#SPIRITUALITY

[a-path-by-the-moon]

[salemlunaa]

ONLY YOU CAN BE THE PROOF OF SUCCESS

since you are the projector of reality.

If you can’t see it in yourself you won’t be able to see it at all. No reality is “real”, so you can not use your outer world, which i is just a mirror as a reference point for “proof”

Let’s break down the words “personality” and “reality”

˚∘personality˚∘

• Person → from Latin persona, meaning “mask” or “character” (often in a play). [aka, who you are being]

• -ality → the state, quality, or condition of.

∘˚reality˚∘

• Re- → again, repetition, reflection, mirror.

• -ality → the state or quality of.

can you see how your PERSONality comes first, your reality is just a projection, a RErun of what you already know to be true.

This is why who you are being is SO important, you are the projector and your thoughts and your personal facts are what show up on the screen. So, YOU have to be the living proof, YOU ARE proof of your manifestations, If you exist and you are aware of the existence of that reality, You are the proof.

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Since everything is an illusionistic projection of you, or in other words, not real, so why would you use something that’s not real an indicator to whether you have what you want. The fact that you even “desired” it is proof enough. The fact that you knew there was more out there for you IS ALL THE PROOF YOU NEED

Now evaluate who you’re being. Ask yourself “Am i being living proof?” and this isn’t about doing, i am the biggest preacher of the fact that you don’t have to lift a finger or do anything in the physical as creation is finished, im taking about your thinking. “AM I proof of my shift?”

Looking for “proof” in places “outside of you” that you have fallen for the illusion of separation and that you don’t truly know who you are. You are not separate from anything, all you have to do is perceive your “desired” reality as your normal everyday. And that starts with YOU, are YOU proof of that?

How are you carrying yourself mentally? what are your personal facts about yourself? Who are you being?

If you don’t see it within yourself now, you will never see it at all, because you are all that is.

The good news is, time isn’t real, all you have is now so you can choose now and never look back.

If someone took a look inside of your brain, would they be able to find proof that you have your manifestations? Ask yourself that, “If someone could pick my brain, would they know that I have what i want? would they be able to tell?” If the answer is no, i think you’ve found your problem.

When the Ego tries to get in your head and ask where it is tell yourself, “I AM living proof, and my reality reflects that”, not “will reflect”, not “will reflect if i persist”, not “could reflect, but we’ll see after i complete this challenge” IT IS REFLECTING NOW

YOU ARE THE ONLY OPTION FOR PROOF SO BE IT.

BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO “SEE”

©salemlunaa

[astrolook]

❤️‍🔥Synastry Observations - Are They The One or Just Passing Through? 🔗

Note: These are all my personal observations and patterns I've noticed over the years. Take what resonates with you more and leave the rest. Lemme know in the comments if it hits home!

If you’re wondering whether someone might be "the one" for you or not, check where their 7th lord and Venus (for a wife), or Jupiter (for a husband), falls in your chart.

The 7th lord shows their relationship mindset and whether long-term commitment with you is likely to work. Check where their 7th lord is falling in your chart, along with its aspects.

Their 1st lord in your chart shows how they naturally behave toward you. This can be learned through where their 1st lord lands in your chart, along with its aspects.

Venus = wife indicator in a man’s chart; Jupiter = husband indicator in a woman’s chart.

Their 5th lord in your chart (and its aspects) shows how they might be as a parent and their potential parenting dynamic with you. These placements reveal how serious they might be, what kind of partner they are, and whether your lives actually align long-term.

Their 7th lord in your chart:

Their 7th lord in ur 1st - You ARE their type. No guessing, no mixed signals. It shows. It’s “I could see a future with you” energy. Even if you're not their usual type, you become their exception. You trigger their desire to settle down or lock something in. If it doesn't work out, they’ll probably compare others to you for a while. They treat you like you matter and you just check most of their boxes. They could put pressure on you to be “ready” even if you’re not. They would woo or chase you. Will keep tabs on you. In public, they act like you’re already theirs. Publicly claim you with touch, eye contact, and presence. Very visible couple energy and people would notice the chemistry.

Their 7th lord in ur 2nd - They see stability in you or at least, they want it from you. You feel like someone they could build a life with. Comfort is the hook. It’s “I want to keep you” energy. You might feel like they expect you to provide something, whether it's emotional, financial, or physical. They might become possessive without realizing it. If it’s one-sided, you’ll feel used either emotionally or materially. They may try to “secure” you before truly connecting. You might feel safe or stuck, depending on your own chart. There's a sense of “I want to have all of you” literally. In public, they treat you like their person through small, steady gestures. Think hand on your back/ shoulder/ hip, picking up the check, always close by.

Their 7th lord in ur 3rd - They feel drawn to your mind and their attraction towards you is beyond appearance. You might become their go-to person for random thoughts and late-night talks. The connection starts light but can get emotionally loaded fast. They flirt through words. Texts, jokes, side comments, etc and that’s their way in. If one-sided, you’ll feel like their emotional dumping site. They romanticize your tone, your humor, the way you speak. Can ghost you out of nowhere if you're not on the same wavelength. If it ends, they’ll still lurk by liking your posts, watching your stories, saying nothing.

Their 7th lord in ur 4th - They feel emotionally safe around you way too fast. You remind them of home sometimes in a comforting way, sometimes in a triggering one. They might start talking about deep personal stuff out of nowhere. If mutual, the bond feels warm, familiar, and deeply personal. If one-sided, you’ll feel emotionally responsible for their mess. You might notice them trying to insert themselves into your routines or family stuff early. If they’re emotionally immature, they’ll act like a victim when things shift. If it doesn’t work, it feels like a breakup with your own peace.

Their 7th lord in ur 5th - They might see you as the father/mother of their children. Can see you as child-like or they can be that way towards you. If one-sided, you might feel they used you for just an ego boost or to keep a score. They may try to woo or chase you. Even if they’re emotionally reserved, you pull out their playful, flirty, affectionate side. You might notice them getting possessive when they’re not getting enough attention back or backing off completely if the energy stops feeling exciting. In public, they want to show you off.

Their 7th lord in ur 6th - They are drawn to how you carry yourself under pressure. They show interest by doing things for you or offering help, not through big romantic gestures. It can feel sweet at first, but over time, you might notice a subtle pressure to perform or “keep it together” for them. You become the reliable one, the one who holds it down. If it’s mutual, the bond feels steady and loyal. If it’s one-sided, you’ll start feeling like their emotional support system, not their partner. Quiet tension builds when effort isn’t returned. It’s love through labor, and that can either ground the connection or wear it out. In public, they help carry your bag, pick you up at work or drop you off, and remember your schedule.

Their 7th lord in ur 7th - They see you as "the one". They show up already “partnered” in their mind. It’s giving a default commitment. It’s not casual. Even if you try, something about it feels official. You bring out their relationship side even if they weren’t looking for it. If they're immature, they might project ideal partner expectations on you too fast. They may test you to see if you match their ideal. In public, you both give off perfect pair vibes to others and people would respect you both.

Their 7th lord in ur 8th - They want access to you, like all of you. They get emotionally attached fast, even if they pretend they’re not. You may feel both desired and slightly exposed around them. You might feel like they want control, even if they frame it as “just caring.” It can get toxic, and you won't realize it until it's too late. Secrets come out, willingly or not. The sexual tension is crazy. It’s there even when nothing physical happens. They’ll either bring you closer to your shadow work or pull you into theirs. When it’s real and healthy, it feels like love meets rebirth. When it’s not, it drains your soul. In public, they can be low-key and people can def see the sexual tension between you both.

Their 7th lord in ur 9th - You might feel like a muse to them. They romanticize the idea of growing with you. If mutual, the connection feels freeing, future-focused, and full of potential. If one-sided, they might put you on a pedestal as their “escape.” Long-distance, cultural, or lifestyle gaps are common with this overlay. A partner in evolution. In public, you both give off travel couple vibes or the nerdy couple.

Their 7th lord in ur 10th - They see you as someone they can publicly claim, like status matters here. You come off as “partner goals” to them, whether you’re trying or not. You might feel like they’re into the idea of you more than the real you. They could treat you like a trophy or someone who boosts their rep. If mutual, you feel like a power couple together. If one-sided, you might feel used or put on display. Respect matters just as much as affection here, maybe more. If it ends, it’s not just a breakup, it’s a hit to their image. Their career can take a hit too. They def wanna show you off and would feel proud to be seen with you. In public, they show you off with pride. People might see you both as a "power couple".

Their 7th lord in ur 11th - They see you as their "partner in crime". They romanticize how accepted and understood they feel around you. Feelings grow through shared interests, group chats, and inside jokes. If mutual, it’s that “my best friend is also my person” type of love. If one-sided, they’ll hover in your orbit, hoping you catch on. The line between friend and partner gets blurry fast. When it ends, it’s still hard to fully let go as the friendship keeps echoing. In public, you look like best friends who also hook up. They act easygoing and proud of you, but not possessive.

Their 7th lord in ur 12th - They feel drawn to you without knowing why and it’s an unconscious attraction. The connection feels private, hidden, or impossible to explain. You might feel like they see a side of you no one else does. If mutual, it’s telepathic. You feel each other’s moods without speaking. Boundaries blur emotionally, spiritually, and sometimes physically. They can disappear emotionally just as fast as they appeared. Feels karmic like you’ve met before or have unfinished business. Love here is felt more than acted on and that can be painful. In public, people don’t really get your dynamic. People never would have imagined you both would end up together.

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[areallyuniquename]

[soothingwitchygirlie]

needed this🥹

reminder than simply being outside, drinking water, opening the windows, sun bathing and moon glancing, etc. are all real devotional acts to our earth — no matter how small !!!

being low on time, effort, and energy does NOT make you a bad witch or pagan. it makes you human.

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[somethingtocallmine]

[nephritebabie]

the cycle of life

[thecupidwitch]

Simple Ways to Practice Magick Everyday

Say a small prayer or do a short meditation before you get out of bed in the morning.

Write down dreams or visions you had.

Stir your first cup of coffee or tea counterclockwise to banish negativity and bad luck or clockwise to bring positive energy.

Draw daily tarot or oracle cards (you can also use a pendulum) for guidance.

Cleansing yourself and home using sound or smoke.

Ancestor or spirit offerings

Pick out your clothes, shoes, jewelry... ect with intention.

Write a sigil or petition paper and burn it.

Take a ritual shower. You can spice it up with candles, herbs, and crystals, or you can simply step under the water and imagine all the negativity and bad energy washing off you. You can also recite a chant.

Every time you look into the mirror, say an affirmation

Take a walk outside and ground yourself to Mother Earth.

Dance!! Dancing is an excellent way to rise the energy, and it helps with opening the sacral and solar plexus chakra and getting in touch with the inner child.

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[coven-of-genesis]

Plant Companions & Their Quiet Magick 🌿

A little guide for your window sill altar or garden bed

🪴 Basil – Protection + prosperity

A kitchen staple that wards off negative energy and invites abundance. Place near doors or cook with it for a subtle blessing.

🌼 Chamomile – Peace + dreams

Known for calming energy. Brew into tea or keep dried under your pillow to soothe nightmares and attract sweet sleep.

🌵 Aloe Vera – Healing + resilience

A plant of regeneration. Break off a leaf to soothe burns or skin irritations. Spiritually, it’s said to absorb bad energy and promote renewal.

🌱 Mint – Clarity + communication

Sharp, energizing, and sacred to Mercury. Keeps the mind alert, words flowing, and boundaries strong. Great for spells involving speech, study, or travel.

🌸 Lavender – Tranquility + spiritual connection

A soft powerhouse. Place near your bed, burn it dried, or add it to baths to cleanse your aura and calm the mind.

🌿 Rosemary – Memory + protection

An all-around witch’s fave. Burn as incense to banish negativity. Add to oil or water for cleansing sprays. Tuck into your pocket before exams.

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You don’t need a massive garden to work with plant magick. One pot in a sunny window, tended with intention, can be a whole ritual 🌞✨

[bitchy-craft]

PATREON MASTERLIST: total pick a cards: 90

EXCLUSIVE PICK A CARDS: current total: 40

Angel numbers for you

A moodboard of your future relationship

A moodboard representing your aura

Advice for the upcoming month

Advice from your future spouse

Alice in Wonderland quotes that describe your personality

Anime your future spouse would watch and why

How clumsy your future spouse is

How people feel in your presence

How they’d please you (18+)

How they will seduce you

How they will initiate sex (18+)

How you will get rich

If they have a crush on you

Poems that correspond with their personality

Positive signs you have to look out for

10 of their dirty secrets (18+)

Quotes associated with your future relationship

Something you should hear

Song lyrics that describe your future sex life (18+)

The best and worst thing you bring out of them

The MBTI of your future spouse

Things they dream of but won’t do in real life (18+)

What crime you would commit

What kind of lingerie they like most on you (18+)

What main colour your aura is

What pet your future spouse would buy for you

What romance character your future spouse is [NEW]

What tarot card represents you

What they say behind your back

What turns them on (18+)

What you should know about the next 30 days

What your future spouse thinks of your body (18+)

What your future spouse thinks about your voice

Where they'd fuck you (18+)

Which Disney princess you are

Your future spotify sex playlist (18+)

Your future spouse when you're ill

Your next romance movie trope

Your future wedding moodboard

EXTENDED PICK A CARDS: current total: 50

Affirmations you should repeat to yourself

A message from your soulmate

Book quotes associated with your future spouse’s traits

Book quotes that describe your future relationship

Compliments given behind your back

Dumb things your future spouse would do

10 (more) facts about your future spouse

Google searches that describe your future spouse

Google searches that you'll look up in your future relationship

How they'll show their posessiveness

How to make them fall in love with you

How you two would resolve conflict

How your future spouse will display jealousy

How your future spouse would describe you

How people perceive you

If they are lying to you

Insightful facts about your future spouse

Let's hype you up

Messages for you

Messages from your spirit guides

Movie quotes associated with your future relationship

Poems that display your future relationship

Rom-com movie quotes that describe your future spouse’s thoughts [NEW]

Some motivation from your spirit guides

The first thing your future spouse notices about you

Their hidden insecurities

Uplifting messages from your spirit guides

What is beautiful about you

What kind of beauty you possess

What mythological love story describes your future relationship

What red flags you should look out for

What romance trope you will have

What they think of you

What would drive you to kill (18+)

What you need to look out for

What you need to work on

What your contribution to the world will be

What your future in-laws will think of you

What your higher self wants you to know

What you secretly desire

Which mythological creature represents you as a person moodboard + explanation

Who is thinking about you and why

You vs. their ex

Your first argument with your future spouse

Your next self-love improving exercise

Your future spouse as a Monet painting

Your future spouse’s animal type

Your future spouse's spotify playlist

Your most effective manifestation method

Your next financial blessing

[astrolook]

💘Venus in Synastry - Are They Setting You Free or Setting You Up? 🔥

Note: These are all my personal observations and patterns I've noticed over the years. Take what resonates with you more and leave the rest. Lemme know in the comments if it hits home!

Their Venus in ur 1st - They want to "have" you before they know your name and also memorize your face like it's art. You walk around triggering their romantic fantasies without trying. Their taste shifts toward you like you're the new standard of hot, even if you don’t fit their “type.” They might stare at you for too long and pretend they didn't when you look at them. They might become desperate to "earn" your attention. You spark their inner romantic and inner pervert at the exact same time. They def would get jealous if you smile at others' jokes or give attention. In a relationship, they would go out of their way to let everyone know you're theirs. Can expect royalty treatment from them. If it’s one-sided, it feels like you’re being adored from a distance while they project a fantasy you never agreed to, or the other way around. After a breakup, their fixation can twist. Love turns bitter, and they might mock you for what they once worshipped.

Their Venus in ur 2nd - They def wanna know your fav food and anything fav of yours. You trigger their desire to invest their time and effort into you. Touch is currency now and you’re holding all the wealth. You trigger their inner sugar daddy, even if they’re broke. They want to feed you, spoil you, and then bite your shoulder a little. Your scent is burned into their memory. You make them want to show up, show out, and show off. They think about what your body would feel like under their hands. A lot. They like watching you do normal stuff like drink coffee, take your shoes off, comb your hair, exist. They prefer to be half-naked with you and prefer the same in return. If you’re not into it, they’ll still linger, hoping you’ll eventually “get it.” Breakups hit them in the wallet and the soul. They feel like they lost an investment.

Their Venus in ur 3rd - You start catching feelings after the fifth “lol” they send. Their voice does things to you that it shouldn’t. They text you just to hear your thoughts, not just your plans. You suddenly care what they think of your taste in music, food, etc. You talk for hours and somehow never get bored with them. They complement you in ways that make your brain short-circuit. You catch yourself laughing and blushing at the same time. They like the way you talk, even when you’re angry or crying. You become their favorite person to overshare with. It’s the “did you get home safe?” texts followed by a thirst trap. If it's one-sided, they leave you on read or ghost straight up. After a breakup, you’ll miss the way they spoke to you more than anything else.

Their Venus in ur 4th - They show up soft, comforting, then start touching your heart and your thighs. They want to know what breaks you and what blankets you. You suddenly feel like telling them secrets you haven’t even told your therapist or people close to you. Their affection feels like a warm bath, until you realize you’re drowning a little. They might like to talk or make out with you under dim lights. They’ll cook for you, then pull you onto their lap while it simmers. You start imagining a future with them in your house and hate how natural it feels. They def will like your bare face and messy hair. You start missing them before they leave for work. You feel like they see the version of you, you never know you had. Every time they touch you, it feels like they’re writing a love letter on your skin. On the flip side, they act cozy until things get too real, then vanish into emotional fog. You’ll start feeling like home to them, but they’ll treat you like a layover.

Their Venus in ur 5th - They make you feel hot and beautiful. They flirt like it’s a sport and you’re the trophy they plan to snatch. You catch yourself smiling when they walk in, even when you’re annoyed. They want you want them so bad. They gas you up and push your buttons like it’s foreplay. They would def complement you and praise you. You start craving their attention like sugar, then crash when they withhold it. Jealousy creeps in fast in some cases and suddenly you don’t like them laughing with anyone else. You light each other up, but it’s hard to tell if it’s love or just a spark fire. They might chase hard, then disappear when you stop clapping for them. If it's one-sided, you might feel like a background character in their love show.

Their Venus in ur 6th - You find them sexy when they’re focused, sweaty, or quietly solving everyday problems. They want you on your grind but also in their bed by 9PM, every night, no exceptions. They notice your health, your habits, your little flaws and want to be the one who helps fix them. Their affection is practical...until it turns filthy behind closed doors. They would take out the trash for you, run errands or pay bills. They want to earn your love with consistency and lowkey obsession. It’s not “I love you” every day but it’s “Did you eat?” “Text me when you’re home.” “I got you.” They might give and give, hoping you’ll notice and resent when you don’t reciprocate. They can micro-manage your day and tell you where to go and what to do or wear. They can become possessive over your time, space, and energy, quietly controlling. The relationship might feel more like an obligation than romance after a while. When it ends, you either miss them or feel relieved it's over, and thank god.

Their Venus in ur 7th - You look at them and think “yep, I could be seen in public with that.” You start fantasizing about joint accounts and matching rings after the third date. They trigger your romantic side, even if you thought it was dead. They fit your type in ways you didn’t even realize you had. Eye contact with them feels like vows you didn’t agree to yet. You might mirror each other’s moods, words, and even bad habits without noticing. Being with them makes you want to become a better person. The connection feels like it should be permanent, even when it’s fragile as hell. There’s a calm in their presence, until silence stretches too long and hits like a bruise. On the flip side, they might reflect what you want to see without ever really giving it. The silence between you starts to feel louder than any breakup. You’ll wait for a text that doesn’t come, because they know how to disappear quietly. Losing them feels like losing a version of yourself you almost believed in.

Their Venus in ur 8th - Fantasy overload! You want to know everything about them. Their touch feels like it unlocks a door you didn’t know you locked. You think about them in the shower, during arguments, when eating, mid-orgasm like nonstop. Jealousy or longing hits early and hard, even if you're not "together." Sex feels less like pleasure and more like a psychic ritual. You crave their secrets as much as you crave their skin. They know what turns you on and off and keep their finger right on the switch. You start to obsess over how much they know about you, how deep they’ve gotten, what they’ll do with it. They seduce you by showing you your own darkness and making it feel like love. On the flip side, you might get hooked while they keep it surface, leaving you craving a depth they never planned to give. One day, you feel seen, then invisible to them. If it ends, it can be violent or crazy.

Their Venus in ur 9th - They make your brain tingle and your pants/skirts tight/wet in the same sentence. Long talks turn into long stares, then long nights. It’s hot until they start drifting like a tourist who never unpacks. They light you up in ways that make you question what you thought love was. They make you feel like anything is possible and also that nothing is guaranteed. You crave their mind like a drug and keep going back for another hit. You don’t know if it’s love, lust, or a crash course in letting go but it’s a ride. If it ends, you realize too late that they came to teach you something, not to stay for the final chapter.

Their Venus in ur 10th - You wanna have their last name. They make you want to succeed and strip, often at the same time. You start imagining what you’d look like as their power couple aesthetic. You want them to respect you and ruin you in equal measure. You feel like the world notices when they look at you. Their attention makes you stand taller, talk smoother, and act like someone worth owning. They love seeing you in control, but they want to undo it slowly. They want to be seen with you, not just close, but claimed. They might put you on a pedestal and might believe everything you say. Can be a simp at times. If it's one-sided, you’ll feel like an accessory they show off but never truly hold. They might withhold affection if they feel it threatens their control or pride.

Their Venus in ur 11th - Their flirting is masked as inside jokes that go way too far. You start dressing hotter “by accident” when you know they’ll be around. Every group hang feels like a secret date only you two are in on. You feel freer with them than with anyone else, and somehow that’s what traps you. They make you feel known in that scary-good way....then ghost you for a week. They hype you up publicly and text you “you looked hot today” privately. You go from memes to sexts to emotional heart dumps in one night, lol. They show up like a best friend, but stay like an unresolved crush. Even if you’re not even together and one or both of you are already imagining a situationship playlist. On the flip side, they might give you mixed signals. You’ll be stuck between friendship and thirst with no map out. They might use connection to stay close, while keeping you at arm’s length. Emotional honesty gets dodged with sarcasm, distractions, or disappearing acts.

Their Venus in ur 12th - They feel familiar before you even know their last name, like déjà vu. Their presence lingers like perfume on skin hours after they leave. You can’t stop thinking about them, even when nothing has technically happened. You crave them in silence, and it somehow feels louder than screaming. Every interaction feels spiritually charged and low-key forbidden. Sex with them (or even imagining it) feels like a prayer you’re not sure you should say. They feel like the answer to a question you didn’t know your body was asking. Loving them feels like surrender, that's sweet, scary, and somehow sacred. If one-sided, you might obsess in silence while they sleep peacefully, unaware. This love can feel like waiting for something that never lands.

Some patterns I've noticed over the yrs:

Venus in 1st/5th/7th/9th/10th/11th/12th -> You love their mind, looks, presence, or life philosophy from afar. “We’d totally fall in love if we met…” Can have celeb-crush energy. Deep emotional obsession with someone who has no idea the other exists.

Venus in 3rd/5th/7th/8th/11th -> Can be one-sided. Friends with benefits situations, a hookup, one-night stand situations, short-term affairs, one person doing all the effort, to keep a score, etc can be seen here. Can be toxic too.

Quick Synastry Reality Check 💋

Synastry is about energy exchange between two people who actually know each other. That means: 🖤 You’ve met. 🖤 You’ve talked. 🖤 There’s been some kind of interaction or mutual vibe, even a little spark.

If you’ve never met them, never spoken, or it’s a one-way obsession (like a celebrity, athlete, Youtuber or influencer)…that’s not synastry, that’s projection.

No, that famous player or that YouTuber is not secretly in love with you because their Venus falls in your 8th or 5th house. Yes, synastry can feel intense, but it needs both people to be involved in some real way for it to work.

It’s energy. It’s chemistry. It’s connection. Not a crush on someone who doesn’t know you exist. I'm saying this here bcoz I got a few people in my DMs asking me, and I wanted to address it. Thank you for reading!

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[omnybus]

I think what I love most about mythology is that the “Trickster God/Spirit” is an archetypical character found in almost every body of folklore. It’s like “Oh, here’s our God of the Sun, our God of the Sea, our God of Fertility, and our God of Being A Wretched Little Gremlin Who Causes Problems On Purpose”

[a-path-by-the-moon]