[ID: Digital art of Gwen Bouchard and Mr Bonzo from The Magnus Protocol. Gwen is a slender Black woman with chin length textured hair worn half-up, half-down. She wears a collared shirt under a jumper with the sleeves rolled up, a leather messenger bag over her shoulder. She holds out an unmarked envelope to Mr Bonzo with a look of abject terror on her face. Mr Bonzo is a very tall decaying mascot creature, mostly a dirty yellow with large purplish pustules across his body. His nose has rotted away to reveal a dripping nasal cavity underneath, his eyes are bloodshot and lidless with eerie glowing red pupils, and his smile is wet with black, ichorous drool. There is a bright yellow light illuminating him from behind, but hardly any of it reaches Gwen in his shadow. Superimposed over the image and scrawled on the wall behind them are the words “Mr Bonzo’s on his way/He’s here to stay, he wants to play” repeatedly. End ID.]
i was already working on this before this week’s eppy sode but afterwards i found i had contracted the bonzbonic plague and here we are
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this disability pride month, include anosmics and ageusics.
this disability pride month, stop using the s slur, saying "delulu" "delusional" "deluled" ect when you disagree with someone, stop using "sch*zoposting" and just overall treat schizospecs better.
this disability pride month, stop saying "psychopath" "sociopath" and "narcissistic".
this disability pride month, be kinder to people who hallucinate and experience delusions.
this disability pride month, stop stupidifying those who have trouble with "basic skills", people with learning disabilities, ect.
this disability pride month, stop villanising cluster b's.
this disability pride month, stop saying youre such a "pyromaniac" for lighting something on fire or saying youre "a kelpto" because you stole something.
this disability pride month, stop fakeclaiming did/osdd systems.
this disability pride month, stop saying "im so ocd" after cleaning something up.
this disability pride month, stop being rude and impatient with people with intellectual disabilities.
this disability pride month, stop infantilising non verbal people.
this disability pride month, stop treating autism and adhd as the cutesy disorders.
this disability pride month, stop excusing yourself by lying that youhave adhd when youdont. people need those recourses, youdo not get to take them away.
this disability pride month, normalise people with little to no empathy.
this disability pride month, stop using "attention seekers" (especially on your fellow hpds and npds).
this disability pride month, stop reality checking those who dont consent to it.
this disability pride month, stop bullying those who "smell bad" or "look weird" or whatever. (you never know what someones going through)
this disability pride month, stop giving weird looks to those who have bald spots, or cant stop picking their nose, or cracking their knuckles or whatever. (this is mainly focused on bfrbs)
this disability pride month, stop saying "everyone has anxiety" to those with anxiety/panic disorders.
this disability pride month, be normal about zoocanthropes/lycanthropes.
this disability pride month, treat those with personality disorders like youwould any other person.
this disability pride month, just stop bullying little people. just acknowledge people with dwarfism.
this disability pride month, dont stare at that mobility aid user so much. eyes off of them, they dont need to be in the spotlight for a physical disability. (unless they want to xoD /silly)
this disability pride month, stop judging those with facial/body deformities
this disability pride month, be normal about those with physical disabilities, and stop silently judging them.
this disability pride month, stop saying "pride month 2" or "wrath month". we dont even acknowledge disability pride month at all.
this disability pride month, stop differentiating "queer pride month" and "disability pride month" as "pride month" and "disability pride month". they are both pride months so call them by their full names.
this disability pride month, acknowledge not all disabilities are visible.
this disability pride month, give up your seat to someone who needs it.
this disability pride month, actually treat disabled people with rights and respect.
disabled people are people to. you failing to acknowledge that is your abelism. treat us like youd treat any other normal human being. and maybe, just maybe, after this disability pride month, youcan start treating disabled folks like living beings of society and not like your little pity pets/scary monsters/silly cutesy babies.
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Here’s some positivity for systems with body focused repetitive behaviors!
Body focused repetitive behaviors (BFRBs) such as skin picking, hair pulling, and nail biting can make life difficult for many systems. It can be a struggle learning to live and cope with behaviors that are challenging to control which ultimately cause harm to the system’s body! We hope that every system with BFRBs can find hope, peace, and recovery in their futures. And this post is for you!
🌟 Shoutout to traumagenic systems whose BFRBs are rooted in the trauma which causes their system to develop!
🌿 Shoutout to systems who are getting help with their BFRBs, whether it be from a therapist, support network, or something else!
💠 Shoutout to systems who have formed alters or headmates whose role is to help manage their BFRBs!
☘️ Shoutout to systems who use stim toys to redirect their BFRBs in positive or healthy ways!
✨ Shoutout to systems who try to educate others and spread awareness about BFRBs!
🌱 Shoutout to systems whose BFRBs are caused by neurodiversity, be it OCD, ADHD, autism, anxiety, or another neurodivergence!
🦋 Shoutout to systems who have split a new member as a result of pain or trauma caused from their own BFRBs!
💚 Shoutout to systems who have been told that they are weird, gross, or off-putting by others due to the BFRBs which are outside of their control!
🌙 Shoutout to headmates who are symptom holders for their system’s BFRBs!
If you or a member of your system struggles with BFRBs, we want to let you know that we feel for you. We hope that learning to manage these behaviors gets easier for your system with time, and you are able to find peace and happiness in your futures. Know that you’re not wrong or bad for struggling with BFRBs! You’re still special and lovely just the way you are.
Please do your best to treat yourself and your system with gentleness and compassion today. Rest assured, you are loved and you are a cherished member of both your system and the plural community as a whole! Our spaces simply would not be the same without you here. We hope that you can take it easy and have a lovely day today!
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Non-verbal Anxiety/Stress Indicators
For all those whumpees who try to hide how they're feeling from others or might not even realize themselves what they're feeling.
Wringing hands
Tapping/shaking foot or leg
Rubbing hand along leg or arm
Fidgeting with sleeve/zipper/loose string/etc.
Body-focused repetitive behaviours (twirling hair, biting nails, picking at skin, etc.)
Pacing/rocking/inability to sit still
Tapping fingers
Touching/rubbing face
Holding on to a comforting item
Darting eyes
Positioning oneself with back to wall/facing door
Looking around for potential exists/sources of danger
Staring unseeingly into the distance
Trying to make oneself seem smaller (slouching, crossed arms, curling up, leaning on something, etc.)
Angling body away from others
Avoiding eye contact
Tense facial features (clenched jaw, furrowed brow, pursed lips etc.)
Stiff body and posture
Cold hands/chills
Clammy hands/sweating
Numbness in extremities/chest pain
Being unresponsive/unable to speak
Quick shallow breathing/difficulty getting a full breath
Paler than usual complexion
Feel free to add any others y'all can think of!
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