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[inklingwonders]

Single to Committed: Without Losing Myself

It’s been a long time since I’ve been in a relationship. And somewhere in that stretch of solitude, I found something precious—peace. I fell deeply in love with my own space, my own rhythm, and the unmatched comfort that comes with not having to explain myself to anyone. There’s something incredibly liberating about living life on your own terms. No check-ins. No emotional labor for the sake of someone else's insecurity. Just me, my thoughts, my time.

And I’ve grown to cherish that.

Being single isn't a sad chapter. It’s actually been one of the most empowering phases of my life. I’ve learned what it means to be whole on my own. I’ve learned to romanticize solo coffee dates, long walks with music, late-night overthinking sessions, and dancing in my room like no one's watching (because really, no one is).

But despite how content I feel on my own, I also understand the beauty of companionship. I'm not against love. I just refuse to water myself down for it.

The transition from singlehood to a committed relationship isn't as simple as swiping right or texting every day. It’s a conscious shift. A mental and emotional pivot. When you're used to being alone and thriving in it, welcoming someone into your life takes real courage. Because now, your space isn’t just yours. Your time isn’t just yours. Your silence will often be filled with conversation, your plans will some times involve compromise, and your decisions might require collaboration.

And that’s fine—if it’s with the right person.

But here's where I draw the line: I won’t be in a relationship where constant updates are expected as proof of loyalty. I won’t entertain someone who confuses control for care. If your idea of love is policing my movements, questioning my choices, or needing validation through constant check-ins, I’m not the one for you.

Yes, I know the difference between being controlling and being concerned. I know what genuine curiosity looks like. And trust me, if I’m with someone I truly care about, I’ll overshare without being asked. I’ll tell you what I had for lunch, who I ran into, what weird dream I had last night. But that only happens when I feel safe—emotionally, mentally, energetically.

What pushes me away isn’t the commitment itself. It’s the imbalance. The gendered expectations. The assumption that because you’re the “man,” I owe you answers or obedience. That’s not partnership. That’s hierarchy—and I want no part of it.

I’ve had moments where I almost got into something just because it was “the right time” or because “I’ve been single too long.” But then I remembered: I’d rather be single with peace than be in a relationship full of doubts and discomfort.

At this point in my life, I’m not interested in a boyfriend for the sake of a relationship status. I don’t need validation through someone else’s presence. I’m not here for temporary sparks. If anything, I’m open to slowly exploring something real—something grounded. Let’s take time. Let’s see if we’re compatible on values, not just vibes. If it works, beautiful. If it doesn’t, let’s respectfully part ways with no bitterness.

What I want is simple: someone I can be fully myself with. Someone who doesn’t get insecure when I say I need space. Someone who isn’t threatened by my independence but is inspired by it. Someone who knows love isn’t about ownership—it’s about honoring each other’s existence, together and apart.

Because being single taught me to protect my peace, and I won’t trade that peace for anything less than a love that feels like freedom.

[connecting-to-source]

Beyond the familiar story of scattered languages lies a profound teaching about consciousness and divine communication. The Tower of Babel isn't just about confusion - it's about the journey to true unity consciousness.

External Seeking vs. Inner Knowing

The tower reaching to heaven represents humanity's attempt to find divine connection through external means. How often do we still do this today? Building our towers of achievement, knowledge, or spiritual practice - trying to reach heaven through human effort alone.

True Unity

The "one language" isn't about verbal communication. It represents:

Heart consciousness

Soul recognition

Spirit connection

Divine understanding

When languages were "confused," it wasn't punishment but redirection - turning us from external seeking to internal knowing, from babel to wisdom.

Living Unity Today

How do we apply this wisdom?

Listen with heart

Speak from presence

Honor diversity

Find unity in spirit

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[spiritualsoull1969]

The Intrinsic Connection Between Bonds and Feelings in the Realm of Spirituality

बंधन रिश्तो का नही, एहसास का होता है.!!

जहाँ एहसास खत्म, वहा रिश्ता खत्म !!!

English Translation

The bond is not of relationships but of emotions! Where feelings end, the relationship ends!

Prelude:

The aphorism "बंधन रिश्तों का नहीं, एहसास का होता है" (Bonds are not of relationships but of emotions) encapsulates a profound truth about human connections. It suggests that the essence of any bond lies not in the superficialities of relationships but in the deeply rooted realm of emotions. Moreover, it contends that where emotions cease to exist, relationships also come to an end. To unravel the layers of this thought, it is imperative to delve into the spiritual dimensions that underpin the intricate interplay between bonds and feelings.

Body:

Spirituality and the Essence of Connection:

At its core, spirituality is the quest for a deeper understanding of existence and the acknowledgment of interconnectedness. It goes beyond the material realm, emphasizing the significance of the intangible aspects of life. In the context of relationships, spirituality invites us to explore the essence of connection beyond the visible and tangible.

The Illusion of Material Relationships:

In the material world, relationships are often defined by societal norms, familial ties, or legal constructs. These external frameworks, while providing a structure, may lack the emotional depth necessary for a lasting bond. Spirituality prompts an examination of these superficial aspects and encourages individuals to look beyond societal expectations.

The Role of Emotions in Bonding:

Emotions are the threads that weave the fabric of human connection. Love, empathy, compassion, and understanding form the cornerstone of profound relationships. Spirituality teaches that these emotions are not mere fleeting sentiments but powerful energies that create lasting bonds. When individuals connect at an emotional level, the bond transcends the limitations of conventional relationships.

The Dynamics of Ephemeral Bonds:

Relationships based solely on external factors, such as shared history or societal roles, are susceptible to decay. In the absence of genuine emotions, these bonds become fragile and transient. Spirituality asserts that true connections endure through the ebb and flow of life, sustained by the perennial flow of emotions that bind individuals together.

The Decay of Bonds in the Absence of Emotions:

The phrase "जहाँ एहसास खत्म, वहाँ रिश्ता खत्म" (Where feelings end, relationships end) is a poignant reminder that without the nourishment of emotions, relationships wither away. Even the most ostensibly strong bonds, devoid of emotional resonance, become hollow and eventually disintegrate.

Spiritual Foundations of Emotional Resonance:

Spirituality emphasizes practices that cultivate emotional intelligence and mindfulness. Through meditation, self-reflection, and conscious living, individuals develop a heightened awareness of their emotions. This heightened awareness forms the basis of genuine connections, as individuals become attuned to their own feelings and those of others.

Unveiling the Self in Relationships:

Spirituality encourages individuals to shed the layers of ego and pretense in relationships. When people authentically express their emotions, vulnerabilities, and true selves, the bond created is inherently stronger. In the absence of pretense, the connection is based on the essence of each individual, fostering a deep sense of understanding and acceptance.

Empathy and Compassion as Pillars of Spiritual Bonds:

Central to spiritual teachings is the cultivation of empathy and compassion. These qualities serve as bridges connecting individuals on a profound level. When one can empathize with the joys and sorrows of another, a bond forms that is resilient in the face of challenges. Spirituality teaches that true connection arises from the ability to see oneself in others and to treat them with kindness and understanding.

Transcending Boundaries through Spiritual Bonds:

Material relationships often come with predefined boundaries and expectations. In contrast, spiritual bonds transcend these limitations. They are not bound by societal norms, familial obligations, or geographical constraints. Spiritual connections have the potential to bridge gaps and unite individuals across diverse backgrounds, fostering a sense of universal brotherhood.

The Eternal Nature of Spiritual Bonds:

The temporal nature of worldly relationships is a recurring theme in spiritual philosophies. Spirituality posits that the essence of a bond lies in the eternal, transcending the temporal nature of human existence. Emotions, being timeless and boundless, form the eternal thread that weaves through the fabric of spiritual connections.

Crisis and Spiritual Bonds:

The crucible of adversity often tests the strength of relationships. Material bonds may fracture under the weight of challenges, but spiritual connections thrive in the face of adversity. The shared understanding, emotional support, and mutual resilience forged in the crucible of challenges strengthen the spiritual bond.

Detachment and Spiritual Bonds:

Paradoxically, spirituality also teaches the importance of detachment. This does not imply apathy or indifference but rather a healthy understanding that every individual is on their unique journey. In spiritual bonds, there is a recognition that each person's path may diverge, yet the emotional connection remains intact.

The Intersection of Love and Spirituality:

Love, in its purest form, is considered a spiritual force that binds the universe. Whether directed towards a romantic partner, family member, friend, or even all of humanity, love transcends the boundaries of conventional relationships. Spirituality teaches that cultivating love in the heart is the key to forging enduring and meaningful bonds.

Harmony with the Universe:

Spiritual bonds extend beyond human connections to encompass harmony with the universe. Understanding one's place in the cosmic order and recognizing the interconnectedness of all life forms, forms the basis of profound spiritual connections. This holistic perspective fosters a sense of responsibility and compassion for all living beings.

The Power of Forgiveness in Spiritual Bonds:

Forgiveness is a potent aspect of spiritual teachings. In the realm of relationships, the ability to forgive and let go of grievances is crucial for the sustenance of bonds. Spirituality teaches that harbouring resentment disrupts the flow of positive emotions and hinders the growth of the spiritual connection.

Wrap-Up:

In the tapestry of human existence, the thread of spirituality intricately weaves the fabric of meaningful connections. The aphorism "बंधन रिश्तों का नहीं, एहसास का होता है" (Bonds are not of relationships but of emotions) serves as a guiding principle in understanding the profound nature of human connections. Through the lens of spirituality, we come to realize that the enduring strength of bonds lies in the richness of emotions, the depth of understanding, and the timeless essence of love. As individuals embark on their spiritual journeys, they discover that the true beauty of connections transcends the transient nature of worldly relationships, finding solace in the eternal dance of emotions that binds hearts across the vast tapestry of existence.

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[natahari]

The Tantric way of living and loving.

If you dream of a deeper, more soulful way of living and lovemaking, begin by slowing down. Let yourself feel the quiet stirrings of energy within — the currents that move through body and spirit alike. Breathe into them, honor them, and allow them to guide you. Life, love, and energy are all part of the same sacred dance. Explore with curiosity, move with grace, and build connection moment by moment. In this way, love deepens, and life becomes a living meditation of joy and presence.

#TantricLiving #SacredEnergy #SlowLiving #MindfulLove #EnergyAwakening #ConsciousConnection #LivingMeditation #SpiritAndBody #FlowOfLife #InnerAlchemy #PresenceAndLove #SoulfulJourney

[yestantra]

Demonstrating a Tantric practice to this magnificent group of Goddesses. 👑🐍✨ Thanks @ritualsbykat for helping me demo the Sacred Bubble & thanks to you & @sweetmedicina for hosting this magical event. 🙏 #tantra #tantric #yestantra #intimacycoach #consciousconnection #soulconnection #energyhealing #witchywomen (at Sojourn Wellness Center) https://www.instagram.com/p/B7jOeuknT2w/?igshid=2pvikr4kuxdz

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[honor-thy]

❥ A note on erotic intelligence: "Eroticism in the home requires active engagement and willful intent. It is an ongoing resistance to the message that [partnership] is serious, more work than play; and that passion is for teenagers and the immature. We must unpack our ambivalence about pleasure, and challenge our pervasive discomfort with sexuality, particularly in the context of family. Complaining of sexual boredom is easy and conventional. Nurturing eroticism in the home is an act of open defiance." —Esther Perel, Mating in Captivity @estherperelofficial . . . #eroticintelligence #estherperel #matingincaptivity #bookquotes #eroticism #partnership #consciousconnection #consciousrelationships #relationshiptransformation #relationshipadvice #marriagegoals #marriageadvice #relationshipgoals #relationshipcoach #honorthypartner #honorthyeroticism #honorthy https://www.instagram.com/p/B-mXgk-HRz6/?igshid=13oddsvxo84um

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What a gift it is to be a part of raising the next generation of female bosses💪 We need to teach compassion to our children, show them the way to build others up and instill the fulfillment we ultimately gain from doing so. Little ones love to love, don’t ever let them forget why! ❤️ #MamaPacha #PreciousBaby #ILoveYou #CuriousBaby #HappyBaby #HippieBaby #GreatTeacher #AuntyT #HikingAdventures #raisingthemright #Nature #Learning #Growing #Baby #TheFutureIsFemale #ItTakesAVillage #NextGeneration #FemaleBosses #WomenRising #WomenEmpoweringWomen #ConsciousConnection (at Carter Lake)

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Culture Talks with vincethealien

Originally born on Mars and sent to Earth, crash landing in Los Angeles to spread the gospel about his Universe, vincethealien is an intergalactic, harmony obsessed creature and his music is the record of his mission to find a people to share his journey of love and lust for life with.

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Sometimes Its hard but you have to accept that the purpose has been solved and that there is no connection left #consciousconnections #BeMindful #KeepRisingHigher #SelfLove #divinefeminine #expandingconsciousness #becomingwhole #keeprisingkeepshining #upgradeyourself https://www.instagram.com/p/CFLjA_DMioG/?igshid=el6rqltnenet

[therecycledpirate]

This is not the time for bruised egos or touchy personas. We all need to double down now. We all need to check our emotions at the door. And we all need to step up our game. A pandemic doesn't play by books or rules. It doesn't care about your or mine emotions. All that matters is how you choose to deal with the next problem, next person and the next day. Tomorrow is coming, whether you are ready or not. So you might as well be conscious about it. • #saturdayquotes #kindnessquotes #kindnessmatters #kindnessiscontagious #supersizelove #doublelove #emotionalintelligence #emotionsmatter #emotionalgrowth #emotionalintelligencemovement #emotionalempowermentcoaching #consciousliving #consciousconnections #consciousmanifestation #consciousman #consciousnessshift https://www.instagram.com/p/CDpj_sOgQ9x/?igshid=1o06sd4tui3oj