#plural blog

[pride-stars]

Lesboy : is an identity for an individual who in some way identifies as a boy/man that is gay/queer for women (lesbian).

[thestarrynightcoalition]

I have personal beef with octocon

I will not be elaborating

[the-longings-reverie]

reclusive child with elaborate imagination and maladaptive daydreaming to plural teenager who doesn’t identify with thier own body anymore pipeline is unfortunatelg real

[collective-of-otto]

Taken from reddit

[turnitsysclusive]

low headcount? COOL

high headcount? COOL

lots of fictives and introjects? COOL

lots of nonhuman alters? COOL

none? COOL

ur still a system ur still allowed to exist ur existence is not invalidated by how ur system presents

[thepatchworksys]

actually you know what . appreciation post bc as a traumagenic system who splits involuntarily, frequently, and with a lot of less developed alters, i look up tulpamancy and willogenic practices and it helps US !!! it helps those nondeveloped headmates to feel more like people!!! so!!!!! thank you for that!!!

NO SYSCOURSE ON THIS POST ILL KILLLL YOUUUU

[botanical-garden-system]

Did yall know that there are several researchers actively trying to prove DID is not a real thing? Did yall know that there are several articles in the multitude of databases I have accessed through my school that ACTIVELY try to find and prove how DID isn’t fucking real???

When people tell me, “research disagrees with ___,” I hope yall realize that many researchers dont even think we exist. They dont think you can experience multiple identities. And yes, these research articles are within the past 5 years.

There are clinical psychologists with entire practices of therapeutic professionals that treat people with a focus in trauma and dissociative disorders as “untrained” and “stupid.” Not even researchers agrees on our existence, and this is NOT something you typically see within the peer reviewed articles of any popularly discussed disorder.

Many are legitimately PEER REVIEWED ARTICLES. Just keep this in fucking mind when you start saying shit like, “But research disproves your identity.” Many researchers actively try to disprove we exist in GENERAL.

Also I have yet to find a research document stating anything yall have claimed against plurality and I have easily 50-60 hours worth of digging and researching multiple databases (APA psycINFO, APA psycTESTS, Proquest psychology collection, Sage Journals, Google Scholar through a college institution, NIH, etc.). In fact, I actually have/had a few articles discussing how we need to start re-addressing DID and approaching it as psychologists.

I can probably list off several medical journals that talk about DID, provide you with at least 30-50 different peer reviewed scholarly journals, case studies, and collections, and I can confidently say that we are STILL trying to connect dissociation and trauma research.

At most, we can say that there is a HIGH CONNECTION BETWEEN cPTSD (yes, specifically cPTSD) and DID, but people are still figuring out whether you can see examples of DID in the brain through neuroimaging (which we have figured this out some, it’s super cool) and what other disorders DID is comorbid with.

We can’t be claiming SHIT about what is or isn’t right now. I am not at all a discourse account, and I most likely will not interact with syscourse outside of this, but I AM a researcher who has spent countless hours trying to better understand DID so that I can help myself and others around me. If yall were genuinely digging, yall would realize how fucking abysmal the understanding of psychology really is, let alone disorders that are stigmatized.

I WILL engage in discussing research that I have found with peer revision because I believe this education should be free and readily available to everyone. I am NOT engaging in debates on whether you believe plurality exists outside of DID. That has not been researched or discussed enough to make any sort of claim. The real point behind research is so we can better understand our world, our brains, and our society. The best we can do right now is LISTEN to the experiences people have and MAKE research to better understand their experiences.

[bookstoresystem]

!!Notes Challenge Thing!!

We need help gaining motivation to finish our Simply Plural, so we're doing this thing now 🤷‍♂️

For every 5 notes, we:

Assign a headmate folders

For every 10 notes, we:

Give a headmate faceclaims

For every 15 notes, we:

Fill out a headmate's description

For every 20 notes, we:

Fill out a headmate's fields

For every 25 notes, we:

Make a headmate their playlist

For every 30 notes, we:

Add a relationship folder to SP

[forget-meabh-not]

Wishqueer

Wishqueer is a blankqueer term for those who wish for acceptance and for everyone to stop fighting! its for those who wish that online spaces will be more friendly and open and less hostile! its for those who are just so so tired of constantly having to prove that they are "valid" and just wish that they could relax.

Wishqueer is pro:

-Mogai/Liom

-System/plural

-Letting people identify how they would like along as it is not (genuinely) harmful

-M-Spec lesbians/gays

-"Contradictory" Labels

-Neopronouns

-Desirdae, Dissomei, Intusui, and other transID alternatives

-Acceptance of paraphiles/paraphilias

-Recovery for those who have harmful paraphilias

-Self Expression(such as body mods, "weird" ways to dress, etc)

-Kink at Pride

-Reclamation of slurs

-Alterhuman/Nonhuman

Wishqueer is neutral on:

-Shipcourse

Wishqueer is anti:

-Harrasment

-Radqueer

-[harmful]transIDs

-Xenosatanist

-Fakeclaiming

-Exclustionist

-Contact for harmful paras

-Minors in kink/nsfw spaces

-Syscourse

-Demonization of mental illnesses

-Forced recovery

Emoji Code: 💫🌨️

:D!

[pride-stars]

Aegosexual : a sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum in which one experiences a disconnect between themselves and the subject of arousal. They may or may not feel sexual attraction, but have no desire to participate in sexual activities with another person.

[reveriestarsystem]

✨️Constellation✨️

✨️Corner✨️

Hihi! I saw some hate blogs posting system ask games. We don't stand for hate around here because everyone deserves a space for their system regardless of origin. Without further ado- here's our version uwu. Feel free to tag systems that are okay with ask games!!

-Presley

🛰-Do you have a large headcount?

👾-Do any alters in your system have typing quirks?

🚀-Does your system have any Non-human alters?

☄️-Is your system neurodivergent?

🔭-Does your system use neo Pronouns?

🌠-Do any of the alters in your system have dyed hair?

🌙-Are there any nonverbal alters in your system?

🪐-Do any in your system have any unique roles?

💫-Do your littles use 'little speech'?'

🌌-Does your system have little to no amnesia between switches

🌟-Does your system have fairly clear communication?

🌘-Do you have a large or complex headspace?

🛸-Do you have any fictives in your system? What about Factives?

👽-Does your system have any tics?

☀️-Is your system bad at masking?

✨️-Do any in your system have an accent?

🌎-Do any in your system speak in a different language?

☁️-Does your system use things like pluralkit and simply plural?

⭐️-Are you out about being a system?

Tags below the cut:

@livingsidecharacter

@idk who else cuz I don't know many systems to tag for this-

[attentionneedyqueen]

Shout out to alters and systems who were made BECAUSE they wanted attention! Who thought it would make them more interesting. Nothing wrong with wanting validation. Attention makes the world go round, babe! 🩷

No this isn't satire, I fucking mean it.

[collective-of-otto]

Shoutout to the one headmate who never fronts or says anything. You're still very loved ❤️

[turnitsysclusive]

We're still a new system.

During a stressful moment in the middle of the night we had our first split. And afterwards we were very, very lost. So we turned to Tumblr and got to adapting and curating our spaces. As time went on, we realized that the community is very...split, if you will.

Which made sense, being plural is very complicated! It's a disorder but also can be spiritual and not disordered at all. But I've seriously never seen levels of fakeclaiming this bad.

Let alone these levels of our own community wishing our kind didn't exist.

The art is inspired by a "The Future is Singlet" art piece.

Trauma doesn't define our existence. And if you believe that plurality is only caused by disorders, to say you wish an entire form of neurodivergentcy to not exist is pretty fucking weird.

[tearosecafe]

i <3 u fictives

fictives who have the same likes/dislikes as they do/did in source

fictives who hate the things they liked and/or love the things they disliked in source

fictives who are only fictives by origin, not appearance, name, personality, etc

fictives who present/look different than their source

fictives who like sourcemates

fictives who don't like sourcemates

fictives who use neopronouns/xenopronouns

fictives with "problematic" sources

multisourced fictives

fictives who are a different age than they were in source

fictives who have source memories

fictives who don't have source memories

fictives from niche/obscure sources

fictives who hate the things they did in source

fictives who are proud of the things they did in source

fictives who experience dysphoria related to the body's voice, appearance, or presentation

fictives who experience little to no dysphoria

fictives with roles that match their source/character

fictives with roles that don't match their source/character

roleless fictives

i <3 u :)))

-🧷🩷

[kitkatnior]

So we’re just gonna ignore ‘the look’ being a Luka thing on multiple occasions?

Hmm… ok.