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Studying linguistics is actually so wonderful because when you explain youth slang to older professors, instead of complaining about how "your generation can't speak right/ you're butchering the language" they light up and go “really? That’s so wonderful! What an innovative construction! Isn't language wonderful?"
#linguistics#gen z slang#english#as people in the reblog pointed out!#most gen z slang comes from (or was appropriated from) aave#honestly I was just excited to talk about how people in my field actually get excited about non standard uses of English#instead of ridiculing speakers#and I tagged incorrectly and didn’t point out the very real issues of language and power and appropriation inherent in modern slang#in that much of it was appropriated#and even that which experiences language change in the wider culture still originated in aave#aave is just as linguistically valid as any other English dialect because it is a proper language#and the grammar is incredible!!!#habitual be is fantastic and an excellent example of how a richer case system or a certain case can render an adverb unnecessary#and the phonology is just beautiful#anyway I’m very sorry#I fucked up
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Can you date a trans girl like me?
#mtf trans#pro transid#trans#trans artist#trans beauty#trans community#trans man#trans pride#trans rights#trans woman#transformation#transgender#transsexual#transparent#transformers#transfem#transgirl#transisbeautiful#transx#transmasc#trans is beautiful#trans uk#trans issues#trans is not a crime#trans women are beautiful#trans women are amazing#trans women are valid#trans girl#trans guy#trans gay
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why, when I am on my knees and begging for you to hear me, do you tell me it is below me to do so?
I am scratching and screaming and clawing for every crumb of affection and it is exhausting. I am too tired to stand on my own and demand anymore. and no one will stay, to sit with me. no one will get me a chair, or a pillow, or anything at all so that I might feel something like loved or cared for.
I beg and I beg and I beg and I tell myself if I am not heard then there is no point in sitting here to rot. but I am sitting here. rotting.
why won't anyone pick me up off of the ground, just to hold me?
am I really so horrible?
#self worth? more like#crippling anxiety#and validation issues#I am struggling#very much so recently
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#mtf trans#trans#trans artist#trans beauty#trans community#trans cult#trans is beautiful#trans is divine#trans is not a choice#trans is not a crime#trans issues#trans pride#trans rights#trans man#cute trans#trans gender#trans guy#trans girls#trans is okay#trans is valid#trans lives are human lives#trans lives are valid#trans life#trans lives matter#trans massage#trans love#trans woman#transblr#transgender#transfem
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Having a massive cock down there is great 😋
Would you love to taste?
A beautiful trans girl iam
Kindly send a DM and Reblog lives😘♥️
#mtf trans#transgender#transmasc#trans beauty#trans pride#trans woman#transsexual#transisbeautiful#trans issues#trans is not a crime#trans is valid#trans is divine#trans are beautiful#trans are women#trans are amazing#humiliation sissy#sissy caged#sissy domination#sissi slave#sissifyme
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Look, this is what moral OCD is like for me:
I walk past a piece of paper. I don’t pick it up because I had a long day at work and it’s very cold outside. This then becomes my internal monologue:
I didn’t pick up that piece of paper, I should have. Don’t I care about the environment? It’s not my trash, I shouldn’t have to pick it up. But also that’s how these things happen right? We place the blame on others as our environment degrades. It was just a piece of paper, it’s not like it can do that much damage. But also how do I know: I’m not an environmental expert. Maybe stray paper scraps are killing the frogs. You’re literally killing the frogs. You should look up how many frogs die a year so you know how shitty you are-No stop it.
I care about the environment, and I recycle and I joined green activism movements but is that enough? I could be doing more. I should be doing more. I should donate my entire check to charity. But isn’t it self serving to think that my one check could help that much? Do I really think I’m that important, how self entitled and-no stop it, reset! You are obsessing and if you fall for it, you will not eat dinner. Let it go.
Okay it’s just a piece of paper. It’s okay you skipped it this once: it could have had something dangerous on it. Yeah that makes sense. But also, that means I’m putting my own safety over trying to help the environment, which is very selfish of me. I’m just one shitty person: god how could I be so self absorbed. I should have picked up the piece of paper. I’m so selfish, and shitty and-no, no, stop it! This is not helpful. It’s fine.
It’s been a long day and I’m cold, that’s not a crime- no that’s being selfish again, you’re making excuses. You’re just a lazy piece of shit who doesn’t care about others, and selfish and God the fact you’re thinking this much about one piece of paper shows how selfish you are, you care more about if you’re a good person than anything else, you’re a piece of shit, you’re a piece of shit, YOU’RE A PIECE OF SHIT.
I get home and open up Tumblr. The first post I see says “if you don’t reblog this post about the environment you’re as complicit as an oil billionaire.” I close my computer and resign myself to looking up the state frog populations until I go to bed.
I don’t eat dinner.
The amount of frogs that die a year is somewhere from 200 million to over 1 billion.
#moral ocd#ocd#scrupulosity#Iz rambles#this is okay to reblog I think people really don’t get it#mental illness#the issue with the social media post is not that it exists or that OP even feels about this issue: the issue is it validates my ocd#I don’t obsess about frogs but that is a bummer stat I do rather like them#obsessive compulsive disorder
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congratulations to voyager for portraying the first gay teenager homophobic parent relationship through 2 middle aged guys played by the same guy at the same time
#voyager liveblog#may have dug myself into a hole and picked up voyager again dont worry about it#I do have thoughts abt zimmerman as a character in the fact that i dont really Care about him but hes interesting as a concept#either way.... ds9 liveblog witnesses will remember me saying he made the first gay hologram. And well. In a way. I was right. Love wins#& also i like that this episode also actually acknowledges the emh really wanting someone to be proud of him really bad#look mr zimmerman you gave a perfectly fine hologram validation issues. Look at him
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man of the house (eldest daughter)
#dark academia#dark academia aesthetic#chaotic academia#academia aesthetic#dark#literature#academia#chaotic academic aesthetic#literacy#bookworm#daddy issues#eldest daughter#eldest sibling#eldest child#eldest sister#eldest born#first born#nobodys daughter#light academism#light acadamia aesthetic#light academia#light academic aesthetic#chaotic aesthetic#chaotic#chaotic thoughts#dark academic#academic validation#classic academia#this is what makes us girls#im just a girl
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Reblog if you wanna see my cock🥰
#trans pride#transgender#transfem#trans woman#transisbeautiful#trans issues#trans is not a crime#trans is divine#trans is valid#trans are beautiful#trans are women#trans are amazing#humiliation sissy#sissy domination#sissifyme#sissy ferminization#sissy caged#trans on tumblr#trans online#trans onlyfans#trans women are beautiful#trans women are amazing#trans world#trans women are valid
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"chapter 4 is about susie learning things can't last forever" so we're just saying words recreationally at this point.
gerson is not gone. i will eat my own shoe otherwise. I'm not sure how he'd come back, since he was introduced with a very specific narrative purpose and he achieved it within chapter 4's storyline, but he's not Gone. his mere existence acts as counter evidence to Ralsei's claim that darkners are unpersons, and the idea that they're "less real" and thus less important than the lightners.
well... if that's true, here's a lightner revived as a darkner. a darkner with all the memories, regrets, appearance, personality and goals as what qualifies as a "real person". here's tangible proof that darkners are as capable of personhood as lightners. if you think darkners don't matter, why can gerson exist in the first place? he's a character who blurs the lines between light and darkness. lightner and darkner. author and character, creator and created.
there's a reason deltarune has him dead and "buried" in the cemetery before the game even starts, next to snowdrake's mother and shyren's sister and the leader of the dogs. it's thematically tying him to the concept of the amalgamates. the medical horror plotline in undertale that's a subversion of the trope that dead things should stay dead and that abominations like them should be "put out of their misery". THEIR personhood and freedom and right to return home and be loved by their families in their unconventional state is at the heart of the True Lab.
when gerson asks susie what ending she has in mind and she replies "i wouldn't end it", he cackles with delight and tells her to hold onto that belief dearly when she writes the continuation of their story. his one wish, in life just as in death, was for the new generation to keep creating. he draws a doodle of the fun gang, hands it to susie, and she gives it back by drawing him into the story. in what world is the takeaway from all this that gerson should stay dead and will never return again.
#deltarune#metanalysis#entry log#gerson#he's not gone!!!! him coming back literally saves the day!!! textually!#the second sanctuary was more than anything a deep dive into Susie's psyche and her trust/abandonment issues#as well as exposing her desperate need for external support and validation#when she says she was wrong opening the dark world again you're supposed to think ''baby no...'' not ''lesson learned'' BE SO FR#susie
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Every ship is valid.
A ship that isn’t your thing is valid. A ship that gives you ewwww vibes is still valid. That one crack ship that only one person wrote about, posted on AO3, and has 23 views in four years—also valid.
What isn’t valid is spending more time hating a ship than enjoying your own—and ruining it for others with negativity. I don’t understand the point of putting more effort into tearing down a ship than its actual shippers do building it up. At this point, if that’s your thing, your OTP isn’t your OTP—it’s hating a ship, making sure the boat you don’t even like sinks.
Ship what you love. Ignore what you don’t. Write fanfics, make art, memes and moodboards, record podfics, make fan videos and craft, daydream up your headcanons. Whatever keeps your boat afloat, as long as it’s not ruining someone else’s fun.
Let people enjoy things. Fandom is meant to be fun.
#proship#every ship is valid#ao3#make love not war#new ship#fandom issue#fandom things#fandom is a community#be a member of this community#multishipper#fandom is meant to be fun#marvel#marvel fandom#fandom#fandom culture
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Do you like the taste of banana? 🍌
#mtf trans#pro transid#trans#trans artist#trans beauty#trans community#trans man#trans pride#trans rights#trans woman#transformation#transgender#transsexual#transparent#transformers#transfem#transgirl#transisbeautiful#transmasc#transx#trans girl#trans guy#trans gay#trans germany#trans women are beautiful#trans women are amazing#trans women are valid#trans is beautiful#trans issues#trans is not a crime
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Your favorite 💕💕 TS mommy 🍆💦💧
#transgender#trans pride#transfem#transformers#trans woman#mtf trans#transgirl#trans beauty#trans community#transisbeautiful#trans sissy#trans is beautiful#trans issues#trans is not a crime#trans is divine#trans women#trans is valid#trans usa#trans uk#trans is sweet#trans is amazing#trans is okay#trans is not a choice#trans is wonderful#trans women are beautiful#trans women are amazing#trans men#trans man#trans women are valid#trans
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Who's in tonight? Inbox me directly to book for your massage section. I'm available anywhere anytime...
#mtf trans#trans#trans artist#trans beauty#trans community#trans cult#trans is beautiful#trans is not a choice#trans is not a crime#trans is okay#trans is valid#trans issues#trans life#trans lives are human lives#trans lives are valid#trans lives matter#trans massage#trans man#trans pride#trans rights#trans woman#transgender#transgirl#transisbeautiful#transsexual#transfem#transmasc#trans is divine
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girl experiences gender euphoria and is immediately slammed by grief
for @litttlittt <3. this was supposed to be a portrait of caroline hill, but litta mentioned tim looking like janet when dressed as caroline and identity issues and angst and things spiraled
something about tim not knowing if he's his mother's child or bruce's or neither's.
figuring out the looks:

i wanted janet to have that poofy 70s hair
#tim drake#dc#bruce wayne#janet drake#sart#i'm picturing this as transfemme tim hence “he” and also compounding issues about bruce treating him as a daughter#which is exactly the gender validation tim wants and needs but isnt sure he deserves#but this also definitely works for trans tim#she gets to process that she looks like her mom!! and her mom will never get to know her daughter#would she have wanted to know her daughter? even though she showered tim with love when she was around#she barely knew her son#gender idk he's a girl 👍 hope that helps#i went down a rabbit hole looking up vintage dior necklaces -- hopefully something martha wayne wouldve worn#-- but dior necklaces are COMPLICATED#i almost drew pearls but i think that wouldve been too cruel to bruce lol#(a decent amount of my art--even when it's not femme tim--gets tagged 'gender' and i dont know what im going but im glad 👍)
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He just wants to be missed
#gravity falls#bill cipher#ford pines#stanford pines#billford#shitpost#the amount of times Bill asks if people will miss him is something he needs to bring up in therapy#did your parents not love you enough Bill?#your issues are showing#ignore the mistakes#I’m too tired to fix them#and honestly not emotionally stable enough#feeling like a piece of shit rn and I haven’t even done anything wrong#…um but#did you guys miss me? 🥺🥺🥺#one day I’m gonna stop posting entirely and wait patiently for the ‘omg are you okay’ messages that will never come in#and then give up and post again#I never said I was any better than him here#I too constantly crave validation from others and really want to be missed
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