#asexual thoughts

[sunny-rants]

aphobia is not just harmful to asexual and aromantic people. it hurts everyone when society tells people they are not complete without a romantic partner. that they are aren’t a whole person if they aren’t in love and sexually desirable. people spend some of the most fulfilling parts of their lives feeling like they’re wasting that time because they aren’t in a relationship. they spend so much time looking for “the one”. time that could be spent learning, travelling, building a found family. they miss out on meaningful relationships, on soulmates, because they are told that person can’t be the most important person in their life. it devalues the support that’s found in community, it devalues the love found in friendships, it devalues the importance for living for oneself.

[miss-americanbi]

Token Straight Friend™️ strikes again

[asexuwales]

I remember from before i realised i was asexual and me and some lads were talking about relationships and people cheating and the horrors and i piped up:

"if i had a partner i really wouldnt care at all if they slept with someone else, i dont want to have sex but they might so its easier for them to just fuck someone"

EVERYONES faces dropped in horror,,, thats when i started feeling like there was something wrong with me.

Looking back at it i realise, most asexuals dont see sex as a form of dovotion or an act of love, so to me I interpreted it as the equivalent of "oh they can go tenpin bowling with their mates, i dont care i dont like bowling so it wouldnt be very fun with me but i hope they have fun"

I keep forgetting and seriously sex is taken and given in a allo relationship.

[aceteabag]

An asexual conversation ✨be like✨

movie night

cuddle

pillow fight & jumping around on the bed

read to each other

[jadeleechsupportgroup]

realized i feel the same way about attraction as I do about alcohol. people will go on about how this thing is better than that thing and they like A but not B. whereas to me it's all like drinking nail polish remover.

[merely-a-caricature]

Yes, I’m asexual, but feeling sexy, attractive, etc. is the biggest confidence boost ever

[fancychaostraveller]

I need to vent about the new X-Men97 show and about me being aro, so spoiler alert my darlings /!\

(And any bigot can joyfully go f*ck themselves thank you very much)

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I viscerally need Rogue and Gambit to be the endgame, and if they aren't, it will crush me and do irredeemable damage to my mental health.

First and foremost because Rogueneto is not a thing in my head, since Cherik exists

But also, and more importantly, because Rogue and Gambit are inspiring together to me. They were the proof that physical touches isn't everything in a relationship (still are in some part of the episodes). This is so important to me, as an asexual folk. Like.... They mean the world to each other. Rogue is Remy's Queen of Heart and he is her Swamp Rat, they were there for each other when it matter, every single time through the og X-Men serie, and they bloody need to stay that way. Because at the end of the world they were the first they needed to check on. Because Rogue will always save Gambit first and he will always save her first.

And I know that Rogue's struggle with the fact that she can not touch anybody is a big part of her character development, and that she has every right to feel frustrated towards that, but I need them to endgame.

Because I need the reassurance that sex is not all that matter in a relationship (since they still hugs, comfort each other, love each other without it) and I need the reassurance as an ace person that not any potential lover would go around behind my back because of the lack of sex in a relationship.

Because my heart breaks everytime I see Gambit imagining Rogue and Magneto together, because I felt that in real life; because my sanity needs it, please let Rogueneto dies in a car crash and give me Rogue and Gambit together. ( I mean this. Someone crush rogueneto to the ground -without hurting any of them-)

That's it for now!

[arguablysomaya]

for the girlies that don't know wtf is goin on

[everyone-is-emptyy]

[ineffabeatlemindpalace]

Realising that allos were serious all along about being attracted to each other in sexual ways and all. Doesn’t stop being strange. Cannot wrap my head around. Wild to me.

[counting-stars-gayly]

Is it possible to be so physically attracted someone that they give you an asexual awakening? Like hey you’re hot... *squints* why don't I want to fuck you?

[asexuwales]

my friend is going through a breakup at the moment and she keeps posting things like this. But this is the one that really hit me. People, even my best friend, always put relationships first.

Relationships will always mean more to someone than your friendship, being in second place for EVERYONE through my entire life until death is really terrifying.

[aceteabag]

kinda a perfect date. shit chatting and tattooing.

[jadeleechsupportgroup]

aromantic and asexual do not mean "blank slate for the orientation i would rather you have"

[merely-a-caricature]

Share a meme!

[mariposainthemoonlight]

As an apothisexual all I want to see on my tumblr feed is cute pictures of different aesthetics, incorrect quotes with my fav characters/shows, cute/interesting short/mini fics about characters I like/ship, lgbt pride posts, animals, art and anything to do with music.

To the people that make these posts, please make more ily.