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chaotic-archaeologist · 9 months
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My boyfriend is a jewish trans archeology student trying to get back into school after having to drop out during covid, do you have any words of advice or encouragement?
Wow, this feels a lot like being asked to give advice to my past self... if I could go back in time and say something to 2018 Reid (who was going back to school under similar circumstances, although my break from school was not pandemic induced), it would be something like this:
Ultimately, this is an exercise in trusting yourself. Initially, this may be hard to do, and that's understandable—your world has been turned upside down and school did not go how you expected it to. Forgive yourself for this. But with every class you attend, every paper you write, and every test you study for, keep in mind that you are building trust in yourself that you can do this.
Notice that I didn't tie any of those activities (going to class, writing, studying) to the grades you may be given. Yes, you need good grades to pass, but they're also not the best or only metric of your success. You may have hard months or semesters where your grades take a dip, and that's fine. What matters most is how you recover from these moments. Nobody is going to care about your GPA when you get into the real world, and grad schools care more about how you do overall than whether you managed to get a 4.0 every semester.
You're also a different person this time around. You know yourself better. You are more mature. You have survived hard things. Use that to your advantage! Nobody whose opinion is worth a damn is going to think less of you for coming back to take a second crack at this.
Take some deep breathes. Make yourself a plan. Use all of the resources at your disposal to help you succeed. Our society has instilled in us a belief that college is supposed to take four years, and that's just not true. It takes as long as it takes. Make the best out of this experience now that you're here.
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-Reid
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antennatoheaven · 17 days
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mynnthia · 4 months
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was talking with a friend about how some of dunmeshi fаndom misunderstands kabru's initial feelings towards laios.
to sum up kabru's situation via a self-contained modernized metaphor:
kabru is like a guy who lost his entire family in a highly traumatic car accident. years later he joins a discord server and takes note of laios, another server member who seems interesting, so they start chatting. then laios reveals his special interest and favorite movie of all time is David Cronenberg's Crash (1996), and invites kabru to go watch a demolition derby with him
#dungeon meshi#delicious in dungeon#kabru#kabru already added laios as a discord friend. everyone else in the server can see laios excitedly asking kabru to go with him#what would You even Do in this situation. how would YOU feel?#basically: kabru isnt a laios-hater! hes just in shock bc Thats His Trauma. the key part is kabru still says yes#bc he wants to get to know laios. to understand why laios would be so fascinated by something horrific to him#and ALSO bc even while in shock kabru can still tell laios has unique expertise + knowledge that Could be used for Good#even if kabru doesnt fully trust laios yet (bc kabru just started talking to the guy 2 hours ago. they barely know each other)#kabru also understands that getting to know ppl (esp laios) means having to get to know their passions. even if it triggers his trauma here#but thats too much to fit in this metaphor/analogy. this is NOT an AU! its not supposed to cover everything abt kabru or laios' character!#its a self-contained metaphor written Specifically to be more easily relatable+thus easy to understand for general ppl online#(ie. assumed discord users. hence why i said (a non-specific) 'discord server' and not something specific like 'car repair subreddit')#its for ppl who mightve not fully grasped kabru's character+intentions and think hes being mean/'chaotic'/murderous.#to place ppl in kabru's shoes in an emotionally similar situation thats more possible/grounded in irl experiences and contexts.#and also for the movie punchline#mynn.txt#dm text#crossposting my tweets onto here since my friends suggested so
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verflares · 5 months
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just how long is forever? // not long enough, with you
pssst. check this out on inprnt :]
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spinejackel · 1 year
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What are dead man walking tornadoes? :O
it’s a multi-vortex tornado. i dont remember the tribe it originates from (i think it was cherokee), but there’s a native american legend…? saying? that goes “if you see a man in a tornado, you are about to die.”
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the most infamous shot of a dead man walking tornado hit jarrell, texas in 1997
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it did so much damage to the town it caused the scale that tornados are measured by, the fijita scale, undergo revisions, and it made anchoring buildings in the tornado alley region pretty much mandatory. (it took the entire town off the map. only those who had taken shelter outside of the town or in underground bunkers survived.)
two more examples of dead man walking tornadoes looking like a person are a tornado from 2011 that hit cullman, alabama
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and a tornado from 1975 that hit xenia, ohio
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edit: it has been brought to my attention that the native american “legend” part of this post was a rumor spread by a documentary.
i have been asked to remove it, but i believe in letting my errors stand because i’m not perfect. i make mistakes
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tr-shb-g · 3 months
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how does Pinterest see you?
search up fashion, pantone, mood, food, and then save the first picture that comes up!
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ravenlilyrose · 16 days
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Bruce is at a gala, okay, and he’s talking to a woman.
Random woman: “And we found out that we’re having another child!”
Bruce: *absolutely cackling inside, because this is about to be the funniest thing he’s done in weeks*
Brucie: “That’s wonderful! Where are they? Can I meet them? How old are they?”
Now Brucie is standing there, scanning the room for children with a huge grin on his face, while all of the random rich people stand around like ‘who’s going to explain to the adorable, well-meaning idiot that most people know they’re going to have children a few months before the children are born.’
And worse, who’s going to have to break the news to him that he can’t meet the kid today?
Because this man… this man has acquired all of his children with zero premeditation. Yes, he does have a bio kid, but that one showed up on his doorstep as a preteen. He did even less acquiring with that one than with the others.
Bruce has a blast acting out his disappointment, and has to turn some so that he can no longer see Tim and Cass leaning against each other and laughing, because otherwise he’s going to start laughing.
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saphushia · 24 days
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btw. i made this quick guide of some of the natural size and proportion reference points in the human body. of course this all varies even irl, and you can stylize however you want, so ymmv but thought it might be helpful for some folks.
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freeshephoun · 3 months
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i just need everyone to know that ive created something beautiful
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he is only 1 slab tall
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brainrotcharacters · 1 month
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the easy grip on the knife. the leg over the seat. the hand over the other seat. the sassy "come get it" move. you know the bitch is smiling behind that mask even as he said the line.
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rust-berrie · 8 months
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i swear there was a image similar to this but i can't find it :( anyways this is what it feels like when you try to court shane
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egophiliac · 20 days
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(looks at upcoming card releases)
I'm in danger :)
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void-dude · 1 month
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Oh yeah his brain finally kick started processing his emotions! Against his will!!!
Bill at therapy part 1 | Part 2 | Part 3 | Part 4
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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 4 months
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Soup solves everything.
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Listen, you should never film strangers in public without their consent, but I swear there need to be fines or something for people who do that shit in some spaces. For example: I had to go to the ER last night, and some jerk filmed a woman who just came in and was clearly having an asthma attack. She immediately got to go back, and he was unhappy about that. Believe me, I get that it sucks having to wait when you're in pain, but you don't get to pick who deserves care when. The medical system in the US is a nightmare, and the ER could be the worst moment of someone's life. No one deserves to be recorded because some jack ass believes someone doesn't look like they need care.
This is fine to reblog. People who film strangers should be shamed if nothing else.
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lesbiandardevil · 4 months
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DONATION COMMISSIONS ↓ 🇵🇸
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this is a verified and vetted fundraiser sponsored by gazafunds (twitter) + i spoke to feras myself
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i will literally draw you any character of your choosing if you donate either 5$ or 10$ or more to his fundraiser (just dm me the receipt!) and if you can't donate please share 🙏
currently at 15,347/19,999$
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