#validate me please

[feralvelveteenrabbitxxx]

am I no good? / I feel so alone

[bluetbluish]

oh hey are you new to hermitblr? if so welcome! :]

quick tip for posting fanart— only the first 5-10 tags you add on a post are the ones it’ll show up in publicly, so if you want your art to be seen be sure to put the most important ones first! (if you’re posting grian for example— #grian, #hermitcraft, and #hermitblr might be the first few you want to use ^^)

Ahhhhhh hi there :P thanks for the welcome <3

Yes I am new!! Just joined actually haha. I had no idea about the tag thing, so tysm for telling me!! That's super useful to knowledge to have

[homoashell]

I need constant validation!

[lover-of-skellies]

How do I ask for validation that all the creative stuff I do isn't for nothing, without being annoying 🤔

[the-ginger-draws]

Got broken up with and working with those feelings so here is an artist representation of those said feelings

I hope you find the pain interesting

[nancythebisexualslutwheeler]

Have I said I want a Barbie dreamhouse and I want my new hobby to be playing with Barbie’s

[vocallywritten]

Absolutely hilarious that, upon approaching Penelope at that first garden party right after he arrived back, Penelope makes a cold, noncommittal comment about "much changing" and Colin "Cannot Read The Room" Bridgerton starts giggling and twisting around going, "Oh I see you've noticed my new outfit."

Like no dude. In no way is that what she is saying. He wanted her to compliment him so bad it's embarrassing 😭

[iceeericeee]

Reblog if you think polyamorous people are valid

[hailsatanacab]

"Well, this is a bad idea," Tim says, hands on his hips as he surveys the mess they’ve made in the cave.

"Nah," Danny replies, twirling his screwdriver in the air in what is probably meant to be an impressive trick to inspire confidence, except he fumbles it and it clangs to the floor loudly, "we good. If a younger version of myself hasn't come forward in time to stop me, how bad can it be?"

"Shouldn't it be the other way round?"

"What?"

"Normally, it's an older version of yourself going backwards in time to stop you, right?"

"Not in my experience."

Danny's grin is impossibly feral and a shiver runs up Tim's spine.

"This is definitely a bad idea."

[traumasurvivors]

If you have trauma as a result of dealing with delusions and/or psychosis, your trauma is valid.

Trauma is largely about how you feel and how something impacts you. And even if you know something isn’t “real”, it doesn’t mean your feelings aren’t real. And it doesn’t change how real it feels to you.

[spineless-lobster]

I love reading my own writing like wow this story has everything I want in it it’s almost like it was written for me or something damn that’s so crazy

[heymacy]

IAN GALLAGHER + his journey with bipolar disorder

╰┈➤ “At times, being bipolar can be an all-consuming challenge, requiring a lot of stamina and even more courage, so if you’re living with this illness and functioning at all, it’s something to be proud of, not ashamed of." - Carrie Fisher

[amelie-sama-blog]

>see a manga called "shota x oni" with a super cute cover, artstyle and premise

>click on the first chapter

>read a few dozen chapters, and the story starts to pick up

>see this disclaimer at the beginning of the next chapter

>do a double take

>click back to the main page

>the manga is indeed called "shota x oni"

>click back to the chapter

>click back to the main page

>the manga is indeed tagged "shounen ai" aka romance between males

>click back to the chapter

>read many more chapters

>see this panel

>...

>laugh

>this story is shotacon

[bluespiritshonour]

Here's kataang art dump. Reprise.

P.S. don't ask me why I handed Katara what looks suspiciously like an electric trimmer.

[astarionancuntnin]

romancing the pale elf: a story in 3 tavs acts

astarion + text posts (part 36)

[yeahimatransman]

Signs from being younger that probably are signs of being trans:

Making a sock penis and wearing it in my room. Never admitting it, but wanting a penis.

Fantasizing that I was turned into a boy and choosing to stay that way.

Taking quizzes that claim to "guess your gender" and wanting to have the results say I was a boy.

This one makes me laugh, but pretending to be a boy when I would play on Club Penguin.

Really liking how I looked in our jazz band uniform which includes a men's dress shirt, dress pants, a tie, and a vest.

Signs in adulthood and right now that probably are signs of me being trans:

Buying a packer and really enjoying wearing it in public.

Loving the bulge my packer gives me and wanting to look at it all day long/wear it everyday.

Wanting a real penis.

I want a beard so bad.

Buying a binder and being frustrated that it didn't make me completely flat because I have a large chest. Kind of liking how it looked anyway when I was able to get over that and see that it did make my chest smaller.

Still fantasizing of being turned into a man and choosing to stay that way.

Going by he/him pronouns on here.

Changing my pronouns on Facebook to see it say "changed HIS profile picture" and seeing that I was listed as "brother" and "son" on my siblings and parents pages. (Changed it back out of fear of getting caught).

Changing my gender on Facebook to Male even though it's hidden.

Picturing myself in the future presenting as male with short hair, a beard, and having gotten top surgery.

I want to be a man.

AND YET I am still struggling with believing I am actually trans or that I should move forward with transitioning. There is so much that goes into this. Internalized transphobia. Inability to let go of my religion even if I don't necessarily believe because it's what I have known my whole life and all my friends are there. Religious trauma and being told that my being a woman is eternal and divine. Fear of disappointing my family and friends or confusing them/ruining our relationships. Messing with the status quo at almost 28 years old. Not being taken seriously. I probably should see a gender therapist.

I just really needed to get that all out. If anyone has any advice or ideas or maybe even just validation, I would really appreciate it.