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No matter how hard she tried, she couldn't fall in love with Tony. Yet somehow he always boomeranged back to her, and she was afraid she might get stuck with him out of simple inertia.
Anna Biller, from Bluebeard's Castle
#safe option#the heart wants what it wants#relationship#on off relationship#settling#quotes#lit#words#excerpts#quote#literature#anna biller#bluebeard's castle
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it really is all of us or bust btw. we cannot accept conditional acceptance of queer people, we cannot accept the exclusion of some in exchange for inclusion of others, it's all of us or nothing and we have to be so fucking clear about that. don't let conservatives or terfs or twitter discourse convince you that there's any other option. don't let them get away with it. we're all going to fucking make it and we're not leaving anybody behind
#queer stuff#dottie rambles#like shit watching the election cycles rn is SCARY#there's no other option#I'm privileged as hell relatively speaking and I am terrified for our community#I'm not safe unless we all are!#i refuse to be
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GOT ASKED TO REDRAW THIS OVER ON YONDER WEBSITE. Im so normal
#sami's art#phineas and ferb#dwampyverse#pnf spoilers#i guess??????#i mean its a promo image but JUST TO BE SAFE#isabella garcia shapiro#buford van stomm#Im so excited for this episode now its either gonna ruin everything for me or feed me for the rest of my life#and both are extremely exciting options HAHAHAHAHAHAH#dan poven mire heard me. i said plz more isabella and buford and he said yes my sweet beehunterkisser#submarine sandwich submarine is your new home#this was like the ep i was least interested intoo how things change on a dime#Guys were so back
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i saw a video where a woman’s husband said hello to her best friend (they touched cheeks with a short mwah) and so many people felt that this would be a personal boundary violation for them, so i’m curious what the consensus is!!
keeping it simple, no nuance + if u think ur ethnicity or culture has to do w your answer i would love to know!! 🫂😚💕💕
#i do it often but mostly with family + family friends + some people from my family’s ‘religion’#and the ‘peck on the cheek’ is rarely ever a true kiss. we kinda bunch our lips to the side and make a kiss noise while our cheeks touch!!#also i was raised w puerto rican roots 🇵🇷 so i think that has to do w my norm#and!! i would never touch cheeks w someone i didnt think was being covid safe no matter who they are#and i absolutely never came close to doing it at the height of the pandemic#i never felt much pressure to do it u know??#i was never made to feel like i NEED to do it so i’ve always been comfy avoiding it when needed for the sake of my health#but in closing: i don’t mind it/never thought much of it until now!!#anyways.txt#poll#(also by ‘no nuance’ i meant in the poll options. i love reading everyone’s personal nuance <3)
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pmd beam go🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
#pokemon mystery dungeon#pmd#undertale#undertale yellow#uty#uty clover#flowey#rockruff#floette#luckypatch#premaposting#im not giving up floette flowey idc if floette can only be female. sunflora is just lazy. fitting but an easy option#rockruff clover rockruff clover rockruff clover#i decided on rockruff. totodile is a bit too blue and yamper doesnt really fit enough#so rockruff clover it is#yk that theres like explorer badges that allow a rescue team to leave a dungeon#yeah only flowey has that. just says that there was only one they could get.#POINTING EMOJI. HES LYING!!!!!!!!! that is a special one he has that does MORE than the average badge!!!!!!!! LYING.#but yeah. clover's the “leader” or is allowed to make most of the calls. ofc flowey would be the real leader here#but clover doesnt have to know that shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh#but yeah they made a rescue team bc clover needed someone to guide them through the world safely#while flowey wants to gain clover's trust#probably be a spmd type of plot where a great power is only accessible by a human spirit or smth#super pmd but ur partner is nuzleaf idk hjasndjka
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I added some colours to her :)
#digital art#character art#character design#marcia#discworld#discworld fanart#angua von uberwald#bro i need to get weirder i need my art to be weirder i need the shapes i need the colurs i need to not play safe i need to be a freak#2025 goal become an even bigger freak i can never stop#i really like how she turned out#i never used such muted colours before i kinda like how murky she looks#a true ankhmorporkian#still making my way through men at arms they just found the clown#i am fascinated with the river that is running through that city#it makes me think of Bristol uk <3#going back to angua i like to think the armour they gave her was already all beaten up#hello and welcome to the nightwatch. have the nastiest underfunded gear we could find this side of the city#also i like to think that the official colours of ankh morpork are greenred#two colours on the opposing sides of the colour wheel but they are forced together to coexist#ankh would be green morpork would be red#and now everyone and their patrician just gotta cope#worldbuilding through colour would be fun : )#ohhh the inside of the palace could look quite cool because it would have to utilize both to celebrate the union#but then you go into the city and across the river you can sorta see the divide#not that all the houses would be one colour or whatever thats a bit predictable#but through fashion statements or exported goods or family insignia#and then you could incorporate it further for example vimes the guy of the city would want to take on the whooole thang. thats his city#some criss cross apple sauce checkers quilted mismatched mumbo jumbo#and then in contrast to that you would have his wife-elected suit and tie getup that distances him from his duty and kills him#so many options i tell you
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Happy Halloween from the "New 'Do, Same You" Boys!
later:
#fnaf eclipse#fnaf sun#fnaf moon#fnaf dca#dca fandom#New Do Same You AU#Sun New Do Same You AU#Moon New Do Same You AU#Clip New Do Same You AU#Comet New Do Same You AU#crab art#digital art#bright colours#halloween#Wreck it Ralph#honestly Clip made Comet a Sonic onesie for two reasons#1) it's funny#2) he couldn't get Comet's measurements and didn't want to make them uncomfy so he went with a onesie as a safe option#i actually had this idea for a long time#cuz the NDSY characters really match Wreck-it Ralph#there will likely be a future chapter where they watch the movie together#and Comet will cry#because i always cry watching wreck it ralph 🥲
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it's been a while since i've drawn but heres some rough concept ideas for a new store-type npc to add to the roster 🎭
#the cat witchs guild#the misc adventures of mochi and lime#tcwg#tmaomal#masquerade#art#ocs#original#npcs#beta#no colors for her outfit because I havent decided what to dress her in\#but shes supposed to be another store type npc like madam springs or the merchant where theyre not playable you just buy things from them#gotta throw in that detail that when she appears the quests are completely optional because shes so fucking expensive#masquerade is a title by the way and not her name#but they make like one or two sales a year and it sets them up for the next few years#witchs disguise magic doesnt work on the m-34th and the m-34th doesnt have any kind of good disguise stuff so they both use her#and she has no incentive to lower prices because its a one of a kind service#*the only people who can see through her disguises are the merchant and sulluvan#but theyre rarely a concern because theyre neutral anyway#inspired by sampo? maybe a bit hehe#the light disguise option only changes your face and maybe voice. you usually need the whole thing to be safe#by the way the kind of rewards you get when you do the side quests that involve her are INSANE#its like magic boost 1000% type items. or super rare spellbooks lost to time. and you need to infiltrate...somthing#anytime mochi sees her she softly weeps because she can like never afford that shit but she wants the items#its another one of those things like madam springs where it's a well-kept secret and non-magic type service that no one else can mimic#but its uhhhh magic-neutral so to speak#compelely organic so the m-34th can use the service#by the way she has like stealth/disguise 1000000 and attack 0#shes one of the only characters who is completely useless in actual combat#madam springs can do more than her fighting-wise
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my saturday
#getting these two vaccines together is PERFECTLY SAFE as long as you are honest with the person administrating it#if you have chronic illnesses or are immunocompromised please tell your GP so they can review your options#me? i prefer to feel like ass one afternoon than feel bad more than once#my life comics are back yayy
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"I will let nothing part us again, my love. Not in this, or any other world."
#datv#datv spoilers#emmrich volkarin#my art#very rough thing to get a feel for his design#I know he doesnt have a hood but I thought at the time his design was kinda missing one#...and I couldnt find proper references for that the helmet piece looked like lol (I got them now though) so pls just ignore it#anyway we were robbed of having a skeleson AND skelehusband#I was sooooo intent on making him a lich until bioware decided to give us a really great conundrum!!! grr#which imo doesnt have a wrong or right option no matter what some people seem to be saying#this is a safe space for lich!emmrich enjoyers
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In your Spitfire AU, since Zuko is looking after Lu Ten II, what happened to Ursa?
Zuko is slightly older in the Spitfire AU. He was banished at fifteen, his head a little clearer and denial a little weaker than in canon. After his first look through the Air Temples, Zuko decides that if he can't find a myth, he might as well search for the next best thing.
Finding Ursa isn't easy, but in time he makes it to a secluded house in a near-forgotten part of the world. His mom is there, older and stronger and alive.
But she isn't alone.
And Zuko, as it turns out, didn't keep the best company during his search.
When Ursa is discovered and her secrets are laid bare for assassins (for Ozai) to find, she begs Zuko to take his little brother and run. She'll do anything it takes to protect her children, even if that means leaving them behind to keep a target off their back. Ursa diverts attention from them and allows Lu Ten's ancestry to be kept a secret. She orders Zuko not to follow her again, and disappears.
Zuko is left with a little three-year-old brother to raise and a mother he cannot hold onto.
#dema answers#atla#spitfire#Spitfire AU#prince zuko#atla ursa#Lu Ten II#The Ursa/Hakoda parallels are going to be insane in this one I swear#It's okay tho#It's absolutely intentional#(The other option was killing her. But I happen to find family conflict and abandonment issues way more compelling to write)#Luckily Zuko isn't alone. He's a mess of course—and raising the little brother you never knew you had isn't easy.#But he has Uncle and (once those loyal to his father have been taken care of) he also has his crew.#Look three years into the future and you've got a six-year-old Spitfire running around the ship and giving Zuko early gray hair#Ursa will be reunited with them in the future. I just don't know when would that happen yet.#Probably post-war#She returns to her children only to come face to face with their overprotective found family (aka the Gaang)#Their reunion would be quite messy at first but...it'll all be okay#They all love each other deeply. And sometimes love isn't enough. Sometimes there are things that you can't forgive or forget.#But Ursa did everything she did because she loved them. And Zuko knows that. Zuko understands that.#(He was forced to make the same decision in Ba Sing Se—giving yourself up and leaving the people you love behind so that they're safe)#(He understands)#But Lu Ten II doesn't#He doesn't remember Ursa. Not really. He knows of her what Zuko and Uncle tell him. But he doesn't remember ever having a mother.#(Tara is soft and warm and kind to him. She holds him and takes care of him and makes sure he's well-behaved. And he loves her.)#(Is that what makes a mother? Or is it the blood you share?)#Ursa isn't much like Tara. But she loves him dearly—there's a reason he has the name of someone who was so dear to her.#She is Lu Ten's mother. Zuko's mother. Uncle's sister.#And she isn't like Tara. But she loves him even if he can't remember her.#So maybe he can learn to love her back.
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You know, I accepted the fact that the reason the bats never go to therapy is because of the whole “They can’t discuss anything that could risk being connected to their vigilante identity/or trust any psychologist in Gotham” thing
But then someone brought up another horrible reason to my attention:
They can’t trust that the family of nosey, privacy-violating control freaks won’t go digging into their personal shit.
These guys are just living a wretched existence, aren’t they?
#DC#Batman#Batfam#Bruce Wayne#Dick Grayson#Barbara Gordon#Jason Todd#Cassandra Caín#Tim Drake#Stephanie Brown#Damian Wayne#Duke Thomas#They cursed I say. cursed!#What even is their view on therapy? Who would consider it if it were a safe option??
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I don’t think this is going to end with Gemma being completely alive and back to normal and everything’s happy but like, I am a little baffled by people’s insistence that mark trying to get her back is unhealthy
Like. If you think your wife dies but then it turns out she appears to be alive and being held hostage in a basement somewhere, presumably stolen just before death by the deeply unethical medical company who has contacts and influence in just about every organisation in your area (including the hospital and the morgue), and you happen to have access to some parts of said basement then doing what you can to get her out of there isn’t an unhealthy refusal to move on. That’s like. A relatively normal response to an insane situation.
Like is the healthy option to just leave your seemingly alive and well wife in the basement of the evil medical company to be experimented on? Mark doesn’t even know she can’t remember anything (and to be honest, neither do we. We’ve only seen her innie. We have no idea what her ‘outie’ is like. I doubt it’s normal regular Gemma, but we don’t know). The experimental brain surgery is unideal but the desire to rescue her is like. The only normal response to that information
#severance#severance spoilers#I mean I get that as a metaphorical interpretation#but in terms of the actual real events of the plot like#Gemma does seem to be alive down there it is not weird for mark to want to get her out#also like#you wouldn’t call someone unhealthy for still living and caring for their spouse after brain injury or dementia would you?#*loving#like#there’s a question being raised here about what identity is and what makes someone them and at what point are they no longer them#and I truly do not think ‘your wife might be brain injured so the healthiest thing to do is leave her in the secret evil lab to be#experimented on’ is the answer here.#there are real life conditions comparable to the states people are in in this series#Gemma’s body being alive does mean that part of Gemma is alive no matter what state her brain is in#it’s normal for mark to care about that#even if the Gemma he knew is gone and he ultimately ends up in a place where moving on AFTER SHE IS SAFE is the healthiest option
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Game-night in the batfamily has got to be crazy. You're putting a bunch of geniuses against each other and that's asking for chaos to happen.
#And when they play team up games they have to make a toss-up because they cannot decide on the teams#Nobody wants to play with Bruce except for Cass#Or Tim and Dick also if they feel bad enough#Jason wants to play with nobody#Damian thinks he could do best alone#but he would choose Grayson if he needs to#He can't tho because they make it random#Duke has no personal issues with anybody so he's a safe option for a team-up#Jason Tim and Damian however...#Steph enjoys those nights the most#Along with Dick#Except they enjoy it for very different reasons#Steph and Cass always want to be a team#That's why they need a toss-up#(Nobody likes the toss-up but Alfred started it for fairness in the game)#Tim has the worst luck so he's gotta be really smart with his moves#Or cheat without being noticed#Both work depending on who he's playing with/against#You would expect Jason to be the cheater but he's weirdly fair...#(He's a petty loser tho)#(Specially when Bruce wins)#Dick is just trying to avoid conflicts between siblings while also being the biggest asshole of a big brother whenever he can#Give Alfred a break#And somebody get Bruce out of there he's too old to play (Jason probably)#dick grayson#bruce wayne#jason todd#tim drake#damian wayne#batfamily
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The people who think gay trans man have straight privilege because they have the "option" to "escape" homophobia and live as straight women are blatantly disregarding the fact that for a lot of trans people, the options aren't "gay trans man" or "cis straight woman." It's "gay trans man" or "dead."
#this post was inspired by my friend (mostly stealth trans man) who has dealt with a lot of homophobia from his bf's parents#and transphobes might make the argument that the homophobia he faced doesn't count because he could have just lived as a woman#and then dated his bf more safely#but i genuinely don't think he would be alive right now if he hadn't been able to transition#so yeah. just being a woman to escape homphobia isn't really an option for a lot of trans men#transandrophobia#apologies if this is not my place to speak about as a straight trans man. i was just having thoughts and wanted to share
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