An asexual conversation ✨be like✨
movie night
cuddle
pillow fight & jumping around on the bed
read to each other
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In honour of Asexual Awareness Week, I drew my favourite asexual characters, canon or headcanon 🖤🤍💜♠️.
And to my fellow acespec folks, all the love and garlic bread 🍞 for you 🖤🤍💜. Stay safe, proud and awesome 💫
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Friendly reminder to all my fellow asexuals:
You are, and definitely can be loved, just because you are asexual doesn’t mean you won’t find a partner.
I’ve had many people tell me that I won’t be able to find love because of being ace, I can tell you with 100% certainty that even though people say you won’t, doesn’t mean it’s true.
I’m saying this for everyone who needs to hear it. Being asexual does not limit your romantic love life, if people won’t date you because you’re asexual then they obviously aren’t that great of a partner anyway (after all, relationships aren’t primarily about sexual attraction,)
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Intimacy is not about sex. It's having heart-to-hearts, staying up all night talking, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams & hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching - it's exchanging energy
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My Ineffable Bureaucracy fics will always be G rated (bar violence of some kind) because they are celestial beings who do not know or care what sex is. All they know is Love! :)
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Credit to wholesome_brownie thanks for the great meme ・:*+.\(( °ω° ))/.:+
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looking back to it my asexual awakening was in middle school even though I didn't have a name for it back then. when I was about 13 I heard some people in my class talking about a couple (that may have been real or fictional, I have no idea) and they said that these two people got married but they had separate beds and even separate bedrooms. and I was so SO incredibly excited to hear that. I was all like, "wait, you can do that?? that's amazing! I knew that would be a thing, because that makes a marriage so much better, doesn't it? I don't know why most people don't do that! It's stupid that they have to share a room for no reason!" and my friends said "no, that's weird. and it means that your relationship is not working out." so I argued my little butt off trying to defend how real that couple's love is because it has nothing to do with sleeping together and just because they don't doesn't mean that they don't want to be by each other's side forever. because in my mind maybe they just don't like sleeping next to other people. maybe they get too hot at night. maybe they move a lot in their sleep or snore or one of them likes getting up early while the other sleeps in. and by that age I did know what sex was, I just figured it was something some people did, not everyone. so it was stupid that all married people had one bedroom. that made a lot of sense in my head, but my friends looked at me like I'm crazy. then I went home to tell my mom the exact things to which she just laughed and told me I would get it when I get older. well I'm 19 now and I would still love to marry someone I love and have separate bedrooms so, guess that didn't work out the way you thought mom
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Ace but I love you
I don’t have to want you that way
On order to want you to stay
You don’t have to do that for me
I would do it for you if you ask nicely
I love you, I love you, I love you and I always will
And I hope after this you love me still
Because I love it when we kiss and hold hands and cuddle together
I could do it forever
And I know that just cause I feel different but okay
Doesn’t mean that I can’t enjoy it in my own
way
And you are my favorite person that’s never gonna change
I understand if this is strange
But I’m willing to be patient with you if you are willing to try
To understand why
Why I love you so much
But don’t crave that kind of touch
But you can touch me cause your special
You are like a diamond to me; a precious metal
And I want to spend my days trying to put a smile on your face
I just wanted to tell you that I’m ace
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asexual romantic love is valid. there are asexual romantic people like me.
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