#nonbinary transguy

[cozymushroom13]

I want to add something I read somewhere (can’t remember where):

Try treating labels less like stickers and more like magnets. Stickers are hard to get off, putting one somewhere feels rather permanent. But a magnet can easily be taken off again. As well as easily being put on again.

Labels are there for you. You can try them out and later figure out that they don’t fit you (anymore). Sometimes labels change over time, sometimes none quite fit.

It’s the same for pronouns in my opinion. I first used she/they, then they/he. Heard about it/its and absolutely didn’t like it. Added specific neopronouns. Got rid of the he. Started enjoying it/its after all. I’m now at neutral pronouns in general, mainly it/they but also chill with neos. And he/him is only okay in situations with people that I don’t know to be safe for nonbinary people. (And in my primary language since there are no neutral pronouns except for it/its and neos)

I also “hoard” labels. I don’t use may actively as it’s not that important for me currently, but they still belong to me. I think I own 7 different pride flags (okay, 2 are the rainbow and the progress pride flag) and they don’t even represent the different nonbinary genders I figured out within my genderfluidity.

My best advice I can offer to anyone questioning their gender (or sexuality or romantic orientation); choose whatever label fits best or don’t choose one at all. You don’t have to define it if it’s too confusing or complex.

I saw a post somewhere and forgive me because I can’t quote it word for word because I forgot so I’ll paraphrase, but it basically said that labels won’t always be 100% accurate and it’s okay to choose ones that explain your experience only 25%/100, or 75%/100, it all just depends on you. And I think that’s the best advice I could’ve heard because I was questioning my sexuality and romantic orientation once again during the time I read it. The weight was lifted when I found a label that works but doesn’t describe my experience completely, it’s as close as I’ll get, and I reminded myself that that’s okay.

Sometimes labels make us feel better and it’s valid to want to have one, but remember that they don’t always have to explain what you’re feeling completely. But labels are also only tools, so if you don’t need them or can’t find one that works then don’t use them. Or just create your own if you want to be creative.

yeah!!! im gonna pin this because it sums up the exact bit of advice i always struggle to get across and it needs to be said more often.

[dayangaytransman]

Transphobe: Pronouns are useless, blah blah blah.

Me: Of course they are! Mother fucker! I speak Persian!

We only have one pronoun, “او,” which you can pronounce like the “oo” in “moon.” That means I use “they/them” for your transphobic ass all the time!

Additionally, we can use “این,” pronounce like the "in" In Berlin. which means “it,” if you are nearby.

We can even omit the pronoun completely. For example, we can say “رفت,” which means someone left, and as you can see, it’s just one word.

We can write poems, and no one knows the gender of our lovers. I don’t know about you, but I think it’s pretty neat.

[transmascdaddy]

Channeling my inner Bratz Boy 💕

[radio-ghost-cooks]

@ everyone who posts under #transandrophobia: i love you. i love you i love you i love you. i'm always so scared about acting masculine because i'm surrounded by people who've made me feel like masculinity is this awful, horrible thing that automatically means you're a problem and you're going to hurt someone and all masculinity is bad. i'm sitting here crying at 1 in the morning because i love you all and i can't thank you all enough for speaking up about this in a way that younger transmascs/trans guys like me can't. thank you thank you thank you

[my-jewish-life]

Happy Transgender Day of Visibility everyone! You are loved, you are awesome and you are perfect🏳️‍⚧️

[catgirlfingies]

Trans people deserve so much love in this world

[nb-goblin]

Hi :) I'm a queer researcher doing some queer research for my dissertation and would be so grateful if some of y'all could help me out by taking part

It's a short questionnaire asking you to rate different aspects of your memories before and after coming out (as trans) as well as questions about gender dysphoria (dw if you don't experience gender dysphoria around being trans, your participation is still useful :)

for more info have a look at the poster below and/or my pinned post :3

thank you so much if ya take part!!

link to survey

(sorry to keep posting about this, finding participants is hard)

[cosmic-dust-poltergeist]

One day, I'll be on mental health meds and HRT, and on that day, I might be a fully functional person

[03kareshi]

ok I’m so curious about everyone’s opinions on each of the prisoners’ sexuality/gender, sooooo… here’s a poll!

I’ll do each one individually ^^ sorry if I don’t list your hc sexuality/gender. i tried to write combinations, but if I don’t list yours, please feel free to share!

[rhysandshiftingthespectrum]

My Queer Labels

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Overall Label: Genderfluid Genderflux Non-Binary TransGuy

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Genders Within That Label:

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

TransGuy - Someone who was born female, but identifies as male/is male.

Non-Binary - Someone who is in between the binary genders, is a combination of the binary genders, or is outside of the binary genders.

Non-Binary Man - A gender that is both 100% non-binary and 100% man at the same time. 

Masc Non-Binary - A gender that is both 100% non-binary and 100% masculine at the same time. 

Demiboy - A gender that is described as feeling partially male. 

Boycreature - A xenogender that is described as being a boy in a creature way or being a boy and a creature. 

Agender - A gender that is described as being genderless, without gender, having no gender, and/or feeling like gender is irrelevant to them. 

Blankgender - A gender that is described as feeling like someone’s gender cannot be described, but is a blank space that is confusing. 

Quoigender - A gender that is described as not knowing how to describe their gender, not knowing what gender is and therefore being confused on what they are, and/or not wanting to define their gender. 

Fairygender - A xenogender that is described as feeling their gender is like fairies or has a strong connection to fairies. 

Offboy - A gender that is described as feeling closely represented by a masculine gender, but is not said gender. 

Enboy - A gender that is described as feeling either like a masculine-aligned non-binary person, or like a boy and a non-binary person.

Paraboy - A gender where one is paragender, and also has a connection to masculine and/or masculine-aligned identities. One’s masculine identity will take up 51%-99% of one’s gender, while the remaining can be any other gender or combination of genders. 

Genderqueer - A gender that is closely related to non-binary, and basically means being out of the binary, whether in gender or in expression, or both. 

Bigender - A gender that means being two genders at once. 

Trigender - A gender that means being three genders at once. 

Demimasculine - A gender where one feels partly masculine and partly another gender. 

Demimasc - A gender where one feels partially masculine/like a man, and also feels like they’re outside the binary. 

Libragender - A gender where one feels agender, but has a particular connection to another gender.  

Libramasculine - A gender where one feels agender, but has a connection to masculinity. 

Bigenderflux - A gender that means being two genders at once, and those two genders flux in how much you feel them. 

Trigenderflux - A gender that means being three genders at once, and those three genders flux in how much you feel them. 

Polygender - A gender that means being multiple genders at once. 

Polygenderflux - A gender that means being multiple genders at once, and those genders fluxing in how much you feel them. 

Nonboyic - A gender that feels masculine, but not exactly male. Like they’re outside of the binary, but close to it.

Gendergender - A gender described as knowing you’re feeling a gender, but not being able to describe it/not knowing what it is other than a gender. 

Wolfboy - A gender described as being a boy and connected to wolves and wolves nature. Or being masculine and connected to wolves and wolves nature.

Rosboy - A gender described as being a boy, but also having a strong connection to femininity. 

Boyprincess - A gender described as being a boy that’s feminine in a princess way, or being a boy that is a princess. 

Luneby - A gender described as being non-binary or under the non-binary label, but has a feminine aura, tone, vibe, essence, aesthetic, atmosphere, or air. 

Luneboy - A gender described as being male or male-aligned, but has a feminine aura, tone, vibe, essence, aesthetic, atmosphere, or air. 

Plutoboy - A gender described as having a connection to femininity and/or being feminine, and a connection to boyhood/manhood and/or being a boy/man/guy. 

Stelleboy - A gender described as being a male or male-aligned person, but has an androgynous and/or genderless aura, tone, vibe, essence, aesthetic, atmosphere, or air. 

Pomogender - A gender described as denying or not fitting any gender labels. Also, described as knowing that you are not cisgender, but not knowing what gender you do experience and/or is not interested in knowing what gender you experience. 

Bxy - Being both agender and boy at the same time. 

Agender Man - Being agender and partially male/male-aligned. 

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Aromantic Label:

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Aromantic - An Aromantic person is someone who experiences little-to-no romantic attraction. Aromantic is sometimes shortened to “Aro”. I personally fall under the “no” in “little-to-no”.

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Asexual Label: 

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Myrsexual - An ace-spec identity where one experiences multiple ace-spec identities. These identities could be experienced fluctuating rapidly or all at the same time. (Mine are experienced at the same time.)

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Asexual Labels Within That Label:

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Neuroasexual - An ace-spec identity where one may experience sexual attraction or want to participate in sexual actions, but is scared of, repulsed by, or averse to, because they’re neurodivergent, mentally ill, or neuroatypical. 

Nebulasexual - An ace-spec identity where one cannot tell if they experience sexual attraction or not, due to neurodivergence or intrusive thoughts/urges/images. 

Merosexual - An ace-spec identity/term where one is repulsed by/averse to some sexual actions, but comfy with some others. 

Placiosexual - An ace-spec identity/term where one is comfortable with performing sexual actions on someone else, but repulsed by/averse to/uncomfortable with someone else performing sexual actions on them. Placiosexual people may be sex-repulsed or sex-indifferent when it comes to someone performing sexual actions on them. This can be caused by having dysphoria or similar discomforts about one’s body, but it does not have to be. 

Dreadsexual - An ace-spec identity described as fluctuating between not experiencing sexual attraction to experiencing sexual attraction, but once the sexual attraction is felt, it is accompanied by a strong feeling of dread or anxiety.

Rosesexual - An ace-spec identity where one wants or enjoys the idea or experience of sexual activity, but feels strongly repulsed afterwards. It can look like entertaining the idea of a sexual relationship with a partner (s), but then experiencing intense guilt and strong sense of sex-repulsion after having those thoughts. 

Requisexual - An ace-spec identity where one experiences little to no sexual attraction or interest in sexual activity due to some form of emotional exhaustion. This can be for multiple different reasons, and some of those include: previous experiences in sex or something related to sex that was emotionally exhausting. Some believe this label should be exclusive to those who are neurodivergent and/or disabled. 

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Pronouns: 

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

He/Him/His/Himself - “He waved hello.” “This seat is his.” “He talked to himself.” “Say hello to him.”

It/Its/Itself - “It waved hello.” “This seat is it’s.” “It talked to itself.” “Say hello to it.”

They/Them/Their/Themself - “They waved hello.” “This seat is their’s.” “They talked to themself.” “Say hello to them.”

Xe/Xem/Xir/Xemself - “Xe waved hello.” “This seat is xir’s.” “Xe talked to xemself.” “Say hello to xem.” (Pronunciation: Xe = Zai, Xem = Zem, Xir = Zer, and Xemself = Zemself.)

Ne/Nim/Nis/Nimself - “Ne waved hello.” “This seat is nis.” “Ne talked to nimself.” “Say hello to nim.” (Pronunciation: Ne = Nee, Nim = how you pronounce him but with an N at the beginning instead, Nis = how you pronounce his but with an N at the beginning instead, Nimself = how you pronounce himself but with an N at the beginning instead.)

Love/Loves/Loveself - “Love waved hello.” “This seat is love’s.” “Love talked to loveself.” “Say hello to love.” 

Star/Stars/Starself - “Star waved hello.” “This seat is star’s.” “Star talked to starself.” “Say hello to star.”

Wolf/Wolfs/Wolfself - “Wolf waved hello.” “This seat is wolf’s.” “Wolf talked to wolfself.” “Say hello to wolf.”

🌙/🌙’s/🌙self - “🌙 waved hello.” “This seat is 🌙’s.” “🌙 talked to 🌙self.” “Say hello to 🌙.”

+ Any/All Neopronouns

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Terms I’m Comfortable With:

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Masculine Terms - i.e. boy/man, brother, king, etc.

Neutral Terms - i.e. person, sibling, ruler, etc. 

Fey Terms - i.e. fey, a fey, etc. 

Thing Terms - i.e. that, thing, etc. 

Critter Terms - i.e. critter, a critter, creature, a creature, etc. 

Dragon Terms - i.e. dragon, a dragon, etc.

Hylian Terms - i.e. hylian, a hylian, etc.

Wolf Terms - i.e. a wolf, wolf, etc. 

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Attractions Labels:

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Homoalterous - Having alterous attraction only towards non-binary people, masculine-aligned people, and men. Basically feeling alterous attraction only towards non-women. 

Omniqueerplatonic - There are two definitions; One is that you feel queerplatonic attraction towards all genders, but have a preference based on gender. Or two, you feel queerplatonic attraction towards all gender, but how you define the queerplatonic attraction/relationship is based on gender. (I experience both ways.) 

Panexteramo - Feeling exteramo attraction towards all genders, and any preferences you do have has nothing to do with gender ever. 

Pansensual - Feeling sensual attraction towards all genders, and any preferences you do have has nothing to do with gender ever. 

Panaesthetic - Feeling aesthetic attraction towards all genders, and any preferences you do have has nothing to do with gender ever. 

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Explanation Of Those Attractions:

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Alterous Attraction - An attraction that is described as being in between platonic and romantic. Also, involves wanting a emotional connection with the person you’re feeling the alterous attraction for.

Queerplatonic Attraction - An attraction that is described as being whatever the fuck you want it to be. Being an attraction that is outside the norms. Having a queerplatonic relationship is to have a relationship that is outside any norms for relationships or any other names for relationships. Also, may or may not come along with wanting an emotional bond/connection with someone. 

Exteramo Attraction - An attraction that is neither platonic nor romantic, nor anything in between them. It is outside of all of it.

Sensual Attraction - An attraction that is described as having the want to hug/touch/kiss/etc., without it being romantic or platonic or anything in particular, and without it being sexual. 

Aesthetic Attraction - An attraction that is described as basically finding people pretty. The appreciation of someone’s looks, without being attracted to them sexually, romantically, or otherwise. Just finding someone aesthetically pleasing. 

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Other Labels:

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Ambiamorous - Being comfortable with both monogamous relationships and polyamorous relationships. Ambiamorous is sometimes abbreviated to “Ambi”. Some Ambi people can have a preference. (I do not.) 

Lesboy - Someone who is in some way a male/man/boy/male-aligned and feels their attraction towards women/feminine-aligned people is gay/queer.

𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

[alex-xander1111]

Two years ago versus now 💥

[dayangaytransman]

Pride events (and also the whole plot) in Queer movies are like:

No pets

No POC

No trans

No Bi

No Ace

No Polyamorus

No children

No straight looking guy

No Ally

No Enby

Only Cis Lesbian and Gays

Are you telling me those gays can’t have a fucking friend who is queer in another way?!

And also, most trans people are lesbians and gays.

We need the entire community represented in movies.

[transmascdaddy]

🙂🙂

[tookittygoatee]

[rosaryof-sorrows]

well he'd never see me as a boy so. you know. anyways i'm not even sure i want to be seen as a boy. and actually if a pretty girl kissed me then i don't think i would mind being a girl too hard i might actually even like it. but i do think being a guy would be kinda cool. did you know i had the craziest dream last night where i pushed a button and started taking testosterone. i do love my boobs though and i like performing the whole girl thing most of the time. anyways sugar is fine ig can i get that to go

[frameacloud]

Image description: A stock photo of a syringe sticking into a small vial, like the kind used for Testosterone. The stenciled words in the image say, "Ten years on Testosterone." Description ends.

More Than Ten Years on Testosterone - Is It Safe??

Have you ever worried about the possible long-term effects of being on Testosterone?

Well, you can relax because science has your back.

Italian researchers concluded in 2014 that “Testosterone administration in FtM subjects has a good safety profile” after finding “no significant serious adverse effects and no clinically relevant changes” in 45 FTM patients treated for at least 10 years with T.

Also notable: “Liver and kidney function tests did not show any significant changes.”

The aim of the study was to assess the effects and safety of Testosterone administration on body weight, lipid profile, hematological and bone parameters in trans men.

Source: Safety of More Than Ten Years Testosterone Administration in FTM Subjects. Cristina Meriggiola, MD, PhD, Antonietta Costantino, PhD, Carla Pelusi, MD, Martina Lambertini, MD, Alberto Bazzocchi, MD. Book of Abstracts, WPATH 2014 Biennial International Symposium.

Related Studies:

Largest Study to Date: Transgender Hormone Treatment Safe (2014)

Long-term cross-sex hormone treatment is safe in transsexual subjects. Cristina Meriggiola M, Berra M. Asian Journal of Andrology. 2012;14(6):813-814. doi:10.1038/aja.2012.89.

Also see: Myths and Misconceptions about Testosterone - FTM Guide