#tucute discourse

[whereserpentswalk]

Most passing and binary trans woman on earth: "actually I am biologically female, a real category that both exists and matters, because hormones. So obviously transphobes should respect me and its factually wrong to be transphobic agaisnt me because I've somehow managed to transition into a cisgender person."

Anyone even slightly educated on the broader queer community: "What if, now hear me out, intersex women and afab enbies tormented you using demons and magic spells."

[kripkerot]

this actually hurts my brain. “omg trans ppl want to be the most common version of their desired gender bc that genders literally all they’ve ever wanted ever??!!?!?!” yeah?? literally how could you get more girl than that. “omg trans ppl wanna be the opposite gender what……”

[controversal-polls]

Do you need dysphoria to be trans?

Yes

No

[jamesmirandabarry]

Honestly? My take is that queer gatekeepers don’t know what it’s like to live a lonely fucking existence, or haven’t realised they live one yet.

[cutedangerousbvttom]

CHILLIN...

[queenkendal1]

I'm horny and lonely I'm down for for naughty and nasty fun

Reblog if you're interested

[campcomputers]

tiktok is morphing into olden days tumblr and im scared

[myriaddiscourse]

Currently gearing up to make a little video essay about the harm truscumery has done to the community.

If you’re someone who’s been affected by truscum, feel free to message me about it! Especially if you used to be truscum yourself, I’d really like to hear your stories.

[maddogmp3]

you either die a sad, hateful trans teenager or live long enough to see urself become the tucute u feared so much

[bugbuoyx]

I know I'm about to drop a pretty hot take that pisses off alot of trans folks (plus I saw a post shitting on "tucutes" forgetting that they were fighting transmeds also its 2023 I thought we moved past that shit) anyways.

Being trans is a choice for some folks. Especially nonbinary folks. For some, the choice framework is empowering.

For me personally, I feel like framing it as a choice is important to me. I choose everyday to live my happiest life in the face of cis discomfort. I choose to be loud and proud and vibrantly trans, to be myself. And maybe someday in the future, I'll choose a different identity or a different way of living. But for now? I love being trans and I love that I was given the chance and choice and joy to live this way.

I also think sexuality can be framed this way, especially with the variety of identities and definitions available. For me, I like to keep it simple and use queer as a catchall (and include my gender) but I'll also sometimes use gay, mlm, nblm, and demi^2. These are all choices I have made, about who I am and how I want to present myself. And again, I fucking love it. I love being a silly little gay boy and I love that I get to be that.

If none of this applies to you, if being trans or gay or whatever wasn't a choice for you, that's fine. The amazing thing about humans is our individuality and messiness. I just think it's important to point out that, like "I was always trans" doesn't apply to everyone, neither does "It's not a choice".

[diamondeyes-deluxe]

Ok. Uh. I always tended not to get involved in like "discourse" because 1. I've been here forever and know how useless and eternal it is and 2. I often didn't feel very strongly about like 75% of whatever people were fighting about. But, uh.

I came across a short post that mentioned "radqueers" and "paraphilias" and spent a few minutes looking into those tags to try to figure out what they mean??

Ok so I guess "radqueer" is when you identify as "transracial" or "transabled", amongst other things. Ok. Suddenly I miss mogai and kindrama. Ultimately this stuff is like bad but not really surprising.

But paraphilia is...? I mean paraphilia is just an abnormal sexual attraction right. So you I saw things ranging from bdsm to fetishes for certain body functions which is like whatever right. A lot of really brutal, graphic descriptions of violence that I personally would never see as arousing but still, different strokes ig? But then. I keep seeing people mention "the big three" and, as far as I can gather, this refers to pedo, necro, and zoo. Like, philias. And I see MULTIPLE BLOGS WITH ABOUTS THAT LIST BOTH "into the big three! 🤗" AND "minor!"

I genuinely genuinely genuinely think it's time to blow up the internet. We have entire subsections of CHILDREN larping and convincing themselves that they feel a sexual attraction to animals/corpses/young children. This is beyond "touch grass" these poor kids need to not be allowed internet access for an extended period of time to detox.

[rabioromantic]

I love seeing the transmeds who harassed me in the past deactivate or change their blogs to be more trans friendly. Good on you for growing. Thanks for the years of bullying and trauma though that was pretty fun

[tsanna0]

Obsessed 👅

[myriaddiscourse]

just to be clear the transmed community is still alive and well. we never went away we just got sick of constant death threats from your side, who are apparently Still pretending to be the victims to this day. but, victimizing yourself is what y'all enjoy doing, isnt it?

I never said it was dead. But LMAO this is funny as fuck

We get death threats from y’all too soooo

[velvetvexations]

i think a lotttt of newly out or young trans people just. don't know who blair white is. don't remember kalvin garrah (although i heard he's apologised now?). don't remember the absolute onslaught of "tucute caricatures" in the mid-2010s, and the criticisms and eventual discarding of it. ive been out and online in some form or another for, holy fucking shit, a full decade now, and having watched all this unfold and change and mutate into the discourse we have today, while more and more laws are being made against our existence across different countries is... look, if your post attempts to invoke other trans people's dysphoria, or calls them a tucute/transtrender without saying it outright, or dismisses their experiences of transphobias as not real/not bad, then you're not combatting transphobia within the community, you are the transphobia within the community. you're being a transmed. saw a post that was like "oh it's not safe for you to transition? its not safe to do anything, take the estrogen" yeah or how about we respect people's abilities to judge whether they're safe or not??? "stop telling people they're still valid if they don't transition" but... they are. ive been out for a decade and ive not transitioned. id love to but testosterone is a controlled substance and i can't afford all the appointments necessary to get it right now. im still a man. hrt should be something people take when they want, if they want, when they feel ready. but saying stuff like that gets twisted into "so you're against transition? you're against the same thing cis transphobes are against?" no mfer im against transmedicalism. im against the in-community pressure to transition as soon as possible without thinking it through. im pro- telling people that transition is worth it, that it's awesome, im pro- combatting all the lies about how dangerous it is that are spread by cis people who don't understand us, but "if you don't transition for any reason you're still trans" and "yeah if you realise it was a bad idea you can always just detransition so if you think it's for you, go ahead!" isn't... those are both good messages actually. transmeds used to just say tucutes dni and then you'd know they were an asshole right out the gate. now they couch it all in talk about how detransitioners are traitors to the community and tmes with a complex relationship to gender are lying intruders. we already did this!!!!

SOMEHOW TRANSMEDS RETURNED

[boatswainscall]

Yknow. I'm in a way glad I came of age/came out as transmasc during the peak of truscum tumblr. It was horribly traumatizing but also all of the popular sentiments and discourse was transparently just fucking bullying. So while it set me back close to a decade in terms of being fully comfortable with myself, its made me fucking bulletproof to the current horseshit going on and I can see right through all its posturing and masquerading as legitimate discourse.

but I am fucking terrified for transmasculine people who are younger or coming out at this time, specifically because these bastards are being way more coy about it this time around. dressing up their attempts to divide and conquer with moralist set dressing and inventing a billion new terms to confuse and misdirect. it's way fucking harder on its face to dismiss as bald faced bigotry that way especially if you're new to trans spaces online, and i know its affecting newly out transmascs already. this is genuinely so much worse than the tucute/anti-sparklegender bullshit.