#actually hypersexual

[dollystuffs-chiori]

low empathy people, I love you

no empathy people, I love you

amoral people, I love you

morally grey people, I love you

people who are demonized by others for not caring, I love you

people who unknowingly harm others, I love you

people who accidentally harm others, I love you

people who are deemed problematic for any reason, I love you

irredeemable people, I love you

evil people, I love you

[this user has no dni]

[unstablemotions]

Being simultaneously sex repulsed AND hypersexual in the same moment is painful. I feel gross and want to puke but also I just need to get off and I want someone to use me

[eclipses-relationship-adventure]

Do you ever feel lonely in your experience as hypersexual, so you go into the tag to read about experiences others had, but you only find NSFW and you like it but you also start to cry because you feel gross for liking it? No? Just me? Okay.

[pigeon-system-boys]

Us, with hypersexuality: oh yeah we want sex so so bad

Us, with hypersexuality, when sex happends:

[histroninarc]

(tw for sa) npd + hpd + hypersexual culture is learning from a young age that acting sexual gets u more attention from ur friends which ended up getting u sa'd but u still have a hard time calling it sa cuz u put urself in those situations and now u dont know how to feel loved if ur not the object of someone's desire even tho if someone actually views u in that way it makes u wanna throw up and die

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[borderline-culture-is]

hypersexual borderline culture is XOXO (Kisses Hugs) by 6arelyhuman

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[local-yurei]

MY hypersexuality isn't about YOU.

don't oversexualise it.

don't tell me how gross you think it is.

don't say anything about it, *it isn't about or for you*.

[entropy-sea-system]

Lovelustic Aro

(Flag here!)

a term along the lines of loveless and lovequeer aro, but focused on experiences such as:

only experiencing sexual love

feeling like the closest thing to love you experience is sexual attraction

only feeling love when experiencing sexual attraction, affinity, and/or engaging in sexual actions

finding one's experience of love to be heavily linked to sexual attraction, sexual actions, or sexual affinity

seeing no personal need to differentiate between 'love' and 'lust'

relating more to lust than love/preferring it to the concept of love

feeling love/emotions close to love in a way connected to sex or sexual feelings due to hypersexuality, being  alloaro, etc.

feeling like lust is the closest thing to love that you feel

only feeling love towards sexual partners and/or people you engage in sexual actions with or are sexually attracted to

Or any similar reasons one may relate to this term!!

This term is open to all aros, regardless of orientation, microlabel, romance favorability or aversion, etc.

exclusionists, sex negative ppl, etc. dni.

I created this term because as a hypersexual aplatonic alloaro who has recently started feeling more comfortable referring to my emotions with the word 'love', I feel a huge disconnect from definitions of lovequeer that heavily focus on "I still love my friends, family, pets, etc." as if aros can't be sexual beings or experience sexual love.

I only really love my sexual partners (+ in a romo aro way) and sexual f/o's, myself (Im autosexual), and sometimes objects(objectum!!), so thats where my emotions feel close to love. That's why I use this term for myself.

[cherrytainteddoll]

A shitty part of hypersexuality as a result of trauma is the fact that everyone gets used when it flares up. I let people I normally wouldn’t even breathe the same air as use my body because I know deep down I’m using them for validation and attention.

Who am I to feel used when I’m chasing the high of validation and am willing to get it from anyone without a care in the world for them as a person? I know deep down people only want me for my body, but I let them because I get a brief moment of feeling wanted even if I don't care about them.

[thehareswears]

Tw talk of hypersexuality and being a minor

Don't be fucking weird, these are my thoughts and experiences

I despise the fact that the only way I know how to get attention is by being provocative and flirtatious. I don't feel like anyone is interested in talking to me unless I'm stroking their ego and getting them off

Aside from all of the shame that comes with it, being hypersexual and under 18 might be one of the hardest things I've had to come to terms with so far. I can't even jokingly flirt with people or offer to "pretend to date each other" because I know for a fact that I would take it too far and either make someone uncomfortable or put myself in danger and it makes me feel awful

Back to the shame thing, I cannot fucking express how absolutely awful I feel for how many people I have interacted with in an NSFW way online. I shouldn't, I always make sure they know I'm a minor before anyone talks to me. I just can't help but feel like I've ruined lives, I've made monsters out of innocent people, if they feel half as guilty as I do (and they should) they probably will never forgive themselves.

I'll never forgive myself either. For wanting to do this, for acting on it in the past, for not being responsible and hurting myself. There is irreparable damage from this and I did it all to myself like a fucking idiot and I hate to know that if I got the chance I would do it all again.

[st0p-the-dams]

It’s equally comforting and upsetting to read stuff written by other hypersexual people. On one hand it’s helpful to know I’m not alone in my experience. On the other hand I’m so sad that others have to deal with this.

It’s such a misunderstood and misrepresented issue with very little info on how to help yourself. Not to mention the shame and fear that comes with it.

[roachyreblobs]

Kinda wanna just say something really quick

SA isn’t just limited to touch.

People who’ve experienced SA should not be invalidated if they’ve developed hyper/hypo sexuality because of it.

SA victims should not be called liars, they should not be told it was their fault.

SA or hyper sexuality should not be romanticized. It’s not okay. It’s not fun, and I don’t know why the fuck you would want it.

nobody is too young for it, nor too old to experience it.

And it doesn’t matter how’s they dressed, it happened and they should NEVER be blamed for it.

(this is just my opinion from my own experiences. If you don’t agree with it then just scroll past :P)

[its-blip-on-the-radar]

"Things are fine now, but my brain certainly made some choices at the beginning of this relationship."

I've been with my partner for almost two and a half years now, and I sure did NOT start things out the right way, but luckily they're super kind and sweet and have given me the space to correct these issues. But I certainly did not show any amount of self restraint in the beginning. Like my partner is well aware what they signed up for, they knew I was mentally ill and had a lot of issues from the very beginning and they don't regret being with me one bit, it's just funny that my brain has zero self restraint.

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[dragoneating]

Hypersexual flag redesign for a friend.

2 flags, one with text and one without. The colors of the flag are: Orange, Pink, Dark purple, Black, and White. The text on each stripe say: Orange for Trauma Survivors, Pink for Sexual Compulsions, disordered behavior and addiction, Dark Purple for Acceptance and Healing, Black for A-spec Identities and Repulsion, and lastly White for Trans Identities.

[wut-igay]

since I’m hyper sexual I made hypersexual creatures!there is IWSN (the one in front) and SRSLY (the one in the back)!IWSN represents the extreme sexual thoughts and fantasies and SRSLY represents the guilt and shame!they are sibling and are inseparable!

[borderline-culture-is]

BPD + hypersexual culture is (Slave To) Lust by The Mission

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