#reactiveabuse

[epitome-the-burnkid-viii]

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[rfarrokh]

Abuse is awful & comes in various forms❤️ #abuseisnotlove #abusesurvivor #abuserecovery #abuseisabuse #emotionalabuse #abuser #abusedwomen #abusedmen #abusedchildren #rachaelsroadtorecovery #domesticabuse #abusecycle #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #narcissistic #narcissists #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissistsurvivor #narcissisticabusesurvivor #reactiveabuse #emotionaldistress #emotionalmanipulation #emotionalabuseisstillabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery #battered #emotionregulation #complexptsd #ptsd #traumarecovery #traumabond #traumaresponse https://www.instagram.com/p/CQX2KFbHlhq/?utm_medium=tumblr

[ikwerregirl]

Let's talk about #acrimony for a bit. Have you seen this movie? What are your thoughts? The man? The woman? the behaviours? #domesticabuse #reactiveabuse #relationships https://www.instagram.com/p/CnUqQ3doVvm/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[rungazellerun-blog]

⁣ Why are boundaries so confusing in a psychologically abusive relationship?⁣ ⁣ harping on boundaries as I fight getting the hiccups. ⁣ ⁣ #psychologicalabuse #boundaries #healthyboundaries #reactiveabuse #respond #dontreact #dontreactrespond #healingfromnarcissisticabuse #acon #adultchildrenofnarcissists #healingfromabuse #toxicrelationships #toxic #toxicfamily #mentalhealth #healthyrelationships #selfhealing https://www.instagram.com/p/BuW7c1Yg6TA/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1az6dr7z5tb1d

[crushingnarcs]

Reactive abuse is easy to stop. Once you see it, you’ll know exactly what to do.

[jacksbrightside]

comfort food night train

"And in that darkness, there is a knowing that nobody is coming to save me." Subscribe and follow at andonthebrightside.com #narcissist #narcissism #traumabond #emotionalabuse #hope #reactiveabuse #notalone

You won’t find bruises, broken bones, or split lips. Nothing to outwardly show the world that I am not okay. Sometimes I wonder if I might have liked physical abuse better. The physical body has the ability to heal itself. How does one heal the invisible? I don’t know what to do with the psychological damage or daunting task of untangling myself from the labyrinth of narcissistic abuse. Each…

[creaturebehavior]

stumbled upon this tiktok explaining what i’m talking about here

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJEgvxta/

it’s still hard for me to not label myself as an abuser as well in these relationships. i am relieved at least to not be alone in this and that there is a name for it. reactive abuse. still untangling everything and trying to make sense of it all. i take things very literally and i look at my behaviors as what they were: abusive. despite the fact that under normal circumstances i never would act this way, and i know that i only acted like that after being abused and broken down in those relationships and got to a point where i just wasn’t myself anymore. it’s all still very confusing. but to have a name for it is helpful. to know i’m not the only one who’s done this is helpful. still healing from it all. still trying to make sense of all that happened. this helped

boy do i have a question for my therapist!

in two of the relationships i’ve been in in which i was being emotionally and verbally and sometimes sexually/physically abused... i feel, that i too was emotionally abusive in response to their abuse, and i cannot tell where the line is between responding to being abused and being abusive yourself.

hmmm

can anyone else relate?

like i came into the relationships being rational and kind and then they would torment me. and i would spiral. and in the first relationship i’m referring to i became very emotionally needy and suicidal and i constantly would turn to my boyfriend for comfort and validation which would only cause him to abuse me more because he couldn’t handle it.

and in the second relationship i’m referring to, eventually i just started fighting back. after awhile, i served him the same behavior he was serving me aside from the sexual/physical abuse. but verbally and emotionally, i treated him like shit after getting sick of him treating me like shit and feeling trapped in the relationship.

and in my mind, i do consider my behaviors to have been abusive. but i’m not entirely sure if that’s accurate or not. for now, i feel it’s the best description of what happened. but still, i don’t know where that line is or what any of this means. but looking at it objectively (i think?) and within the definition of what constitutes abuse, i would label my behaviors as abusive.

[exposingthesociopath-blog]

Do not harbor shame where you don’t need to. Reactive abuse does not make you abusive! Practice self forgiveness and free yourself 💛 . . . . . . . #exposingthesociopath #narcissisticabuse #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #emotionalabuse #woke #innerwisdom #narcissist #narcissism #psychopath #chooseyou #happiness #awakenings #wisdom #innerpeace #happiness #spirituality #spiritualawakening #highervibes #goodvibes #theempathmovement #forgiveness #reactiveabuse #domesticabuse #domesticviolence https://www.instagram.com/p/BxkS4evgqpY/?igshid=1p1psleq060mm

[i-mpower]

The best revenge is ABSOLUTELY nothing. Heal, live free and move on my friend. . #truthteller #speaker #triggers #personalgrowthjourney #survivalmode #selfmastery #selfaware #mindsetshift #selfhealing #nocontact #invalidation #narcissist #selfreflection #spiritualenlightenment #empaths #resting #adultchildrenofnarcissists #toxicpeople #mentalhealthawarness #unhealthyrelationships #boundaries #familyrelationships #mixedemotions #codependency #reactiveabuse #toxicrelationships #selflovejourney https://www.instagram.com/p/BvIYwrwhucI/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=pyigweo9s6e8

[charlebaltimore420-blog]

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[creaturebehavior]

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJEW74Qc/

still putting pieces together here’s a vid from the same chick

boy do i have a question for my therapist!

in two of the relationships i’ve been in in which i was being emotionally and verbally and sometimes sexually/physically abused... i feel, that i too was emotionally abusive in response to their abuse, and i cannot tell where the line is between responding to being abused and being abusive yourself.

hmmm

can anyone else relate?

like i came into the relationships being rational and kind and then they would torment me. and i would spiral. and in the first relationship i’m referring to i became very emotionally needy and suicidal and i constantly would turn to my boyfriend for comfort and validation which would only cause him to abuse me more because he couldn’t handle it.

and in the second relationship i’m referring to, eventually i just started fighting back. after awhile, i served him the same behavior he was serving me aside from the sexual/physical abuse. but verbally and emotionally, i treated him like shit after getting sick of him treating me like shit and feeling trapped in the relationship.

and in my mind, i do consider my behaviors to have been abusive. but i’m not entirely sure if that’s accurate or not. for now, i feel it’s the best description of what happened. but still, i don’t know where that line is or what any of this means. but looking at it objectively (i think?) and within the definition of what constitutes abuse, i would label my behaviors as abusive.

[i-mpower]

Authenticity is rare these days but stay true to who you are and the right ones will always find you. . . . #truthteller #speaker #triggers #personalgrowthjourney #survivalmode #selfmastery #selfaware #mindsetshift #selfhealing #nocontact #invalidation #narcissist #selfreflection #spiritualenlightenment #empaths #resting #adultchildrenofnarcissists #toxicpeople #mentalhealthawarness #unhealthyrelationships #boundaries #familyrelationships #mixedemotions #codependency #reactiveabuse #toxicrelationships #selflovejourney https://www.instagram.com/p/Bu3cScaBiwF/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=afcomptluvbp