#genderqueer trans man

[thatqueergarbagerat]

With people who don't get it: I'm a gay trans man.

With people who sorta get it: I'm a genderqueer aroallo gay trans man.

With people who get it: I'm a quoiplatonic, quoiromantic, panemotional, aroallo gay, genderqueer trans man

With people who REALLY get it: I'm a genderfucked trannyfag

[genderqueerblog]

I don't have anyone irl to tell this too, so I hope it's okay to tell you.

I'm genderqueer, genderfluid, and transmasculine. I've been identifying that way for a couple years now. But recently I've been thinking about how much masculinity plays into my identity. I basically have 7 genders, and all but one have some degree of intrinsic masculinity and/or maleness, and the one that doesn't (exclusively a woman) is the rarest. My most common gender is genderqueer man. I want to go on hrt, get top and bottom surgery, and change my legal sex to male. I'm comfortable with people assuming I'm a guy, grouping me with guys, etc. I decided I want to recognize this in the way I label myself, but I'm still in the process of picking a label. I don't know which way I'll go, and I'm open to suggestions. I'm considering:

-genderfluid (what I am now)

-genderfluid man

-genderfluid trans man

-genderfluid and a guy

I just needed to tell someone because the only friend I was out to doesn't talk to me anymore, and posting on my tumblr feels so lonely. Thank you.

December 1, 2023.

I apologize for the wait, but I'm glad you shared this. It's an honor to be able to use this blog as an outlet for my closeted siblings.

Whether you're labeling yourself as genderfluid, a genderfluid man, a genderfluid trans man, genderfluid and a guy, something else, or you haven't decided yet, I hope that you have a friend you can be yourself around again, and that you feel more confident than you did when you sent this ask.

[genderqueerdykes]

I am not really sure where else to put this, so here it goes. I am a binary transgender man. I do not use the term non-binary in any capacity, I dislike it, and I dislike being put in a not-man/neutral box. But I am genderqueer. I am a genderqueer binary transgender man.

It is something I struggle to explain and am reluctant to tell others, as they tend to put me in that box I do not like. Your box about being genderqueer and not needing to use the term nonbinary felt. Good. It felt nice to read. I still do not believe I am capable of being open about it, no, but I feel like your little ask box here is somewhere I can admit it. To myself, mostly. Thank you.

i wanted to thank you for sharing this genuinely!

i feel like there are a lot of others who feel the same way! i use the tern nonbinary because i have to in some spaces, genderqueer is lumped under the nonbinary umbrella a lot, and some folks just don't know the term genderqueer. i don't think its right to force people into a box they dont necessarily fit in just because of a similar identity. if they want to adopt it, great, if they don't, also great

take care, thank you so much for sharing your experience! i wish you all the luck in your journey. take care!

[eternaspacic]

genderqueer trans man flag!

please credit me if you use!

[pens-personal]

Really hate that the queer community's response to the creation of a gender trinary (girl, boy, and nonbinary, which is still not all-encompassing) was to... reinvent the binary. We just started grouping all genders into "masc/male-aligned" and "fem/female-aligned" and it's so fucking stupid. Even with the occasional allowance of "neutral/unaligned" it still maintains the binary as the standard. And then they don't let you use certain labels if you don't have the "right" gender alignment. The fuck.

[castielfucks]

theres actually no rules to transitioning and youre allowed to want contradictory things for your transition. it's fine if you only want some of the changes that come with hrt and take preventative measures for the rest (like wanting bottom growth but not body hair or vice versa). you can want to have vagina AND a dick. you can be a woman and want top surgery, or wear a packer. you can be a man and want to have a pussy. you can change your transition goals one or a million times or not have any goals at all and just take things as they come or as they feel right.

there are no rules.

[intergalacticgoose]

“He is risen” - Trans guys coming out on Easter tomorrow

[snakeskinass]

[sualne]

bonclay time

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[reesespenisbutercups]

i refuse to come out as trans to my family because one time when i was four i was watching a show with my cousin and one of the female characters was wearing pants and he said “girls can’t wear pants” and i looked at him with the most dead eyes imaginable and said “i’m a girl and i’m wearing pants” and i really don’t want to ruin the first time in my life i served absolute cunt

[hadeantaiga]

Here's the thing:

Cis people really do feel like the gender they were assigned at birth.

Cis women really do feel like women, and cis men really do feel like men. They experience what we would call gender euphoria related to dressing and expressing themselves as their gender, whether that's in a femme way or a butch way or any other way. They feel joy and connection with their gender, with their sexuality and how it relates to their gender. They wear clothes, participate in activities, and express themselves in ways that affirm their gender identity.

Gender critical radfems and terfs will try to convince you that "no woman feels like a woman". They do this for several reasons. Firstly, it's to try to convince trans men they aren't trans, they're just women with no connection to womanhood because "no woman feels a connection to womanhood". They also do it to try to discredit trans women, by saying "If you feel like a woman, then you're clearly not a woman, because "woman" isn't a feeling, it's biology".

A lot of gender critical terfs and radfems claim they are "dysphoric women", and will try to convince you this is a normal state of womanhood. I'm gonna go out on a limb and say no, that doesn't sound normal at all, actually. Most women do not secretly wish they could be men, or more androgynous, or have a penis. Most women don't define their lives through suffering - they love being women.

If womanhood - or manhood - is making you miserable... you might be trans, or you might be gender nonconforming. See if dressing a different way makes you feel a spark of joy and happiness - seek euphoria!

Gender should be joyous, not drudgery.

[genderqueerblog]

gq trans man culture is feeling sad and frustrated that my genderqueerness/non conformity feels forces to get lost in the mix of trying to pass and get taken seriously

[genderqueerdykes]

I've been seeing a disturbing number of "queer safe spaces" describe themselves as things like "femme & them" and even worse "she+," conflating femininity & nonbinaryhood. cease this immediately. say it with me: nonbinary people are NOT women-lite and it is extremely violent and straight up incorrect to imply that all they/thems are fem adjacent. this is erasure and this verbiage does nothing but make gnc and nonbinary spaces unsafe for masc and male nonbinary people. nonbinary, genderqueer and other third gender people can be and are masculine and men, we can be hes as well as shes and theys, stop allowing yourself and your peers to view nonbinary as woman/femme-lite, signed a butch nonbinary person.

[teleportzz]

i wish transing your gender was as easy as getting a haircut. like i wanna walk into a Gender Stylists shop and show the lady a picture of the gender i envy and be like, "that, can you do that?" and she'd be like "yeah" and then one hour later i'd have a new gender that's not quite what i asked for but close enough for me to not complain and just fix it at home. i want to search for gender references on pinterest and get reuploaded tiktoks of people being like "omg 360 your gender pls so i can show my gender stylist when i go on tuesday!! 🥺" i want me and my bestie to be in the bathroom together at 1am extremely stoned and giving each other new genders that are objectively terrible but still kinda wearable

[isabellascarlett1]

All Trans men are men, but not all Trans men aren’t women.

All Trans women are women, but not all Trans women aren’t men.

Gender can be far more complex and less binary for many folks 💗

[transnathalia05]

Reblog if you'd date a trans girl