#bambi aroace

[ryanyflags]

Mega post of new bambi flags :) These are all made to be in the same style as my other bambi flags.

(Also, if anyone coins any alternative names for these terms, then these flags can be used for those too.)

In the order they're shown, the flags are: bambi achillean | (2nd ver) bambi sapphic | (2nd ver) bambi sapphillean | (2nd ver) bambi diamoric | bambi owtic/enbian bambi gaybian bambi gai | bambi strayt bambi uranic | bambi neptunic bambi cetero bambi a-spec | (2nd ver) bambi ace | bambi ace-spec bambi aro | bambi aro-spec bambi aroace | bambi aroace-spec bambi quoisexual | bambi quoiromantic bambi pomo | (2nd ver) bambi t4t

The designs follow a similar pattern as my other bambi flags. The top 4 stripes are for deer (and other animals), with the bottom 3 stripes for the respective orientations. (The white stripe also includes trans/nb people.)

The colors are based off of the original flags, but aren’t exactly the same. Since a lot of flags here have more than 3 colors/stripes, I focused on trying to simplify them down to their main colors (and combining some colors). There’s also rearranging of color orders, and changing the colors to be warmer / more pastel (to fit with the style I have for these flags). Plus, though this doesn’t contribute much to any meaning and is just aesthetics, each flag has slightly different brown stripes to fit with the bottom colors better.

More specifically, the bambi achillean, sapphic, ace-spec, aro-spec, and aroace-spec center stripes have been changed to use the white colors from their original flags, instead of the bambi white color. Since those flags didn’t just use plain white, and I think they contribute to the overall look / recognizability of those flags.

There’s also the bambi achillean, sapphic, and sapphillean flags. They have a symbol version and a plain stripe version. For the first 2 specifically, the plain stripe versions are slightly different, they include a color from the symbols (achillean with a green stripe and sapphic with a magenta stripe), to help make them more unique/recognizable. The symbol versions are just variations of the main blue and pink colors (3 stripes since I want them to match, the extra shades don’t have any special meanings). (sapphillean symbol made by @isobug here.)

The star symbols on a-spec and pomo are just made by me. I would love to add more symbols for other flags, especially since with the round outlines they look like stickers (love them so much!), but there weren’t any svgs I could find of them.

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Wow super long post haha. (But I guess that’s just what I do)

I wanted to explain my thought process behind the flags though, since when I work with other’s flags sometimes, the lack of meaning can be a bit confusing. I like explaining it so if anyone else wants to make something based on my flags, they know what to do.

[deltarune-au-domain]

It's pride month, you know what that means. It's time for my yearly Polycool art! With Temmie, Jockington, and Annoying dog as guests. See if you can spot everyone's matching accessories!

[beetlemug]

HAPPY PRIDE 2023!!

[knifegrrrl1312]

so i feel like how aspec sexuality connecting to abandonment trauma and personality disorders is not talked ab enough, well it is by ppl with personality disorders but i wanna talk ab it basically w my experience w bpd and being aro/ace spectrum

and i know fellow bpd havers know the feeling of being unlovable very well. For me i'm demiromantic and it would take literal years for me to actually develop a genuine romantic attraction to someone, and if when i do, that person would straight up become my fp and it would be torture pain and suffering (for me mostly)

Like romantic feelings for me is nothing fun, because its linked to my mental issues inherently i feel. And i still want a romantic relationship one day but that feeling of being unlovable and like, i'm just not suited for it (in the sense that i couldnt handle it i feel) is like,, i will just not try there is no point. I will suffer for another person always wondering do they hate me will they leave me, ofc they will there's not much i can offer even. I will end up hating the person i love and then go back to loving them and then hating them etc etc.. Not to mention amanormativity (idkkk if thats how u spell it or if thats the right term) but basically i assume people want something from me that i simply cannot give. I will never be able to have sex with someone, i will never want to, I actually just wouldn't put myself thru that for someone else and because i feel like thats all anyone would actually want from me i will just probably never want to be in a relationship. Like for me personally i'm supperrr asexual like u have no idea i've known i was ace since i was literally 10 yrs old and nothing has changed i will always be like this, and i dont mind doing *some* suggestive sexual stuff if its fun and chill but the second a line gets crossed i just want no part in it and i refuse to put myself thru that.

And i'm also very fine w being single like i only ever feel like i want a gf once in awhile but i feel completely whole just by myself and my life is objectively easier and more relaxing without romance. For me i don't think i'll actually be ready for a genuine romantic relationship until i feel like i am and that will be hopefully when i'm older lol

Idk i feel like because of the stigma against aro/ace ppl and also the experience of bpd, it enhances the feeling of being unlovable. But I want to make it clear to ppl reading this post that i'm aware that i actually am lovable, this is just a feeling. And i didn't write this to complain, and if you have the same experience as me or a similar one, that doesn't mean there is no hope for you or for me. The world is so much bigger than how my brain perceives everything. Like i do want to stress that these feelings are mostly a symptom of my mental illness lol and if you have bpd or a pd it doesn't make you unlovable, bc everyone is lovable by default yknow.

Even people who's hearts are a mouthful, like mine. And even if ur reading this and you don't have the experience of having a pd but you still have feelings of being unlovable or like, there is no hope for you in romance because you are arospec or acespec or both like me, well there is hope for everyone because the world is so much bigger than societies stigma and people are as diverse as the stars.. But lmk if you have a similar experience anywayz ppl <3

[theasexual-jackson]

Nobody talks about how agwxiydkdjrzkftzjcxkycjtzjxtitxitxkdt??????? being an aroace lesbian can be and I ain't down for that.

[girlflux-sapphic]

Hdhdjdjdjjs I can't, my girlfriend is just so cute, I want to eat cookies and cuddle with her rn so muuuuuuuch

No, nothing happened, this is my daily fangirling over her

[b0yfraudz]

My Flags

Lesbian

Greyromantic

Demisexual

Non-binary

[sillylittlegaymer]

Weird ass creatures in magma

[emikashiraki]

my melody ^_^

hiii !

i’m mikah shiraki or you can also call me miki motorlight, rocket, stargazer, vine ,, uhh i like to do stuff . i’m genderfluid , transmasc and aro/ace . i like playing video games . i go by any pronouns but i prefeer they/them !!! i’m also filipino and i speak mainly tagalog and english .thank you ( ◠‿◠ ) i am a mikah flicker fictionkin, and rocket fictionkin, and i project myself onto those characters

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main interest as of 01/02/24 : REGRETEVATOR+PHIGHTING

interact if you like ;

regretevator, phighting , omori , sanrio , paswg ( pantyandstockingwithgarterbelt ), needystreameroverload , schoollive! ( gakkougurashi ) , fnaf ( fivenightsatfreddys ), pucca , classof09 , vocaloid , art / drawing / sketching / music ( any type of art ) , VKEI ENJOYERS OMG PLEASE INTERACT PLEA ESPECIALLY MALICE MIZER AND VERSAILLES FANS !!! , roblox players , stardew valley players , this falls into the fnaf thing but FUNTIME FREDDY LIKERS. INTERACT PLEASE , dave and bambi enjoyers Especially bandu enjoyers. Hi !!! , house (THE GAME) likers .

..and more i’ll probably list later

dni if you ;

basic dni list . can’t list allat . darkshippers (idgaf ab you guys just please don’t interact with me . thank you) , anti self shipping , RAREPAIR ANTIS DON’T STEP A FOOT ON MY PAGE , overly-sensitive people (if you get offended by this this is for you . i guess? um i don’t know . some of my posts may or may not include sensitive content and sometimes i take on controversial things), transmeds . (gtfo) , neopronoun and xenogender antis , people who think gacha is weird (actually go away pleasw)

i MIGHR not be active on here but tou can find me on my tiktok too . my main interest is phighting but i barely post on tumblr anyway so . kudos ! (๑˃̵ᴗ˂̵)

[theaceandaroadvocacyproject]

International Lesbian Day was a couple of weekends ago, and we posted a part 2 our our Aspec Lesbian Voices onto our website! Above are some highlighted quotes from the article, and you can read the full thing here: https://taaap.org/2022/10/08/lesbian-aspecs-part-ii/

Thanks to our contributors, including @pailettehazel, @forgotten-hiacinthe, and @yallwildinrn

[ID: Aspec Lesbians - Part II. “I define lesbian as a queer attraction to women as well as a gender for some people. I have a queer attraction to women and a tie to the term lesbian and the history of lesbians.” - Fitz. “In some lesbian spaces, I can feel out of place as someone who is also aspec, especially when being sapphic is conflated with allonormativity.” - Mariah. “[A]s an alloaro lesbian myself, it’s hard to relate [to alloro lesbians]. I don’t want a sickly sweet love story. I want a good friend who wants to be sexually intimate.” - Phoenix. Pictured is a brown skinned person holding the 7 stripe orange and pink lesbian flag. 

“I'm proud of being a lesbian and also being aspec, despite the difficulties, because it lets me feel this wonderful kind of queer attraction.” - A. “It can feel a bit isolating to be an oriented aroace and sometimes it feels like I’m completely alone even though I know that there are more people like me out there.” - Bee.” There are a lot of us! [...] I have encountered so many other aspec lesbians in the general aspec and lesbian communities.” - Haf. Pictured is the oriented aroace flag with the 4 stripe purple, pink, yellow, and green lesbian flag overlaid. End ID.]

[skulleroskeleton]

Yeah

[mimicori]

watched barbie today and all im gonna say is that aroace barbie means everything to me, even if my friends rlly wanted lesbian barbie

[doodlingpuppy]

my “i’m a bit late to pride month, aren’t I?” face

[bambiraptorx]

I've been looking over some of my rise ocs because imma need some of them in the next MI chapter and there's this really funny trend I've noticed

most of them are hundreds of years old (because yokai) and yet the vast majority of them are single with minimal dating experience. none of them are married. none of them even have romantic relationships like. at all. i unintentionally hit them all with the aspec beam

[theasexual-jackson]

I just wish I could go into the lesbian tag w/o getting bombarded with softcore porn

[cadcreates]

Happy Pride, folks!!

I have... nothing to show for pride. Yet. I'm a busy bee, but I'm sure I can squeeze in some pride art!

Anyway, have a different kind of pride contribution:

My friend @cronssic and I chatted a little about our orientations and stuff and I told them about bambi lesbians (which yes, I learned about from Tumblr)

Long story short, we decided to come up with an aroace equivalent because as far as we know there isn't one and it really should be.

So, aroace folks, what do you think about sparrow ace?

I got one approval already, but we need more opinions! Let me know!