#Parents

[classycookiexo]

[seishiroses]

This piece of Nagi lore is going to keep me up at night...

[opportunity-enough]

https://marissa-179.ludgu.top/w/9MznUdJ

[thatgirlxf]

First Day Of Kindergarten

Scully: “Okay sweetie, mommy and daddy are going to go now.

Emily: “Do you have to go?”

Mulder: “Sweetheart everything will be fine, just remember what I told you if anyone mess with you.”

Emily: “My daddy is FBI and he can arrest your ass.”

Scully: “Mulder!”

[livelovecaliforniadreams]

He's a terrible parent. -Andrea

Becky's lying to him. I'm just saying. -Jodie 

[nixcraft]

*blocks WiFi to discipline kids and takes away games*

*later* Kids giggling and rowdy again.

*how? what's going on?* I see they are playing Dinosaur Game in Chrome.

I can't stop laughing as I realize you can't out-engineer kids. They will always find a way 😂

[wedarkacademia]

I know it is my father's first time on this Earth, too. And I know He had it worse when he was little.

But I was little too.

— Franz Kafka, from letters to his father

[incognitopolls]

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[introvertedx10]

[rosyy-coosy]

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[one-time-i-dreamt]

My parents got divorced and my dad started dating MrBeast and my mom took me to see an ATLA play and kept insisting Aang was a bad boy.

[ooctlt]

Are any of you still in contact with your parents?

[forestpixies]

no actually you’re either gentle parenting your child or you’re being emotionally and/or physically abusive to them, whether or not you’re aware of that.

because the term gentle parenting already includes discipline and teaching your kid right from wrong. gentle parenting doesn’t mean you can’t tell your kid no. it means you can tell them no when they do something they shouldn’t, but instead of punishing or yelling at them, you’re explaining and giving them reasons why they can’t do that, you are helping them learn and encouraging them to be better. gentle parenting means you’re using reasons built on mutual respect instead of anger. because yes, no matter how young your child is, they deserve respect too.

I’m sorry but most of the times when someone says they’re a strict parent, what it means is that they give their child childhood trauma that’ll last a lifetime, whether or not they’re aware of it. especially parents who brag to other people about how strict they are and how they punished their children.

and I’m sorry but saying you have a short temper is never an excuse to be emotionally and/or physically abusive towards your kid either.

“I yelled at you because I have a short temper” then why am I the one suffering? if you can’t control your anger, then get help. work on it. do better. be better.

also… your child standing up for themself against you, when you’re being abusive to them, isn’t them being disrespectful towards you. it means they are defending themself because you wouldn’t do that for them and so they had to step in and be their own protector.

if you’re a parent and can defend and stand up for yourself when you feel like you need to, but at the same time punish your kid when they stand up for themself against you, then you are the problem.

I was that child and I’m gonna make it as simple as I can for any parent out there — because no kid deserves to go through what I went through — imagine yourself owning a dog. really. you can either

a.) beat that dog whenever they do something wrong and simply take your anger out on them until they’re fully submissive and are terrified of you

or

b.) train them with love and gentleness and earn their love and loyalty in return

now imagine both A and B dogs on leashes and imagine them no longer being on leashes one day. which dog do you think will run away as far as they can and never look back, and which one do you think will stay because they love and want to be with their owner?

[henk-heijmans]

Two elderly women visiting the graves of their dead parents in the Appalachian Mountains sit on the headstones and talk, 1983 - by David Turnley (1955), American/French