#BodyImageIssues

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What to Do When Your Child Speaks Meanly to You #shorts

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPsA4g5WlJM "What to Do When Your Child Speaks Meanly to You 💬" It’s tough when your child says hurtful things—it can feel personal. But remember, their behavior is part of their development, not a reflection of your parenting. ❤ Here are some ways to respond with calm, kindness, and guidance: ✅ Teach them to express frustration respectfully. ✅ Offer a do-over moment to reset the tone. ✅ Listen between the lines—they might need your understanding. ✅ Stay calm, even if they’re not. Above all, remind yourself: Nobody is perfect. You’re a great parent, and they’re a great kid. Together, you’re growing stronger. 🌟 How do you handle moments like these with your child? Share below—I’d love to hear! 💬 #ParentingTips #HowToTalkToKids #PositiveParenting #MindfulParenting #ParentingHelp #RaisingKindKids #GentleParenting #ParentingJourney #KidsEmotions #ParentChildConnection via Dr. Robyn Silverman https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCE2mhA6uAzX0vHYBoO9ncTg May 06, 2025 at 06:30AM

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[Week 7]

The Instagram Effect: How "Perfection" Became a Full-Time Job

Instagram is not just an app; it is a beauty factory. 

The Aesthetic Template: Copy, Paste, Repeat

Instagram's "aesthetic template" is not just a trend but a strategy for visibility. Influencers copy trends for algorithm success, forcing conformity and killing individuality (Witz et al., 2003).

Most European women adhere to a beauty template that favors darker skin tones, sharp and dramatic makeup, and a more muscular, robust physique.

In contrast, traditional Asian beauty standards have long celebrated lighter, whiter skin, softer makeup, and a more delicate, slender body type (Dean, 2005). Besides, Asian women on Instagram now express themselves more but keep their distinct style, which is influenced by Western culture.

💭 Confidence or conformity: Why chase beauty ideals?

The truth is complex. While some see it as self-improvement and validation, the overwhelming influence of curated, idealized images and algorithmic pressures on social media often pushes people toward conformity over authenticity (Daniels, 2016).

Beauty Is not Universal - It is Algorithmic.

Beauty on Instagram is not just about looks but about playing the algorithm's game.

Conventionally attractive women in revealing outfits? Boosted.

Gay men expressing femininity? Often ignored.

📲 Instagram boosts sexy women and ignores feminine gay men, creating a skewed perception of self-worth and societal value. When users constantly see sexy, Eurocentric beauty ideals being rewarded with visibility and engagement, they may internalize the message that this is the "ideal" to aspire to - leading to intense pressure to conform (Bishop, 2021).

🚫 Meanwhile, the lack of representation for feminine gay men can make individuals in this group feel invisible or undervalued, reinforcing feelings of exclusion and inadequacy (Carrotte et al., 2017).

🔄 This dynamic shapes self-perception, often pushing people to alter their appearance or suppress their authenticity just to be seen. It also perpetuates harmful stereotypes about what is considered desirable or acceptable, ultimately narrowing diversity and limiting self-acceptance on the platform (Witz et al., 2003).

When Beauty & Sexualization Blur

(Warning: sensitive photos included)

This is not just about 'blurred lines'; it is about the normalization of exploitation. Young people who really look up to influencers are being taught the wrong ideas about beauty and sex. They start to think their value comes from how sexually attractive they are, which is bad for their minds and feelings (Drenten et al., 2019). 

📌 BOP House, a social media collective known for its provocative and highly sexualized content, exemplifies this phenomenon (Upton-Clark, 2025). Members like Sophia Rain (6M followers) gain fame through controversial posts, blurring the lines between social media, entertainment, and adult content. This normalization reshapes user perceptions of beauty, self-worth, and online expression.

The Mental Health Toll: When “Instagram Face” Becomes the Goal

Figure 1 (Dixon, 2024)

32% of Instagram users are 18-24, making Gen Z dominant (Figure 1). The platform is linked to depression, low self-esteem, and body image issues (Abrams, 2021). BDD affects 2% of people, especially young users, highlighting social media's role in these challenges (BDDF, n.d.).

In this video, she discusses a client with BDD driven by perfectionism and the online "aesthetic template." Obsessed with perfection, the client feels insecure and has undergone surgeries since age 14 to "fix" perceived flaws.

✨ Instagram promotes an illusion of perfection, fueling unhealthy comparisons (Witz et al., 2003). The platform's focus on curated images creates a false sense that everyone else has an ideal life, pressuring users to meet unrealistic beauty standards. A 14-year-old undergoing multiple surgeries highlights how far people go to chase this unattainable ideal. 

📱 This constant exposure distorts self-image, increases anxiety, and normalizes harmful behaviors - profoundly impacting mental health.

So... Who Really Wins?

Influencers? Maybe. Instagram? Definitely. The rest of us? We are left chasing a beauty standard that was never real.

✨ Thoughts? Have you ever felt the pressure of Instagram beauty standards? Let's talk. 💬

References

Abrams, Z. (2021, December 2). How can we minimize Instagram’s harmful effects? American Psychological Association. https://www.apa.org/monitor/2022/03/feature-minimize-instagram-effects

BDDF. (n.d.). How Common is BDD? – BDDF. Body Dysmorphic Disorder Foundation. https://bddfoundation.org/information/frequently-asked-questions/how-common-is-bdd/

Bishop, S. (2021). Influencer Management Tools: Algorithmic Cultures, Brand Safety, and Bias. Social Media + Society, 7(1), 205630512110030. https://doi.org/10.1177/20563051211003066

Carrotte, E., Prichard, I., & Lim, M. S. C. (2017). “Fitspiration” on Social Media: a Content Analysis of Gendered Images. “Fitspiration” on Social Media: A Content Analysis of Gendered Images, 19(3). https://doi.org/10.2196/jmir.6368

Daniels, E. A. (2016). Sexiness on Social Media. Sexualization, Media, & Society, 2(4), 237462381668352. https://doi.org/10.1177/2374623816683522

Dean, D. (2005). Recruiting a self: Women performers and aesthetic labour. Work, Employment and Society, 19(4), 761–774. https://doi.org/10.1177/0950017005058061

Dixon, S. J. (2024, May 2). Distribution of Instagram Users Worldwide as of April 2024, by Age Group. Statista. https://www.statista.com/statistics/325587/instagram-global-age-group/

Drenten, J., Gurrieri, L., & Tyler, M. (2019). Sexualized labour in digital culture: Instagram influencers, porn chic and the monetization of attention. Gender, Work & Organization, 27(1), 41–66. https://doi.org/10.1111/gwao.12354

Marwick, A. (2013). Status Update: Celebrity, Publicity, and Branding in the Social Media Age. Yale University Press. https://yalebooks.yale.edu/book/9780300209389/status-update/

Senft, T. (2013). Microcelebrity and the Branded Self. https://fws.commacafe.org/resources/theresa_senft_microcelebrity_branded_self.pdf

Upton-Clark, E. (2025, February 12). Meet the Bop House, the internet’s divisive new OnlyFans hype house. Fast Company. https://www.fastcompany.com/91277825/meet-the-bop-house-the-internets-divisive-new-onlyfans-hype-house

Witz, A., Warhurst, C., & Nickson, D. (2003). The Labour of Aesthetics and the Aesthetics of Organization. Organization, 10(1), 33–54. https://doi.org/10.1177/1350508403010001375

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How to regain loss of sexual desire?

Loss of sexual desire, also known as low libido or hypoactive sexual desire, can be caused by various factors, including physical, psychological, and relationship-related issues. Addressing it may require a combination of strategies and, in some cases, professional guidance. Here are some ways to help control and manage a loss of sexual desire:

1.Communicate with your partner: Open and honest communication about your feelings and concerns is crucial. Discuss your desires, expectations, and any changes you've noticed in your sexual interest. Your partner can provide support and understanding.

2.Manage stress and anxiety: High levels of stress, anxiety, and other mental health issues can negatively affect libido. Stress-reduction techniques such as mindfulness, meditation, deep breathing exercises, and yoga can help improve your overall mental well-being.

3.Address underlying medical conditions: Certain medical conditions, such as hormonal imbalances, thyroid disorders, diabetes, and depression, can lead to low libido. Consult a healthcare provider to assess and manage any underlying health issues.

4.Medication review: Some medications, such as antidepressants and certain birth control pills, can have side effects that affect sexual desire. Discuss these concerns with your healthcare provider, who may be able to adjust your medication or recommend alternatives.

5.Hormone therapy: In some cases, hormone therapy may be prescribed to balance hormonal levels and increase libido. This is typically done under the guidance of a healthcare professional.

6.Healthy lifestyle choices: Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep can contribute to overall well-being and improved libido. Exercise, in particular, can boost endorphins, reduce stress, and improve body image, all of which can positively impact sexual desire.

7.Relationship counselling: If relationship issues are contributing to the loss of desire, couples therapy or sex therapy can help address communication problems, intimacy issues, and emotional barriers.

8.Self-care and self-acceptance: It's essential to prioritize self-care and self-acceptance. This includes taking time for relaxation, self-exploration, and self-compassion. Feeling good about yourself can positively impact your sexual desire.

9.Spice things up: Introducing variety and novelty into your sexual experiences can help reignite desire. Trying new things, exploring fantasies, or experimenting with different forms of intimacy can add excitement to your sex life.

10.Psychological therapy: In some cases, individuals may benefit from individual therapy to address psychological factors contributing to low libido, such as past trauma, body image issues, or self-esteem concerns.

Remember that changes in sexual desire are normal, and it's essential to focus on improving your overall well-being and the quality of your intimate relationships. If low libido persists and causes distress, consider seeking help from a qualified healthcare professional or therapist who specializes in sexual health. They can work with you in developing a personalized plan to address

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Positive Body Image #positivebody #bodyimage #bodyimageissues #bodyposit...

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As moms of young girls, we understand the worry that many parents have about how to help create healthy eating habits and body image.⁠ ⁠ We also know we will have to combat the messages our girls will eventually hear about beauty, eating, and thinness.⁠ ⁠ This study shows that this work has to start even earlier than many of us realize.⁠ ⁠ This study by Lowes and Tiggmann found that girls begin to desire a thinner body than what they currently have starting at age 6!⁠ ⁠ They also found that girls’ body dissatisfaction was associated with how they perceived their mom’s body dissatisfaction. This means that if girls felt their mom didn’t like her own body, they were less likely to like their body, and vice versa.⁠ ⁠ This study also showed that girls reported that their parents were more controlling of their eating behaviors compared to boys.⁠ ⁠ So what can we do?⁠ ⁠ 1️⃣ Avoid negative comments about your own body and other people's bodies.⁠ 2️⃣ Comment on non-appearance related things more than appearance. Talk about what your and your child’s body can do rather than what it looks like.⁠ 3️⃣ Be aware of your own diet and body talk!⁠ ⁠ #bodyimagehealing #bodyimageissues #gentleparenting #positiveparenting #eatingdisorderrecovery #disorderedeating #raisinghealthykids #raisingcapablekids #raisinghealthyeaters #beautyredefined #raisinggoodkids #consciousparenting #healthykids #momlife #mommingainteasy #momofgirls #dietculture @helpingfamiliesthrive (at 𝖣𝖨𝖤𝖳 𝖬𝖴𝖬 𝖱𝖤𝖯𝖤𝖠𝖳) https://www.instagram.com/p/Ccw9HBYN0bs/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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New post on the blog today! Who else deals with body image? I do every day! And it sucks! I put on this @herveleger dress (purchased from @therealreal ) feeling so confident. Then I saw the pictures I took of it and the positive body image went out the door and into the street to be hit by a car.yup. Who else has body image issues? Why do you think is behind some of it? 🤔🤔🤔 we all know media is a huge factor. #bodyimage #bodypositive #bodyimageissues #mombod #diastasisrecti #herveleger #dress #outfitoftheday #whatiwore #gucci #styleblogger #ootdshare #ootdinspiration #bandagedress https://www.instagram.com/p/CUayRXpLIUy/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Body image issues are more of a mental battle than a physical one.

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Kids dont always need our words Leadership Conversation Skills Part 3 #shorts

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zNsXAfnLJB4 Some of the most powerful lessons in parenting and leadership aren’t loud—they’re quiet. It’s not about rushing to fix, explain, or lecture. Sometimes, the best thing we can do is simply show up with calm, steady presence. This is what we call “holding space” in parenting. A safe place to land in teaching. A moment of trust before a moment of instruction. Kids don’t always need our words. Sometimes, they just need to know we’re there—grounded, calm, and consistent. Today, maybe your greatest leadership move isn’t what you say. It’s who you are while they figure things out. —Dr. Robyn Silverman Follow for more leadership and connection skills that truly make an impact. #LeadershipThroughPresence #HoldingSpace #ParentingSkills #EmotionalSafety #ConnectedParenting #TeachingWithTrust #DrRobynSilverman #LeadershipForKids via Dr. Robyn Silverman https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCE2mhA6uAzX0vHYBoO9ncTg May 05, 2025 at 05:35PM

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