#girl talk

[girlbossagenda]

stop worring about things you can't control, at the end of the day everything works out in your favor!

[dwaintydoll]

𝑎𝘴 𝘱𝑎𝘭𝑒 𝑎𝘴 𝑎 𝘱𝑜𝘳𝑐𝑒𝘭𝑎𝘪𝘯 𝑑𝑜𝘭𝘭 . . ♡︎

[femmefatalevibe]

Femme Fatale Guide: Game-Changing TED Talks Everyone Should Watch

"How Five Simple Words Can Get You What You Want" by Janine Driver

"Master your Mindset, Overcome Self-Deception, Change your Life" by  Shadé Zahrai

"How to talk to the worst parts of yourself" by Karen Faith

"Think before you speak, hacking the secret of communication" by Catherine Molloy

"The Hidden Code For Transforming Dreams Into Reality" by Mary Morrissey

"Don't Believe Everything You Think" by Lauren Weinstein

"The public speaking lesson you never had" by DK

"Programming your mind for success" by Carrie Green

"How to stop screwing yourself over" by Mel Robbins

"Own Your Behaviours, Master Your Communication, Determine Your Success" by Louise Evans

"The psychology of seduction" by Raj Persaud

"Why we're unhappy -- the expectation gap" by Nat Ware

"Think Fast. Talk Smart" by Matt Abrahams 

"Increase your self-awareness with one simple fix' by Tasha Eurich 

"5 steps to designing the life you want" by Bill Burnett

"Staying stuck or moving forward" by Dr. Lani Nelson Zlupko

"To reach beyond your limits by training your mind" by Marisa Peer

"Emotional laws are the answer for better relationships" by Diana Wais

"Feelings: Handle them before they handle you" by Mandy Saligari

"Cultivating Unconditional Self-Worth" by Adia Gooden 

[wonydoli]

kaomojis

(ˆ ̳ , ̫ , ̳ˆ)"੭ ♡ ₍^ ܸ. . .ܸ ྀི^₎ʃ ྀི ฅ( ̳• ·̫ • ̳ฅ)و (៸៸᳐⦁⩊⦁៸៸᳐ )੭ﾞ♡︎

(^ ̳- ‧̫ • ̳^) ꒰⸝⸝- ·̫ -⸝⸝^꒱◞❤ ( ⸝⸝ʚ̴̶̷̆ ̫ ʚ̴̶̷̆⸝⸝ ྀི) ( ⸝⸝ ˃ ᵕ ˂⸝⸝ ྀི)

૮꒰ ྀྀི⸝⸝›̥̥̥ ·̭ ‹̥̥̥⸝⸝꒱১ ( ꜆ > ·̫ <⸝⸝)꜆♡︎ ^⸝⸝ɞ̴̶̷ ·̫ ∩⸝⸝^ ૮ ྀི⸝⸝ ʚ̴̶̷̷ · ʚ̴̶̷̷⸝⸝ ྀིა

ฅ^⸝⸝> ·̫ <⸝⸝^ฅ (⸝⸝⸝ᵒ̴̶̷̥́ ᵕ ก̀⸝⸝⸝)ෆ (ᐡ-‧̫ -`ᐡ) ㅠ ㅅ ㅠ ♡

ˆ – ·̫ ก⸝⸝ˆ◞ ฅ^ྀི•⩊•^ྀིฅ ‎(ᐢ⸝⸝>̶̥̥̥᷄ ·̫ <̶̥̥̥᷅⸝⸝ᐢ)꜆꜄♡ ≽^ɞ̴̶̷ ̫ ɞ̴̶̷^≼

⸜( ྀི｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝ ♡ (=^ ◡ ^=) ̳^◝ ·̫ ◜^ ̳ (𝜗𝜚 ⸝⸝ɞ̴̶̷ ᴗ ɞ̴̶̷⸝⸝) ‧ ˚♡

[youraverageslavicdoll]

in my imagination I look like this, I'm a tumblr it girl, everyone wanna be me , victoria's secret model, fashion icon..

[alexthesillybilly]

When you'd first met Springtrap, it was safe to say this wasn't how you'd expected him to be.

But here you were, laying next to him as he took in all the affection you gave that he hadn't been given in decades. Touch starved was an understatement.

He still didn't talk much, that hadn't changed, he really couldn't due to, y'know, not having vocal cords anymore. All his talking came from his damaged voice box that wasn't all that functional now. It was still easy to tell how he felt though, as he was pretty much melting in your arms by now. He laid his head against you, tail wagging, his arms around you, too. You'd spent most of the day together trying to do some repairs to the suit. Not much had been done, but with enough work, you'd gotten some of the fur to at least somewhat of a less matted and awful texture. You were happy you'd gotten it done, but nothing could compare to how excited Springtrap obviously was. He'd spent most of the time after that just talking about how the suit used to look back when it was in use. He'd wanted to keep talking, but his voicebox was worn out for the day and speaking was getting too tiring, so he had settled for just being able to be this close to you.

There was a slight mechanic click as you lifted his head slightly to look at him, his eyes glowing with his happiness. Despite not being able to talk, he still gave you a soft noise that sounded like if a broken car tried to breathe. His ears flopped over your head as he closed his eyes and presses his nose up to your face, wanting to signal his feelings without words.

So, yeah, when you'd first found a nearly seven foot tall animatronic with a corpse in it, you hadn't expected to cuddle with him at 2 in the morning while you fell asleep, but here you were.

You wouldn't give it up for anything, though.

[diaryofanenchantedprincess]

Rarely ever be emotional. Your default is under emotional. Always observing, looking at how you can turn certain events to have a favorable outcome for you and where you can benefit from. Save your emotions for your children or your pets or for when you write or paint or express yourself. Save it for your journal to put them all down in and sort through them. Process your emotions in private, with someone you trust, or with a therapist. Practice mental hygiene every night where you put them down on paper or say them out loud. But your emotions are a currency.

Say you only have so much currency to spend every day. Would you be giving them out as freely as you do and to people who didn’t even ask for it?

[theblackfemininesociety]

Girl Talk: How To Properly Hold Someone Accountable.

“You know that I love you, that’s with a passion but I’ll hold you accountable for your actions”

— ‘Accountable’ by BLXST

☕️ Let’s Have a Girl Talk:

In a society that often perpetuates toxic behaviors and fosters a culture of disrespect, it is crucial to explore alternative approaches to accountability. The Black Feminine Society embraces the idea that we can hold individuals accountable with love, genuine respect, and compassion, without resorting to demeaning and disrespectful tactics.

By confronting issues with a solution-oriented mindset and fostering progressive conversations, we can pave the way for positive change and growth.

This blog post delves into the power of accountability, the role of love and respect, and the importance of proactive engagement.

Accountability, by definition, involves acknowledging our mistakes, taking responsibility for our actions, and making amends where necessary.

The Power of Accountability:

Accountability is a fundamental aspect of personal and societal growth. It involves taking responsibility for one's actions, acknowledging the consequences, and actively working towards healing and restoration. Within the Black Feminine Society, accountability is approached as an empowering tool that encourages individuals to reflect, learn, and evolve. By holding ourselves and others accountable, we create opportunities for personal development and collective progress.

The truth is, genuine accountability is rooted in love, respect, and compassion. It is about holding our sisters accountable without demeaning them, without disrespecting them, but instead, acknowledging their potential for growth.

Tough love is not about harshness or severity. It's about transparency and honesty, delivered with good intentions and from the heart. It's about acknowledging the issue at hand and addressing it directly but kindly. It's about making the other person understand that they are loved and respected, even when they are being held accountable.

However, the reality is that holding someone accountable can often be challenging and uncomfortable. It becomes even more complicated when we want to ensure that the process is filled with respect and compassion, instead of negativity.

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So, what actions can we take to encourage compassionate accountability in our society?

🩷 Understanding & Empathy:

Recognize the individual's experiences and feelings and validate them. By doing this, you're telling them that their perspective matters, and you're willing to walk alongside them on their journey to improvement.

👄 Speak from Love, Not Anger:

It's crucial to communicate from a place of love and genuine concern, rather than anger or frustration. This doesn't mean you shouldn't express your feelings; it just means you should do so in a way that doesn't belittle or disrespect the other person.

🩷 Focus on the Issue, Not the Person:

When holding someone accountable, concentrate on the behavior or action that needs addressing, not the individual. This approach ensures the person doesn't feel personally attacked, facilitating a more open and productive conversation.

✨Propose a Solution:

Confronting someone about an issue is the first step, but it's equally vital to present a solution, plan, or support. This positive action sets the tone for a progressive conversation and shows that you're invested in resolving the issue together, not merely pointing out faults.

🩷 Give Them Space:

After the confrontation, give the person some time and space to process the information. It's important to respect their need for reflection.

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[shesgoode]

my fault for majoring in forensics ig

[girlbossagenda]

HOW TO ROMANTICIZE YOUR LIFE

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Today I'm going to give you some tips(activities)on how you can romanticize your 3d reality, and not only make your experience more enjoyable, but also manifest things better!

୨୧use vintage cameras୨୧

You know those old vhs high school vlogs that you can find on youtube or those high school vlogs from years ago?, see how much fun they have? Try to capture the moment with the sole reason to capture it! It will be fun to look back to them years to come!

୨୧Leave your mark on things୨୧

Now I don't want to promote illigal actions but if you want you can go in those grunge like Abandoned places like an old train or wall and sign it or do graffiti on it!

୨୧Go on a trip with your friends୨୧

It doesn't have to be too long, it can be just as short as going in the sea! Or drive with your bike through the hills of the city, it can just be a walk too!

୨୧Get a secret place/hideout୨୧

This is so movie like, if you notice everyone has a special place where to hangout, some times it's a studio, sometimes it's a tree house other times it can be the school library or just an abandoned place! If you want for example to make your life more like a movie, places like this will immediately make you affirm that "I the teenage dream life" or that "my life it's like a coming of age movie".

୨୧Make a burn book୨୧

Idea that came from the one and only mean girls! You don't really have to do it with your friends, just do it for yourself and unleash your rage, this is an amazing outlet for rage and other feelings that may distrupt you thought processing in your manifestation!

୨୧Watch childhood movies୨୧

Barbie movie, monster high movies, bratz movies etc ... If you have DVDs try to look between them, maybe you'll find some good oldie! You can even do a movie night just about hitting some nostalgia! Try to remember the feelings your felt while watching them, and use those positive feelings in your manifestations.

୨୧Photobooths and polaroids୨୧

Similar to the digicam idea! This are such cute ideas if you want to decorate your room ~ over the years I saw how creative we can get with these, you can add some pics in your manifestation journal or write and affirmation under or behind them!

Hi bonitas this is all for today, I know its been a while since I posted something, but life kept me very busy! I hope ill be more active from now on! hope I helped and entertained you xoxo gorgeous

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[dwaintydoll]

⠀ 𝘢 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘺 𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘦𝘭 𝘨𝘰𝘦𝘴 𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘯

𝘮𝘺 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘪𝘮 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 . . ♡︎

[femmefatalevibe]

Femme Fatale Guide: Simple Ways To Look "Effortlessly" Put Together

A fresh haircut

Maintaining a regular skincare routine 2x/day

Applying SPF daily

Exfoliating 2-3x/week

Moisturizing all your skin daily

Dermaplane your face

Do a skin/hair mask weekly

Flossing daily & using a whitening toothpaste

Filled in (but natural-looking) brows

Wearing mascara, light concealer, and a hydrating lip balm/"you lips but better" cosmetics shade

Cut, file, and polish your nails. Keep it clean & simple

Invest in seamless and proper-fitting undergarments

Wear neutral, monochrome outfits that incorporate tailored cuts in luxurious fabrics that pair well together

Use a steamer/lint roller on your clothes before heading out the door

Invest in high-quality, well-structured handbags and shoes that pair well with almost any outfit

Put on a precious or sleek statement piece (or two potentially in the former case) of jewelry to elevate your look. Don't overdo it

Applying a few sprays of a signature scent that suits the season/occasion

[whiteheartlight]

Nokama: You know, Gali, perhaps some of your brothers isolate themselves for their own reasons, and not out of a lack of unity. You may want to consider their perspective before becoming frustrated. One of my own brothers is often so consumed by worry over things that have happened he may struggle to face us.

Gali: You mean Turaga Nuju?

Nokama: No.

Gali: Oh

Nokama: Nuju just hates other beings, Gali

Gali: And in that case...?

Nokama: There's no fixing him

Gali, sighing: Thank you, Turaga

Nokama: Just force him to engage. By any means necessary

Gali: Okay, that actually is helpful

[wonydoli]

all apps should have a pink theme option for the girly girls ♡︎

[youraverageslavicdoll]

: so what do you wanna become in the future?

me:

[alexthesillybilly]

Jus fluffy springtrap x reader stuff :)) this is like the fluffiest thing I've ever written 😭❤ enjoy!!

You run your hands through the matted fur of Springtrap's suit. From what he tells you, he can't feel it all that much as his senses aren't fully connected with the outside of the suit, but he can still feel it.

"I'm tired." You say. It's winter now and you've been staying up later than you probably should. Springtrap makes a soft grunt and speaks.

"We can sleep. I don't mind."

For him, it's not technically sleep, but more like a robotic powering off, but it's similar.

"Mhm." You nod and reach to shut off the light. "Wait." You lay down and adjust yourself, then turn off the light. You can still see the glow of his eyes signaling his happiness.

"Here," you place your hand on the fur of his head again and motion for him to come closer. He does, and softly lays his head down on your chest. The pressure from him is calming and you can't help but watch him as he drifts into his powered off state. The soft sound of your heartbeat is enough to make him feel more human than he had in years. Even if it wasn't his, to have someone let him this close to be able to hear it was the most human he'd ever felt.

Laying your hand behind his ears, you shut your eyes, and soon fell asleep.

You'd both be there for eachother when you woke up.