#mtf srs

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

Apparently they 'skinned the sausage.'

I love my boyfriend.

[genderqueerdykes]

getting sex reassignment surgeries willingly is not gross. getting top surgery is not gross. having breasts removed is not gross. having breast enlargement surgeries is not gross. getting bottom surgery is not gross. bodies with phalloplasties are not gross. bodies with metoidioplasties are not gross. bodies with orchiectomies are not gross. bodies with vaginoplasties are not gross. bodies with hysterectomies are not gross. bodies with penectomies are not gross. post-op top surgery chests are not gross. post-op bottom surgery genitals are not gross.

we need to do people who have gotten surgeries better. trans bodies are beautiful and people deserve to be the happiest they can in their own bodies. trans bodies are not gross. you will encounter people who have gotten surgeries and you'll never be any the wiser. trans bodies are beautiful.

[woodlandwizard77]

A Step by Step Guide to Losing Your D**k

I recently wrote a series of messages to my aunt talking about all the steps I need to do to get bottom surgery, a penile inversion vaginoplasty at Mt. Sinai, in the next year or two. Its a long list. And everytime I added something she had a sort of “wow thats rough” reaction, but to me its just the to do list. So I decided to write them all out.

Start transition DONE

Most insurance companies and surgeons require you to have socially transitioned and have done HRT for at least 1 year at the time of operation

For social transition, this was March of 2024

For HRT it will be January of 2025

Get a referral to a surgeon (I am here)

In my case, Mt. Sinai in Manhattan

My Doctor referred me, but Mt. Sinai takes self referrals

Start laser hair removal

Book a consultation (I am here)

Go to laser frequently enough to satisfy surgeon

Convince Mom and Dad to help out DONE

Get 2 letters

Social Worker (1)

PCP's Office

Social Worker (2)

Mt. Sinai

Consultation with Mt. Sinai’s team

Wait 3-6 months (I’m here)

Bring letters

My insurance only requires 2, less than Mt. Sinai thinks insurance will need, and Mt. Sinai provides 1 of them. Meaning the other is through IHS Behavioral

Schedule Social Work pre surgical consult appt

Schedule Mental Health and Medical Clearance with Registrar

Go to NYC for 1-2 nights, maybe for each, hopefully just once

Maybe also for Social Work thing

Consult with Surgeon

Wait until I’ve worked about 12 months to get short term disability

Probably summer (ASAP) and when Mom has time off

Do logistics

Book an airbnb, hotel, etc for recovery

Starting a few days after OR date and lasting a little over a month

Within a 90 minute drive of Mt. Sinai

Rural enough that Mom is comfortable to help and can go home if someone else shows up

Probably New Jersey, maybe Hudson Valley

Has at least 1, preferably 2, separate bedrooms

Has 2 beds

Has ADA accessible entry

Has a kitchen

Has a full bath, preferably and a half

Has internet and preferably a TV

Lodging for Mom + Dad/care team while I’m in OR

Probably 5-7 days

Preferably with a 1-2 day buffer period before OR date (included in the 7 day estimate) so I can enjoy the city

Either within a short walk from Mt. Sinai or on the same subway line as Mt. Sinai

RW, 1, or ACE

Someone to help me get from recovery location to Mt. Sinai while not in NYC

Develop and get list of items needed for recovery

Dilator

Pads

Gowns/loose clothing

Comfort food

Coordinate missing 8-9 weeks of work

Take care with who knows what before I leave

Inform HR, department manager, and work friends whats up

Get cleared for surgery and get an OR date

Probably a 6-12 month date from clearance

Get pre clearance testing through PCP or a lab in hometown

Go to NYC for that if need be

Week Before Surgery

No alcohol, no aspirin, NSAIDs, herbal supplements, or fish oil

Consult for other non aspirin blood thinners (which I am not on)

No alcohol for 3 weeks after as well

Tylenol/Acetaminophen is okay

Go downstate

See friends from NYC?

Bring Mom/Dad?

Do something fun in Manhattan

Get a COVID test

Take an anti-bacterial bath

Day before surgery

Breakfast before 9am

Last meal

Drink Golytely bowel solution around noon

Chemically induced diarrhea

Clear fluids only after golytely

(includes coffee, tea, water, broth, some juices)

Nothing goes in the stomach after midnight

Some medication okay with a sip of water

HRT??? (switched to injections)

Get surgery (a penile inversion vaginoplasty)

1 to 1+½ days

I’ve heard of as long as three

3-5 day hospital stay

Mom and Dad probably stay in Manhattan then

Go to recovery location

Drive with seat reclined

Stay for 4 weeks, pretty much bedridden

Go to follow ups

Dilate

Go home

Continue recovery for another 2-4 weeks at home

Follow up with PCP

Return to life

[thotsoflore]

I just got back from having the packing removed and my first dilation! It felt so natural and pleasant. It feels like I was always meant to have this, and it feels so... right. I'm finally whole, and I love it.

[sorrysophee]

Boys go to Jupiter to get more stupider

Girls go to Venus to get rid of their penis because they do great srs there I'm told

[doctorfroggimoggi]

A bit of muscle practice

TW for top sc@ars

[queenwendy]

God, bottom dysphoria is such bullshit. One day I’ll look down and I’ll think “you know, I’ve had this penis for 22 years, and sure it’s weird and awkward and doesn’t quite feel right but it’s served me well, it has its purposes, I could live like this. It’s way more convenient than surgery” and then the next day I’m practically praying I’ll wake up miraculously with a vagina. Which is a rather awkward position to be in given I’m an atheist.

Fucking stupid ass bottom dysphoria

[killpopdarling]

[jenny-in-a-jar]

One week since my Surgery

People liked hearing about my trans journey, so for those interested, here's my first week update to having vaginoplasty (one type of mtf bottom surgery).

Of course, I hope this helps any transfem interested in this surgery. But, I understand that other people will be curious. And that's ok! There's nothing wrong with curiosity. Just be respectful ❤️ which a lot of people been (and I block those who aren't)

No pictures but I will go get a bit graphic with my description so here's your warning before hearing more.

So first off some disclaimers. There's a lot of variety in procedure and treatment when it comes to vaginoplasty. For example, I live pretty close to the hospital I had the surgery at which influenced how early they let me go home. So, my experiences are definitely not universal.

So, I had breast augmentation at the same time. And for me, that was definitely the easiest surgery I've ever gotten. Like pretty painless (with painkillers ofc).

Now, vaginoplasty is definitely the most painful procedure I've had! The best way to describe the pain day one would be like when you've tucked all day but more intense (I know not a lot of people have tucked on this app but it's the best metaphor I could come up with 🤷‍♀️). But as the week went on, the catheter definitely became the most painful part. It felt like my urethra was burning 🔥😬 (I bet a lot more people can understand that feeling lol). Interestingly, it was at its least painful while moving and moving is also good for recovery!

I stayed in the hospital for two nights before they removed the covering and sent me home with a catheter and packing in my vagina. Again, they probably only did it this way because I live 20 minutes away. As the weak went on, it swelled up a lot and brushing spreads from it across my thighs (in honestly a cool pattern!)

When my catheter and packing was removed they gave me a "tour" of my new vagina. I don't remember the names well but here's what I remember. The Major flaps (the main thing you see when you see a vulva) we're still pretty swollen but starting to loosen and get that wrinkly quality. My nurse likes calming them dog ears at this stage and they really did look like dog ears 🥺🐶. I saw my clitoral hood and she said my clitoris is packed behind all of that but I don't need to worry about that for now. She also pointed out the urethral plating which was formally part of the urethra proper but with the inside on the outside now. It's super blue now but in time it'll start developing a mucus to keep my vagina from getting bone dry (will still need lube for dilation and eventually sex). And then the vagina hole itself.

To keep my vagina from healing shut, I'll need to dilate at least 4 times daily for 20 minutes this first week and a while longer and then slowly ramp down as the hole heals up. But, the nurse stressed that there are no hard rules with dilation and I just need to really listen to my body if I want to get the depth and width I want. Which I do want plenty of depth and width bc tbh my partner will be able to fill it 🤭 they key thing they said was to try to be as relaxed as possible while doing so 🪻

They also filled my bladder with sterile water as a "practice run" to make sure I can pee on my own.

I want to say I got a lot of wonderful nurses! All except the one I had when I first got out of surgery, I could tell actually saw me as and treated me like a woman. And they did a great job at welcoming me vagina ownership in a very understanding way without being condensing 💕

Despite the horrible pain, it's been a very euphoric experience 🥰 and I would definitely recommend it for anyone who wants it.

Feel free to ask any questions, I can't promise I'll have the best answers but I'll try my best 🥺

Also feel free to look through #my trans journey tag for more info on my transition if you're curious ✨

[maggot-in-my-skin]

Ik this was some sort of joke hornyposting post by someone else, but I'd get SRS just to use a knotted strap-on or a snake double cock strap on tbh.

@desireetheshfitinggod

[tongueeatingparasite]

Is it normal to feel so obsessed with women that you like physically can't imagine transitioning? That you know you'd be happier as a woman and not a disgusting worthless evil male but like any attempt at becoming one feels wrong because you can't just approximate divinity? Women are perfect and all males are terrible people except for like 2 of them and you know for a fact you're not the 2 of them cos you once made eye contact with someone and are therefore a rapist?

Not even a "unless you pass and can live completely as a woman then you'll 'never be one'" but like a "unless you are born as one you'll always have a disgusting male brain and be filled with the bugs under your skin and no matter what you do you'll always have been a male therefore never will be good" kind of thing?

And like, sure, HRT and SRS might make you closer to humanity physically but you'll always have been born male and you can't recover from that and you can't erase your memories and so you spend like 3 years trying to manifest a tulpa so that you can someday be mentally replaced by something other than yourself so that whatever thoughtform takes over your body is either a better person than you or at least lacks the guilt you have for choosing to be born a male?

That's like normal shit that everyone does at some point?

[olfactomancer]

I’ve been cooking all my life and professionally for like five years almost and I’m only just now finding out that there is a knife manufacturer name F. Dick.

And they have been making knives for like.

Almost 250 years.

I have to own one now, preferably an older one. The irony is just too good.

[spitblaze]

hey trans women correct me if im wrong but i get the feeling that despite terfs just...saying whatever will make transfems sound the most disgusting in that exact moment that it is, in fact, generally a sign that something is wrong if a bottom surgery vagina smells noticeably bad. much like bio vaginas

[sorrysophee]

Pussy so tight, they're calling me the French revolution with how I'm chopping heads off

[the-spooky-children]

PELO I KNOW YOU'RE SAYING IT'S BECAUSE IT HAS A SWEET MESSAGE AND IS WELL KNOWN BUT THAT SONG HAS A LOT OF FUCKING IMPLICATIONS FOR THE SM LORE AND CHARACTERS-

OF FUCKING COURSE THE SONG IS ABOUT A FATHER-SON(?) RELATIONSHIP OF COURSE IT IS-

(/nm)

[oh-dear-so-queer]

A trans woman could not risk expressing any doubt about the 'nature', prospects or behaviour of the sex she was trying to join. A historian records: 'For a man to be considered for sex change treatment he has to convince the doctors of his femininity. He has to present as "hyper" feminine – and even if he feels it – he is advised not to express the ambivalence and androgyny that birth women experience.'

"Normal Women: 900 Years of Making History" - Philippa Gregory