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my sister said to me once that sometimes the cheapest way to pay for something is with money
if you don't pay in money you pay in time, in inconvenience, in energy, in pain. if that's all you've got then that's all you've got. but just because it's a lower financial cost doesn't mean it's a lower overall cost. it may well be a higher one, and that's one of the things that makes life so much harder and less sustainable when you're broke. nevertheless if money isn't there then you walk, because the bus is too expensive, or you take the bus, because the taxi is too expensive, or you paint that wall yourself, or you wait four hours in a train station for a cheaper connection, or you keep on working around the broken things in your house instead of fixing them, or whatever it is
but when you've been in that pattern for a long time, it can be hard to break the habit once money is an option. you keep on thinking "well it's silly to pay for that when i could just..."
but you're not Not Paying for it. you're paying differently. it's worth thinking about what you're actually paying, because sometimes, it turns out, money is cheaper
#hard lessons to learn#but as the pain/fatigue costs for nearly every task have risen#and my financially stability has somewhat improved#i am trying to learn that sometimes. you just gotta pay for it#also this doesn't only apply to disabled people about essential tasks!#sometimes you're tired and the cost of a nice meal is more effort than you can face and a takeaway is 'cheaper'#whatever it is. yunno?
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Some of us have been fighting this for decades.

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Desperately trying to finish listening to this audiobook before Libby repos my shit
#thought I could get away with putting my phone on airplane mode#learned that lesson the hard way#last 10% of Creation Lake I still yearn for you#Libby#library#audiobooks#personal work#doodles
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When Prophets Want To Die (book review)
Title: When Prophets Want To DieAuthor: Mike ClarensauPublisher: Mike ClarensauDate: 2023Pages: 223 When Prophets Want To Die (book review) Mike Clarensau takes a look at various prophets throughout the Bible that at some point in their lives wanted to die. In each one he takes a brief look at their life and then at the point in which they wanted to die. Throughout this book, Mike looks at…

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#Ahithophel#Doing God&039;s Will#extreme difficulties#Following God&039;s Plan#hard lessons to learn#Jeremiah#Jesus#Jonah#laying down one&039;s life#Moses#Prophets#Trusting God#wanting to die#When Prophets Want To Die
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The Yiling Band Tour!
#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#wen qing#wen ning#digital art#animation#This was a fun style experiment and a good lesson in 'hey you have less than a week to make this project. You cannot be a perfectionist'.#Right now - posting these slightly upgraded frames is really helping me stay motivated through the learning grind.#But progress is happening! I'm so excited to show it off when it's done!#Someone with a very discerning eye might be able to figure out what I'm doing with just this one frame. I will take the risk.#That aside; I often think about how the nature of cultivators in MDZS's world also entailed knowing about other art forms.#Meaning that Wen Qing and Wen Ning likely were good musicians and artists.#We know WWX is also good in art and music so...really...what was stopping them from forming a band?#Allow me to pitch this AU: Yiling Opera company AU. WWX and the Wen remnants form a performing trope and tour towns and cities.#Not only do they find a way to keep on the move (no home...only the road and the people around you).#But you also get to be in costume - which is a socially appropriate way to always be in disguise.#Yiling Laozu would thus be a character and/or WWX's stage name.#Would he be good at keeping it a secret? Hard to say with WWX! I think it would be a poorly-kept secret at best.#He likes to brag and show off a bit too much. This many would be either the worst or best spy.#Consider the drama of JC losing his mind over his ex-brother becoming a clown. Imagine JC Getting his ass kicked by said clown.#Imagine the delectable secret identity drama potential of Lan Wangji stumbling upon the trope's performances.#We did not get nearly enough of the secret identiy drama in MDZS canon. I need more of it.#I need that man conflicted with his feelings for the same person. I need them playing mind games with each other at all times.
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one major thing ive had to learn about my pain and fatigue is that overexertion does NOT result in more sleep. a healthy person might have a busy, physically active day and then have a really good sleep as a result. When I do this, I can’t fall asleep at all, and i’m often in terrible pain. So I end up being miserable twice, first when I pushed myself past my limits, and second from the resulting pain and insomnia. So here’s my message to you, chronically fatigued person: don’t push yourself when you don’t have to.
#coyote.txt#chronic illness#2.5 years on im still learning really hard lessons abt this illness#chronic fatigue#me/cfs#fibromyalgia#disability
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playing around w slightly different hair renders
#my art#jujutsu kaisen#jjk#jjk fanart#jujutsu kaisen fanart#jjk art#yuji itadori#megumi fushiguro#itafushi#fushiita#yuuji#megumi#cries megumi fought tooth n nail..... i refused 2 flip the canvas tho >:(#i vastly prefer drawing him facing right bc fr some reason it makes his hair look better silhouette-wise#so having him face left is alr a Challenge#but also having him slightly look down (difficult angle + changes the silhouette) had me bashing my head in2 th TABLE#same thing happened earlier this month w gardening megu middle pose . i did not learn my lesson#but even worse w this one yuuji's head is blocking th main pointy part tht basically carries the entirety of the shape language#u can imagine my distress i am sure#anyway th render made me a lot happier with it thank god. colours hard carry bless <3333#i didn't plan on making it a full sheet but i needed 2 remind myself that im good at drawing megumi#so i threw in solos of each of them n tried slightly different render flavours#idk how Different all of them look visually but th process fr each ws Very different so i am satisfied#fight aside this ws useful i think! got 2 break out some Clunkier chalks n dust off a few of my smoother blended brushes#think i picked up some things i can keep also !! which ws. u kno. the Goal#tbh every time i do art studies i feel like i am kirby#one time i got called an art ditto by one of my fav artist mutuals when i did a style challenge#SUCH high praise from her it lives in my mind i take it out on days when i feel like trash#it doesnt Sound good when u say u r good at copying but real talk it is such a good skill i am very happy 2 have it in my arsenal
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the most important distinction between boba fett and jango fett is that jango fett grew up on a farm and then in a traveling mandalorian merc clan and boba fett grew up in a city sized lab and then juvie and then every gutter in the galaxy from here to nar shaddaa
#and both of them have seen way too much shit they can't unsee#jango fett#boba fett#txt#I feel like people gloss over boba's coming of age era cause it's a content void but I do think it's important to his character#gestures vaguely Something(s) happened there#teenage to early 20s boba is very fun to think about cause he's like the exoskeleton of the adult boba we see#by which I mean he's very troubled kid archetype very antagonistic hasnt really nailed down much about who he is besides the main stuff he's#already known forever#so he's basically being dragged through the alleys of the galaxy learning all these very hard lessons#and at the same time developing all these ideas about what he can be what he's going to be what he wants#there's a lot of kids floating through the gutters and a lot of them dont make it out#and boba has a lot of big advantages but there's also an explosiveness to him that is necessary to power him through all the#Trials and Tribulations and Associated Bullshit to the position that he holds comfortably later#22 year old fuck it we ball ruthless boba is the reason 37 year old still ruthless boba gets to say he's just a simple man making his way#through the galaxy#and likewise while I think most of his idealism burns off early#I think there's a lot more social self-positioning inner turmoil that burns off like a comet tail over the years#my beautiful meta characterization using like 30% of total boba fett media#I need to become a true scholar of boba fett#etc etc
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I know you, so I know when you are hurt, but I cannot help you if you do not allow me to.
#life#spilled thoughts#love#spilled ink#spilled words#spilled writing#spilled poetry#star struck09#life quotes#writing#relationships#friendship#romance#love quote life quotes#life learning#life lessons#life is hard#life is strange#girlhood#thinking out loud#thought daughter#introspection#writers on tumblr#introspective#love quotes#been thinking about this a lot lately#relationship#literature#i still love you#things you’ll never hear from me
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Previous // Next
Missed call: Mom x4 Missed call: Dad x1 TEXT: Dad I swear to god Robin, I’ll stick a tracker up your ass if you don’t call back asap TEXT: Alexandruuuh the Derp Text me when u get home, tried to wake u up but u were having none of it xx … Courtney: Where’ve you been?! Robin: I stayed at a friend’s house. Courtney: And you couldn’t answer your phone to tell us that?! Robin: Sorry… [Robin shrugged lamely, he felt guilty for worrying his parents but he was far too hungover to deal with any lectures right now. He desperately needed his bed…] [Oscar narrowed his eyes as Robin avoided eye contact and sloped upstairs like a frail zombie] Oscar: He’s hungover. Courtney: Mmh. Oscar: [groans] Oughhh. Courtney: They’re gonna do this kinda thing, honey. We can’t stop them. Oscar: I know, but that doesn’t mean I have to like it. Ava: What kinda thing? Courtney: I’ll talk to him. Oscar: Later. Courtney: Obviously. Ava: Helloooo-.. what thiiiings?! Oscar: Things that’re gonna give me a damn aneurysm.
#ts4#sims 4#simblr#ts4 story#sims story#forever in between#fib#oscar finch#courtney finch#robin finch#ava finch#oscar should know more than anyone that kiddos have gotta make their own mistakes to learn a lesson but maaaaan#i doubt he ever thought that lesson would be so hard to swallow with all these teen antics coming his way#fffffkgj#never mind.. i doubt he has to worry abt robin making a habit of getting drunk tbh#he straight up has and is still having a shit time lmao
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@eddiediaznetwork event: headcanons ↳ eddie tells christopher "sana, sana colita de rana, si no sana hoy, sanara mañana" when he's hurt, so this is me saying it back to him ♥
English translation: "Heal, heal, little frog's tail, if you don't heal today, you'll heal tomorrow."
#eddie diaz#911 abc#911edit#eddiediazedit#my gifs#i actually kind of hate this but i spent waaaay too many days on it and literally i cannot make it better#ive learned a lot about color and lighting of gifs and blending#so like its fine lessons learned#am prepared for this to have 0 notes and im ok with that#i wanted this color scheme bc frog but also idk it was hard to make it look nice sighhhhhhhhhh#tbcp-look#useraudrey2#alisonlook#rellylook#usersary#young-waverer#rutual#useremz#tusermira#closetfascination#userpickles#nessalook#userreed#useredmundo
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so, unfortunately, adobe animate fucking blew up like 60% of what i had done on this animatic forever, so it's rough and incomplete, but here's what remains of a balloon smp scene i was loosely storyboarding for fun!
cut down audio is taken from this edit by chipsetradio
#i lost all the robby yelling bits im so mad dont talk to me those actually went hard#and all the errors i fixed and shot compositions i tweaked and background details i added.... WAAAAUGH!!!!!!!!#lesson learned about proper backups on fla files i guess.................... rrrghhhhh#balloon smp#blsmp#NO PROMISES but im tempted to pick up another scene to fill the this shaped hole in my heart#BUT since this is never getting finished anymore i might as well post it somewhere as is!
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No Good Deed is now up here on ao3! There's no prior mirrorworld knowledge required, so come along for the ride, if you dare.
Summary below:
The lightworld has plenty of sympathetic sayings, for times like this. Mushy words that aren’t worth much outside the silly little realm of friendship and kindness, of a better reality, that they inhabit, and not their reflections. No, no, none of that can be applied here, in the reverse. Absolute zilch.
And yet, no good deed goes unpunished, they might have told him now.
Dark Meta Knight’s not in the market to admit if anything about what he did was good to begin with.
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Or, Mir Falspar hasn't been sleeping lately, and Dark Meta Knight couldn't possibly care less.
It's fine, as long as everyone believes that.
#dark meta knight#mir falspar#kirby right back at ya#galaxy soldier army#post's art gallery#mirror madness#20k words of DMK learning his lesson the hard way#cackling in the distance#with fun tidbits for anyone who's been following along for a while
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Another year has passed, and with it the opportunity to reflect back on all that has happened. While my growth was not as dramatic as last year, I can still see lots of positive change.
I'll never have enough ways to say thank you for all the love and support you have given me this year. On to 2025!
(2023 summary here!)
#poorly drawn mdzs#art summary#Since last year's independent variable was PD-WWX; this year I used Lan Wangji.#Unfortunately his appearances were not very evenly distributed this year! Lots of LWJ's early in the year#then a dead period in the middle. He is forever my silly rabbit. I love drawing him!#If I have to put a label on this year; I'd describe it as 'experimental'. I pushed myself to do llots of new things!#I drew lots for dungeon meshi and that really boosted my growth. More body types -clothing details - expressions!#Ryoko Kui is a great artist to learn from and It made me realize that I had a lot to gain from doing more studies.#I also started working on a whole new genre of art! While it has taken a backburner spot - I'm working on a game now!#Digital art was my enemy last year but I have been getting a feel for it now.#Goals for this year is to 1) keep working on my personal projects 2) finish PD-MDZS! and 3) practice animation!#I didn't (couldn't) draw as much as I did last year...but I had to take a lesson in humility and taking care of myself.#Drawing is something I do 'for fun' but there were many times it became more stressful than it should.#I'm still learning how to find and maintain balance with everything life throws at me.#We are all works of progress and I am trying very hard to love the process and the journey! I don't really know my destination!#But I will keep taking steps forwards. I never want to be stuck and lost as I once was.#If 2024 was a rough year for you too; We're in this together. Let's keep taking steps together. No matter how small.#Love you all so very much. You've given me strength on the darkest days. Thank you thank you thank you.
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sukuna who's about to go insane after a long day, needing to feel you.
sukuna who start's taking off your lounge wear. shirt first, before leaning in to kiss you as his hands go to the hem on your waist.
sukuna who starts pulling your shorts down before they get stuck over your hips, groaning in frustration.
sukuna who is fighting every urge to rip them off as he asks, "how'd you get these damned things on, brat?"
sukuna who is about at his wits end as they finally slide down, underwear in tow.
sukuna who all but moans in relief as they do, relishing in the sight before him. of course only after he victoriously flings his now most hated pair of shorts across the house. never wishing to see them again.
#★tiff.talks★#★tiff.wrote?!★#i'm too embarrassed to write him fucking and/or munching you but just know he ravages you entirely.#inspired by my own lounge shorts that fit so nicely on my waist but are so hard to get over my thighs/hips.#also- he doesn't rip them despite how badly he wanted to because last time he did... well lets just say you were naked but NOT afraid#(he didn't get to touch you for a week. hence learning his lesson to never destroy your clothes... without permission.)#jjk#jjk x reader#jujutsu kaisen#jjk x you#jjk smut#sukuna x reader#sukuna x you#sukuna x y/n#sukuna smut
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Bhaalists have the dumbest fucking problems, or What if you were so similar, looking to show your devotion most wholly, because your father and god is all you have left. What if with the little heart you had left you wanted to spare your only sister the rejection of god, make sure she was perfect the entire time, and if it means you make her hate you so be it. What if she saw the compassion as your faith wavering and she was right . Still she should've bathed the streets in red and not thought about it any more than what the arm needs to drive the knife through a heart .
#baldur's gate 3#orin the red#durge tav#comic#bg3 fanart#points at them . what if all she was around to witness was a 10 year crisis of faith#sorry girlie you missed both his most bloody and most artistic murer arc#hhhhhh my durge is a bard and i find it so hard to believe he was always straightforward with it#so . what if he simply had to learn his lesson to stay in bhaals bad grace‚ even as his very flesh#tw blood#cw: gore#durge : larkspur
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