People assume queer platonic relationships are on a straight line from friendship to romance, but actually from a non-linear, non subjective viewpoint, it’s more like a big ball of wibbly wobbly, feelingsy weelingsly… stuff.
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for an aro person, I fantasize a lot about intimacy. but not in a romantic context like smoochy ooky pooky boo-boo...hell no.
intimacy as in being completely emotionally open to/with someone, being so comfortable with them that you just feel safe and warm. I want to have that type of closeness with someone without having to feel guilty that I won't be able to give them romantic love.
it can be something so very deep within my core, but it's just...not romantic. is that so bad?
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there is nothing wrong with having a long distance relationship, especially if you haven't met in person. what matters most in a relationship is that you improve each others lives and can grow and change together. you fulfill each other - and you can do that without being together in person. if toxic in person relationships can be normalized, there's no reason a healthy long distance/online relationships should be ridiculed or judged.
(this post includes friendships, sexual relationships, and queer platonic relationships!)
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Aaand after just 2 weeks of my partner going back home, I'M going to visit them, for 2 weeks! It's a good month of January hehe^^
That means I'll be a bit inactive again for a while, sorry about that! Take care 💜
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Remember.
Being aromantic is being queer.
Being asexual is being queer.
Being aroace is being queer.
Being demi-sexual, is being queer.
Being demi-romantic, is being queer.
Being polyamorous is being queer.
Being ambiamorous being queer.
We're all different, yes. But all together we're different from being heterosexual, heteromantic or mono. which can co-exist with being queer too! (Such as a ace/hetero)
If you don't agree, whatever. I'm not gonna attack you, but I'm not gonna interact with your excuses of, "Being queer is this, or that!"
They're part of the community.
Happy aromantic awareness week!! (Though, this post turned into a little more XD)
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non-traditional relationships are so fucking cool i can't describe it enough.
i am not in a relationship. me and one of my friends kiss at most parties (platonically). they have a gf. their gf also kisses me at parties. we’ve all talked about it and everyone is cool with it. i'm not in a relationship with either of the people, and i don’t want to be - i’m happy as i am, and i can do as i please. it’s great!!
being non-monogamous (as an aroace person) is so fucking sick and i think more people should be engaging in non-traditional relationships because i feel better than i ever have!! /pos
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when your friend says something really sweet and its like... i could kiss you. but in a platonic way.
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i envision all alastor ships to either be one sided, platonic or queer platonic. NEVER an inbetween. queerplatonic radiorose though.. that hits different (they’re bestie goals fr)
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my aro ass when I meet someone new I like hanging out with and they tell me they're not looking for a romantic relationship
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“I would do unspeakable things to them” Oh yeah? Well I would do very speakable things to them. I would take them on a picnic. I’d help them out with grocery shopping. I’d listen to them complain about the world. I’d hold them when they needed to be held.
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working up the courage to call my .. Platonic partner, closest friend if you will, ‘my rock’ but i’m scared it just sounds cringe
other than the fact that you can call someone your rock as a way of saying they’re a comforting person, their main nickname has already got ‘rock’ in it … so My Rock it’s like. it’s basically like saying my [their name], but with the play on words… you get it right? yeah you get it.
i cringe at everything i do . it’s so over before it’s even begun
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