#tw gay slurs

[daenystheedreamer]

not to be obsessed with the theon that lives in ur head but in ur modern au how does he come out to his family??

Well. i think balon always was like that boy's a sissy! he's not right! so theon from the outset has a very weird relationship with his family. his brothers constantly calling him gay but the slur for gay that starts with f. definitely did not make his psyche normal. and since ironborn culture is so patriarchal its expected to have sex with women. its not even heteronormative its just sexist because there's no equal footing for women not to imply heteronormativity is fuckin feminist LMAO)

i always keep the general canon plot outline when Pondering modern au.. so theon has some kind of breakdown/falling out/mid life crisis at the age of 19/whatever and returns home and gets microagressed by his family for a while. after a couple years (usually involving the ramsay torture labyrinth) and he's like 5% more self-actualised he visits pyke middle fingers akimbo going fuck maron fuck rodrik fuck you dad fuck this bitch ass family this sexy motherfucker before you takes it up the ass and has actual taste and if that makes you mad then KILL YOURSELF! then he runs home to asha's place and they eat candy and watch movies and he cries a little bit.

and balon never comes around to it but since maron and rodrik are still around to be straight and continue the family line or whatever he's just like eugh -_- well he always was a disappointment. alannys doesnt really get The Gay Identity but she's nice. she just worries the gay lifestyle might make theon too skinny and worries he's not eating enough. asha is like im the cooler gay and you are lame and i DO hate you for being gay actually because youre ruining the reputation of lgbts everywhere (shes just joshing :) or is she...). aeron is like well we've all been 19 once... whom amongst us.... the navy you know how it is.... and victarion goes What. I didnt. Wtf are u on about. I didnt do gay sex. Im normal (only reason he's not the most fucked up member of the greyjoy family is because euron is in jail for every single crime ever)

[bewarethegrim]

The day Niel Hargrove died started as a very normal day.

Billy woke up, lifted weights, showered, ate breakfast and took Max to school. He was careful to avoid aggravating his ribs again, his dad had hit him with a bottle pretty hard the night before.

He saw Steve, a quick brush of lips under the bleachers before the bell rang.

His day was normal. He flirted with random girls, he walked around the school like he owned it.

Steve wasn't at Basketball practice which was the first thing that was weird. Steve hadn't mentioned that he'd be missing practice that morning.

Tommy and Brent got into a fight over something stupid, ending practice early. Knowing Max was with her little nerd friends, Billy decided to head back home, hoping to avoid his dad before supper.

His groaned when he saw his dad's car in the driveway, but he climbed the stairs into the house none the less.

Nothing could've prepared him for the sights that greeted him.

His soft pretty boy Steve was standing in front of Neil who was tied to a chair, his back to Billy. There was something in his hand, and he seemed to be talking to Neil.

"... And I want the last fucking thing you ever see is the face of the f-g that your son fucks, loves, and will marry one day. This is the last fucking thing you get to see. Have fun in hell you fucking bastard."

"Stevie?"

Steve whipped around, shock clear on his face.

"Billy! Youre supposed to be a basketball practice until 4:30!" He squeaked, his voice so different from the one he'd just used.

"Got cut short. What are you doing?"

Steve smiled a little bashfully, holding out some flowers.

"I wanted to bring your dad some flowers. Seems he doesn't like them very much though," his smile turned dark as he turned to Neil, "do you Mr. Hargrove?"

Billy knew something was wrong with him that the scene of his boyfriend murdering his father turned him on beyond belief.

"That's too bad, huh baby?" Billy asked, moving to wrap his arms around Steve's waist. "Should we give the old man a little show before he goes?"

Steve grinned and turned in his arms to face him. "Absolutely."

And so Niel Hargrove died watching his son kiss his boyfriend, the poisonous flower slowly killing him.

[steddilly]

I actually really like this idea so I hope I follow through with it at some point, or I’d really like to read something similar to what I’ve thrown down! Suggestions would be legendary!

[roscoe-me-and-this-fuckin-kid]

anyone else part of the faggot america or is it just me and those guys from green day?

[girlfoxcock]

Autocorrect converted the word “fag” to “gay” and im actually pissing. it’s so funny

[notabled-noodle]

more examples of the intersection of ableism and queerphobia

JK Rowling’s essay about trans men specifically talked about how autistic girls are being lead astray by the trans movement

in some jurisdictions, people with cognitive and/or intellectual disabilities are not allowed to medically transition at all

again, psychotic people constantly being questioned about whether their identity is a delusion/hallucination or not

queer spaces not being accessible for those who use mobility aids (particularly wheelchairs)

disabled people not having access to sex education that specifically educates them on having sex whilst disabled — and abled people not bothering to learn the same

the concept that having someone who is both disabled and queer is “bad representation” somehow. constant messaging that you’re either one or the other and can’t be both

ideas in the queer community about what the queer lifestyle looks like often does not consider that the lifestyle is impossible for people who use mobility aids and/or have a carer

I could go on and on. disabled people are constantly excluded from queer movements and queer people are often excluded from disability movements. we’re ignored. we’re pushed aside. our needs are put in the “too hard” basket, and we’re not given necessary supports to live a happy life as a queer disabled person

do not tag this “q slur” or similar

[the-sappho-of-lesbos]

Source: Love Shook My Heart; New Lesbian Love Stories - edited by Irene Zahava

[citricacidprince]

Y'all need to be fucking nicer to men/masc queers

I was talking to an old friend/short lived boyfriend from highschool and the topic of sexualities came up. He identified as bisexual throughout highschool but told me that recently he doesn't know what he was and just preferred to remain 'unlabeled' until he figured it out. I told him to his face "thats valid man and being unlabeled doesn't make you any less queer than when you were labeled"

God you should've seen his fucking face, he looked so happy and also like he was about to goddamn cry. He told me that no one ever told him that. That he tried to join queer spaces but they said he didn't fit in cause he wasn't 'gay' enough. Told me that I was the first person to ever confidently tell him he was queer and that he didn't need to change himself to 'fit in'.

I gave my friend one of my mini pride flags I had lying around and the dopey grin he had on his face while waving that thing around for the rest of the night made me smile too. When he finally went home he thanked me for the flag and for reassuring him when he felt insecure for 'not being gay enough'.

I want y'all to know that whole time he telling me about people not accepting him for "not looking queer" made me fucking pissed. Oh, because he's not petite, feminine, and white he can't be queer? Because he doesn't look like a fashionable and conventionally pretty gay on you'd find on your TikTok homepage he can't be queer?

THIS ISN'T EVEN THE FIRST TIME I'VE HAD THIS CONVERSATION WITH A FRIEND BEFORE

In highschool I had ANOTHER friend who had this same problem but in a different font. He liked cute things, he liked flowing fabrics and skirts, he even liked being called princess! But because he was fat and not conventionally attractive he felt like he couldn't be queer. Because from what he saw, queer people don't look like him.

If you're one of those people who would gatekeep ANYONE who doesn't fit into your Pinterest board ideal version of queer from the LGBTQ+ community, you can fuck right off because anyone who would just shut of someone out of our community for something so petty and dumb and ignorant doesn't deserve the keys to the fucking door in the first place.

Start treating people who don't fit into your saturated and commercialized view of queer with more respect and kindness before I start biting off your fucking arms

[randomcartoonbro]

Heya!! My top surgery consultation is right around the corner and I still need a bit of financial help to pay for the surgery, so I've added some new designs to my RB to help with that :D . If you're a fellow queer punk, I think you'll enjoy these. If not, there's other softer designs up there too that might suit your fancy! Check it out!

[charmac]

Charmac's high school lockers

[randybutternubber]

Happy pride month MOANS

[uncanny-tranny]

Something I realized (which was obvious to me subconsciously) is that... The family that vehemently didn't accept me when I first came out but now do accept me are still the same family that I am most unwilling to be open about things I feel protective over.

I remember that my dad reacted so poorly, not to my coming out, but to my transition specifically that my therapist was the one to ask if I wanted to put it on my file that I wanted nothing to ever be shared with him about my health after I broke down multiple times due to my anxiety that I would never transition. While there are and were protections for me, I was incredibly fearful at the time because I was a minor, and I was so worried that he would have prevented my transition that I couldn't have said for certain what (if any) lengths he would have gone to to prevent that.

He's grown a lot as a person, and made some commendable strides. But he didn't find out from me when I medically transitioned the second I turned eighteen, and I think that's among the things that truly made him realize the scope of the issue.

I'm not here to guilt trip parents, guardians, or other members responsible for the care of the children or teens or young adults in their care.... but this is a cautionary tale. You aren't saving the people in your care when you do this, you simply reinforce an idea that you will never care for them, never want them as they are, would rather them be shoved away.

When you give people reasons to be secretive, they will behave secretively. When you give people reasons to doubt their safety around you, they will become sneaky, defensive, and withdrawn. When you give people reasons to doubt that you value their life, they will believe that you don't care if they live or not.

[sillymcmatt]

me when i wanna say im msm (as in a man whos sexually attracted to men, as to most people mlm implies romantic love) but if i do then ppl will think im talking about my singing monsters

[lunearobservatory]

I'm a very strong it rains in the PNW every time Oregon cries believer ‼️

[jamisonwritestf2trash]

[prescott-whitehorn]

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