#Problematic source

[quincy-clover]

[problematicfactive]

If your "Introject friendly" space isn't friendly to introjects of people you don't like your space is not inroject friendly and you need ti rebrand it

If your "Introject friendly" space allows for people to negatively talk about introjects they don't like even if they aren't present in conversation your space is not introject friendly and you need to rebrand it

If your "Introject friendly" space has limits to what kind of introject you can be your space isn't inroject friendly and you need to rebrand it

If your "Introject friendly" space bans introjects for their sources your space is not introject friendly and you need to rebrand it

If your "Introject friendly" space is inaccessible to factives your space is not introject friendly and you need to rebrand it

Factives exist and we are introjects too

[stemms]

Are you looking for a DSMP Discord server to connect with your fellow systems/kinnies without toxicity and too many harsh rules? If so, I have just the server for you!

Beach Party :) is a safe space for systems, kinnies, and synpaths where they can exchange memories and experiences, as well as discuss DSMP lore, and so much more with no judgement. Whether your fictive/kin is problematic or not, they’re welcome no matter what.

You don’t have to worry about being banned for seemingly no reason and without explanation, because our staff is very lenient, understanding, and always open to communication.

We have PluralKit and Tupperbox for systems and kinnies to keep track of their switches and kinshifts. If you’re looking for canonmates, you can make a canon call on our server, and who knows, perhaps you’ll find the person you’re looking for.

We’re still very new and are willing to adapt to and accomodate our community, so if you have any suggestions, feel free to share them.

If you’re interested, we’ll be glad to have you on our server!

[belinhagamer999]

Alt flag for problematic factives

[PT: Alt flag for problematic factives /END PT]

Inspired by the first problematic factives flag made by @problematicfactive

[IMAGE ID: The image features an abstract geometric composition with a central black rectangle containing a bicolor yellow circle. This square is enclosed in a surrounding border, with the gold circle. The background which is composed of the retangles border mentioned above is segmented into four distinct quadrants, each displaying a different color; dark maroon on the top left, dark purple on the top right, dark blue on the bottom right, and dark magenta on the bottom left. /END ID]

It has the same meaning they applied to the flag, just other design and more darker colors.

[the-introject-club]

(Non-traumagenic systems DNI)

Alot of systems claim to support introjects with problematic sources, but still treat factives like shit.

This needs to change. Factives, no matter their source, should be treated with basic respect. Yes, this includes factives of abusers, criminals, political figures and any other source that made you go "but what about-".

And you know what? I'm gonna say it, even if I'll get harassed for this.

Someones source could literally be H*tler, and I would still show them basic respect.

Introjects aren't their source. Introjects do not automatically like or support their source. This includes factives.

- Rabbit (they/them)

[ren-and-co]

One of our BTD introject alters has a mixed source (Coffee/Barista) and I got him to draw what he looks like

His source is a mix between BTD and Coffee Talk

[misc-system-culture-is]

problematically-sourced fictive-heavy system culture is being the robot from an adult psychological horror erotic visual novel that your host played that made him realize he was gay and trans.

but then realizing morax from genshin impact is here.

and a fictive mix of dirk strider from homestuck and rift strider from fortnite.

and suddenly i feel the most normal here

(⁠.⁠ ⁠❛⁠ ⁠ᴗ⁠ ⁠❛⁠.⁠)

-🪼

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[comkin]

THIS IS A PRO/COMSHIP/KIN SAFE SPACE. DISCRETION IS ADVISED AT INTERACTION.

DEAD DOVE DO NOT EAT.

Everything is under the cut! (There's a lot to scroll past)

This is a source calling blog! It is directed for kins, fictives and IRLs alike who may have problematic memories or sources.

This blog provides:

Source calling ; Searching for source mates. - Template will be added at the end of this post. This MUST be followed.

Confessions ; Source/Memory confessions. - These can be used to just get something off your chest, however if you want to rant/vent put TWs/CWs and a vent warning.

Stimboards ; 3 by 3 GIF post based on one theme. - Please be specific! It can be character, source or ship based! Feel free to request something I haven't mentioned, it may be denied though.

RULES

#1 ;; Be nice! Don’t harass anyone for any reason. If you DO NOT LIKE THIS CONTENT BLOCK US. This blog is a safe space for those who identify with problematic sources and or views, antis or those who just do not agree have plenty of safe spaces and we request you DNI.

#2 ;; We accept any form of call even if it may be considered problematic. But please keep yourself safe, do not use this blog to put yourself in danger. Anonymous is RECOMMENDED but not necessary. - Not all requests on this blog have to be considered "problematic"

#3 ;; Source/fictional age gaps are A-Okay but IRL ones are NOT. Minors should only be interacting with minors and majors only with majors for safety. (Example; Body age: 19 Looking for: anyone over 18.) If ages are not in calls I will ask for resubmission or it will be deleted.

#4 ;; There is no limit on how many entries you send and you may send them one after the other (they just won't be posted at the same time). Even if you have multiple kins/etc from one source, only one will be tagged. (On the note of tagging, all problematic calls will be tagged as such so they will not meet a super wide audience - this is for the comfort of others and safety of you)

#5 ;; All questions may be asked in the ask box! Because other people may have similar questions. Source calls should be sent in DMs please! Confessions and Stimboard requests in asks.

Calls should be sent in DMs using the following template. This will be copy pasted and posted by a mod! This is just easier because we know we'll need to reach out to people about resubmissions and we can't do that with anon on all the time.

CALLS;;

Full name:

Source:

Age: (Required)

Who you're looking for:

DNI:

Extra info:

Your @ if you want it included (this may be your main or your alt!)

STIMBOARDS;;

Please include types of GIFs you do and don't want! Eg. Slime, calligraphy, or specific objects/animals etc.

Be as specific as you can! Such as what emotions you want to convey.

This blog is currently run by only one person, so I might take some time.

The stimboards are made with help from someone who does not moderate the blog! (Contributor 🌬️)

Current Mods:

Angel - 🍮

Banner ;; Avatar by me

Intro post written with help from 🌬️. :)

(Also feel free to DM about helping moderate! Especially if you don't mind us begging for you to do stimboard requests /hj)

[theswiftheartsystem]

Advice on source separation?

Okay! We aren’t sure if you want for others, or for yourself! So here’s both:

Things that may be helpful is changing your name, Especially if your name is very specifically tied to that piece of media, this name can be totally different, or the same/similar meaning. Whatever you’d want.

Depending on how your system works, you may be able to somewhat alter your appearance internally

Making it clear you do not want to discuss source, or anything relating to it, This can be done with bios, or names, or even just telling people. If people cannot respect that, then they aren’t worth your time.

That being said, if you want to discuss and interact with source, you just don’t want to be seen as source, once again make that clear, anyone worth speaking to will listen.

[jschlattsfactivehelp]

CC ! Jschlatt stimboard for myself!

Requests are open ++ This blog has no DNI

[incarnate-nation]

Introduction.

The purpose of this blog is to introduce and spread our beliefs to tumblr users! We are here to educate as well as recruit new members.

All questions may be sent to our ask box or commented here. Reblogs are appreciated.

What is incarnate nation?

Incarnate nation is a neo-religion that was created to unite people who identify as a fictional character. While it is created for incarnates, anyone who identifies as/with a fictional character (ex: kins and fictives) are welcome to join our community.

We cater towards those who enjoy things that are deemed "problematic" by the majority, people who are morally dark, people who identify as/with villain characters and people who have a problematic origin/media/source.

What is an incarnate?

Incarnate means: embodied in flesh; given a bodily, especially a human, form.

Therefore incarnates are people who embody a fictional character(or characters) in human form. In other words, they are actually the real life version of one or more fictional characters.

This experience is simalar to and can be confused for as being a kin or irl but they are not the same.

More info on that can be found here.

The 7 Commandments.

One- Form your own opinions. Ignore the feelings of the majority and think for yourself.

Two- Catering to other people's emotions is worthless if doing so drains yours.

Three- Morality is decided by an individual, not by law or societal norms. Do not let others tell you what is an isn't acceptable. Don't let others decide the difference between good and evil for you.

Four- If someone mistreats you, you have the right to treat them however you see fit. Mercy is for those who fear action. Be your own karma.

Five- Respect those that respect you and no one else.

Six- Do whatever you need in order to get what you want. No matter how selfish that thing may be. People, things, resources, etc only exist to benefit you.

Seven- Earth is only a trial. What you do here doesn't matter. Your existence is temporary and so it the existence of those you help or hurt.

Discord server!

16+ | only open to incarnates, kins and systems.

https://discord.com/invite/zpMEY9HVC3

server ad: Intertwined Souls 16+

[problematicfactive]

For the love do not put your alters in a fucking cage.

That's abuse. Probably neglect too, I'm not good at. terms.

It's not fun or cute or quirky to be like "How did he get out of the cage" after someone proxies one meaningless message on discord. Its abusive. What you are telling me when you say dumb shit like that is not to ever talk to you again because you abuse your system.

And when I ask you what the fuck is wrong with you after you make attention demanding comments like "Oh, how did he get out of his cage DX" in a fucking discord server, you better have something the fuck better than "He sometimes says bad things that trigger people"

Your alters do not exist so you can use them to engage in deep discord roleplay, your mind developed these people to help you work through something. That alter is an individual with a reason to exist and you think its so unique to lock them the fuck up because they might get you kicked out of the 300 rule "safe space" discord server with a blacklist longer than my hospital receipts?

And. Locking up an alter because they dint get social cues and don't know what's appropriate to say? How is tht not ableism? Fucking work with them and help the to understand

I don't care how fucked up the are. I don't care if theyre William Afton, I don't care if they're the spitting fucking image of Hitler. That is why you work with them. That is why you watch them and help them. They may not learn exactly wht isnt right, but they'll learn a general rule of thumb at the least.

You're the fucked up abuser. You're worse.

this post is actually for everyone.

[pluralprompts]

Prompt #816

Factive A gets an unpleasant shock when their source is outed to be, er, problematic, to say the least. It's blindsiding news in general, but Factive A is suddenly faced with a unique sack of bricks to the face: the possibility that people will start to think they're just like their source, and would do the same things they did with no remorse.

[spoiledsummerdasies]

Usually I don’t respond to these kinds of things but I think this is a good opportunity for educating people on what an introject is as well as romanticism.

First let’s cover introjects. I’m an introject, which means an alter based on a pre-existing person or thing. An alter is an “alternate personality” a separate state of identity that shares a mind and body with someone else. It’s a part of having DID/OSDD or other plural based disorders/ states of being.

I am an alter BASED on Delores Hayze in a system of around 16 alters. I’m the youngest at 14, and the oldest is literally an ageless being. The body I front in is 21 in a few months. Despite myself being 14 and having the personality of a 14 year old, the brain and body is 21. Which means I am mature enough to understand that my source is controversial and a very complex story. I am fair from impressionable. You can’t control who you split into the system. I didn’t ASK to be Delores. No one in the system actively decided “let’s split the victim from a very controversial source”.

Next, let’s talk romanticism. Simply existing as an introject is not romanticising anything. I, and the rest of the system are very very anti-child exploitation. We are firmly against things like proshippers, the sexualisation of children, the romanticism of Lolita and stories like it etc. why wouldn’t we be? It’s common sense. And we’re a system for gods sakes, many many systems are created FROM traumatic events like being harassed as a child. I don’t like older men, no one in the system does. We’re all creeped the hell out by them, that’s why we HATE people like Humbert and communities like ‘teacher crush’ and all that shit. While it’s fairly normal for teenagers to think people like older celebrities are attractive, that’s just puberty and hormones, they shouldn’t be actively seeking out older men. Anyone with a brain cell knows that. I promise you the only people who romanticise Lolita are people with no media literacy or actual PDFs. The majority of coquettes like it because they can unfortunately relate to being a victim of an older man (weather it’s just creepy comments on the internet or full blown assault). It’s an unfortunate reality that most people raised AFAB have had older men be creepy to them in some way as a minor. Weather it be a catcall or something more extreme, we can all unfortunately relate to the feeling of disgust and vulnerability that comes with being a young victim. That’s why so many of us like Lolita as a story, we can relate to the tragedy of Delores loosing her innocence at such a young age.

Liking the fashion in the movies isn’t romanticising it. Literally thousands of of people in the 1940-50s dressed that way. Liking vintage Americana as an aesthetic isn’t romanticising anything, it was a real time period that millions of people lived through. Lolita isn’t the only movie set in that time. I personally like these things because I’m an introject of a person that lived in that time period. It’s nostalgic to me.

As for Lana del Rey, she’s not telling anyone to do anything. Her music is commentary on the American dream, the way life was back in the 50s and how people weren’t actually living this perfect life Hollywood made it out to be. That’s why she’s got songs like ultra violence (about abusive relationships), Carmen (about the horrors a 17 year old has to face as a street worker), born to die (feeling hopeless and lost), blue jeans (about a lover leaving you). Her image of a romantic 1950s America is commentary on how all the glitz and glamour was a thinly veiled cover for the hardships regular people faced at the time, how Hollywood is a major lie. Sure she has her happier and raunchier songs here and there, but the main image of the ‘Lana del Rey’ character is just that, a character. It’s telling a story. Most people understand that, and those who don’t are either too young to be listening to her or have no media literacy. So no, she’s not telling anyone to do anything and liking her music for the commentary and story it tells isn’t romanticising anything.

I don’t doubt there’s people out there who romanticise these kinds of things, I’ve seen it. But simply liking an aesthetic/fashion and being unfortunate enough to be an introject from a controversial source doesn’t mean I’m I’m romanticising anything. If you actually looked at my whole blog you’d see many posts that are directing the book and highlighting the horror aspects of it, I very much understand it’s not a love story. That’s why I like it, it’s an unfiltered look at what abusers are actually like. Lying, manipulating, disgusting perverts. It’s a conversation that’s hard to have, but needs to be had.

TLDR: liking vintage Americana aesthetics/ fashion is not sexualising anything. Liking a horrific story doesn’t automatically mean romanticising it. Being an introject from a controversial source and having a connection to said source isn’t a bad thing, you literally can’t control who you split as.

In fact, the fact you saw a blog run by a 14 year old alter full of frilly socks and Coca Cola and immediately thought it was sexual, says more about you than it does me. And just a tip: coming into strangers blogs and coming off this aggressive won’t stop them from doing anything, it comes off as hate. If you genuinely want to stop kids from being in unsafe places, you need to be more gentle and compassionate. They’re kids, they don’t know any better.

[clownrecess]

I want to talk about introjects with problematic sources.

We have a fictive of Craig from South Park, and Morty from Rick And Morty. Both of these are commonly considered problematic (south park more so.).

This does not make them bad people. Morty for example, can be one of the sweetest people ever at times.

Some systems have introjects with even more problematic sources (Alfred's Playhouse, true crime, etc.) whilst these sources are absolutely disgusting, I want to point out that INTROJECTS ARE NOT THEIR SOURCES. They are their own individual people, with their own unique thoughts, ideas, etc.

If you are an introject with a problematic source I want to say: You are not a bad person for having a bad source. You are your own person and do not have to be affiliated with your source.

[ren-and-co]

The variants of the BTD introjects in our system:

Main speaker: Good end!Ren, he speedran Turnip Boy Commits Tax Evasion twice now. [Was an esport player in source]

The Dad™: Announcer!Strade, this man adopted Ren and someone else unrelated to BTD, now just trying to be a dad. [Quite old, he's in his 50s]

The protector: Pre-Announcer!Fox, has the right balance of childish and mature. [Ren's voice of reason, basically]

[Forgot to add someone heehoo]

The lazy persecutor: Mason, rarely fronts and rather keeping an eye from distance. [Rather teach people how to hunt rather than hunting others]