#aspec coining

[mlp-friendship-isnt-magic]

Coining new term: Poison Apl

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The term was made to be an aplatonic equivalent to evil aro, arson aro, and mean/cruel aro. Poison apls reclaim the negative stereotypes surrounding aplatonics, such as being unlikeable. They may be mentally ill or have a "scary" personality disorder that impacts their aplatonicism. This term can overlap with loveless apl, but not all poison apls consider themselves loveless. Poison apls support all micro labels on the aplatonic spectrum, even the ones called "cringe" or "pointless" by exclusionists. Overall, the term is to take back aplmisia and make it our own.

[acore-ballt]

Current Aspec Acore pile!

These are all the ones so far. Not everything has been posted yet, as there's still more in the queue.

If you have a flag/identity you want in the pile, send an ask with a link to it and I'll get to it when I can! Note that we do not do genders here. Only orientations.

[gendergardener]

narcaro - a romantic orientation on the aro spectrum where NPD affects how you experience romantic attraction. for example, you may only be attracted to people who prioritize you over others or praise you consistently, or people you view as an equal. it could also mean pursuing romantic interests as a way of seeking validation through being desired, without necessarily actually being in love. anyone with npd or who suspects they may have npd or its symptoms can use this label regardless of how they feel they identify with it

colors are the browns from the npd flag and the greens from the aro flag

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narc abuse believers and anti-npd truthers PLEASE leave this post alone

[mo-rt4ry-gai]

BRIAR-ASPEC

briar-aspec is an aspec identity in which someone is both repulsed and cupio with the same or similar attractions, some may also call themselves apothi along with cupio. briar-aspecs can be of any partnering status

briar-physical

briar-physical is an identity for anyone who is both cupio towards a physical attraction and repulsed by a physical attraction they can be the same kind but do not have to be

briar-tertiary is an identity for anyone who is both cupio towards a tertiary attraction and repulsed by a tertiary attraction they can be the same kind but do not have to be

briar-emotional is an identity for anyone who is both cupio towards an emotional attraction and repulsed by a emotional attraction they can be the same kind but do not have to be

briar-mental is an identity for anyone who is both cupio towards a mental attraction and repulsed by a mental attraction they can be the same kind but do not have to be

(all coined by me)

[RADQUEERS DNI]

[blurred-pride]

Nebulattractional

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Nebulattractional: It is when one is unable to or has a hard time distinguishing the attraction one is feeling due to being neurodivergent

Pronunciation: Neb-you-lah-uh-tract-chin-al

Flag design: made to resemble the nebulasexual and nebularomantic flags, but also to be unique to itself.

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Alt Flag:

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[limescars]

Dark Greyrose

Combined the dark greysexual/dark greyromantic flags with the greyrose flag. It's for people who are both dark greysexual and dark greyromantic! Can be spelled either dark greyrose or dark grayrose (dark graysexual/-romantic means someone who is graysexual/-romantic, but closer to the asexual-aromantic side) (greyrose is someone who is both grayromantic & graysexual)

[aetherive]

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Polyaspec.

plain text: Polyaspec.

— An aspec term similar to omniaspec, where one is aspec in most, but not all types of attraction. For instance, one is be aspec in every attraction except for a few, such as (in our case), obscurianal attraction and aevial attraction.

— Poly + aspec

— Coined by us?

[the-colourr-wheell]

♥︎ UNiQUEERPLATONiC ♡

Uni- only experiencing attraction to one being and having confidence that that one being is the only being you’ll ever experience attraction to

Therefor, uniqueerplatonic is a term to describe only experiencing queerplatonic attraction to one being and having confidence that that one being is the only being you’ll ever experience attraction to!

We’re coining this based on our main host, but anyone can use this!

[totaltism]

Coining post

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Extromantic

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Extromantic refers to someone who doesn't or rarely feels romantic attraction unless they have formed a strong connection already, and when they do it's an intense, long lasting attraction, like hard hitting "falling in love" attraction that can last a long time, but may disappear suddenly.

This differs from Demiromantic as the person does not need to feel a strong platonic connection specifically, just any form of strong bond or connection, positive or negative. This also differs as it is a very hard hitting attraction that can either be long lasting or disappear quickly

This romantic orientation falls under the aromantic spectrum

Anyone who feels they identify with this is free to use the label and flag to identify themselves, my dni does not apply to my flag/mogai/coining posts

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[shyjusticewarrior]

Nygmobblepot sex with asexual Oswald is an underutilized concept. I like the idea of Ed being wrapped around Oswald's finger.

[epiceneandroid]

now, for a couple new orientation coins from me! there’s probably similar terms out there, but i figured i made this one for me, so...yeah

introducing delphisexual and delphiromantic! alterous, platonic, etc forms will come later when i am able to think of colors i associate with those. delphisexual is essentially when you experience a sexual orientation or sexuality that is obscure or ambiguous; therefore, your sexuality is defined by being “ambiguously sexual”. it can be used as a stand-alone orientation, a stand-alone sexuality, or a stand-alone modifier, as in “delphi-biromantic” or “delphi-gay”. delphiromantic is the romantic equivalent: you experience a romantic orientation that is obscure or ambiguous; therefore, your romantic orientation is defined by being “ambiguously romantic”. this can come as a stand-alone orientation, a stand-alone romantic equivalent, or a modifier, as in “delphi-panromantic” or “delphi-lesbianromantic”.

anyone is free to interact with this term as long as they don’t support pedophilia or pedophilic kinks, rape or rape kinks, racist kinks such as raceplay, and (this is a personal one, i have a transfeminine partner and plenty of transfeminine friends i am protective of) if you’re a transmisogynist or think trans women oppress other trans people because of their “visibility” (which is hypervisibility which is NOT a privilege) or use transmisogynistic slurs (the t slur, the fb word, stuff like that) if you’re not a trans woman or transfeminine. this includes people who use slurs they cannot reclaim in general. however, i’m not stopping you from adding this to your term hoard and using this as terms so i don’t mind if you use this independently and meet my dni, unless you’re a pedophile or support like horrible kinks.

otherwise, anyone is free to interact with and use this term!

[mogainoid]

fictoroflux+fictoaceflux

fictoroflux (or fictoromanticflux): experiencing fluctuating romantic attraction to (exclusively) fictional characters.

fictoaceflux (or fictosexualflux): experiencing fluctuating sexual attraction to (exclusively) fictional characters.

[acore-ballt]

Looking to add more Aspec identities!!!

This is the current pile! If there's an aspec identity that isn't there, should be there, or you want to be there then send an ask!

We even add flag variants!

Note that we don't do gender identies here, this is for orientations only.

[gendergardener]

aceborderline - an acespec identity that's affected by borderline personality disorder in some way. it could mean any number of things, such as that you experience sexual attraction mainly to FPs, or that emotional dysregulation causes you to struggle to know when attraction is sexual, or anything else caused by bpd. anyone with bpd can use this label, professionally diagnosed, self diagnosed, suspected or otherwise. requested by @bimalewife ♡ hope you like it!

flag colors are from the purples and blacks in both the asexual and bpd flags

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[mogai-sunflowers]

enballaric!

enballaric-

a term for one who is alloaro, but relates to being aroace due to only being sexually attracted to nonbinary people!

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term and flag by me, requested by @auto-aro​ :)

[blurred-pride]

hey, I was wondering if you’d be able to coin a term for an a-spec identity!

it would be: when you learn that someone is romantically attracted to you, you feel (or are more likely to feel) a form of tertiary attraction toward them.

it could be for a specific type of attraction (I was thinking platonic or queerplatonic for myself), but I figured it would be easier with one term ^^;

if you end up making the term, id love a flag to go with it! (please dont feel like you have to though)

i havent been able to find this term, but im sorry if it already exists!!

And here you'll see Virgil coining three different terms because he liked all the flags he made and so they must be used /hj

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Recipromotertiary - A label for when you feel tertiary attraction after learning someone is romantically attracted to you

Pronunciation - Ree-sip-row-mow-ter-she-err-ee

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-Recipromoplatonic - A label for when you feel platonic attraction after learning someone is romantically attracted to you

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Pronunciation - Ree-sip-row-mow-plah-tahn-ick

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-Recipromoqueerplatonic - A label for when you feel queerplatonic attraction after someone is romantically attracted to you

-Pronunciation - Ree-sip-row-mow-qweer-plah-tahn-ick

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