amatonormativity: a romantic partner should be the most important person in EVERYONE'S life
NOT amatonormativity: MY romantic partner is the most important person in MY life, but i understand this is not the same for other people
allosexnormativity: EVERYONE should have sex and sex is something EVERYONE needs/wants/should want
NOT allosexnormativity: I PERSONALLY enjoy sex and love having sex because it makes ME feel good, but other people dont feel the same and that's okay
platonormativity: having friends is important for EVERYONE and EVERYONE needs/has/should have friends
NOT platonormativity: having friends is important to ME and I PERSONALLY love having friends, but there are people who dont and theres nothing wrong with that
faminormativity (is that the word?): family is important for EVERYONE and EVERYONE needs to have their family
NOT faminormativity: family is important to ME and I PERSONALLY need my family with me, but other people dont feel the same and i understand that
lovenormativity (again, not sure if this is a word): EVERYBODY feels love and there's something wrong wiith you if you dont
NOT lovenormativity: I PERSONALLY feel love and love people, but not everyone does and that's completely okay!
NOT amatonormativity: i dont have friends/have any desire to have friends, i am happy with other relationships/no relationships at all
NOT platonormativity: i dont have any desire to be in a romantic relationships, and i am happy with my platonic relationships
NOT allosexnormativity: i like hooking up with people and having one night stands or friends with benefits
NOT faminormativity: i care about my family deeply and am close with family members
NOT lovenormativity: i feel love for people i care about
it's not normative to personally enjoy something, so long as you respect that other people simply arent like you and aren't going to like the same things as you. taking down normativity is a two way street, allos and aspecs need to do it. support your local aros, aces, apls, afams and other aspecs today! remember to challange all normativities, and to not enforce other normativity by saying how bullshit other normativities are!
nothing is universal. romance is not universal. sex is not universal. friendship is not universal. family is not universal. love is not universal. nothing is universal.
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Foggy Mtn LQG please :3
the bai zhan war god for your pleasure~
id by @princess-of-purple-prose : Scum Villain fanart of Liu Qingge done in a color palette of deep blue, light gray-blue, and yellow. He's posed like he's sitting and scowling down at the viewer, and he's depicted with dark skin. The background is divided into colored stripes with decorative curlicues, and the words "Bai Zhan" are above and below him. End ID]
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Sometimes we just need to remember someone cares…hugs are the best.
Edit: welp, making dialogs in your second language late at night after several hours making a comic isnt as easy as it sounds.
I realized i had some grammar mistakes so im correcting them now :))
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i'll paint a portrait in your blood,
with eye of newt and crumbling mud.
i'll tear up the canvas and set it ablaze
because why was i the one forsaken
by this fate within my name?
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just out of curiosity, any reason for removing parrot form?
Mainly because parrots can "talk" and I had a hard time justifying/didn't want to have to deal with questions of why the hellhound couldn't just tell you shit you needed to know since its memories are fully intact. It's also harder to write scene variations for some of the animal forms (parrots being one of them). So, those things led me to decide that it'd be easier and more pleasant for me to just cut the parrot form.
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