#transmascfem

[punkeropercyjackson]

Inspired by my older sibling @9ragonmew

Yeah,i'm certified black Enid Sinclair,i should do cosplays /lh

[worms-in-my-brain]

It’s actually awful how hostile the trans community is specifically to people who are both trans and intersex.

If you’re trans people still want to force you into their stupid little AMAB/AFAB binary. You have to be either a trans woman (or at least transfem) or a trans man (or at least transmasc). Even ignoring how exorsexist this is, it leaves no room for intersex people who are between cis and trans, no room for intersex people who are trans in nonormative ways (ex. AMAB* trans men, AFAB* trans women, intergender trans people), no room for intersex people who are trans in more than one way (ex. transfemasc/transmascfem people).

Gender and sex isn’t either/or, guys, and experiences are varied.

* I normally don’t like the widespread usage of AGABs because they (or at least the way people use them) erase intersex experiences but I’m using them here to demonstrate my point on how other people discuss trans and intersex people.

[drcrispy93]

[intersexfairy]

im transfeminine and transmasculine and there is nothing anyone can do about it. as a nonbinary intersex person, i have to transition towards both femininity and masculinity. it's trans. it just is. you can pry my identity from my warm living hands.

[clem-mp3]

realized last night that i’ve started using “their” instead of “ours” when talking about transmasc issues because i wasn’t getting taken seriously when i used “ours”. because people didn’t take me seriously when i owned being transmasc. because people told me that i couldn’t experience transmisogyny while being transmasc, and therefore couldn’t be transfem. because i couldn’t be me.

going to start trying to get more comfortable with myself and my gender again. but i just wanted to point out how weird that treatment was.

[mangedog]

i honestly really relate to you wishing you were transfem. I do too, so much that it hurts. But I never say anything because I don't think anyone in the community would accept it. I constantly wish I was born male and transitioned in a non-binary way. I tell myself I can be a male non-binary. I just have to take extra steps (taking T first). That's how I survive this feeling. But honestly being born the way I am feels like such a prison in terms of gender. sorry about this little vent

no i agree 100%... there is a small transmascfem / transfemasc / ftmtf / mtftm community but i feel like even within that, it's more of a...presentation focused thing rather than this feeling? obviously not for everyone, that's just the vibe i get.

i guess its just hard because theres this idea that if (binary) trans people could've been born their actual gender, they would choose that. but as a transfem, i was born that gender, except it was still wrong. i can never transition in a way that soothes all aspects of my dysphoria.

i guess part of the cure is to de-binarise society... but that's a task thats bigger than you or i.

[saffigon]

i mourn the boyhood i missed and celebrate the girlhood i had

i celebrate the manhood i have and mourn the parts of womanhood i will miss

[punkeropercyjackson]

"They don't know what gender is!!!"Yes the fuck they do,they're full of it and i'm using the general 'they' because nonbinary does not mean they/them exclusively every fuckdamn time like y'all think it does.'He's like a girl to me' and 'She's my boyfriend' but then you don't respect he/him girls and she/her boys and bigender has never entered your vocabulary.Good LORDS

[0bseumcoining]

Transfemmascweirdo / transmascfemweirdo

a gender under the genderweirdo system, a gender related to being transfemmasc / transmascfem and weirdos or being a weirdo transfemmasc + transmascfem!

[genderqueerdykes]

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[the-amber-droid-dreams]

being me is genuinely so funny bc all my (trans) friends regularly forget whether im transmasc or transfemme, the oldest among them immediately assumed wrong when we first talked, one of them invented the string of words "packer tucker" and now thats an inside joke / nickname, and the newest friend has now independently reinvented the concept of transfemmasc and insists, to my delight, that he is correct in his assertation that i am both transfemme And transmasc

my he/she bigender swag is just too powerful. the discourse tumblerinas would be wailing if they knew i existed

[sapphic-boy]

y'all transfemmasc/transmascfem is not intersex exclusive, it literally just was not coined as an intersex-exclusive term, some people just decided to claim it for intersex people only and those people are dickholes. anybody can be transfemasc/transmascfem if they feel like they are transitioning in both a masc and fem way. thats all it means. you do not have to be intersex to transition in both directions.

[clem-mp3]

that’s crazy because it’s almost like it.. didn’t happen. because that’s not what’s happening. transmascs aren’t “pretending” to be transfem in order to speak on issues, like OP from screenshot has directly accused me of and i know im one of those examples, it’s actually that nobody owes anybody their agab, especially strangers on the internet, and these people who are usually multi gender (although not in my case) are speaking about things that directly affect them as people who are either multi gender or intersex. people don’t have to disclose information with you in order for you to believe them. you ARE supposed to believe that these arguments are in good faith.

so no, op, nobody fucking believes you because it didn’t happen.