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[horny-mushroom]

Let’s not pretend doms don’t need after care too.

Ask them if they are satisfied, whether they came or not. Do they want to cum?

If they need anything to drink.

Perhaps they might be cramping from putting a lot of effort.

Tell them they did well and which parts you enjoyed the most.

Compliment them for their work.

Cuddle up to them.

Offer help for the clean up afterwards.

Order food together.

Sex can be something casual, but might be intense too. Either physical or mentally. Take care of each other and regularly communicate with each other. No question should be taboo. It’s better to be safe than sorry.

[farawaywiththefairies]

age gap so big i have to count it on my fingers to work it out

[certifiedsexed]

If you've ever thought "wow, I wish there was top surgery for transfems" or "wow, I wish I could get top surgery but to make my breasts larger", here's a cool fact: there is and you can!

It's called breast augmentation and works in two primary ways: implants or fat transfer and both are a type of top surgery! If you're curious, learn more here!

[dhddmods]

Pretending to be intersex does not make you safe!

Stop lying and saying you have a "hormone disorder" or "chromosome disorder" to doctors in order to receive HRT! That is intersexist language, and all you are doing is throwing intersex people under the bus!

INTERSEX PEOPLE ARE NOT MEAT SHIELDS. You are perpetuating and opening yourself up to medical abuse.

By claiming that you have hypogonadism, hypergonadism, Klinefelter syndrome, or whatever other intersex variation you're deciding to appropriate, you are

1- Perpetuating the idea that intersexuality is a defect that needs repairing.

2- Skewing the statistics of intersex studies.

3- Opening yourself up to be medically and legally abused.

Do you really think that having that on your record will make you safer? The governments hate intersex people just as much as they hate trans people. They mutilate intersex people, force them onto hormones, allow and promote selective abortion, and don't include them under protective laws whatsoever. "Anti-trans" laws are actually anti-trans and anti-intersex laws, and intersex people have "exceptions" in laws PURELY TO ALLOW MEDICAL TORTURE.

By putting that on your record, you are opening yourself up to being a human experiment and a target of intersexism, which is no better than being a target of transphobia. STOP SPREADING THE IDEA THAT THIS IS OKAY TO DO.

Please read and reblog the most recently updated version of our intersex guide. Boost it, spread awareness for pride month.

And please read and spread our post about intersexism. You have likely spread intersexism at some point without knowing it (ie; small dick jokes), and it's okay to acknowledge that and grow.

[strang3lov3]

Hmmm. Do we ever get into ummmmm. Like topping from the bottom on this page because there are some men we talk about here whose asses I need to eat while they call me a whore or like who I need to ride my strap and laugh at the fact that only he’s getting off and refusing to properly touch me. Things of that nature

You’re on your stomach, lips and jaw and tongue so tired. And you’re hot and sweaty, mascara running down your cheeks. Keep going, honey. Look how messy you are, eating Daddy’s ass. Filthy fuckin’ girl.

Or maybe Joel’s making you peg him, and you’re losing steam, completely exhausted. You just want to feel him, and here you are fucking him on a plastic cock. Sliding your hands from his hips to around his soft belly, reaching for his hard and leaking dick - he slaps the back of your hand. “No.”

Being scolded for slowing down, for not fucking him hard enough. “C’mon, kid. You can do better’n that.”

“I’m so tired, Daddy.”

“Tsk, poor thing. Ain’t used to doin’ a lick of hard work in your life, are ya?” Joel says. “Drink some fuckin’ water and buck up, and fuck your daddy like a big girl. I know you got it in ya, darlin’.”

[tgmsunmontue]

I've had this idea before, but it's just wormed in deeper. The idea of Jake who watches this YouTuber/TikToker in his down time. The guy has a nice cadence to his voice that Jake finds relaxing when he wakes up from nightmares.

The guy is passionate about his subject matter and he's attractive to boot. Jake likes listening and watching and he's learning all about this particular subject. (Enough that he's able to correct others, maybe Bradley's a physical oceanographer, and Jake's in THE NAVY so his little interest in the ocean isn't THAT farfetched).

Anyway, Bradley spends plenty of time at sea on ocean research ships, has time to kill, and may be shirtless in a lot of his videos as well. So Jake's kept it a secret that he watches it.

Then the TGM events happen, and Maverick is all, 'oh, come meet my godson' and the Daggers are like

"Oh! You study the ocean! That's cool... Hangman here knows a lot about the ocean too. Kind of like his hobby or something..."

And Jake is just standing there looking at this man made flesh because here's the guy he's been listening to and watching for like eight years and just lurking and everything he knows come directly from his lips...

So there's that...

[b4kuch1n]

study of this masterwork

[k3nnyonly1]

I been watching the Basics In Behavior Animation Video nonstop and i really like the animationNNNNNN Let me put the link for you guys to check it out! THeir style is so cool!! So cool that I have to draw them into WH version The last guy is my WH oc! His name is Drag web! :DD Basic In Behavior by The Living Tombstone Animation by Kaatie

[borfungus]

May I request miraloop QPR? If you’re into that

they q my p til I r

big idea thinker - loop would also be good at styling Mira’s hair :)

[sunshineandlyrics]

💛 Louis

[mariailoveyou-guerin]

Some of my favorite shows and characters ever on TV!

[thenatureofbutch]

And THIS is why it is so special to be in a time where we can listen to our elders speak openly. So we better take advantage and LISTEN.

Sometimes I get comments or asks or whatever from the identity police about who can be called butch.

Well, dear sweets, firstly get to know your history, watch this video to the end, respect your elders and then digest the fact that nature is as it does. So, you staring at a natural truth, and telling it, that it's wrong, only shows something unnatural of you- work on it my babycakes.

You can also read more of what I personally (so not those featured in the above video) have to rant say if you feel so inclined...

I myself remember how butchness was well known as a spectrum of how masculinity looked on those who were not cis men. I remember how that spectrum included butches who would further their masculinity/Adorn their masculinity with hormones/surger(ies), I remember how butcheness extended to those who were queer but not lesbian, and their role within the butch world was never questioned or even pondered at. Because to be seen in the world as butch, is a very specific thing, with specific ostrasisations, and specific ways to understand what gender is and specific ways of being made to feel ugly for not adhering to the way the west pictures women. To be butch is a very specific feeling starting in our earliest memories for most of us we have that feeling before we even develop sexual desire, because its entirely its own thing, and it creates a very specific bond. A bond of butchhood.

I was very young when witnessing just a little of this time period, the solidarity within it still was strong enough to hit me and captivate me. It's been sad to see just how much of that has changed into a relentless need for over specification, dissecting the community left right and centre, policing eachother. Do we not remember the enchanted connection of anti police anti state moral with queerness? Please let us do better, please let us help one another do better.

[campgender]

Whenever a player safewords, this is an occasion for mutual support. We understand that nobody safewords from a happy place, and that all of our egos feel frail and kind of runty when we need to back out of a scene. It is completely unethical to respond with scorn or ridicule to a person who has safeworded: S/M is not a competition, we are not playing against each other.

As tops, we have noticed that if we are having a good time and our bottom safewords, our initial feelings may not be happy. Whaddaya mean you don't like that? I do all this work and you don't appreciate it? I'm hot for being in control and you want me to stop? We have felt real anger and felt challenged in our top role... and, on a deeper level, we have felt put down, hurt and rejected. It is okay to have these feelings. It is not okay to act on them. Take three deep breaths and everybody start taking care of each other.

Sometimes bottoms get so deeply engaged in a scene that they fail to safeword, or forget, or so profoundly believe in the fantasy that it doesn't occur to them: many of the techniques we play with, like interrogation, function in the real world to undermine volition. Dossie remembers a scene in which a top offered her a choice of something or other: "I felt very confused. Some distant part of me vaguely remembered having made choices, but the response from my state of consciousness at that time was, Choose? I am not a thing that chooses." So then what is the top's responsibility?

If a bottom does not safeword and you don't pick up on what's going on, and this will happen if you play long enough and well enough, there is no blame. However, it is still your responsibility to monitor for physical safety as best you can. As ethical tops we make a commitment to never knowingly harm our bottoms. To this end we check in regularly to make sure that things are going the way we think they are, and we constantly monitor the physical and emotional safety of our bottoms. If a bottom is beyond safewording, and you as the top feel unsure about how far you should go, it is your responsibility to slow down or stop the scene and get into communication with the bottom to make sure you have informed consent. If you have to bring the bottom back into reality to do this, please remember that you helped get them into that altered state in the first place, so presumably you can help get them back there again as soon as you are sure of what's going on.

And just because someone safeworded doesn't mean that the scene has to be over. There may be times when the problem that brought either of you to safeword is so overwhelming that carrying on doesn't feel like the right thing right now - but most often we find that after we've dealt with whatever the difficulty is, we're still terrifically turned on, with the added bonus of a shared intimacy.

from The New Topping Book (2003) by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy

(note: the authors use ‘top’ & ‘bottom’ in the historical S/M sense, meaning ‘person performing the act’ & ‘person receiving the act’; the act in question is not necessarily penetration.)

[dhddmods]

If you say non-binary & intersex trans people "aren't transitioning" or have an "easier transition", you are either ignorant or an idiot.

Socially transitioning is still a transition. Asking to be viewed as your gender (or lack of gender) is still a transition.

Changing your name, titles, or pronouns is still a transition.

Many perisex binary trans people don't want to physically transition either.

And also, non-binary and intersex people can desire a physical transition too. HRT, bottom surgery, and top surgery aren't limited to binary transitions.

Stop calling HRT "feminizing" or "masculinizing", and use non-binary and intersex inclusive language instead (androgenizing, micro-androgenizing, estrogenizing, micro-estrogenizing, androestrogenizing, micro-androestrogenizing.)

And yes, they are still trans even if they identify with their assigned gender to some extent. PLEASE see our other post about how being transgender is more than just "identifying against your assigned gender."

Stop telling non-binary and intersex people who are transmasc, transfem, transandrogynous, transneutral, transnull, transgenderless, transxenine, transoutherine, transaporine, multigender, or mixed gender that they are "not trans" or "not trans enough."

Stop treating non-binary & intersex people like they have an "easier transition" than binary people, when society is super binary-centric, to the point where non-binary and intersex people get left out, even in supposedly "inclusive" spaces.