#Helpful Information

[imkeepinit]

[kyra45]

How to ask for donations safely

A simple guide to asking for support by someone who busts scam accounts on a daily basis. Feel free to share with your own tips!

- Don’t mass send asks to share your pinned aid post. If you want to send asks, keep in mind not all users are comfortable getting them. This can get you banned by accident if you spam them multiple times. Read the bio of the blogs or their own pinned post to see if they are alright with it.

- Don’t mass send DMs asking people to share your pinned aid post. This is the fastest way to get ‘shadowbanned’ which is when you can’t be found by anyone and you are hidden in the notes. This happens when you spam multiple users too much. I think contacting staff should get this fixed. Don’t multi-account to get around this and just spam again.

- If your needed amount is over $1k, it’s suggested to set up a gofundme if your able to. Not everyone on tumblr has that amount accessible and it’s not going to be quick that you reach the goal. There are other places that can help you if it’s necessary.

- Keep your askbox/messages open so if people ask questions you can answer them. It’s preferred you address any concerns publicly as in private no one else would see it. Be willing to provide anything asked for by redacting person information but leaving anything relevant.

- Do not steal someone else’s photographs. Do not steal someone else’s fundraiser. Don’t use stock photos. Use only the information that belongs to you. And don’t pretend to be someone else.

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[fairygodcomplex]

Hey y’all psa, if you drive a Hyundai or Kia…. Bear with me y’all I know most of us are gay and don’t drive… but for those of us that are gay and DO drive, if you drive a Hyundai or Kia, certain of those models didn’t originally have anti theft devices and there are recalls about this after learning how easy it is for these models to be STOLEN. So I recommend checking out this website for more information. Because these companies will fix that security risk for free.

Also even if your car does have an antitheft device, maybe invest in a wheel lock or some visual deterrent. I uhhh say this because today…

[dragon-queen21]

do u know if there's a tag on ao3 for older regression fics? im like 9-10 and wanna read smth but almost all the agere stiff is baby :( im not in da mood for todler i want big kid rn

Hmmm you could try the tag “middle space” or “middle regression” I believe that would work on ao3. (On the other hand you can use the tags baby space for younger regression fics.) Agere fics are so hard to search for and ao3’s tagging system for age regression is janky to begin with so I wish you the best in finding good fics <3

[toni-onone]

Love Prevails: Saving Your Marriage Against the Odds

Are you listening? No, well that’s a problem.

Everyone is in it when it comes to the wedding day, for the bragging rights, glitz and glamour no problem whatsoever but when some of the worst comes you only hear crickets. You know the for better or worse. Are we truly listening to whose supposed to be the love of your life? Or are you too busy, not interested or don’t really care? 😒😲

In the intricate dance of a marriage, communication is the thread that weaves together the delicate bonds between two individuals. However, the profound impact of not being heard in this sacred partnership cannot be understated. When one's thoughts, desires, and concerns are consistently dismissed or ignored, the foundation of trust begins to erode. The feeling of not being heard engenders feelings of isolation, frustration, and resentment, creating a chasm that grows between spouses. 🧐

Okay so it’s a problem, that can be fixed ; how?🤔

The absence of effective communication breeds a sense of isolation, as thoughts and feelings remain unexpressed, thereby squandering the opportunity for growth and understanding. However, fixing this impact requires a concerted effort from both partners. It necessitates a willingness to foster an environment of active listening, empathy, and open dialogue. By acknowledging and validating each other's perspectives, couples can rebuild the broken lines of communication, rekindling trust and fostering a deeper connection. This process involves cultivating patience, vulnerability, and a commitment to change, allowing both partners to feel seen, heard, and ultimately, valued within the sacred union of marriage.

Save marriage, it’s already a war against the concept of it. Marriage is truly valuable. In these moments of vulnerability, we discover the immense power of love in healing wounds, reigniting passion, and restoring our happiness. Our ability to communicate honestly and compassionately is the lifeline of marriage.💍🤵🏾‍♂️👰🏽‍♀️💒

#loveprevails #savingmarriage #togetherwecan

[prismatica-the-strange]

Hello! I saw a tag on one of your reblogs that said "propaganda to convince egg to get a rat". If someone wants rats, they need to get at least two, as rats are pack animals and will get depressed if left alone. Just wanting to educate, not trying to nitpick or anything, I just really love rats, haha. Hope you're having a good day/night!

Oh! Thank you nonnie! This is great information to know!

I'll just do a little taggy for @daincrediblegg cause we were talking about this last night!

[guardianofbelief]

It's Story Time with guardian!!

I'm a chronically ill baby. I was two month preemie who had to be on morphine because I kept taking out my intubation tube and this was before I was a week old.

Illness tend to hit me pretty hard when they hit. I get bronchitis every single year and it always knocks me on my ass.

This one year I had not eaten in 4 days. My mom was so terrified she was about to take my butt to the hospital. Anything I tried to eat came back up I didn't want anything I wasn't hungry I just wanted to lay down and die.

Just one afternoon one of my non-biological uncles had my sister and my mom over his house. I went along because they couldn't leave me at home by myself to die, and my uncle Ron made me this broth.

Just added some hot water, and gave me a cup.

When I tell you I demolished this thing like a Roman City. I drank every bit of that cup and then he made me another one. This happened about three times in total. I had not wanted to look at or touch food for 4 days and the moment this man slipped this broth in front of my face it was like manna From heaven.

We ended up going home with the rest of his jar. Mom could not have been more thrilled, Charmaine was just glad I was eating. And I just demolished the soup.

Now 10 years later I always have a can of it in my house. I keep it by the kettle in my bedroom. So when there are those days where I cannot move, when the chronic illness and the chronic pain have won. I still have soup.

My diabetic fiance seems to tolerate it well, especially after dialysis days. It's not super magical or anything like that but for some reason it freaking works.

I also stand by the toast if you can. Maybe soak a bit of bread in the corner of the broth.

As those above have said there is only one you please do not take yourself away from us.

[dragon-queen21]

Hello! I just replied to you on your post about how many stuffies you had or something. I wanted to let you know that a lot of my stuffies came from eBay and Amazon. So if you get any there make sure to wash them. NEVER DRY THEM!!!

ALWAYS AIR DRY!!!

I know you didn’t ask but I felt the need to share it. A lot of people don’t know this and a lot of people end up ruining their plushies(not on purpose) by drying them in a dryer. It melts their fur and it’s extremely hard to undo if that’s even possible.

I always wash mine on a low setting with cold water. I add a bit of fabric softener to mine. And then I take them out and brush them. And then I set them outside on a towel and check on them a lot. I hope you find this helpful even if you didn’t ask. I hope you get to your goal of collecting a lot of stuffies! ❤️ if you do have any questions send a message. I think mine are open to everyone I’ll have to double check! Much love!

~kittykatsuki420

Thank you so much! <3 This was very helpful! I actually didn’t know that could happen if you put them in the dryer. Glad I never did that on accident, I would be so upset.

The few times I have washed my stuffies they have always been hung out to dry mostly cause we don’t use our dryer a lot, but I will definitely keep this in mind for next time.

[sparklebyte]

“here’s what we know about the uhc shooter”

WRONG! He is a suspect and we should treat him as such. He should be treated as innocent until proven guilty, not guilty until proven innocent. He’s a person of interest not the killer. I don’t care what the media or authorities are saying, he’s a human being who deserves a fair trial and deserves to be treated as innocent until proven otherwise.

[toni-onone]

Toni On One Podcast Episode Daily Health: The Mourning Process and its importance-News Report: Texas Bill on The Ten Commandments in public schools-Hot Topic:Exploring the Concept of Having Multiple Partners: Benefits and Disadvantages

Daily Health The Process of Mourning: Understanding Its Importance Loss is an inevitable part of life. Whether it’s the death of a loved one, the end of a significant relationship, or even a major life change, mourning is a natural human response to loss. But what is mourning, and why is it so crucial to our emotional well-being? In this blog, we will explore the mourning process, the emotions…

[benjaminallhope-fulltimemind]

just a handy little info chart on the spectrums of sexuality.

/Edit: I forgot to give credit this is a screenshot from a video made by a content creator called Lily Orchard you should check her channel out it's amazing

[letsbringitbackshallwe]

Introductions:

Greetings.

You may come to know me as;

'The woman in the Yellow dress',

Or; V.

I am a woman in my thirties and I believe that I have some tips and advice that may be of help to at least some of you out there; I am very much hoping this will be so.

•I love to write.

•I can be rather inventive.

•I want to help others if I can.

Follow Along if you're interested in knowing more and possibly learning something new, or remembering something that you possibly forgot.

Thank you for your time.

Hopefully I can make this worth it.

Keep Your Chin Up.

& Walk Tall My Friends.

All The Best.

-The Woman in the Yellow Dress.

[arivinah]

I could do small talk, but always felt reparative or formulaic. @writer-ace Thank you for explaining why it's important and including some unwritten ules of small talk!

I'm trying to figure out a good way to say "you really should actually learn the basics of small talk" with sounding like I'm biased against autistic people.

[lemonbombsfjl]

“Hold my beer” is decidedly not the same energy as “Hold my earrings.”