#Trans Boy

[genderqueerdykes]

it kills me how much people love to speculate on the trans male experience. transphobes and even other trans people will conjure up ideas of what it must be like for us to live, how hormones affect us, and especially what society treats us like. they love to tell us how we live our lives; strawman after strawman about fictional trans men who started hormones and became "evil and ugly", completely fabricated stories about about how every trans man they know suddenly "gained male privilege" and never deal with misogyny or transandrophobia.

people who tell you how your transmasculine experience will go have no idea what they are talking about. even if they sound confident, they are not correct- each and every transmasculine person has a different experience in life- we do not automatically gain the societal privilege of cishet white men once we decide to socially transition. they cannot see what your future holds. you don't deserve to have someone telling you how you will experience your own life, it is yours, you are allowed to live your truth, pave your own way and prove that we have varied lives that transcend what transphobes think the trans male experience is.

[maddybaae001]

If I unveil my cock🍆, will you suck it ?

[toowolfstarlight]

Tell me what you want to do with me daddy 👅🌹

[butchkelev]

Webcam pics

Top surgery fund ⚔️

[allgloryprincess]

Would you like to meet up sugar ‘ it’s weekend sugar 💐😤🍼💐

I’m available for fun , incall and outcall available and would you like to meet ?

Inbox 📥 me privately

[alexisbliss53]

Am just bored 😴 at home want to meetup message me on telegram: Alexisbliss07

[guess-choice-tv-sure]

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[oliverdaisy]

How would you rate me 🥰😋😊

[our-trans-youth-experience]

teenage trans guy here with a burning question (btw crazy ive never seen a blog like this before. you are doing wonders)

what should i resort to for binding if :

a) i have rib damage and breathing problems due to my inexperience binding and lack of research

b) have tried transtape with terrible results

c) physically cant bind with sports bras due to previously mentioned lung issues

i cant afford top surgery. im not even out to my family as a trans man, and i know i dont have to bind to be able to pass but its getting increasingly harder to be in public and pass as a man. thanks for your help if you end up responding to this 🏳️‍⚧️

Hey there dude, welcome and thanks for your support. I try and get through all of my asks, but I am doing full-time school at the same time too, so sorry for any delay in responding. Since you seem to have not seen many of these style of blogs, I'd recommend @our-transgender-experiences @our-transmasculine-experience @our-trans-punk-experience and @our-queer-experience .

This is a difficult ask and first let me take a moment to warn people against unsafe binding because of this.

Now for my advice to you - don't double down on the bad binding practices - no duct tape I REPEAT NO DUCT TAPE - I suggest trying to create an overall boxier, angular less curvy silhouette - this can be done by working out, particularly chest and other upper body exercises - or by layering clothes that have structured fronts (tshirts with large laminated design panels, utility vests, jackets with big chest pockets) Also, I wouldn't completely write trans tape off, it's a skill you can get better at with a little practice :)

[genderqueerdykes]

if you are a trans boy, especially a teenage trans boy, i wanted to say that as a trans man in their 30's, you have my deepest respects and condolences for what you may be going through right now.

it has become socially acceptable and basically online custom to bully teenage trans boys & mascs, call them cringy, or excuse misgendering them for whatever reason. people put trans boys on this pedestal of "must perform masculinity and manhood to cartoonish degrees" even though they're still children.

people make trans boys fight for their manhood before they can even be boys. i am sorry people can be so judgmental and harsh on you. you are not wrong for wanting to be a boy. you are experiencing something wonderful. it's okay if you still want to be a boy even if people have treated you poorly, or tried to make you feel bad for being a boy. there is nothing wrong with being a boy.

it's okay if you never socially transition. it's okay if you're afraid to come out because it's not safe. it's okay if you never change your outward appearance. it's okay if you try very hard to pass but struggle to. it's okay if you wear "women's" clothing and shoes, bras, makeup, etc., it's okay if you're gay and love other men. it's okay if you're scared of hrt. it's okay if you don't want surgery. it's okay if you mainly occupy girl's spaces still. people will find every reason to pick these things apart and ridicule trans boys for, but they are all perfectly fine experiences that do not make you any less of a boy. you are the one who is in control of your transition, presentation, and state of being- you should be able to prioritize your safety over the comfort of random strangers who have no impact over how you live your life.

i've been put through this too, but later in life as i came out when i was an adult. people still try to make me feel bad for identifying as a trans man, for whatever reason they have in their head to justify hatred of a trans person. i've had enough. there will never be an excuse for how people try to excuse the infantilization and abuse that trans men and trans boys face.

take care of yourselves, no matter what age you are, if you are a trans boy, man, or masc you deserve to know that other trans men care about you, especially when people are scrambling to find ways to punch down on you. there are people who suck, but there are also a lot of people who care about you. keep your chin up. you know who you are

[rxccoonboy]

Alright boys(ftm, gay, lgbt, cis ally, as long as you're cool with the LGBTQIA+ people and you're okay with being called a boy, you're included)

Let's all go to a park and get stuck in trees together

And then we can blast Mcafferty and Cavetown and Mindless Self Indulgence and we can all be bro's and AUHSJSHSJ PLEASE I PHYSICALLY NEED TO BE ACCEPTED AS A GUY WITH OTHER GUYS I NEED A GROUP OF PEOPLE/BEINGS I CAN GREET WITH 'ALRIGHT BOYS IT'S TIME' PLEASE I WANT TO DO DUMB BOY THINGS GOD PLEASE

[fallenstarcat]

shout out to every trans person who wants to bind but cannot, whether not as often as you wish or not at all. i myself have gone from binding 5 days a week to once every few months due to asthma and chronic pain. i see you. i feel you. dysphoria is hard, but sometimes physical health needs priority too and thats okay

[distinguishedwitchparadise]

CA/NJ

I head cannon CA/NJ as a queer platonic relationship with them both have a romantic relationship with NY

Might finish this later

[calico-in-the-forest]

People say transitioning is permanent...

Like puberty isn't? Like literally any decision you make isn't?

Yes, it is permanent. That's kinda the point.

[prettyboyloy]

I would get on my knees and beg for you to use my mouth as a toy right now. I love the feeling of your tip sliding through my lips and into my throat. I would be anxiously waiting for you to grab my hair and start trusting fast and deep. My head getting emptier while you make me a mess. My cock throbbing every time you praise me for taking it.