#and i don’t want someone to date

[lordgirlfriend]

i think i am so desperate for the chance to be someone’s priority that at this point i might just cry so hard i pass away in my sleep

[aroallow]

y’all know that aro thing where you want someone to be romantically attracted to you but also if someone is romantically attracted to you you want to kill someone. what’s up with that.

[lilyrosegold]

To those who counter any general discomfort people have with aro and/or ace characters being shipped romantically or sexually with “but aro and aces can still date/have sex/be in relationships”- that’s is true but, do you actually care about the complexities and nuance of navigating romance and/or sex as someone who falls on the aroace spectrum or are you just looking for an easy way to not get hate for blatantly ignoring a character’s identity in favor of your shipping?

[stuckinapril]

I stay up nights thinking ab how my ex’s biggest flex is he’s a skater stoner who played the guitar

[hxney-lemcn]

Aroace and a hopeless romantic 😭 what a cruel fate

[bucksboobs]

I have a headcanon that Eddie waited 20 minutes and then called Tommy to apologize for “ruining their date” and encourages Tommy to give Buck a second chance.

[1-8oo-wtfbro]

ok, given that everyone who watched Avatar at 12 years old had a crush on Zuko, i’m willing to bet Aang had a bit of a crush on Zuko

[lilbitofmac]

HAPPY (belated) BIRTHDAY, @darkkitty1208!!! 🎉🎉

Sorry this is coming to you so late, but I genuinely hope you had a wonderful birthday full of smiles and good food!!! Thank you for all the support on my goofy little doodles, hon!! ♥️

[tacticallyplaced-chaos]

i..just started playing a date with death from @twoandahalfstudios and i’m oh SO BADLY DOWN FOR HIM

HE’S SO FREAKING CUTE???!! AND I AM SO INLOVED WITH HIM. I really just wanted to draw a quick sketch of him and my mc holding hands to which i did. I adore him so so much

[gently-decaying-flowers]

can i just get a kiss and a hug and be told everything is okay?

[quillkiller]

sorry to say but barty + the rosier twins are in love and i’ve thought about nothing else since yesterday

[buuuuuuuu3]

[project-sekai-facts]

Even with the new unit costumes coming out, do you think the og ones will stay relevant? Most of my cosplays are the old unit outfits and I was hoping to do more of them too- I really hope they don't fall out of style or anything I spend too long on these 😭

I mean the game might not really use them that much anymore but they’ll still be iconic in and out of the fandom so if you’re cosplaying it will be fine!

[grimbiliah]

I did all the little guys and me

[ssreeder]

I'm so looking forward to iroh and zuko properly talking and seeing irohs reaction to zuko being gay.

Like we all know he doesn't agree with the fire nation rn but how will he react?

Will he not support him cause sokkas a guy? Will he not support him because it's SOKKA? Will he accept him? Will he reveal he's known for years zuko was gay?

Especially with everything that happened with zhao, regarding to what jee said to bato on their date. (Which is a very understandable perspective, zuko just got out of this very sexually traumatising situation and almost immediately starts a relationship (his first relationship) with sokka, but then again it is a very unique situation)

One thing I love about some atla fics is how they portray the FNs thoughts on queerness, cause on one hand they were one of the only country's (I think) that treated men and women the same but then again it's also the fucking fire nation.

And I also think zukos whole canon arc can be very comparative to queerness,

His dads an asshole and after speaking out against him he throws him out, and zuko try's for 3 years to regain his father's love and acceptance, and then faced with the opportunity of regaining it takes it immediately regardless of who or what he may hurt (iroh, his own morals etc) but once he makes it back home realises how fucked up everything is and eventually confronts his dad and openly tells him he doesn't agree with him then runs aways.

I also wonder if iroh secretly knows jee is queer it doesn't seem that likely to me but it also is iroh so who knows.

<3

I do think Iroh’s reaction will be a big moment for not only the story but for Zuko’s character development. Right now, Zuko’s technically still a prisoner, holding himself there by assuming Iroh will not understand or judge him when in reality he’ll never know what his uncle is thinking until they TALK ABOUT IT. (Which the FN royal family is just sooo good at healthy communication I don’t understand why this is so hard for them lol?!)

I do agree that the suddenness of the relationship combined with the intensity from both zuko and Sokka is very alarming for people looking at it from the outside (I mean we all totally get it cause we were there but others are like uhhhh hmmmm ok this might be concerning) so I get them gossiping and wondering if this is truly real or what the fucks going on with those boys.

I love Zukos canon arc because there’s just so much about zukos story that can be relatable no matter who you are and I think that’s why he is a fan favorite (it doesn’t explain why we torture him the way we do but ehhhh it’s fine haha)

Hmmmmmm does iroh know Jees gay? Depends on how saucy those music nights got ;)

[werebutch]

Being stone seriously gets in the way of me pursuing relationships cuz I truly don’t think anyone but a high femme will get it. Or desire it especially. I know that’s the point of having those labels but still sucks to have such a small pool lol. Feel like anyone else but a high fem would just see it as an obstacle. But I am so so so very stone and I’ve met zero single lesbians my age here anyway. LOL….