#thats my queue

[dilfdyke]

[freckledbastard]

saw someone say cloud has 'post traumatic sephiroth disorder' which is extremely funny but also there's no way sephiroth would ever allow cloud to be post-anything sephiroth, that twink is getting sephiroth trauma 24/7 babeyyyy

[aaron-is-comatose]

(𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘦) The way that you were

[cirrus-grey]

Gonna be honest with you, my brain just completely turned out the tape click and static for a full 30 seconds because I've heard it so many times 😅

[hiddencircus]

TWST STAMPS!

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[ryssbelle]

Happy Valentine's day

[ghostorbz]

Wooo

Also a zadr version hello

THESE WERE SCHOOL DOODLES HEHE

I just made em digital

[sorryiliketoscreenshot]

[fala-alfredo-pasta]

idk i kinda like Luka

[deoidesign]

panels from my webcomic. the characters are also from my webcomic. believe it or not it's about gay time traveling vampires

[yikes-ajax]

I dont have a clever and witty sarcastic comment tonight, I just think she's cute

[solarpunkani]

"Oh no, someone's attracted to the aesthetics of my -punk movement but doesn't know the praxis and history behind it like I do--"

OK. Tell them. Make it a teaching moment. Everyone who's in your movement learned the background from somewhere at some point, maybe this is that point for that person. Give them a jumping off point that they can dive into later.

"Oh but I shouldn't be responsible for teaching baby -punks about the history and the how-tos and--"

OK. Then don't tell them. You don't have to be responsible for teaching people with a budding interest in your group the ins and outs and how-tos. That's fair and valid! It can be a lot of work. Someone else will handle it

"But I'm annoyed that they would try to claim to be part of/be interested in my community without knowing all the details that I know after being in it for months/years/decades, they're dumb, they're posers, they're--"

OK. Then don't engage with them, if it's that bad. Maybe someone else will come around and tell them the history, maybe they'll pick it up on their own, maybe they'll just enjoy the fashion elements for awhile.

"But they shouldn't claim to be part of the -punk community if they don't know the--"

I feel like we have a few options here. People can either talk to them, share the history, share the values, share the praxis. Or they can just chase off anyone who even thinks about dipping a toe in their community, and then wonder why it's dying off later down the line.

I dunno, maybe I'm too naive and patient or whatever. But if people are entering your -punk spaces without knowing The Rundown of what you feel they need to know, maybe being nice about it and informing people instead of immediately assuming stupidity and malicious intent could help you make a new friend. Even the loudest voices in a space had to learn from somewhere, and not everyone has the luxury of being in the space as the History was Happening--whether it's an age thing or a not being aware of the space thing. Or maybe I just don't see what the big deal is behind people hating people who like the aesthetic of something and don't know the behind the scenes history about it yet.

Because I believe in the word 'yet.' No one comes into this world knowing everything about everything, and we're all constantly learning new things. I'm not gonna degrade someone and call them a poser for not knowing what I know. Because if it were me, interested in a scene but getting chased out and called a poser? I wouldn't hit the books and study up, I'd go 'that fuckin sucks, those people sucked' and then avoid anyone and anything having to do with it.

So chase people off and call them posers if you want. But if your community starts dwindling, don't be fucking shocked.

[tomatoart]

the raw guy

[borderlinereminders]

ABC

This is another emotion based DBT skill! A lot of people use this with PLEASE since they are both skills meant to make you less vulnerable to things that can cause emotional crisis.

Accumulate Positive Experiences: Think of this like depositing money into a savings account, except you're depositing happy memories to remember later. This means going out to experience as many positive experiences as you can! They can be bigger things like travelling, and they can also be smaller things like seeing a friend, going to the park, etc. Your positive experiences will differ than others, and the point is to do what you find positive. Things that someone else may enjoy, like going to a park, may be stressful for someone else. Don't feel pressured to try and enjoy things others do. Focus on what you know you enjoy.

If you can, make a list of things you know you enjoy and work on doing them and adding new things to give different memories! I love hanging out with my best friend, and every time is different and I recall a lot of those memories as needed.

Build Mastery: This is about doing something every day that you feel good at, or accomplished when you do it. It's supposed to give you a satisfied feeling. Maybe this is working on your crochet or maybe it's a chore like folding laundry or even something like brushing your teeth. This can differ day to day if you want! Some guides say to focus on one skill to improve, but it's up to you what works for you! The goal is to build your confidence.

If you can, make a list of things that give you that feeling, and then pick one to do every day!

Cope Ahead: When you're in distress, it can be so hard to recall your skills or things that help you. Planning ahead might involve you writing down a step by step guide for you to follow when panicked, like how to ground or overall what you need to do. It might mean having a list of things you can do to calm yourself, or make you smile. It might involve making a self-care box. The goal is to have something easy to access when you're in crisis that can help you when it's hard for you to think.

This might also include you planning ahead for things you know will be stressful, like a job interview.

[artandbrimstone]

you believe me like a god

i betray you like a man.

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[payasita]

#2: Golden fleece