#Syscourse

[deceitful-appearance-system]

~💙✨🃏

Treating your headmates like separate people isn't worsening your condition by default by the way. Treating them with respect isn't making you dissociate more. Final fusion is a fine thing to try and achieve, but people need to understand that functional multiplicity is a thing you can work to achieve in therapy too. Please stop pushing the idea that you need to treat your headmates like a disorder or curse in order to heal. You can be happily multiple if you want that.

[sysmedsaresexist]

An unkind reminder

Pussy is not an insult

Grow up and use your imagination to come up with better insults

Be better

[thecircularsystem]

By the way, I just want to mention something about anon as a feature.

While I am definitely clowning on anons for sending anon hate, I actually love anon asks. The reasons why I make fun of the anon hate (such as the anti willo anon or daily accountability) is because they're sending hate anonymously. If you hate me so much, or insist I am evil and bad, then say it with your full chest. Be brave enough to show your face alongside your hatred.

But if you're being kind, or genuine, or you want to know something but you're afraid to send an ask with your main blog? No judgement here.

I almost never send asks using my main blog due to the fear of harassment, seeing as I've been harassed on other platforms for "being a sysmed," even when what I was posting was like... my writing. It's nerve wracking! But if I were to send anon hate, I would attach my name to it. I would be brave enough to go, "I stand by my words."

But I often send love anons, because I want people to get good messages. I often send genuine questions of discourse on anon, because while I'm scared of harassment, I want to know.

I don't judge anyone for using anon unless they're being a bitchass hater.

[clutching-our-plurals]

Okay, very genuine questions here, for my systems who post a lot of information about their parts!

We are still newer to more interactive system spaces, and I see many systems who post a lot of personal information about their alters.

Stuff like names, ages, all that stuff. Even who is fronting at any and every given time that they post, whether with emojis or tags for whoever is fronting, or even signing off with their names. Or long intro posts about who all everyone is. It seems fairly common to me. We don't really do that. We don't often share names or ages, rarely even "system roles." Especially online, even in designated spaces.

So, I'm genuinely curious, for my systems that do post a lot of personal information about their parts:

What is the appeal of posting such personal things?

A more specific one for those who use emojis or name sign-offs in post, equally genuine and respectfully curious:

What is the appeal of letting people know who's fronting all the time?

Like, no shade, at all. I just really am very curious and I want to understand why someone might do that. Like, from a very genuine place of not understanding and wanting to understand just to... understand!

Oh, and a question to my fellow systems who do NOT share their information like this:

Why do you personally prefer not to share more information about your parts?

Our answer to that last question 👇

We don't always know who's fronting, we don't entirely know who all is in our head. So, that's one of the reasons we don't post much about this. We also have a very cautious frontmaster-

(it's what I've taken to calling her, but the term for what she is, it's kinda been coined as gatekeeper? But I think that sounds a little mean.)

And she doesn't really approve of us sharing information about our parts with just anyone. Not even people in our lives that we, or I, really love and trust and want to know. So, that's another reason.

We also don't have much of a headspace anymore, and still struggle with intersystem communication.

[the-alarm-system]

V - I hope your partner leaves a loser like you for a cooler hotter endo system

me omw to convince singlets to become plural

i really do mean it when i say the future is plural

[quoigenic-anon]

what do you think is the most important thing/trait to have when you syscourse?

Patience.

Ability to step back, process your feelings and separate your immediate feelings from your own opinion and facts you can operate with.

Self-awareness.

Ability to accept you can be wrong.

And ability to leave the conversation when it's pointless and more energy draining than worthy of your time.

[guardianssystem]

Hello systems, plurals, and multiples of all kinds!

We're looking for some interesting resources, information, and links to add to our document!

This doesn't have to be just scientific studies/research on endogenic and non-traumagenic systems!

We're looking for anything system-related of any kind that you find interesting. An article, some history, a blog post, a book, a study, an FAQ. Traumagenic, endogenic, willogenic, Tulpamancy, spiritual, psychological. Functional/healthy multiplicity, dissociation, disordered and non-disordered plurality, trauma, other disorders, alter/system types.

Dictionaries are great! Guides are great too! Explanations, videos, plural media recommendations (books/movies/shows/games), apps, a list of links that somebody else had made, anything.

If you think you have something to share, but it might be a bit too off-topic, share it anyway! Maybe there's a place for it somewhere :)

The document will still be focused on endogenic research and some information for the most part. But you never know what might help :)

Feel free to share around!

[okiimii]

if you are bodily white, you do not have poc alters/headmates.

[winterwonderl]

plural is objectively pro endogenic and if you use ''plural'' and claim endogenics aren't ''plural''/it's a ''CDD term'' you can kindly fuck off

extra note: if you say you can't be multiple people without having DID/OSDD you can kindly fuck off!! a lot of people identify as ''multiple people'' without even being systems!! keep that in mind

[oopsallsyscourse]

Ok so therapy is like a map. It won't fix your problems for you but it will give you a guide of where to go and how to improve. Learning the commonly used tools and techniques can genuinely help you improve even if you're not in therapy.

That's the reason things like self diagnosis can be extremely helpful in some cases. It gives you a starting point as to what skills to build up and where to look for more treatment information. Plus like if/when you start looking for therapist, you know a bit about what kind of therapist to look for and what you want in a therapist.

[chaos-in-one]

So it seems the anti willo anon is back and defending fakeclaiming now

Unfortunately for them, just like any other fakeclaimer, their claims do not dictate anyone's actual lived experiences. Saying a system is faking doesn't magically make them disappear.

Hell, even if a person was faking, fakeclaiming them is almost never going to actually change anything.

It just makes you look like an asshat to go and fakeclaim people

[starstruck-sillies]

Syscourse hasn't had much sillyness lately, so have our stupid orange son that we love very much

The face of a man that doesn't understand how cat doors work and made us tape the door of his new litterbox open because he's dumb. He is the sweetest and most polite little man ever tho so it's fine, I can forgive him for his place in the orange hivemind.

-Milkyway and Xero

[quoigenic-anon]

Plurality is not inherently a disability.

Spell it with me: Plurality. Is not. Inherently. A disability.

Plurality is "more than one" experience. Being plural means having this kind of experience in one way or another.

For example, spiritual plurality. I don't experience it, but I think it's not disabling. At least only by itself.

(maybe there are cases, correct me if i'm wrong)

Is soulbonding disabling? I don't think so. Not by itself.

[discourse-by-candlelight]

So Sophie finally lost all of her marbles huh? Maybe it's finally time we talk about how horrifically disconnected she actually is from the real tulpamancy community. Believe it or not but despite all of her increasingly fanatical and ungrounded rants and stunts related to tulpamancy, she isn't as in tune with the tulpamancy community as she thinks she is.

Post coming soon, roughly a week or two. We've sat back and watched an account we used to really respect spiral out of control and misrepresent us for too long. Her reach is almost entirely contained to plural tumblr, a place which is far from the actual tulpamancy community besides the occasional redditulpas crossover. It's about time a tulpa system that mainly interacts with other tulpa systems said something.

[thecircularsystem]

Reasons why I try to avoid saying “Endos”

Imagine

Please

Someone in this discourse calling traumagenic systems “traumas”