPPP MY BOYFRIEND WANTS TO OWN A DOODLE.

#my certifications for this argument stand as: 4 years working in pet care.#his certifications for this argument: he met two very nice doodles #like listen. I have met good doodles. even GREAT doodles. I like some of them a lot. but I would never ever consider owning one #just due to the genetic variability and destandardization of breeding them there is absolutely no way to ensure that they would end up #like those doodles that are good. I’ve met enough bad doodles that I have a negative outlook on the breed.#literally ask any dog groomer #or someone who works in pet care like a kennel.#my ENTIRE staff GROANS when a doodle walks in #I even told him I would be down to own a poodle but no he wants a DOODLE #a bernedoodle to be exact #I just. I CANNOT become a doodle person #this is the same man who won’t let me get a boxer because their fur causes his bad allergies to flare up #like boxers are my DREAM dog I have genuinely loved every single boxer I’ve ever met. they have wonderful drive and personalities #I like their breed standard and temperament #this is not a jab at mixed breeds. I think every dog should have a home of course. but for MY lifestyle and MY decisions I’d want a purebred #or at the very least any mutt that isn’t a doodle 😭#captain’s log

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crowcryptid · 2 years

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Starting next week my schedule goes from bad to nightmare mode.

6 AM to 9:30 PM from Monday-Thursday. Surrounded by the most annoying people imaginable.

Fridays are *only* 6 AM to 6 PM. Lucky me.

Yippie. Yahoo.

Watch as I try not to think about the 3 hours of sleep I could get if my idiot boss let me work from home when all I do is type on a keyboard all day. Man. 3 hours of sleep.. and I wouldn’t have to deal with being the community punching bag. MAN………

#And no this isn’t by choice. im not on some idiotic grind set #and despite what the schedule implies I’m not making bank with overtime #I’m getting paid for 40 hours only #the rest of the time is commuting and school #and I’m paying for school out of pocket 😀#> one inconvience away from turning someone into red paste #If the cosmic entity putting me in the femur breaker could just stop for a second that’d be great #please put me in solitary please I’m begging at this point #I need to be alone I need it I need it #I will never ask to be in the same room as another person. it’s like sticking my hand in boiling water.#unfortunately for me everyone really likes grabbing my hand and sticking in the boiling water #because they’re like ‘omg this poor thing is so cold. let’s warm you up’ No You Dont Need To Do That

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daydreamerdrew · 2 years

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Marvel Treasury Edition (1974) #25

#the Hulk’s not that great at understanding his own emotions in general #like he needs a lot of time and quiet space to work things out #but at the same time there are things that no matter how much time he has he simply isn’t going to be able to understand them on his own #and he needs help which he doesn’t actually get all that often #which isn’t something that he plays no part in #like oftentimes he takes the frustration of not understanding something and accuses the other person of intentionally trying to confuse him #and his awareness and acceptance of his own limitations is not consistent #like sometimes he understands that there’s a lot he doesn’t understand #but a lot of the time it’s everyone else around him that’s stupid actually #so I think that this kind of subtle/less domineering form of mind control is more interesting #than say someone just lying to the Hulk and outright tricking him into doing their bidding #sometimes those tricking stories can feel forced whereas this is more natural #marvel #bruce banner #peter parker #my posts #comic panels

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