#it's TEXT

[drulalovescas]

They really pulled no punches

And Missouri was a psychic. She KNEW

[youchangedmedestiel]

My dad ships Destiel, I think

When I visit my dad every Sunday, we usually watch 2 or 3 episodes of SPN (in French because he doesn't understand English, but I already watched it in English).

So, yesterday, we saw the one where Leviathan!Cas goes in the water and Dean picks up his coat and fold it. After seeing Dean's reaction to losing Cas, my dad said: "Oh he was in love with the guy."

I chuckled, obviously. Then, he added: "it's true they were close." Like he understands Dean's reaction and back tracked. (I wanted to answer: "you have no idea" but I don't want to spoil, I can't wait for what comes next).

In season 4 too, when Cas came at the exact moment when Dean needed it (don't remember which episode exactly), my dad said: "ah here comes his girlfriend." I almost burst out laughing that time.

I laugh every time because it's just prove that it's not subtext guys. My dad doesn't really pay attention to details, sometimes he even does something else while watching. It's just here since the beginning, it's TEXT.

[allofthebeanz]

Love how throughout CotW every possible love interest Fraser has (subtext wise or text wise) literally shows how they are compatible with him but aren't the right match AND THEN he rides into the sunset with Dolphin Boy

[happyfeetfuryroad]

The saddest thing to me is seeing how many people (both in universe and out) buy into the narrative that Ed "went mad because Stede abandoned him" i.e. that Edward is this fickle hyperviolent guy who will snap and cause atrocities to cope with his pain

When Edward!! Was coping!! Wonderfully!! Before someone!! Decided to harrass him!! With the express purpose of making him snap!!

[edutainer2022]

Don't wanna reblog to stir anything as it's about headcanons (lest I got blocked by more people, yay, that was fun), but, to be honest "I HAVE to do IT ALL" and "Keeping myself busy with International Rescue is the only thing that keeps me from going crazy" does not spell someone who delegates and is otherwise reasonable with health and well adjusted in my book. And this mindset doesn't go away overnight. Same goes for sleeping. There's a kind of frantic buzz in grief, when you run yourself to the point the mind just blacks out, not to dream. And yes, you're quite energized and efficient otherwise, when awake. I completed two doctorates over eight years in a state like that. And yes, this can go on for years. Speaking from experience. Same goes for leadership (or running a business). You can only delegate and rely on the well oiled team, when you've established yourself and earned trust. If the previous leader left a large shadow, it's lots of long hours and an uphill battle for quite some time. That too is from experience.

[koobiie]

shoutout to everyone who wants to infodump but cant string together coherent thoughts to form sentences and instead just look at you like this

[sneefsnorf]

stop using chat gpt. i can also feed you misinformation when you ask me questions and also im beautiful

[drops-of-universe]

"craving a food means your body needs something that food can offer" now what the fuck does my body need with an ice cream

[femmeidiot]

wanting to talk to people is so fucking embarrassing. literally hi it's me again I wanted to have a conversation with you because I think you're fun to talk to. oh god you can just fucking kill me if you want sorry

[nondivisable]

I need to say something and I need y'all to be calm

if it isn't actively bad or harmful, no representation should be called "too simple" or "too surface level"

I have a whole argument for this about the barbie movie but today I wanna talk about a show called "the babysitters club" on Netflix

(obligatory disclaimer that I watched only two episodes of this show so if it's super problematic I'm sorry) (yes. I know it's based on a book, this is about the show)

this is a silly 8+ show that my 9 year old sister is watching and it manages to tackle so many complex topics in such an easy way. basic premise is these 13 year old girls have a babysitting agency.

in one episode, a girl babysits this transfem kid. the approach is super simple, with the kid saying stuff like "oh no, those are my old boy clothes, these are my girl clothes". they have to go to the doctor and everyone is calling the kid by her dead name and using he/him and this 13 year old snaps at like a group of doctors and they all listen to her. it's pure fantasy and any person versed in trans theory would point out a bunch of mistakes.

but after watching this episode, my little sister started switching to my name instead of my dead name and intercalating he/him pronouns when talking about me.

one of the 13 years old is a diabetic and sometimes her whole personality is taken over by that. but she has this episode where she pushes herself to her limit and passes out and talks about being in a coma for a while because of not recognizing the limits of her disability.

and this allowed my 9 year old sister to understand me better when I say "I really want to play with you but right now my body physically can't do that" (I'm disabled). she has even asked me why I'm pushing myself, why I'm not using my crutches when I complain about pain.

my mom is 50 years old and watching this show with my sister. she said the episode about the diabetic girl helped her understand me and my disability better. she grew up disabled as well, but she was taught to shut up and power through.

yes, silly simple representation can annoy you if you've read thousands of pages about queer liberation or disability radical thought, but sometimes things are not for you.

[millenianthemums]

diet culture people make me feel like i’m going crazy. you want me to take an experimental pill that destroys my appetite?? you want me to remove part of my stomach??? you want me to stop eating bread and rice, two of the staple foods most inherent to humanity????? why exactly? because my stomach is big? because you don’t like the way i look, and you think it’s reasonable to tell me to carve pieces off of myself and try random drugs and ruin my own life so i can look more visually pleasing to you? and you somehow don’t see how absurdly cruel and selfish that is to ask of somebody???? while pretending you care about their HEALTH????????????????? FUCK YOU!!!!

[stuckinapril]

people who only use conventional social media are so funny bc they’ll casually be like “can I see your tumblr??” are you Insane. this is no instagram or twitter. this is my vault of secrets

[copepods]

crazy how 4 hours of work will literally take up my entire 15+ hour day. who allowed this

[berry-s0da]

My tumblr notes when mutuales clock in to like my posts

[fieldlands]

i feel like it's absolutely crucial in the social justice world to take "he a little confused but he got the spirit" and similar sentiments/situations as a Win. intent is so much more important than saying it right the first time! if someone is approaching with scuffed language and incorrect terms but they're visibly being as polite as they know how, that person is a friend and should be treated better than what their words might invite in someone else's mouth.

[scretladyspider]

“If you have time to watch Netflix you have time for a side hustle” my side hustle is relaxing so that my body and brain can heal from by this nose-to-the-grindstone bullshit. I refuse to feel guilty for being a human with the need to relax sometimes. my side hustle is no.