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#if you wanna be nonbinary u can be bi u can be a lesbian u can be gay etc u can be ANYTHING U WANT
catgirlcrisis · 1 year
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i hate to be chronically online but please dni if you are a space for bi lesbians or whatever they call themselves
#'erm but bi lesbian' No youre like 14 and you need to wash the dishes and do your summer homework.#its grossly invalidating to ME to have to listen to a bunch of people (mostly non lesbians) tell ME (a nonbinary person) what labels to use#and where i do and dont belong#you know what we're gonna do?#not bring back old discourse is what we're gonna do#especially with the new wave of twitter users#that's what we're not gonna do.#if you even remotely gaf about nonbinary people and NOT POLICING OUR SPACES then you will fuck off with that shit#i am a LESBIAN and i am NONBINARY and both of these things can be inherently true and not conflict!!!!!!#and not demand!!!! a thousand new microlabels!!!!!! THANK YOU#if u wanna be lesbian call urself a lesbian#if u wanna be bi call urself bi#if you wanna be nonbinary u can be bi u can be a lesbian u can be gay etc u can be ANYTHING U WANT#and you dont have to constantly reinvent new labels for yourself#you can just. Exist!!#without ANYONE telling you that you dont actually belong in a community#bc you DO. and it is NOBODYS CHOICE whether you get to or not.#especially not some online idiot#also notice how this shit only happens to lesbians#its never 'bi gays'#'pan gays'#i saw a post thats like 'bi lesbians and ace lesbians exist!'#so okay now youre just hellbent on policing people and telling them where they can and cant go.#idk if you find lesbian (as a label) restrictive based on your personal experiences#then thats your problem and your journey#and if you dont find the lesbian label restrictive despite feeling like youre not 'technically a lesbian' or 'you dont belong'#then guess what. youre still lesbian! congrats!#and it is nobodys right to tell you where you do and dont belong!#rant over. ty#personal
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hotgrrrlgross · 6 months
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YES !! YES !!!!!! AHAHAAAA YESSSS !!!!
my personal headcannons for the loveliest of lovely little guys <3333
extra info + flags!!
randy: (pan and agender)
-fibromyalgia for sure, trauma does shit things
-probably needs a cane or something similar to aleviate pain (doesn't think he's ill enough to need one, absolutely is)
-if he gets high please treat him like a fish in an aquarium, probably would hate the lack of control
-flushes really easily, and constantly clammy
-if you put a blanket on his head he'll fall asleep
-narcolepsy
-loves the feeling of a nice, heafty, soft quilt and a hot cocoa on a cold afternoon...
oliver: (trans, gay and demiromantic!)
-has a stuffed animal collection 100%
-probably picks up a million different projects only to put them down, a new hyperfixation every week kinda guy
-him being a stoner is basically cannon but, in specifics he seems like a bong or joint guy to me, would let u smoke the first hit (bc he's nice)
-rollerskate date :]
-glasses to at least semi help his shit 'eye' (optical sensor) and lack of depth perception (they can only do so much though)
karen: (nonbinary, lesbian)
-doesn't particularly care about gender as a concept
-has a bunch of tassles and cords in her house she has braided
-can't keep a plant alive to save her life, has mourned at least 20 house plants, has a fake one (somehow dies too)
-mitski.
-the biggest sweet tooth out of the group
-will lock herself away for hours and hours, sometimes an entire day or two, just creating. only to come out of a hole haggard and exhuasted with her New Horse Drawing.
-hEDS, uses a walker to get around!
Norm: (questioning/bi ?)
-writer (how the hell else wouldn't he go absolutely bonkers all alone, other than having a goal and spite i guess)
-uses coffee to live, but definitely enjoys tea in his free time
-probably learned archery at some point
-whittles little sculptures to pass the time (made karen a little wooden horse sculpture once)
-randomly schedules cook outs/junctions when he's feeling lonely and isolated
-he would absolutely take the will graham route and end up with 20 fucking stray dogs out of a deep empathy and then wake up one day and realize the mess he got himself into.
-grilldad. (duh)
phonegingi: (genderfluid, polyamorous, pan)
-gender? yes.
-sexuality? yes.
-will consume your clothes if you are not careful with your gingi Care instructions. (taking little nibbles is okay as a treat)
-if weed is consumed it basically acts as a horrifically strong catnip, and it will get the zoomies and make it everyone's problem
-purrs
-pays really good attention to detail stuff, and its brain is basically a filing cabinet. but big events are basically a blur
-gets SUPER !! fluffy during the winter and there's an awful period where it's shedding and it's...super patchy and silly lookin
-me and the bitches i pulled by being HORRIFYING and lovely,,,,
bigfoot: (aroace. i don't take criticism.)
-banana,,,
-genuinely pretty attentive and smart
-becomes a painter because he is INSPIRED ! by his friend karen
-absolutely splendid lad
-i wanna live in a world where one of his passions is making and wearing silly hats, please, PLEASE
-karen showed him mitski,,,god help him he's sad now
-knitting,,,he knit giant banana,,,,
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yellowjackingit · 12 days
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Omegaverse yellowjackets personal headcanons and parings✨ nsfw
(don't like don't read, you know who you are ;)
Shauna -alpha she's my bi messy failgirl icon <3 she just has alpha energy to me (but idk I'm sure in some fics I'll have her beta) , and Jeff has omega energy to me idk why, vibes man. I feel like in an omegaverse society alpha women traditionally are expected to have big families and accomplish a lot, so when Jackie dies I'd imagine her mother's slights have to do with how Shauna is such a rare breed, an alpha female, only 5% of the population contains alpha females and yet she was somehow never as special as her lil jack jack
Jackie- omega Jackie just needs an alpha to hold her and tell her everything's gonna be ok, too bad they eat her lol. Also i wanna see Shauna pin her down what of it. She's totally a lesbian
Lottie- alpha The total it girl, she's got it all, she embodies the traditional femalpha standard, think barbie, but tbh most of that was learning at a young age she was different (gay) and got really good at hiding it. it was a no brainer when she became the first head alpha of the group as people usually do they fall under her leadership and guidance. Shes the kind of alpha that would have led rome or egypt. And yet. When she loses her omega she loses her way. Her power crumbles and so she hands the torch to the alpha she trusts most
Natalie- alpha as the runt of her litter of one and every class or group she's been apart of she was never the first picked alpha but when the group assigned her the leader everything changed for her. She was finally where she was born to be. Out in the woods she became the best version of her alpha. Also I just wanna see her go thru a rut and Lottie offer to help a bro out with it 👀 who said that
Laura lee- omega voted cutest omega of her year, always had a crush on Lottie and now that they're lost in the wilderness maybe she can show her some her holy moves? Idk I'm not Catholic anymore
Taissa - beta
Van - butch nonbinary beta
Taissa van beta4beta my beloved<3 taissa being resentful of her beta gender (transmasc taissa goes hard) and trying her hardest to become a beta representative "betas are 45% of the population and yet only have 4 seats on the Senate? What's that bull" but I can also see taissa being an alpha and van be an omega
Misty- omega also a runt, she looks up to Natalie a lot being a runt as well who actually earned the respect of the pack. So her and nat bond over it and eventually more 👀 imagine Misty's heat hitting round the spring, and in order to avoid pregnancies nat being the ever so gracious pack leader helps her through it with her massive dick
Travis- beta him and Shauna beta solidarity has good potential, I hope they talk about girls together, like imagine them coming out to each other? Grieving javi together, both being ppl who lost their own blood to these woods... Y'all pls understand my vision
Mari- beta when no immediate role is assigned to her she struggles and takes it out on jackie, it's ok babygirl thats not how u get the pretty omegas attention but u will learn
Coach ben- alpha his death is their first meal, and the death of the traditional alpha male patriarchy i guess lol
Crystal- omega to mirrors misty
Anyone feel free to add on! I wanted to headcanons the other girls too but I cant Google it rn, so if anyone wanna drop the background girls names I'll love u forever <3
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styxthecaracal · 5 months
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Hey everyone! Just coming on here to remind everyone that I have a RedBubble shop that ya'll can check out! I have lots of pride designs up right now, but I'm working on some more. Here's some examples of the pride designs I have up:
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(I have a few other flags, but I don't wanna post em' all here. On my shop I currently have: Ally, Progress, MLM, Lesbian, Bi, Pan, Omni, Trans, Genderfluid, NonBinary, Queer, Genderqueer, Aro, Ace, AroAce, Agender, AroAceAge, and Intersex. If you wanna see more flags, let me know which ones you wanna see next! All my pride dragons have a version with eyelashes, and a version without.)
I have other designs that aren't pride, but yeah. If you buy from me, you'll be supporting my savings towards things like: College, a chest binder, b-day gifts for my friend with transphobic parents (I'mma get him a chest binder, too :3), species affirming gear, and food (because I need to stop using my parent's money to by ice-cream every time I get my period).
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Thanks again, and I hope you all have a great day!
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kroosluvr · 13 days
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hi!!! i'm feeling very queer tonight, do you have any queer headcanons? id be curious on your persona takes and arknights takes and of course any in particular that you wanna share :3
HEYYYYYYYYYYYY HEHEHEH i have a FEW that i swear by but also i can really see anything happenin so theres a lot of headcanons i enjoy!!!
EDIT: sorry this is kinda long so ill put under the cut AKJDHSAJKDSA
arknights:
trans lesbian kirara!!!!!!! swear by this. she goes out shopping w her girlfriend utage (also rope and april) all the time nd utage enjoys dressing her up in the CUTEST clothes
i rock with pan kroos!!! my fav pairing for her is kroosfang OBVIOUSLYYYYYY but also any other a1 member and also a lot of other 3*?!!?!? Let me get u on kroosansel or kroos x melantha and etc.
its not a hc bc its CANON. but genderfluid dusk is so fucking improtant to meu dont undrestnad
TRANSMASC STAINLESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Basically canon
persona:
lesbian rio iwasaki i stand by thisforever.............. i have this comic i want to draw in regards to this but grrgrgrbarkbarkbark I HAVE TO DRAW ITTTTT
also not a hc bc its canon but bi tatsuya will always make me so hapypy.claws at the walls
ALSO not a hc bc its canon (im pretty sure) but joker p2 nonbinary -> jun being nb also makes my heart happy. on that note eikichi nb also makes me happy
I ROCK WITH LESBIAN ANN A LOT though im see the beauty of ryu/ann and shu/ann and pego/ryu/ann... but usually isee her as gay
some ppl here showed me the light of transmasc yusuke. amazing. phenomenal. MORE OF THIS.
nb/transmasc naoto!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MORE OF THIS. tbh i rock with any naoto hc but i like seeing them as nb/genderfluid/transmasc spectrum!
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dykeyote · 1 year
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i think a lot of ppl who find themselves constantly debating between labels they view as contradictory would save themselves a lot of internal debate if they just got over an obsession w dichotomy and rigid definitions . u dont have to agonize over whether ur a trans man or a butch lesbian u can be both . u dont have to agonize over if youre bi or gay u can be both . u dont have to agonize over if youre a woman or nonbinary or a man you can be all three if you wanna . not in every single case obvs but idk man it just made me feel ten times hetter to decide i was bigender and a bi lesbian instead of debating constantly abt which specific one i am peace + love
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I wanna talk about my lab rats queer and neurodivergent hcs cause... fuck u that's why
Chase
he/him
honestly I like transmasc chase, I relate to him a lot so it might be projecting lmaoo
this might be basic but I think hes bi. or pan!! boy could be pan (me fr)
autistic. mans is autistic. cause I say so. u can just look at him (also maybe some adhd too?)
Bree
she/they
I also love transfem bree. could be why she wants to be like other girls so bad
I wanna say she's a lesbian, cause I love bylar sm, realistically they might be bisexual, cause ik she's gone boy crazy a lot. but I think I'm leaning towards lesbian
again, the whole family has a touch of the tism. I think they have adhd too
Adam
he/him?
this one isn't one of my favs, but I gotta trans the whole family. I think he gives off genderfluid vibes, but he would stick to he/him pronouns for simplicity cause he doesn't want to bother with new pronouns and he actually doesn't mind
ARO.ACE. ADAM. screaming throwing up omg I love this hc. he pretends to be interested in girls to seem "normal" but he's actually aroace.
both autism and adhd
Leo
any pronouns
listen listen hear me out. nonbinary leo. it's been on my mind for a while I love it. they would not care ab pronouns at all, so most people would default to he or they but he rly doesn't care
I feel like he's just attracted to girls. they don't know if that makes them straight or lesbian or what but she's only attracted to girls (janelle my pan queen does not give a shit)
adhd. god, so much adhd. and a touch of the tism for good measure lmao
Marcus
they/he
transmasc agender. since he's a robot genders a little wacky. when they decided he was trans he went to douglas and douglas modified them a little to look more masc
I literally don't know about sexuality. I think he would be on the ace spectrum, graysexual sounds about right. I saw someone say he was polysexual (romantic in this case), and that's all I can think about so
I maintain the whole family is autistic
Daniel
he/him
I think he's technically cis, but cis in a way that like he really doesn't care. like if you called him "they" or "she" he'd be like "chill ok". he likes to be very gnc, so hes,, like cis in a spicy way?? 😭
bisexual. I don't even have an explanation it just feels right. like father like son
Mostly adhd
Douglas
he/him
trans male king but still kinda gnc
bisexual. dudes a manwhore. love that for him.
combo adhd and autistic
Donald
he/him
(I can't believe I'm headcanoning donald) i think he's cis. but he has a trans brother and 4 trans kids so he supports
hmm bi? I don't think he cares. like bros attracted to whoever he's attracted to ya know
mostly autistic, a little adhd
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How do u get a gf? Do u have any dating advice 4 lesbians with no dating experience? Do u know places I can meet other lesbians?
Lesbian tinder is full with men identifying as trans and nonbinary 😕, lesbians bars r filled with males and bisexual women, lesbian reddit communities r also filled with males and bi women, at this point most lesbian spaces r filled with males and bi women. I only wanna date and have sex with other lesbians, actual lesbians. And I’m tired of TRAs telling lesbians we need 2 be open 2 dating and having sex with males and like penis.
I’m stuggling 2 find other lesbians. Lately I’ve only been seeing larpers, fetishizers and lesbophobes😕. Sometimes when I think I find other lesbians most of the time it’s a male inclusive “lesbian”, a male, or a bisexual girl talking about how much she loves dick and it’s aggravating me. I don’t know what do 2 at this point. I feel lonely and stressed out.
Sorry 4 trauma dumping🙁
I mean, I don't share the sentiment of "only wanting to date lesbians" at all, so I'm not sure how helpful my advice would be for you.
That being said, I DO have a gf that I had to go out and meet so here's what I did:
Actually leave my dorm. We met at college so that might be a bit of an advantage, but I didn't have to talk to anyone at all. Fun fact, I was actually kinda pursuing her roomie for a hot second there 💀 but I refused to let college be a let down. You know something? I actually got to meet Josh from drake and Josh during my freshman year, and it's NOT even the most memorable thing that happened to me that year. I brought it up with my gf and she said "oh yea, I forgot [meeting Josh] happened". THAT'S how much shit we did freshman year. It was wild.
Don't be afraid to make the first move. I asked her out to dinner. I asked to be alone with her so I could express my feelings, even though I was literally SO nervous.
My specific advice to you would be: even if you don't like those bi girls, maybe you could befriend them at least? Ones you actually like though, don't just use people. Lgb people usually find each other. Have you considered that the best way to find a gf isn't necessarily meeting the perfect girl yourself, but being introduced to the perfect girl via a friend? Through my gf, I've found a gay guy, tons of bi girls, and one lesbian. So maybe your first stop on your path to finding a girlfriend is to drop the "girl" part and looking for lgb friends at all. Before I was dating my gf, I went to a dance and saw a REALLY pretty girl who was in a group. I pulled one of the group members aside and asked if she was gay. Unfortunately, she didn't know, but two of my friends went to go ask her directly for me 💀💀💀. Turns out that she was "pan" and thought I was cute. I asked her to dance, and the rest is (unfortunately very bitter) history 🥴. All that to say that friends--good friends--will do absolute wonders for you!!!
Don't be a pessimist lmao. I left my "I'm never gonna find a gf, ever" thinking behind in high school. Do not give up!! In my first year of college, I literally met three women who were into me. I never would've met them if I just got discouraged.
I'm not sure if this helped, but that's all I know from my personal experience with this endeavor.
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marsbotz · 2 years
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Hi Hi! I wanna hear your headcanons! No matter if you do one or five I still wanna hear it. I know you said that they can be hard to explain so take ur time if you decide to do this :) 🌴
OK. LETS GO. sorry ik this is gonna be so long already
1. lgbt hcs for the ninja since i did pix
lloyd: agender pan (they/them)
kai: transmasc bi (he/him)
jay: nonbinary gay (they/it/he…. lol <- projecting)
cole: transmasc gay (he/him)
zane: nonbinary bi (he/they)
nya: lesbian (she/her). theres probably some gender in there too but its not a solid hc for me
jay and cole are dating as of s5… ISH. and kai and zane are dating as of like s6… or s8. i ahvent worked it out. nya and pix r dating as of like s5 TECHNICALLY lol but s8 proper. cus shes Real now
2. elemental powers and stuff. lets get interesting
MY HC is that all the elements come from the original powers of creation. so the fsm created the original 4 elementals as like protectors of ninjago . and over time as the powers got passed down they mutated or diluted so u get stuff like smoke coming from fire and mind coming from ice (the future vision part). and as of seabound ig water and wind are completely separate but obviously at some point got similarly diluted so long ago even wu didnt realise they were smth separate
essentially this means that while each element still has connections to its dragon roots (see s4 elemental dragons) only the 4 creation elements can use dragon form.
the elements themselves manifest as dragons similarly to the end of s15 (think kai saying “is that… us?”) and the elements kind of …. ARE an elementals whole being.. almost like their soul. the dragons they can summon are a reflection of this (think like.. the titanium dragon for zane)
my approach to stuff in ninjago that is inconsistent or just silly is either to ignore it or warp it into smth that… kind of makes sense. so here my explanation for the powers inconsistencies in the first few seasons lol
the ninja needed the golden weapons to use their powers in the first few seasons despite it later being revealed they were inherent to them simply bc they were too young. powers usually start to manifest around 18 and without training they might not develop past like. accidentally giving ppl static shocks or smth. and this is bc of the dilution of powers over time and the general … lack of need for them in the modern day. but any power can still become massively powerful if trained! lloyd is a special case in that hes able to access his powers from very young due to being. directly descended from the fsm. and similarly the ninja can all use theirs fairly young as the creation elements… nya is able to access her powers at a younger age due to her … different lineage haha
the reason the ninja cant use their powers proper until lloyd donates their golden power is bc as lloyds protectors their power channels into lloyd. in a normal scenario they would have the golden weapons to channel their own powers similarly to how thors hammer worked in ragnarok. and they would also be older and more able to access their powers. but fate works in strange ways lol
i realise im kinda contrarian abt this lol but the ninja r like canonically resistant to their own element so i think they would not have scara from their own element. so like kai burning himself and stuff haha. its a really cool design trope tho .. but in my mind they wld be more likely to have scars from each other. so jay having burn scars and stuff! similarly kai would feel warm to everyone else due to his internal heat but would feel the cold so bad. kai is out there in like 20C/70F weather shivering teeth chattering. and the opposite is true for zane but he has cooling fans so its not as bad haha
umm… one last thing vaguely related to elements i was thinking abt yesterday. the human form taken by the fsm and like. all the elementals and whatever. its not their real form. the fsm is really more of a divine mix of oni and dragon but his power is like that thing where normal ppl kinda… cant comprehend it. so he takes a simpler form when travelling to ninjago and uses this as the basis for the people he created to populate the world. Yes sorry for putting religion in ninjago. the writers did it first
but it is technically still possible for wu garm and lloyd to access these forms. after his bite garmadon slowly starts to show physical traits of the oni.. and lloyd becomes a version of this original form when using their golden powers. both wu and garm technically have access to it as well but dont rlly ever… it doesnt rlly have a practical purpose other than flight lolol and i think wu is both too humble and too afraid to ever rlly tap into his oni side proper to access it. but wu was strangely good at flying in s15 huh… ^_^
ok actually that might do for now this is crazy long. id like to maybe talk more abt garmabros in another post cus i have lotttsss of thoughts abt them. thank u for askingggg!!!
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Pride Headcanons!!
Jim: extremely very certain he's gay, 100%. getting crushed under mountains of internalized homophobia that presents in wild ways, and also sitting on top of being bigoted to the whole entire rest of the community this man is a piece of shit--
Thew: she's in the "probably bi, might be a lesbian" category. she's gone on dates with men, she's gone on dates with women. she only has one proper ex which is a woman. she's not 100% sure what her sexuality is but kinda just lets things happen and doesn't worry about it too much
Min-Jee: 100% knows she's bi, 100% knows she's trans. she's known both since she was very young and kept her mouth shut to all but her closest friends about both until she felt she was in a safe and stable enough place to come out publicly
Porter: hey, he's literally just sitting. just chilling. he does not even have the desire to look for a label. he likes people. he sleeps around with all genders. he feels fine with he/him pronouns, but also feels fine when other pronouns are used. vibes only
Sanjit: he only feels romantic attraction to men, or the closest of what he feels that could be considered romantic attraction is only to men. he's also like, neither cis nor trans. his species dont really have a concept of gender but he did actively chose to be a man when making his human form, and now would be uncomfortable if he got misgendered in either form
Riah: genderfluid, bisexual, actively identifies confidently as both although doesn't talk about either unless directly asked. she has a preference for men, though, when it comes to hookups. she is very, VERY slow to and honestly just unlikely to develop romantic feelings for someone, but when she does its equally likely to be for a man or a woman or nonbinary
Bruce: gay! he also knew from very young that he was gay, and he was one of the "there's a lot of signs here that stereotypically point to a child being gay..." types. he never officially really came out, because he just went on dates with men and those who hadn't already assumed he was gay got the hint then
Noa: queer of some kind. she sometimes gets stressed about finding a more specific label but isn't always the best at telling what she's feeling, and also she's kinda a bit too busy for romance anyway which makes it harder. honestly she has a freakout about what her sexuality is every year like clockwork
Eun Yoo: she thinks she's straight and she's never really considered otherwise because pretty much everyone she's been close with has been straight and all the characters in the shows she watched or comics she read or games she played were straight and she's gotten crushes on boys before. it is totally normal to be a little in love with female friends, anyway. like, if you were a man, obviously you'd confess to them immediately and settle down together and get married and have a beautiful family but she's a woman so she doesn't ask out women so she's straight. (she's bi. she hasn't worked that out yet)
Thespian: thespian does not understand human conceptualizations of either sexuality or gender. thespian has a fringe angel sexuality and a normal angel gender. aka, thespian likes more than just those who it is appropriate to like (can develop feelings for people in different societal status than them), and their gender is mostly neutral but slightly feminine because they are the eldest (more on that here if u wanna know more)
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not you blaming wlw for your show not being popular. It just came out, of course it’s not going to have as much attention as Steven universe. and why don’t you blame Netflix for not marketing it instead of wlw just for existing. also there are trans and nb wlw it’s super lesbophobic to act like the wlw community is uniquely transphobic compared to the gay community or straight people
it's called people aggressively go after / attack shows with prominent nonbinary / transgender rep in ways that they don't with cartoons focused on same sex couples (which, except for kipo that's mlm, are largely sapphic couples between bi and lesbian characters).
also femslash communities aren't all lesbians?? bi, ace, pan, trans, nb people w/ overlap? bi ace pan ships??
also i'm literally a NB wlw / afab in a lesbian (i.e. same sex) presenting relationship, fucking relax
it's almost like the way rebecca sugar got attacked and lambasted bc soo many queer ppl don't wanna care about unlearning their antisemitism / cultural christianity either (which "dead end" also has in common with a jewish lead character, wow! i'm shocked)
and it's not "my show," i've watched it for two weeks and there was nothing in my post that mentioned popularity. i was saying it was comparable to steven universe, not that it’s not popular like steven universe, are you high??
it's that i've seen "dead end paranormal park" get a lot of critique mostly for reasons of competing representation needs, which i thought we all understood by this point. apparently not
the way you're even separating wlw from the gay community without even mentioning mspec wlw people (like me, since i'm also pan and my partner is bi! thank u) or aspec wlw (also me, hello! ace & aro) makes me side eye u tbh. maybe it's time for you to take a look through my queer history tag and have a piece of bread so u can calm down
bc really, the fact that you saw a post about someone going "yeah queer cartoons that focus on gender tend to get a lot more critique than shows that focus on same sex relationships" (bc soo much homophobia is rooted in gender roles / gender essentialism to begin with) and ur response was to send anon hate seems like someone drank the tumblr terf-lite juice and hasn't dismantled that yet, bud
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friendshaped-fella · 3 years
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alright im probably swinging a bat at a waspsnest with this post but...
are ppl still actively parttaking in lgbt discourse on here nowadays? bc i dont see a lot of it anymore on the internet circles im in these days. i might be poking a bear here but (without starting a fight in the notes) can u guys tell me if you still see discourse on:
whether or not queer is a slur
the proper lesbian flag
bi vs pan
ace inclusivity
mogai
bc honestly i see some discourse, though very little, on tiktok and such but i dont really see any big disagreements on those topics anymore. of course ppl still argue about nonbinary lesbians, neopronouns n transmedicalism n shit but like... have the previously mentioned debates just faded out of existance or are they still going on somewhere out there?
PS: im not all that interested in different opinions on any of these topics bc ive seen all of it a 100 times before. i just wanna know if yall are still having these debates, and if yes, are you between the ages of 13 and 16 by any chance? /lhj
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clearsky · 4 years
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My Top Comfort Characters/Kins and My Main HCs For Them
(Note, not all my kins/comfort characters are on here, just the ones I have more than 5 hcs for)
CW: Korekiyo Shinguji (DRV3), Himiko Yumeno (DRV3), Shinsou Hitoshi (BNHA), Kyoko Kirigiri (THH), Tsuyu Asui (BNHA), Entrapta (Spop), Ibuki Mioda (SDR2), Celestia Ludenberg (THH), Funtime Foxy (FNAF), Peril (WOF)
Korekiyo Shinguji (DRV3)
Nonbinary
He/They pronouns
Autistic
Chains and loose accessories are for stimming
Likes the feeling of silk and cotton
Can't stand the feeling of anything rough or bumpy
He likes collecting small trinkets and the bones of small mammals
Can't stand anything salty. He'll eat it but he certainly won't enjoy it
Dating Rantaro
Can flirt, but only if he doesn't try
Petnames are a hell yea
Gets sunburnt really easily
Group dates with Celesnaegiri and Ikuzono
Can't cook for s h i t
Had a scene kid phase in middle school
Went to the same middle school as Celeste and Maki
Knew them when Celeste went through her "I'm not like other girls" phase and Maki was a Band Kid™
Himiko Yumeno (DRV3)
Female
She/Her pronouns
Lesbian
Can force herself to fall asleep within seconds regardless of where she is
100% forces herself to fall asleep when she doesn't wanna listen/talk to someone
Himiko/Angie/Tenko relationship. I'm calling them the Traffic Light Trio
She likes taking naps in the forest
She prefers enclosed/tight spaces more than open ones
Has several hundred stress balls and squishies laying around
She overheats easy
Shinsou Hitoshi (BNHA)
Questioning his gender, but goes by any pronouns
Knows he's Asexual, at least
Has no clue what his romantic orientation is though
The kind of person to carry treats in his pocket just in case he runs into a cat
Will stop to pet literally every cat he comes across
Great at reading people
Doesn't talk unless it's 100% needed
Hangs with Tokoyami, Jirou, and Denki most often
Aizawa has 100% unofficially adopted him
Fosters kittens
Not a big fan of physical touch
He is 100% in the bakusquad. Anyone who says he's in the Dekusquad is a c o w a r d
He and Tsuyu vibe
Knows a bunch of random facts
Dark humour? Dark humour
*skates backwards into his therapist's room slowly sipping from an absurdly huge cup of coffee* Candice you're not gonna BELIEVE the shit I just went through
In case I forgot to mention it, he skates
Kyoko Kirigiri (THH)
Mtf
She/Her
Bi with female preference
Burns go up to her shoulders/collarbone/chest
Prefers to just listen as opposed to saying anything
Knows a ton of random trivia about everyone else in her class
She keeps a notebook she fills with all the trivia
Doesn't celebrate her birthday. She just doesn't see the point of it
Doesn't hate sugar/sweets, but if given the choice she would choose literally everything else
Cuts her own hair
A cat person
Permanent dark circles
T-Tall 😳
Like,,, 6'1 at LEAST
Only person taller than her is Yasuhiro (6'3)
Canon no longer exist
Ahahaha healthy life habits? What are those?
Can't handle horror games
She's the kind of person you'd go to if you needed to rant but didn't want any advice
Polyamourous yo
Celeste/Kyoko/Makoto
She's a dom yall are just scared to admit it
Tsuyu Asui (BNHA)
They go by They/Them
Lesbian
They and Ochaco are dating
They like to hang with Shinsou
Which mainly just means the two sitting in one of their dorms in near total silence doing whatever
Can speak English and French as well as Japanese
Learned English from cartoons
Picked up French bc they thought it'd be fun
Prefers to stay neutral in the whole Bakusquad / Dekusquad thing
They're invited to all outings/events by/for both squads
They like puns
They're a dumbass but willingly, and for fun
Like "someone says they like dark humour and they'll turn off the lights before telling a joke" kind dumbass for fun
Great at poker
Likes Disney Movies
Very touchy once you get close enough
Not in a sexual way, just likes physical contact
Especially fond of piggyback rides and cuddles
Extreme fear of needles
Entrapta (She-Ra)
She/Her or It/Its
Doesn't bother trying to figure out whether she's cis, trans, nonbinary, or what
Was AMAB though
Short as fuck (4'7)
Strong as fuck though
Cuddle game strong
Physical touch is a fuck yes
Cuddles
Piggyback rides
Hugs
Anything where she's touching someone is wonderful in her book
As long as she's the one that initiates it
Anyone else touching her without her permission makes her freak
Prefers being high up
Makes it harder for anyone to sneak up on her
An ace at video games
When it comes to sexuality she just says she's Questioning
Ibuki Mioda (SDR2)
Any pronouns + Pup/Pupself + It/Its
No idea what their gender is otherwise
Biromantic Asexual
Just likes sexual jokes
Gets distracted easily
Has severe hearing problems
She's plays her instruments as loud as possible, with the amp right next to her, without ANY ear protection
It's caused some damage
She talks so loud bc she has no idea how loud is considered acceptable
Wears hearings aids most of the time
Several piercings and tattoos
Likes hearing things jingle
She has a bracelet with a few bells hanging from it
She'll shake it whenever she's bored
LOVES hair accessories
Ribbons are a particular favourite
Occasionally she'll hang little charms from her hair "horns"
The kind of person who never takes any pills/medicine bc she keeps forgetting she has to
Frequently uses emojis
Skates everywhere but she isn't very good at it
She keeps crashing into everything
Has broken every bone in her body at least 3 times
Most of which was bc she keeps trying to kick in doors and skating down the stairs
Celestia Ludenberg (THH)
Nonbinary
Any pronouns, mainly goes by She/They
Bi, 70:30
Collects mini hand sanitizers and can tabs
Has single handedly gotten Mario Kart, Mario Party, Monopoly, Uno, and Clue banned a grand total of 17 times (and counting)
The kind of person to purposefully target someone regardless of what game was being played
Favourite victim is Byakuya (bc he gets so upset about it and she finds that hilarious)
Mains Waluigi
Celeste/Kyoko/Makoto
Has several banned Twitter accounts bc whenever she's bored she'll start discourse on purpose
Hangs with Korekiyo, Ibuki, Byakuya, Yasuhiro, and Leon most often
It's a weird friend group but everyone's sorta gotten used to it
She and Byakuya gamble together occasionally
She tries to avoid it bc he'll willingly blow his entire fortune in an attempt to beat her
Autustic
Can't stand the feeling of water
Mainly bc she can't swim for shit
Horror movies? Hates them
Gets flustered super easily
Taka is her twin brother
Kotoko, Kokichi, and Gundham are their half siblings (Same father)
Peko and Toko are their cousins
She sucks ass at go fish
Fuck canon she's 4'11 now
C h u b b y
Freckles
Once she gets comfortable enough with herself she dyes her hair in the peekaboo style
Either black and red or black and blonde
Haven't decided yet
I'll be doing Celesnaegiri hcs as a seperate post but I just feel it's important for you to know that she expresses her affection verbally and is a very touchy person
Went to middle school with Maki and Korekiyo
Has horrible eyesight
She wears contacts most of the time but she always puts off buying more
After the 5th or so time she ended up blindly stumbling around a week after her contacts ran out Kyoko convinced her to buy glasses as well
Religious accessories yo
Like chokers and dangly earrings with crosses and pentagrams and shit
Likes wearing wacky earrings
Can run and do all sorts of tricks in heels
She and Mukuro are exes yo
Keeps her hair short so it's easier to manage
Hair never gets longer than her shoulders if she can help it
She seems like the kind of person who'd keep her bangs grown past her eyes regardless of how frustrating or inconvenient it is
She's a sub yall just don't wanna admit it
Funtime Foxy (FNAF)
I'm going on the record to say this
Funtime Foxy is genderfluid and that is that
Goes by Funtime
Any pronouns, They/Them most commonly
Plays music (keyboard and guitar mainly)
They and Funtime Freddy (Freds) mainly play with the kids
Freds mainly tells stories with Bonbon while Funtime more so plays one-on-one
Has nicknames for everyone
Circus Baby - Ringleader
Ballora - Bells
Funtime Freddy - Partner
Bon Bon - Bun
Peril (WOF)
I like both Nonbinary She/They Peril and Mtf She/Her Peril
They're both such good concepts
She's a lesbian, Harold
She only had a crush on Clay bc he was pretty much everything she was supposed to like in a guy
Gimme a moment while I force all my mental disorders onto this poor child
Autistic, Anxiety (Social anxiety, mainly, but she has most types), Adhd, PTSD
I'd like to reiterate yet again that She's a lesbian
Sunny and Glory were her gay awakening
Peril in Book 1: Damn, Sunny and Glory sure are pretty. Anyone would be lucky to date them. Clay would probably go for them over me. He would be stupid if he didn't. I myself would willingly date them over someone like me. They're just so pretty :(
Peril waking up in a cold sweat in the middle of arc 2: WAIT-
Rarepair alert but Peril/Sora
Peril meeting Sora: "Hmmm She's attractive. I would love to date her. Too bad I'm straight and in love with her brother lmao :P"
Peril, a mere month later, waiting for Ruby to leave Jade Mountain, pacing in her cave, running face first into a wall: WAIT-
I remember reading this one amazing story where Sora taught Peril to read/write and Peril found out she set off the bomb and comforted her/convinced her her run so that's canon now
Btw if anyone can remember what that story was called/what platform it was on and could tell me I'd appreciate it very much
I'd even be willing to draw a character of your's or make you an icon or something
I usually don't accept requests bc I get burnt out easy but this is a special case
She runs into Sora again sometime between the beginning of TOP and the end
I like to imagine she just goes wandering around
Anyway she confesses like a mere few minutes after running into her again bc Peril is just subtle like that
The actual confession takes 15 minutes and the entire time Sora is just sitting here like "👁👄👁 sure"
Bam Peril/Sora
Peril plans to keep it a secret for a little while longer but she spends 3 seconds around Clay and pretty much blurts it out
Clay, who wasn't even aware that Peril was a lesbian, is just "👁👄👁"
I wanna say Clay doesn't know what a lesbian is but in my canon Sunny is a lesbian so Starflight has already told him
Anyway he's super supportive
From that point Peril is sorta open about her sexuality?
Like, she gives Clay permission to tell the rest of the D.O.D bc she isn't about to risk being in front of them when they hear the news
(When Sunny starts actively seeking her out as a hang out buddy and Tsunami, Glory, and Starflight appear to tolerate her presence just a bit more afterwards she pretends she isn't confused by the change)
She's pink, white, and blue bc I said so
If you look at a certain angle in the right lighting her eyes, mouth, fire, and under her scales all look purple
But her fire is normally white and blue bc I said so
Also she pale as fuck bc in my canon their fire just sorta burns their colour away
You know how you leave something outside for too long and it gets sunbleached? Where it gets all washed out?
Like that but more extreme
By the age of 10-12 firescale dragons are just white with pale eyes
That's right not even the eyes are safe
Ram horns :P
I'm also fond of Peril/Sunny
Or maybe Peril/Sora/Sunny
But Peril/Sora is the main thing
On the topic of that bringing in my hc that if one sib in a sib group is fire resistant all of them are
She,,, She can change her scale colour
But only slightly and only if her emotions are strong enough
Bc I don't give a fuck about Darkstalker's scroll we were robbed of hybrid Peril
Unfortunately all of Peril's emotions are strong
Rainwing ruff along her head and neck
It's like a hood
It's mainly smoothed to her sides but when she's startled it flares out
RAINWING PUPILS
Y'all will know what those look like as soon as I get off my ass :P
She,,, She can mimic bird cries
Hates the summer
She has more than enough body heat already and the outside is just hot enough to add on and make her feel sick
She can somewhat control her heat but most of the time it's based on her emotions
It can go from standing-in-the-middle-of-a-burning-building-cant-see-your-nose-smoke-is-so-thick heat (Strong emotion) to Hey-thats-a-nice-cozy-campfire heat (Calm/"weak" emotion/Sleeping)
I'm just gonna make a different post with all my Peril hcs cuz there isnt enough room for all of them here
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New Questioning WLW Doc
so um dont wanna be contra-vershal but i’m starting the process of writing a document similar to the infamous ‘am i a lesbian masterdoc’, but taking into account bi women more, so like i’m hoping to hear from both bi women & lesbians about common experiences of the questioning process that could point to either bisexuality or lesbianism (especially ones that are specific to each demographic if possible as the aim of the doc is to help ppl figure out which one they are. shared experiences are also good tho !)
I’m currently working loosely with the categories of
“non-normative” attraction to men (ie how bi women’s attraction to men differs from straight women’s)
distinguishing between genuine attraction & mistaken “attraction” due to internalised homophobia / being closeted to oneself
gender/presentation stuff like androgyny, butch/fem, he/him wlw, nonbinary wlw, etc.
so if u wanna talk to me about anything relating to that (or have suggestions for other categories i’ve not considered) please send me an ask abt it ! if you want me to link your blog as credit at the end of the doc then send the ask off anon, but if you don’t want your name attached to it just stay anon or let me know in the ask that u want to remain anonymous
would love if ppl could reblog this so i can get a wider reach with it <3
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canonicallyanxious · 4 years
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what is a topic you would like to be explored more in future Druck seasons? ppersonally, i wish they mentioned how Kieu My’s family reacted to her dating Fatou, assuming her parents now know.
hmmmm. good question, anon! tbqh i try to stay away from speculating too much about future topics in the skamverse bc i feel like that’s just setting myself up for disappointment when i don’t need to lol also a lot of the time w/ druck i’m happy with the direction the show went anyway [for example before s6 ended i had said i wanted them to focus on immigrant issues but i have absolutely no complaints about the story we got instead, super important to focus on fatou’s dyscalculia plus we got some discussion about the characters’ experiences from immigrant families in the end so win win for me!]
HAVING SAID THAT i do have a lil wishlist of things i would like to see, not that i will be mad if druck doesn’t do these things but just like, if they wanna do them as a treat for me i will certainly not complain
i’ve seen people talk about getting out of a toxic friendship being a potential topic in future seasons and I like that idea a lot! like i think it’d be pretty rad to give teenagers a sort of framework for how to deal with that kind of situation bc let me tell u it’s not easy
i’m not sure that we will get this any time soon but i would LOVE to see a trans girl as a prominent character. skamverse it’s 2021 it’s about TIME
More intersectionality! I really liked how Fatou’s ethnicity/background was not erased from the other aspects of her story like being a lesbian or having a learning disability, i even feel like they could have done more with this so i would like to see more of it in the future
again not sure that they would feel the need to do this as they already have Mohammed from s4 and Kieu My talk about their backgrounds a little but if they wanted to delve more deeply into refugee/immigrant issues i wouldn’t say no to that i’m js
i loved Fatou’s learning disability storyline and i think it would be really cool to see other disabilities [physical disabilities for example] represented as well! maybe from the perspective of someone who has been dealing/coping with the disability for a while as opposed to learning about it throughout the season, both of which i think are important to portray
if we do get a season about Ismail that focuses on being nonbinary [Ismail for s8 i speak it into existence] i hope we get a storyline about the nuances of exploring gender and how messy and complicated it can be but also how much of a relief it can be when you find what fits you and the people who accept you for who you are
other than that i mean honestly i feel like a lot of stuff that was previously on my wishlist was hit by s6 [season about a disability, check; season focusing on a bi asian girl dealing with internalized biphobia and people in her life fetishizing her, check; season about an interracial relationship where neither of them are white, check; a thoughtfully written storyline about two teen girls of color falling in love, CHECK] so i can’t really think of many other things i personally would love to see but also as a non-German non-teenager i am definitely not druck’s intended audience so again i won’t be mad if they don’t hit the rest of these things [nor should they be catering to me!], ultimately i just hope whatever stories they do decide to tell in the future they are able to do so with the proper care and nuance and that they resonate with the audience they are trying to reach [AKA German teenagers]
[sidenote: i totally feel you about wanting to know more about Kieu My’s family’s reaction! i mean i really get why that wasn’t a focus bc it wasn’t important for the story they were trying to tell this season, plus they’d probably be wary of playing into certain stereotypes, but like my own coming out as bi to my viet immigrant parents was really quite complicated and it would have been cool to see a storyline that touches a bit on that. that’s kind of why i’m not super on board with the “skamverse already has a coming out story, they shouldn’t tell coming out stories anymore” thing bc while I don’t feel like they NEED to tell more coming out stories i also don’t feel like it would necessarily be a BAD thing either. coming out is a different process for literally everyone and i think when people say they’re tired of coming out stories really what they mean is that they’re tired of one specific coming out story being told, or at least that’s how i feel about it. so personally i think there’s value in showing the diversity of queer experiences when it comes to this topic bc there really is a lot of it in real life, like every single queer person i know has a different story, but not a lot of it in mainstream media. anyway i digress lol but yeah i’d be into them telling other sorts of coming out stories if they wanted to tackle it!]
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tadpoledyke · 3 years
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i really liked ur post about utena being queer regardless of being specifically bi or lesbian canonically! i do wanna say that the term/concept of “socialized female” is a terf talking point and idk if u are aligned with terf politics..but if not, i wanted to let u know so u could reflect on that and maybe rethink the whole “socialized female/male” idea
Hi! I’m glad you liked my post and thank you so much for bringing this to my attention! I am absolutely not a TERF this blog supports trans women and nonbianry people so much! I’m enby myself! I didn’t realise this was Terfy language but I can see how it is.
When I said women and female socilaised folks, I include trans women under the category of women, and under female socilaised folks I put nonbinary people, trans men, intersex people, afab people in general, etc. Idk if there’s a better, more concise way of encompassing all gender identities who experience misogyny but if anyone knows please tell me!
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