#identity stuff

[secretidentie]

Honestly it would be hilarious if Clark and Bruce started dating and Clark was unaware that Bruce was batman or knew his identity.

At some point Bruce kisses him as superman after a rescue and Clark is emotionally going through it coz his boyfriend kissed another guy. Even if that guy is technically him he's still mad and jealous of himself somehow coz even superman can't compete with Superman. He's not even sure whether or not to confronted Bruce about his affair since it keeps happening.

While he's trying to figure all this out Batman,of all people, kisses him. And he does it so casually. Sure, Clark had a crush on him for a while but he's over it now and he's in a committed relationship that he thought batman knew about. Now he's extra scared of confronting Bruce because he doesn't want it to look like he's just starting a fight so he can be with batman. And he's still hoping there's a way to work through this and for them to be together. He's being haunted by his moral code to just talk about this and get it over with but he's still afraid of losing Bruce and living in the shadow of the idolized version of himself again.

*Meanwhile in the batcave*

La la la Bruce, twirling around liking a fairy princess living his best life: my boyfriend's the best and every thing is perfect. Maybe world peace is real. Is this what happiness feels like?

The bat kids have tried giving him several rabies shots and an exorcism.

[vanillayoteart]

The ████-████-████ connection is the idea that these three aspects of ourselves are interconnected.

[batwynn]

[dulafer]

BACKUP QUARTERBACK

Joe Burrow's twin discovers his brother, starts stalking him, assuming his identity and wants his career and lifestyle.

PDF download because it's easier for me to fix errors and make changes.

[obsessed-loser]

I'm so lost... I don't know who or what I am. Guy, girl, lesbian, straight and trans?

[dragon-of-the-night]

Hi queer Tumblr. I don't usually like posting about my personal identity stuff on social media, because I'm a very private person who just doesn't like revealing much of this sort of thing to people, however, while I've been trying to just stick to the unlabelled... um, label, I'm still interested to know if there is actually a label that fits my romantic orientation (I'm leaving sexuality out of this for the moment, because I honestly have no idea where I am between ace and allo currently; I'm thinking probably greysexual, aceflux or low-libido allo, because, honestly, the idea of sex is not that interesting to me at the moment, but there is occasionally attraction there).

Is there a label for a female-identifying person who's always attracted to men more than any other gender, but who's attraction to women and other genders fluctuates between almost none to almost equally (but never quite equally - I still prefer men)? I experience attraction to women less frequently than to men and at a lower intensity, but I do experience attraction to more than one gender some/most of the time. I think. And the attraction I feel to certain women usually sticks around even when my female-attraction levels are low in general.

I've identified as heteroflexible for a while and have been looking into biromantic, bi-flux and abroromantic/sexual orientations, but none of them seem to feel right for long. Especially as I find it hard to differentiate or figure out what kind of attraction I feel towards people, be it romantic, sexual, platonic or aesthetic anyway. Especially being rather isolated at the moment, the only people I've been attracted to are fictional characters.

I'm just curious, really, because I will probably stick with unlabelled due to the freedom it gives with changing and evolving my orientations and not having to find different labels for that (and it also lowers the amount of identity crises I have, lol), but I would like to know if there is a label that exists for this, as it will help my understanding of myself and others who may feel similarly.

Thank you in advance 🙏🏳️‍🌈

[crescent-lunatic-wolf]

Sometimes it feels like I *should* be able to shift/transform my physical body, like I can vividly envision what it *should* feel like and how to do it, but it doesn’t work (for obvious reasons). And then I get sad or frustrated or bitter or some combination of the three.

It’s dawned on me that this might not be quite ��typical’. Is this an otherkin/alterhuman thing or is this more on the verge of clinical lycanthropy?

[sokuly419]

I love it when I have to tell 3 people they were right. Again. How is it that people seem to know my identity before I do? Am I that avoidant with myself? … Yeah, clearly.

But really, I’m glad I finally got there. It all feels right. Finally.

If this reaches someone who’s questioning anything about themselves, I get it. But just know… it’s never too late to get there. I’m 29 and just figured this shit out. I’ve bounced gender identities a few times and finally got it through my thick skull, after years of playing around with the idea and not accepting myself, that non-binary transmasc lesbian is it. That’s what I’ve been trying to find the words for and all it took was a random encounter and conversation with my childhood friend. And some tough love on myself that this is all okay.

I thought I had to have this figured out young, 18-21. That’s so far from the truth.

You’re allowed to question it, you’re allowed to take years to get there, you’re allowed to change.

Be the best you that you can be.

[sleeepy-sun]

Not much to say, any major info is in my bio

#awroooo for suggestive content (ill try to not post straight up porn but still beware) so block that if you dont wanna see and btw i remade my nsfw alt!!!!! @sunny-mutt

Uhhhhh idk I'm mostly into minecraft, tma, furry stuff and some other things idk. I majored in physics! Now trying to become a particle physicist :] i rarely post about math and physics tho

Dms and asks always open!

If i have to tag something as a "censor" (just so you can block the tag) i generally use "cw [x]" so for example "cw blood". I might not tag everything that might be triggering, both because i may forget and also because i. Generally dont care lol but if you want me to tag something just ask

Also adding some tags i use often on this tag

Enjoy your stay!

[bittyfromquotev]

In case you're like freaking out about it, It could just be general dissociation or even de-realization! If it's like "Normally I have more energy" or something along those lines then it could be depression!

Maybe. I have moments where I look at the people in my life and go “woah??? That’s them??? And they’re the only person EVER to look or sound like that. And they’re in MY life???? Woah????” It’s really weird.

This feels different though.

It’s like, I feel like I’m Me, but I’m also This Existing Character (in this case it’s Sonic for some reason). And idk how to feel. Because I am not completely against the idea of being plural, but I don’t want to jump to conclusions and end up faking it :(

Thank you for the help though! :)

[clancyships]

i'm having a mini mind explosion crisis, thinking: should i associate myself with alex mercer (from prototype) because he isn't exactly the best person/being ever... but it feels right to identify with him and use his name. i feel connected to the character.

but my friend said he's problematic and i shouldn't use alex as my name because of that character.

i have changed my display name on discord so so so many times that people struggle to recognise its me on occasion, until they open our chats and realise it's me.

i don't feel comfortable using my real name and all that stuff, but i feel silly and ridiculous at times. hell, my display names ranges from character names, memes, and obscure references. and i think people will judge me.

[esovdotword]

Bubblegum

It's the wrong name. It leaves their mouth with a soreness like a wad of chewed up gum, tough and flavourless and long past its purpose. They spit it out. Try a new name.

Roll it over in their mouth, sink their teeth into the idea of it, chew on it in murmurs before ever saying it out loud. Feel it flat on their tongue before breathing into it, until it pushes past their lips in a bubble, pink and sweet, full and weightless. There they are.

[w1ng-gl0ss]

When you say you don’t like Edolon, this is who you’re being mean to.

Gay Pride Flag, GNC Pride Flag, MLM Pride Flag, XTM Pride Flag, Intersex Pride Flag.

[corelliaxdreaming]

I really did mean to make at least one decent post for Ace Week, but it got away from me. Oops. Anyway, I love all my acespec siblings. Here’s a quick, random graphic of the acespec flags I identify with. Left: asexual, nonlibidoist. Right: aegosexual, aroace. (I also like the acespec flag, but I couldn’t get the graphic to look decent with five.)

[obsessed-loser]

It is the greatest feeling in the world to be called by the right name by a teacher.

[satellites-halo]

I knowww I was talking like I am a binary girl for a bit but the more I think on my gender the more I find myself leaning towards the idea of being more nonbinary than anything else... the terms 'sortagirl', 'paragirl', and 'girlthing' come to mind. I don't think I'll ever be able to have a Normal relationship to gender (being intersex + degendered my whole life bc of it) but I want to try and understand it a bit more