#unhealthyrelationships

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

Normalize to distance yourself once you feel unwanted.

[drmarr]

“If you ask people in a toxic relationship, “Why do you love this person?" And the answer is… “I don’t know… I can’t describe it. It’s just like… magical. I can’t put it into words. We just have this connection. They just, feel me… you know?” They can’t articulate it. But when you ask a person in a healthy relationship, “Why do you love this person?”, the answer is very clear. “Because I respect them, and they respect me. We share the same values. We have incredible times together. I feel safe with this person.” They give you concrete evidence. But when someone's “like… magical”, and you can’t describe it, it’s because it’s a trauma bonded connection. A confusing space. This ain’t magical. It’s dangerous to go exploring, to stick around and find out . And it’s a wake up call. And opportunity to choose differently. How do you know? Go with the energy. Energy doesn’t lie. Your gut knows. Does this relationship help you grow? Does it fill you up? Does it feel nurturing? Do you feel safe? Genuinely loved? Or does it shrink you? Cause you to to be unstable, unsafe…? You don’t need words. You feel threatened, you don’t feel like yourself, you feel yourself reaching for old toxic behaviors…” ~ I wish I could remember who said this (it wasn’t me) Energy doesn’t lie. The energy says it all. (Run) #relationship101 #toxiclove #toxicrelationship #unhealthyrelationships #unhealthyrelationship #relationshipcoach #breakupcoach #cantdescribeit #dating101 #datingadvice #selflove #selfprotection #selfawareness #thingstoknow #thingstoknowinadvance #internationallifecoach #healthylove #healthyrelationships #relationshipgoals https://www.instagram.com/p/CkQkCdmunCW/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[uncoveringthenarcissist]

This song explores a toxic relationship with a narcissistic partner, touching on themes of manipulation and emotional turmoil.

[tmarshconnors]

Signs Of Evil Manipulation

Signs of evil manipulation can vary depending on the context, but here are some general indicators that may suggest someone is engaging in manipulative and harmful behavior:

Deception: Manipulative individuals often employ deceit and lies to achieve their goals. They may present false information, twist the truth, or engage in gaslighting, making you doubt your own perceptions and reality.

Emotional manipulation: They use tactics to exploit your emotions and vulnerabilities. This could include guilt-tripping, emotional blackmail, or playing with your feelings to control your actions or decisions.

Isolation: Manipulative individuals may try to isolate you from your support network, such as friends and family. They want to limit your access to alternative perspectives and support systems that could expose their manipulative behavior.

Blame-shifting: Manipulators often deflect responsibility for their actions and blame others for their own mistakes or negative consequences. They may make you feel guilty or responsible for things that are not your fault.

Lack of empathy: Manipulative individuals often display a lack of genuine empathy or concern for others' feelings. They may exploit your emotions for their own benefit without regard for the harm they cause.

Control and power dynamics: Manipulators seek to exert control over others and establish a power imbalance in relationships. They may use tactics like intimidation, threats, or undermining your self-confidence to assert dominance.

Constant criticism: Manipulative individuals frequently criticize and belittle their targets to undermine their self-esteem and create dependency. They may focus on your weaknesses and insecurities, making you doubt your own worth.

Gaslighting: Gaslighting is a manipulative technique where the person denies, distorts, or trivializes your experiences, feelings, or memories to make you question your sanity or perception of reality.

Conditional affection and love: Manipulators often use affection, love, or approval as a reward for compliance or punishment for resistance. They may withhold affection, support, or attention to control your behavior.

Manipulative tactics: Manipulators employ various tactics to control others, such as manipulation through fear, charm, flattery, or excessive generosity. They may use these tactics to exploit your weaknesses and gain an advantage.

[stillstanding-1]

The Healing Power of Letting Go: Embracing Growth and Self-Care

In life, we often find ourselves in relationships that no longer serve our well-being. Letting go of an unhealthy relationship can be a difficult decision, but it is essential for our personal growth and happiness. This blog post explores the importance of recognizing when it’s time to release toxic connections, the challenges that come with it, and the transformative journey towards self-love,…

[holisticparenting]

Trauma bonds are relationships that involve dysfunctional dynamics. Usually these relationships are formed very sudden, quick and with high intensity. There is love bombing with excessive attention, flattery, undying devotion and praise. However, slowly insecurities start to show in the form of jealousy, criticism, control and possessive ness. The red flag are ignored and gaslighting, deflection and abuse are seeing as normal and a sign to prove their loyalty, devotion and love. Have you ever felt that all-or-nothing intoxicating relationship? #traumabond #unhealthyrelationships #healingchildhood #neglected https://www.instagram.com/p/CkZtxZqsmoX/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[ziarising]

#life #lifequotes #poetryquotes #shequotes #feelgoodquotes #poetrycommunity #writerscommunity #quotesofinstagram #selfempowerment #womenempoweringwomen #toxicsituations #toxicpeople #igwritersclub #feelgoodquotes #positivemindset #letigo #selflove #selfcare #toxictraits #unhealthyrelationships #unhealthylifestyle #lifelessons #lifequotes #writersofengland #writerswarmth #motivatorsofinstagram #motivationalquotes #igpoets https://www.instagram.com/p/Ce0bSHKKQge/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[lungsrlife]

Healthy Lifestyle or Unhealthy Lifestyle? Choose wisely! @drprashantsaxena | Health Expert ✅ #healthyfood #healthylifestyle #healthy #healing #healthtips #unhealthyrelationships #doctor #healthcoach #healthyeating #gurgaon #friday (at India) https://www.instagram.com/p/CenMqiKhlaM/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[stepscounselingconsulting]

This is a perfect example of trauma bonding. Trauma bonding leads to toxic relationships and is unhealthy. STEPSisters and STEPSbrothers please work on yourself before jumping in a relationship. A relationship will not heal you, you have to work on healing you. #selflove #traumabonding #toxicrelationships #SayYestoCounseling #unhealthyrelationships #heal ••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••• LINK IN BIO TO ORDER “From The Girls Next Door: Taking STEPS in The Right Direction” ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️📚🤗✨ SPREAD THE WORD!!!••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••• S.T.E.P.S. Counseling & Consulting provides individual therapy sessions personal and professional development workshops. www.stepscounselingconsulting.com •••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••#schoolcounselorsofinstagram #schoolcounselor #therapy #lgbtqia #anxiety #depresssion #ptsd #mentalhealthmatters #licensedprofessionalcounselor #grief #mentalhealthillness #mentalhealth  #mentalhealthrecovery #mentalhealthsupport #blacktherapists #therapistofinstagram #Yourfavoritetherapits (at Self-Love) https://www.instagram.com/p/CduYfBsN-sN/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

I wanted the best for you, I wanted you to achieve the most. While you just wanted someone that didn't believe in you, and didn't want you to achieve the most. That's life, that's a lesson.

[fitness-exercise-diet-videos]

9 Signs You Have a Broken Heart Are you going through a heartbreak or a breakup right now? Heartbreak is most often associated with romantic relationships,… #Psych2go #Psych2goRelationships #RelationshipHelp #UnhealthyRelationship #Heartbreak

[savemefromtoxic]

⚖️ The difference between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy one? Is how conflict is dealt with. ~ Rick dC // @SaveMeFromToxic #unhealthyrelationship #healthyrelationship #goodrelationship #badrelationship #relationshipquotes #relationship #relationshipdifferences #conflict #dealingwithconflict #dealwithconflict #rickdc https://www.instagram.com/p/Cpfx_UCvw62/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[askwholehearted]

In light of this week's video, here's a short list of a healthy relationship vs. and unhealthy relationship. 

[divinefem333]

WHEN GOD GIVES YOU SIGNS #datingquotes #signsfromabove #selfworthquotes ...

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[stormyfayethechristianrunaway]

Midnight Thoughts: Spiritual Validity

You can't heal yourself or be whole by recreating your image from the broken pieces of your former days and ways.

Like a city that is broken down and without walls [leaving it unprotected] Is a man who has no self-control over his spirit [and sets himself up for trouble].

#Proverbs25Vs28

https://bible.com/bible/1588/pro.25.28.AMP

Clinging to the faded shadows of former friends or toxic emotional traps gifted by past lovers won't bring you the joy that you seek.

But no one puts a piece of unshrunk (new) cloth on an old garment; for the patch pulls away from the garment, and a worse tear results. Nor is new wine put into old wineskins [that have lost their elasticity]; otherwise the wineskins burst, and the [fermenting] wine spills and the wineskins are ruined. But new wine is put into fresh wineskins, so both are preserved.”

#Matthew9Vs16Thru17

https://bible.com/bible/1588/mat.9.16-17.AMP

Human connection and love are necessary but not to be idolized.

#HumanConnection #Love #Relationships #Friendships #GodlyRelationships #EquallyYoked #SpiritualConnection #SpiritualArmor #IronSharpensIron

A false friend and an ungodly spiritual connection can be more deadly spiritually than the sting of the most venomous predator.

Open rebuke is better Than love carefully concealed. Faithful are the wounds of a friend, But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.

#Proverbs27Vs5Thru6

https://bible.com/bible/114/pro.27.5-6.NKJV

Do not be deceived: “Bad company corrupts good morals.”

#1Corinthians15Vs33

https://bible.com/bible/1588/1co.15.33.AMP

#FalseFriends #UnGodlyRelations #UnequallyYoked #Predators #Prey #SpiritualWarfare #SpiritualValidityAddiction #UnhealthyRelationships #ChristianCounseling #RelationshipTherapists #Detours #Delays

@stormyfaye

Stormy Faye The Christian Runaway

#StormyFayeTheChristianRunaway

https://www.stormyfaye.com/

#March19th2023 #MidnightThoughts #SpiritualValidity