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i’m losing my housing tomorrow morning.
i’ll try to keep this short. shelters are full, i have no options here, and i won’t be able to keep my job past tomorrow because i won’t have a place to sleep or go. i’m black, trans, mentally ill, and disabled. things are not looking good.
i’m having to decide between getting food to eat or a flight out of here and back to california or .. wherever i can go. i have no ebt and i only get 20 dollars on the 7th of september.
if anyone wants to help i’ll have payment things linked:
paypal.me/chxseallen
vnmo chaseallxn
cashapp $chxseallen
#idk man#c.txt#mutual aid#housing assistance#emergency donations#i genuinely don’t know what to do#and i can’t see my life moving forward el oh el
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Sometimes I think that I'm not doing anything remotely new, and then I see that no one has apparently viewed the collection from my guy's personal secretary since 1932.
#grad school stuff#sorry if I talk about this too much#anyway secretary is probably the wrong word#personal assistant? the finding aid says “personal service”#in a totally unrelated question do you think it's weird to tear up a page of a draft letter where your employer talks about his fiance?#not the first page though
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I need help (again)
Damned payments aren't happening (again, I'm so tired of this absolute JOKE of a situation jfc) and I'm stuck with literally £5 in my account. I won't get a guaranteed payment for another two weeks and have to get stuff for Bean like more formula and such. I've managed to cover food for next week okay, and also nappies, but formula is sth else. And it's not cheap alongside everything else because I've made sure I'm without for Bean (and my mother, who is getting worse with her physical health).
If ya'll have anything ya'll can safely spare, I'd be beyond thankful! Genuinely.
[paypal]
[kofi]
#Help#Signal boost#Important#Signal boost for tumblr#Financial aid#Financial assistance#Please help#I'm so fuckin TIRED OF THIS BULLSHIT#Social Services ARE FUCKIN SHITE AT DOING THIS OWN JOBS RN#I'm so fuckin worn out from stressing about money BECAUSE they say I get paid on x day and THEN I DON'T HAHA
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$141.12/1090 currently, need to make before next month. Dealing with a twinge in my side and going to see dad tomorrow. Got all sorts of comms open, or of you a few to spare, you can send here
Http://ko-fi.com/rileyomalley
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I hate that I’m here… again. I’m so sorry that I’m here again. But once again I’ve been trapped in a difficult situation that I’ve tried literally every way to avoid, prepare for, and roll-up-my-sleeves and do it myself. But at every turn we’ve been ignored, let down by professionals, etc. until I’ve been forced to go into debt just to heat my home because others can’t seem to take any responsibility for things that they’re responsible for. This is genuinely my last ditch effort to find even a little help. I can not go through this again. I’m exhausted, sick, and trying my best to scrape together some commission work while dealing with a really bad flare up of my autoimmune disease. (Hooray) I’m coming up short no matter what I do, and I’m desperate.
Please, if you can, donate and/or signal boost this!
For every donation received, there is a ‘anything goes’ offer of art! Please contact me here or anywhere on social media/email if you’d like to request something!
#donations#gofundme#heating assistance#mutual aid#community aid#the amount may go down if LIHEAP goes through#they were weirdly really nasty this year at the new office#and I don’t know if we’re going to get it#regardless of the fact that we live below the general poverty level#anyway#I can provide screen shots and receipts and bills#I genuinely don’t mind showing these I know there’s a lot of scams going around#I can also show photos of the actual items in my home#and anything else you need#also#I’m so sorry#I’m so sorry I’m asking for fucking help again#I’m sorry#I promise this is the last time#I’m not doing this again#I thought this was over and we were safe the last time#but that came crashing down in the worst worst way#because it came with the loss of an amazing person#who I wish I had had more time with#anyway I’ll stop now
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📚🎻🔱🐉💛🍦🍝🤔
for angel :3c
bleeding heart asks!
📚 BOOKS — what level of education has your oc most recently completed/is currently in (GED, undergraduate, grad school, phd, etc)?
angel was nine years old when the outbreak happened, so "officially" speaking he has never finished elementary school :( after the outbreak, he lived in the protection zone of phoenix, arizona, for a long time, and he would've had more education here; though it was vastly different from ours, a lot more focused on teaching kids essential survival skills and how to take care of themselves, so think of first aid, cooking, navigation, and so on
following this standard education, angel picked up more first aid classes which eventually led him to the protection zone's hospital where he started his internship and then began studying to become a surgeon! because of the state of the world at that point (with zombies running free everywhere), it wasn't comparable to studying medicine as we know it now; but it helped him become a very good doctor anyway, which at that point was a lot more important than being able to show people your degree
🎻 VIOLIN — does your oc play any instruments? what is their skill level (beginner/intermediate/advanced/virtuoso/etc)?
angel can play the guitar a little bit :] he learned how to play from one of his cousins, but never really kept up with it much. he doesn't play a lot anymore and isn't much of a music guy to begin with, really; he enjoys listening to others play, but that's where it stops
🔱 TRIDENT EMBLEM — can your oc swim? do they enjoy swimming?
because of his education from the protection zone, angel can in fact swim, but he hates doing it so much. he doesn't like being in water at all even if it's just to his ankles (which is why you'll never catch him having a relaxing bath, either; he prefers showers so much more) so he will avoid any sort of situation that requires him to swim. but if he were to end up falling into the lake next to bleeding heart, he will be able to save himself out of it :]
🐉 DRAGON — what is your oc's favorite mythical creature?
i think angel would like minotaurs, and also werewolves. sexual intent. no further elaboration needed
💛 YELLOW HEART — how many languages does your oc speak? what language(s) are they learning, if any?
angel's first language is spanish and his second language is english, and he knows asl too! he used to try and teach himself french as something to keep him busy when on the road (traveling away from the fallen protection zone to go up north), but ever since he's moved into bleeding heart he completely stopped doing that and now remembers basically nothing <3
🍦 SOFT ICE CREAM — what is/are your oc's favorite ice cream flavor(s)?
it's been many years since angel last had ice cream, but he's always been a strawberry guy! vanilla too, preferably a scoop of both of them together :]
🍝 SPAGHETTI — what is/are your oc's favorite food(s)?
saul and emerick always make this really, really good venison stew and angel LOVES it so much. he's never been much of a cook himself, so it's always food that others make for him that he grows to like; he also likes a wide variety of the soups he can get from the community center, and (specifically for summer) some nice juicy pork skewers from the barbecue :]
🤔 THINKING FACE — what are some of your oc's quirks/mannerisms?
angel can almost always be found leaning on or against something, either holding something in his hands to keep them still or gesturing a lot while he speaks. he's kind of a chronic smiler when in conversation or listening to others, and also has a very attractive laugh that you'll hear a lot since he laughs a lot to make others more comfortable in a conversation
he talks to himself a lot as well, also when other people are around; it's usually just his train of thought he's telling to no one in particular, sometimes including a dumb joke he thought of in the moment and had to say out loud. it helps him focus and stay calm in tense situations :] he also cracks his knuckles a lot. many of his friends hate this
#asks#evkaivo#ask:angel#oc asks#THAMK YOU :] i haven't been spinning him around enough lately but i do love him so much. he's so charming#a lot of his education regarding medicine and first aid and such was just very hands on practical stuff. being thrown right into it#assisting doctors with a variety of tasks. they were already short-staffed before the end of the world can you imagine#how much worse it would've gotten when the outbreak happened </3
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i just had to take this ai personality test to submit a job application (to be a bartender).




#the end of our society is upon us yall#i think it’s so funny that so much of imaging our future with technology (sci-fi) branches off into two subsection#A. technology gets so advanced that it becomes the governing (tyrannical) power#or B. technology aids humanity in developing a star trek esque utopia of convenience and luxury#but i don’t think anyone predicted this#this weird dependency on technology (especially AI and other ‘smart’ tech) thats actually just shit#like yeah tech is replacing human jobs and doing it worse and less convenient#it wasn’t that long ago when you could call up any store and a real human being would answer#like… 5-10 years ago??#do you remember when you could walk into a store and get a job application and fill it out by hand#in order to get to this ‘personality test’ stage i had to chat with an AI virtual assistant#and then make an account and (after verifying my email of course) filled out my online application (again…)#and then i had to take this personality test#all so i can continue serving ppl highballs and beer??#its sad to see how normalized this is now#anyway as frustrated as i am by the state of the world#i’m choosing to laugh at how fkn dumb this ai test is#i’m gonna post more pics in a sec
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Don't love doing this but I'm at a loss for other options.
Renter's insurance came out this month when it isnt a monthly payment, so I forgot about it and it put us in a bind. I still need to get cat food for my three cats(one of which only eats wet food, and not a particularly cheap kind) and make sure my partner has gas for the week bc he works a decent ways away.
$25-30 would put us in the clear and be a huge help. I can offer pretty much any online task in return if you'd like that isnt nsfw content. Please just message me and we can work something out.
Cashapp is $pandoramoreau
Paypal is @pandora6999
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It's very funny (but also kinda distreasing) when you can tell somebody has never used a mobility aid or had chronic pain in their life and didn't do their research before drawing.
#i was scrolling thru the jayvik tag#as one does you know#and i was looking at an art confused why it felt off and then I went AH you you have nooo idea do you#like I dont use a mobility aid for my pain bc I find it doesn't assist me in any way#one of my brothers does#but ik what its like to deal eith chronic pain in the legs same as my brother#and like different disability and such yes but its justtt similar enough im like h u h sidbsjxhxjzns#just an observation immmm just yapping
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Respectfully. I am tired of being helpful :)
#hold on let me have the five seconds of indignation out and i shall be sane again#i taught the first engineer boy to buy flowers for his performing significant other at a concert#i taught him how to roll up his sleeves and fix his darn shirt. and how to dress for this kind of event#i stayed with him because he was a little antsy about meeting the girl's parents#i taught him to offer to hold a lady's bag on the walk home#and that was just today. i did not need to do those things WHY did i do those things#i am thankfully not in love with him anymore so that's not the problem#the problem is that im sick and tired of being the one who Helps and the one who Aids and the one who assists in smoothing the way for his#happiness. and that is a bit of a blanket statement im not claiming to have formed him like pygmalion and galatea or anything#it is just. i know i HAVE smoothed the way and i know there is no thanks for it not that im asking for it#i just resent the fact that this is my role. stagehand in other people's stories#again!!!!!!!!!!!!!#like why am i the one teaching you how to treat a girl well. considering the history and circumstances
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When hurricane Helene rolled through my area the other week, I wanted to help. But so many places weren't allowing assistance, the Red Cross (etc) don't actually want to help, and people kept being turned away with threats of jailing for asking individuals what they needed (like, people were saying whole towns were blockaded so no one could come help them). But I finally found a group saying they were looking for volunteers. And I got assigned to help demo a weed shop. Which was fun. Just hanging out with stoners for several hours, destroying their place of work so it can get repaired whenever the fuck that will happen. I am filthy. Disgusting. Gross. The water had been 6ft high at this particular site, which was right against the Pigeon River in Hartford, TN. There weren't tons of people from out of the area helping to clean, but I can't even remember how many people drove by with food and drinks. Most notably, a family came by with tamales and another family came by with BBQ. Sadly, I got none of it.
But I exchanged info with the shop's owner and I'll probably be back out to help her next week. And, if she doesn't need assistance, I now know that the entire area is full of people working to clear their yards 24/7 and, despite what I've read online, next to no one (meaning, outsiders) actually doing shit, so I'll just go up to anyone's papaw and ask if he needs help. I don't care. Arrest me.
If anyone has the time to help, this is the org I used to get out there. They were not very well organized, but it's a good place to start if, like me, you didn't know where to begin. Or donate stuff. Everyone thinks to bring things like water or cleaning supplies, but what I heard people saying they needed the most were things like portable camping showers because the water is unusable and it's hard to bathe out of a gallon bucket.
#volunteer#volunteer work#hurricane#hurricane helene#northeast tennessee#flooding#natural disaster#aid#assistance#do your part#disaster relief#community
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Queer person in need of financial support.
I'm usually not one to ask for help but my partner and I are in need of help. My partner has been out of work for months, we live in a small town and despite applying to everywhere he can, nowhere has given us a call back. Thankfully I typically make just enough for us to get by with rent and groceries, but I had to take off nearly a week at the beginning of this month because of my health and so we are really low on money for food going into july. I've been picking up as many hours as I can at work so I'm still able to cover rent/bills but it doesn't look like it's going to be enough for groceries to feed myself my partner and our pet. I hate asking for help like this but it's the only option we have left.
If you can please consider sharing or donating. (cashapp)
I will keep this post updated if anything changes or if we are able to get by for next month. Any help is greatly greatly appreciated.
#seth.txt#dono post#signal boost#donations#mutual aid#mutual assistance#help needed#lgbtq community#chaoscore#sorry to make a post like this but I don't know what else to do
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Usually I never post any financial aid things at all
But a very dear friend of mine has had a lot of misfortune and hits that won't stop coming. Ive been helping her all I can too but im also low income myself. Her electric bill is over due and will be turned off today or tomorrow and today was in the high 90s and its only going to get worse as summer comes around.
She will also do a voice recording or doodle for you if you put it in the notes with your donation!

#mutual aid#financial assistance#financial aid#ive known her for 7 plus years and shes very dear to me but theres only so much i can do.#i know theres alot of fatigue with posts like this but i hope that it will help.#also shes a really pretty trans girl#if thats any incentive for anyone#also i will be reposting this every day so#im sorry to all my mutals on here#but i wanna do what i can
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it's so cool and awesome how much more mobile and independent i am because i have an ebike on account of not being able to drive and having limited mobility . i'm really grateful for paratransit when i have needed it but being able to just go out and do stuff is really great and being outside in the air with the trees is so nice
#i just used to not be able to get around by myself like . AT ALL#as grateful as i am paratransit can be really inconvenient and time consuming#one day i will be able to find / build / commission a bike trailer that can fit my wheelchair#and then i'll be able to do whatever i want whenever all the time UGHH my dream trailer#i can get pretty far on one battery just using the throttle . and i have two batteries for certain things like heavy trailer loads#but also i've made a lot of progress with my pain and getting stronger so i've finally been able to use the pedal assist too :)#so it's still doing most of the work + keeping it speedy but i missed bikinggg#and today i was able to run a couple errands farther away than i've gone before + had a really nice ride#recently went to a talk at the lgbt center about pigeons + one of the organizers said it would be cool if other ppl wanted to give talks to#i've been wondering if anyone would be interested in like defensive cycling...a few times ppl have asked me like#how have i not gotten hit by cars yet like other cyclists they know :( but the thing is . i can tell u#also like PLSSSSSS let me tell u all about ebikes as a disability aid PLSSSSS#idk i only have like moderate knowledge on stuff like repairs / what everything on a bike is called but i think#bikING the Riding on the bike has become a special interest lol#let me infodump about safe biking...i have infographics....
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Moving Day ~
Today is what I've come to refer to as Moving Day. My time is up where I've been staying, so I had to pack up my car with all my valuables, clothes, food, and health supplies, then spend several hours in my car, until I can check in somewhere else and unpack everything. It's physically exhausting, and by the time I'm done (around 4pm) I'm gonna end up sleeping on & off until getting up for work on Monday. I really dread Moving Day, but it's my reality for now--and I'm very aware there are many people who don't even have shelter at all.
Normally, Moving Day falls on a Sunday, like today...but it's gonna fall on Wednesday (a workday) again this week, as I only have funds to stay until then (paying my motor vehicle tax has left me broke). After that, I'll be spending the night at work or in my car. So I'm posting this now in the hope of enough help to get me a few more nights before I have to do it all again. I'm left to rely on the kindness of both friends and strangers. Thank you in advance to anyone able to give a little bit of help and for signal boosting this plea!
my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/sobeautifullyobsessed
#coping with homelessness#homelessness#tw: homelessness#urgent#financial aid#financial assistance#community aid#mutual aid#ko fi link#ko-fi link#ko-fi support#ko fi support#please and thank you#honestly I hate having to do this 😔#but I don't even buy things that people normally need just so I can have shelter#seriously - I've been wearing the same sneakers for work for 5+ years#they are so worn out that's half the reason I experience so much pain at work and afterwards#and it's been 2+ years since I've bought a new bra (my size makes them expensive if I want to have actual support)#so yeah - this is my life right now and at the end of 2023 I'm losing my employer provided health insurance#last time I applied to the State I didn't qualify#relying on the kindness of friends and strangers
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PLEASE HELP: Two trans men, one disabled, in housing crisis
Both of my partners live together and are in a horrid situation. I myself am recovering from surgery and live in Canada while they are in the US. Neither of them have a means to get here. Both have service dogs for anxiety. One is also for seizures and diabetes.
They both have been job searching for months with no success and have been trying to get on disability for months with no success. My partner Sam is hypoglycemic, known to have seizures and is disabled. My other partner, Mimyk, is autistic. Both are trans, and live in Ohio. They've been doing everything they can and haven't been able to pay rent or their phone bills. I've done what I can and currently do not have any money myself after paying for my surgery.
If you can help, even a little, please do.
Even just reblogging this would be so greatly appreciated.
If you want to message them, Mimyk is also doing commissions to make money. They're @renegade-ragdoll on Tumblr, and Mimyk Vandyl Carver on FB.
Sam is @xtranswitchx here on Tumblr, and reachable as Sam Kolt on FB.
#important#mutual aid#mutual assistance#dogs#service dog#please help#we need help#trans#trans men#disabled#gofundme#queer#queer community#rent#commission#lgtbq community#i’m scared#please oh please#reblog please#donate#we dont know what else to do#emergency#need help#polyamory#polyamarous#gay#ace#anything helps
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