#Genderfluidity

[kyri45]

Genderfluid Sticker Pack by Kyri45

I hope you genderfluid people got the blender reference😭😭

[its-ya-boy-jonnayy]

This is what my genderfluidity looks like btw

[nonbinarynow]

It's okay to want to be androgynous as a non-binary person

It's okay to like androgyny as a non-binary person

It's okay to owe yourself androgyny as a non-binary person

It's okay to transition to androgyny as a non-binary person

It's okay to be transandrogynous

It's okay to love mixing masculinity and femininity into androgyny as a non-binary person

It's okay for your enbiness to be androgynous

It's okay to love being androgynous as a non-binary person

It's okay to want to have a mixed hormonal profile as a non-binary person

It's okay to want salmactive bottom surgery procedures a non-binary person

It's okay to not be white, or assigned a certain gender at birth and want to be androgynous as a non-binary person

If anything it's beautiful. It's wonderful. It's awesome.

You are not doing the community a disservice. You are making waves, when the world tells you to look more binary, you are choosing to subvert that because that's what is right for you. In the slew of "you don't HAVE to be androgynous" (look different, stand out, be visibly nonbinary in society), you are not dragging the community down by wanting to be different to the status quo. You deserve representation, you deserve to feel safe, you deserve to feel love, both self love and any other love you desire in life. Your androgyny, your striving for it, your androgynous desire is important and should not be ignored. It should be celebrated as part of your enbiness, as part of you 💛🤍💜🖤

[lgbtq-userboxes]

Requested by xxlolbatxx

[destroy-the-binary]

Random signs I was definitely NOT cis!

My absolute favorite shirt EVER was my brother’s. It was a hand-me-down and like, all I wore. LOVED that thing, and I still have it. I refuse to get rid of it.

I was playing soccer at recess when I was super little, and it was boys vs. girls. I walked over to the boys side, and they told me to go with the girls. I said “sometimes I feel like a girl, and sometimes I feel like a boy” LITERALLY SO GENDERFLUID?? (I had to join the girls 😭)

Would get super jealous that boys could take off their shirt. Like weirdly obsessively jealous. And I’m not a jealous person. Like, I would cry about it.

Would get upset when my brother took off his shirt to sleep, swim, etc. because “It made me realize how much my chest had grown” and that made me hella uncomfortable.

Got SUPER excited when someone said I looked like a guy, and I didn’t realize it was an insult lol

AND IT TOOK ME YEARS, I REPEAT, YEARS, OF “THIS IS NORMAL CIS GIRL BEHAVIOR!” TO REALIZE!!!

[genderfluidarchive]

to anyone who's pronounfluid and whose pronouns change over time: if people can quite easily call a drag queen by she/her pronouns while she's in drag, and use he/him when he isn't in drag, they can definitely use different pronouns for you depending on what you want them to use at certain times. you are not a burden for your gender expression or identity. it isn't too difficult or too complicated (even if it was complicated you still deserve respect and acceptance btw). you're awesome.

[janus-cadet]

Happy Pride Month, Part 2!

Here is a second line up, with some characters you guys asked for!

[lambinajam]

Life of Lamb #3: Genderfluidity

Where will you be when genderfluidity strikes?

[lgbtqtext]

[yourdailyqueer]

Malini Jeevarathnam

Gender: Non binary - Genderfluid (they/them)

Sexuality: Lesbian

DOB: N/A

Ethnicity: Indian - Tamil

Occupation: Actor, director, activist

[loserlovesmusicals]

Are y'all rocking with the musical-themed genderfluid flag

[tiredlazyfrog]

Credit to @mellon_soup on Pinterest for the pose reference.

This is the first in a series of artworks depicting myself as an avatar of each of the TMA entities. I have also written poems that accompany each work, which will be put under the cut if you are like Jon and dislike poetry not written by Martin.

The Web

I have spent far too long

being pulled and guided

in ways I did not want to go.

The most terrifying thing

is to not be in control.

Having decisions made on

your behalf, without regard

for what you want.

my mother puppets me

into the idea of a perfect daughter 

and I strain against the threads

but her web is far too strong

and I am not able to escape.

if I choose to tear myself free

I leave behind the others snared within.

She tells me that choosing myself

means that I will never see them again.

Manipulation is a powerful thing

and I am just a fly

twisting and turning in vain 

as the web draws tighter and tighter.

[alexs-life-is-a-bit]

guys what do we think about my coming out letter, please wish me luck!

(my mum is who I'm coming out to and she's transfem lesbain for reference)

hey, remember when i had an "i'm not like other girls" phase? remember when i saw so much of myself in luz, and then she turned out to be gender-nonconforming? remember how i hated bows in my hair, didn’t care about anything feminine, and tried to avoid it? remember when i wanted a suit? how hard it was to find dresses i liked? how i wanted to cosplay as hunter? i know you might not remember, but i do. i remember wishing i wasn’t born with the body i had when i was younger. i thought it was a universal girl experience to wish you had different parts. i thought it was normal to think it would be so cool to be a different gender. i remember hating being called a girl. i wanted to be friends with guys and be seen as part of their group. i remember arguing with people—like sarina and caleb—when they insisted i wasn’t "the guy" in the relationship. i’d say, "i'm the one who wears the pants in the relationship." i remember putting on makeup and not seeing myself. i remember looking in the mirror, hair out of my face, and seeing a barbie. i remember tying my hair up in a hoodie and pretending to be a guy for hours—"as a joke." i remember how happy i was when my friend told me he basically just saw me as a guy. i remember wearing pajama pants and putting my hands in the pockets because it made me feel masc. i thought it was so cool to feel like that, like i had this little thing that made me feel more like a guy. but i also remember loving the way i looked in dresses. loving my long hair. loving the way my legs looked shaved. loving mascara, girly sleepovers, and being a girl. but i hated it, too. i remember wishing i wasn’t either—just me. i remember all the times i wished i had a deep voice. but also loving the way my voice sounded when i sang. i remember hating both. i remember feeling different all the time—waking up some days thinking, "what? why do i suddenly wish i was a boy?" and then the next week, feeling "normal" again. i felt like my past feelings weren’t valid when i started questioning my gender because sometimes i felt fine the way i was. i thought i was just looking for attention—because how could my feelings about gender change? then i found out about being genderfluid. i remember sitting on the floor in late september and thinking, i know i’m not a girl. i felt so uncomfortable with how i looked. for a while, i thought i was just nonbinary. then it switched. it was so confusing. so i thought, maybe i’m trans masc? but how could i be, when i had just loved being a girl a couple weeks ago? i looked into nonbinary labels, and that felt okay—until i started feeling almost sick with how much i envied other guys. then i found the term genderfluid. and suddenly, everything clicked. a lot of genderfluid people love switching pronouns all the time. i don’t. i go by they/them because that’s how i feel 70% of the time, and it makes me really happy. but at the same time, she/her just doesn’t feel right anymore. it makes me uncomfortable, like it doesn’t fit me the way it used to. i know it might take time for people to get used to, but i was hoping that even if no one else does, at least you could call me they. just having one person see me for who i am would mean a lot.

it’s kind of like this: imagine you’ve only ever had vanilla ice cream. it’s good, so you call it your favorite. but then you try a sample of strawberry—and it’s amazing, nothing like what you’ve had before. suddenly, you wonder how you ever just ate vanilla. you realize you love strawberry, but sometimes you still want vanilla. and every now and then, you crave mint chocolate chip, even though people say it tastes like toothpaste. (vanilla is she/her, strawberry is they/them, and mint chocolate chip is he/him.) so yeah, i wanted to tell you—i’m genderfluid, and i use they/them pronouns. i’m still me, but this is a part of who i am. i hope you can support me. i know you've been through your own journey with gender, and i really admire that. i don’t know exactly what it was like for you, but i hope you can understand what this means for me. right now, i’m pretty much out to you, caleb, and half-out to maddi. that’s it. i hope this all made sense. labels might change, and that’s okay. but this is what fits me right now. i love you, and i’m really glad i can share this with you

[genderfluidarchive]

positivity for:

all the genderfluid people who are girls/adjacent today

all the genderfluid people who are boys/adjacent today

all the genderfluid people who are nonbinary/adjacent today

all the genderfluid people who don't know their gender today

i hope you get a chance to do something nice for yourself today!

🌻🌻🌻