#xenogender identities

[bappledilk]

Rambling about labels.

Today, I’d like to talk about my opinions regarding labels.  It’s no secret that I use a lot of labels for myself, and some people may think the amount of labels I use is incredibly unnecessary.  Like… what even is the point of identifying as chronosian or aldernic?  I understand why someone might ask that, which is exactly why I want to make this post.  Here is a bit of how I feel about labels!

So, as we all know, you can’t change who you are, more specifically your identity.  Maybe you can change yourself physically, but you only do so to better align with yourself mentally.  Maybe this doesn’t go for every single person, but this is at least how I feel about my own identity.  If you’re trans FTM, you were always a boy mentally, you just needed to get your body there physically.  You’re a boy, that’s who you are and nothing could ever change that!

However, maybe you’re also xenogender.  Even though you feel closer to your actual gender as a boy, you still don’t feel “quite right”.  Maybe your description would match that of stargender, but instead of openly referring to yourself as a stargender man, you’d prefer to just call yourself a man.  Well, that’s totally valid!  But what about the people who do openly refer to themselves as xenogender/stargender men?  Well, that’s where the meaning of labels and choices come in.

Who you are is (typically) not a choice, but whether or not you decide to apply labels to yourself that fit with who you are?  That part is a choice.  As another example, I am xenogender.  Me not feeling like my gender fits the social expectations for what gender should be?  That’s not a choice.  But going out and looking for xenogender labels that fit me, then applying them to myself?  That part is a choice.

I don’t necessarily need labels in my life to be or understand who I am as a being… I was always that way, labels or not.  The thing is, making the choice of applying labels to myself makes me feel content and happy.  I enjoy feeling a sense of belonging, and like I’ve got everything about myself figured out.  As an organized being, I like putting different parts of myself into a box.  Labels help me understand myself even better than I would without them, and seeing them all together feels very satisfying!  It feels familiar, it feels like me.  Those are the reasons why I use labels, even the ones that seem unnecessary to others.

I hope this helps others who aren’t crazy about all these labels we have nowadays better understand how the rest of us feel!  Please note that I am not truscum and that’s not the point I’m trying to make with this post.  I’m not saying you can’t choose to be trans if that’s what you want!  I am just speaking generally here, and basing it off my own experiences!  :) <3

[bizarreaizen]

it's always "i don't judge !!" until a person is a therian or just nonhuman in general, their religion is something they don't agree with or don't see as a "real or valid" religion [like satanism or autotheism], they identify with xenogenders and use "weird" pronouns, they have a "cringy" style like emo, scene, goth, or harajuku fashion, they're disabled, they act childish and age regresses, they have extreme intrusive thoughts, they have "odd" interests, they don't have proper hygiene because of poor mental health, their identity "doesn't make any sense", they're "too fat" or "too skinny", or they're just "not attractive". stop cherry picking, you can't claim "you don't judge" when you can't accept these people. be better. /srs

[sirenium]

Give me more lesbians who date men too, who aren't MISERABLE and forcing themselves to do so because of compulsory heterosexuality. Give me more lesbians who ARE men: cis, trans, somewhere in between, both, neither. Give me gay men who also date women happily, who are women themselves to whatever extent. Give me queerplatonic relationships between a gay guy and a lesbian. Give me a lesbian and a gay guy who are friends with benefits. Give me multigender turigirls and lesboys. Give me an individual who is polyamorous and aroace, more gaybians, more nondysphoric trans people, more she/her guys and he/him women, more it/its and nounself users, more queer teens who go by Arson. I could go on and on, but to sum things up: give me the sides of the queer experience that are hidden even by other queer people. Show me the box breaking, the line crossing, the beautiful complexities that arise from being queer. Give me the 'cringy' identities. Give me the historical identities that people are trying to erase. Preserve what they're trying to snuff out.

[vampgenders]

⛤ EPOGRAPHIC ⛤

❝ A xenogender connected to old , “bad/poor” animation and video game graphics . it is a general label and may relate to the silly, comforting, nostalgic, and/or liminal aspects of old graphics . ❞

this gender was made with classic minecraft , gmod , and sonic 06 in mind , but is unrelated .

⛤ coined by vampgenders

[cannibalpriest]

Clingypupic or Clingypupgender:

A Xenogender related to being/acting like a clingy puppy towards your owner[s], partner[s], friend[s], etc.

This gender may feel small, needy, affectionate, and dependent on others.

Coined by me.

[fennthetalkingdog]

This is a neopronoun/xenopronoun positivity post! If you see this, tell me what your neos are!! >:3

I mostly just go by he/they but I also go by xe/xem/xyr and other canine-themed neos!

[oro-junestar]

why do people gatekeep queer identies?? like,, isn't the whole point of the queer community that we're sick of being told who we are and aren't allowed to be?? stop shunning queer people for being queer in ways you don't like

[ihhfhonao3]

People who try to justify queerphobia by saying that we have mental illnesses/are delusional are so stupid because not only are you being queerphobic but you’re also implying that the disabled are undesirable and it’s okay to hate on them which is blatant ableism!! I am going to rip out the entrails of anyone who says shit like that!!

[kiruliom]

coiners dont gatekeep!! heres some flagmaking help

before we begin:

anyone can add on, in fact Id be honored. please let me know if you mind me adding it to the OP or not though

this is strictly for coining the term you want.

make sure the thing you wanna coin isnt already made, alternative flags are alright but some arent comfy with that so make sure to check that if possible as well.

also check out this document as well (link), it's updated recently, this stuff has some of the same stuff but I did my best to add lesser known stuff! :0

making flags (free):

firealpaca

ibispaint X (mobile, also has cool stuff on the fx section)

canva (web)

pixlr x (web) (how to bypass daily limit)

gimp

flag.rachel.systems (web)

tennessine.co.uk (web)

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help making flags:

for wavy flags

symbols 1

symbols 2

symbols 3

nongender symbols

full list of unicode characters

for print-friendly colors (needs a sign up)

print friendly colors 2 (also can help with color names)

random color generator 1

random color generator 2

palette from a photo (may need a sign up)

palette from a photo 2

color scheme from a single color

naming color/ID help

[dwllie]

🏳️‍🌈 𓂃 FAG(GOT)FREAK 〰️

— FAG(GOT)FREAK : a gender under the genderfreak gender system related to being a fag(got) and a freak; a fag(got)freak. this gender is only to be used by those in the lgbtq+ community that reclaim the slur fag(got).

coined by us ♡ requested by no one ♡ genderfreak by @losergendered ♡ tagging @accessmogai for a flag id

[PT: fag(got)freak~ fag(got)freak: a gender under the genderfreak gender system related to being a fag(got) and a freak; a fag(got)freak. this gender is only to be used by those in the lgbtq+ community that reclaim the slur fag(got). coined by us. requested by no one. genderfreak by losergendered. tagging accessmogai for a flag id. /END PT]

[rabidbatboy]

♱ MASC LOSER ID PACK . . .

NAMES ; aspen , noel , scottie , toms , robin , tyler , xavier , flynn , grime , zack , dominic , tucker , bruise , eddie , jacob , bobby , leon , rust , bane , lukas , dean , dexter , jason , will

PRONOUNS ; grime / grimes , rock / rocks , dirt / dirts , zomb / zombs , brui / bruise , cool / cools , gro / gross , lose / loser , bro / bros , scrape / scrapes , rot / rots , scab / scabs , weird / weirds , soda / sodas , dude / dudes

TiTLES ; the loser boy , the boy protagonist , this teenage dirtbag , [X] with bruised knees , [X] with scraped elbows , the awkward one , the videogame player , this weird dude

iDENTiTiES ; dirtbagteenic , dirtbagteenboy , stinkboy , unhingedloserfreak , emoloser , losergender , monsterenergygender , rotboy , rockmasc , hoodieboy , weirdbeing , protagboy , retrovideogamegender , weirdboy , pathetiboy , prettyboyloser , videogamegender , bandbruisenboy , recluminjuric , coolduden

SEE ALSO ; fem loser id pack

🦇 ——— REQUESTED BY ; anon

[ PT: masc loser id pack

names;

prns;

titles;

identities; (links)

see also; (link)

requested by; anon / END PT]

[starflungwaddledee]

Who wins starstruck or a aroace guy

both of them, because she's also aroace just like me!

actually while i'm at it, here's the little animation i was working on for pride month but never got around to posting!

in my self indulgent aroace worldbuilding i like to imagine that labels for orientations and genders are just kind of... not that much of a thing on popstar, because it doesn't matter at all to anyone. nobody has ever cared about stuff like who or how you love, and 90% of them are picking their own pronouns anyway.

that said, it's still nice to have a little self representation here on our primitive earth internet, where this kind of thing very much does need to exist and we deserve to be proud of it!

[bizarreaizen]

some people need to realize that people's identity doesn't harm you, like who cares if someone named bug, who uses cat/it pronouns, identifies as a fox and has xenogenders? like it's not harming you is it? let people live their life, if they are happy and they're not harming anyone or themselves, why does it matter so much? /gen

[3v3ry0n3z-fav3-al13n-x3]

Happ1 x3n0g3nd3r v1s1b1l1ty day!!!!! \(^o^)/

[vampgenders]

⛤ BLOODYPAWPRINTIC ⛤

❝ A xenogender connected to bloody paw prints . ❞

this gender was made with 2000s furries and flipnote in mind, but is unrelated.

⛤ coined by vampgenders

[yourdarlingness]

──　STRAWBOREAMIC　⸝　︵︵

pronunciation　(　STRAW · BO · REE · MIK　)

。　a gender related to strawberries, bows, and (day)dreaming.

DAY 2 — strawberries ｡ @dolliecworpse ' s coining event !

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