#stay kind

[earththings]

[honeys-marmalade]

[royalpumpkinplanet]

[kittycatlukey]

[safe-haven-safe-place]

[classycookiexo]

[realskyrimsimmer]

" I rather have peace than drama in my life nobody doesn't have time to dwell on the things that should be left in the past for certain reasons."

[oublieette]

Soft kisses, longing looks, the gentle breeze thick with the smell of honey, oh how I long for you

[earththings]

𝓜𝓸𝓸𝓭𝓫𝓸𝓪𝓻𝓭 𝓯𝓸𝓻 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓷𝓪𝓶𝓮 𝓟𝓸𝓹𝓹𝔂 ☘️🐇

𝓡𝓮𝓺𝓾𝓮𝓼𝓽𝓮𝓭 𝓫𝔂: @twilitpoppy

[honeys-marmalade]

[royalpumpkinplanet]

[kittycatlukey]

[safe-haven-safe-place]

[morallyinept]

That post about comparison and jealousy and uplifiting others is so important not only on tumblr but in the real world too. I was also (still am sometimes lmaoo) someone who compares themselves a lot to others and gets jealous and now recognises that I should've been more uplifiting towards others, it's a horrible and lonely way to live and sooner or later eats you on the inside (sorry if it's too tmi lmaoo) a lot of the time it has something to do with negative self perception and incredibly low self confidence (again tmi something i often struggle with)!

Hey Lovely! 🖤

You mean this post I re-blogged, I assume? (Please correct me if I'm wrong.)

I absolutely agree; it's all to easy to compare ourselves to others, here and in the real world, and if we do that too much, it can cause us to become insecure, and then bitter. And it's that bitterness ultimately that then causes us to lash out onto others. Whether we mean to, or not.

I don't believe for a second that a person is born deliberately hateful or jealous; these behaviours are learned or are ingrained from trauma or bad experiences in life etc..., and are a form of protection due to forming barriers.

And it's never tmi, my place is always a safe space. 🖤

I'm so grateful that you feel you can share your own experience/thoughts so bravely, and that you've learned, or are learning, how to navigate through those feelings. It's very comendable and how you grow as a person.

It's cowardice for someone to bring another down, however it takes great courage to learn from it and grow. And that is admirable when you can hold yourself accountable and make positive steps to learn and change.

Love you, bub. 🖤

[sweetjollylooks]