#blurgender

[areyouthisidentity-polls]

Are you...

Blurgender is a type of genderfluid where one doesn't know what gender they are, because all the genders they are fluid between blur together and become indistinguishable from one another. Someone who is blurgender sort of knows what genders they are fluid between, but cannot tell the gender they are feeling at the moment.

[templeofwolves]

Some capes I made for pride month

[detective4blog]

I have all the different terms that describe my gender written in a note on my laptop and if that doesn't say a lot about me Idk what will

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Can I get a flag (re)design for gender blurring? There's identities such as genderblur or blurgender, but none for gender blurring, because this one has no right definition and was used way before these coinings.

I had a few ideas for this. What do you think? - 💙💚

[demi-raven]

Labels I identify with all of the time

Nonbinary, demigender, genderqueer, gender expansive

Lunarian, selenian

(Any clickable links below will take you to other tumblr posts on that topic. Most definitions can be found via google.)

Labels I identify with some of the time

AFAB, demiwoman, woman*, demifemme, nonbinary woman

Genderfluid, genderflux, fluidflux, agender, libragender, librafeminine, librafluid, demiagender, demimaverique, demineutrois, demifeminine, demiandrogyne, femandrogyne, demineufem, bigender, genderfaer, demicisgender, maybinary, cisn't, translunar, femflux, cassflux, demiflux, multiflux, genderdrift, mascinique, kinfluid, aesthetifluid, neutrx, genderf*ck, genderlost, gendervast, gendergroovy, messgender, blurgender, genderhoarder or simply giving up

Celestian, duskian, transneutral, gender nonconforming, queer

Umbrellas/labels which technically apply to me, but which don't feel quite "me"

Transgender, demigirl, enby, fiaspec

Mutogender, isogender, multigender, polygender, paragirl, girlflux, demigirlflux, azurgirl, girlby, demifin, juxera, wxman, turigirl

(I fit the description of all above, but I think most labels with "girl" in it are just not gonna feel quite comfortable.)

Terms that do NOT apply to me

Cisgender, girl, tomboy

Transmasc, transsexual, FTM, MTF

My pronouns

they/them/their/theirs/themself

she/her/her/hers/herself

xe/xem/xir/xirs/xemself

shey/shem/sheir/sheirs/shemself

or possibly "any" if used with positive intentions,

but please don't out me to people I know in real life, most of whom use only the she-pronouns.

(updated April 2024)

The chart above is explained here.

Here's some other handy information:

Feminine Nonbinary Identities - A Guide

50 LGBTQ flags and their meanings

Supporting gender expansive students

Discrimination against nonbinary people

Intersex resources

Intersex vocabulary

[transenbyconfessions]

I (she/he/they) have been trying to figure out gender stuff for a long time, and this blog has been really helpful to me.

I know I probably don't have it all figured out now, and honestly I don't know if that's ever going to happen, but I've figured out several things that fit and make me happy. And what I have figured out has helped me feel more settled in what I may never figure out.

I don't have many people irl right now I can talk to about gender stuff, so I just wanted to share the terms and minutia I've found that fit me somewhere.

In broad terms I'm genderqueer, and nonbinary

More specifically I am genderfluid, usually multigender, and often blurgender/genderfuzzed (which is defined as; the feeling of having more than one gender that are somehow blurred together to the point of not being able to distinguish or identify individual genders)

I'm fluid between different nonbinary genders, and I'm also genderflux, as in; the intensity of my gender fades in and out. Though I haven't felt as if I ever really have no gender.

Though I am not always able to distinguish the exact individual gender or mix of genders I am at any given time, Ceterogender is a term I like that usually fits well

Ceterogender is defined as a nonbinary gender with specific masculine, feminine, or neutral feelings

I'm fluid, flux, and/or blur between various combinations of ceteromasculine, ceteroneutral, and ceterofemine on a regular basis, maybe even most of the time.

I actively prefer multiple sets of pronouns to be used and mixed when referring to me. Most often she/he/they, he/she/they, he/they/she, etc ( i do not understand why the same three sets in different orders have different vibes, but they do).

Occasionally I like she/they, or he/they. I like a lot of neopronouns in theory, but don't generally use them as 1, I like to have a balance with masc, fem, and neutral pronouns and most neopronouns skew neutral, and 2 I haven't strongly resonated with any I've yet come across

I expect that I won't often have the chances and/or desire to explain in depth my particular gender(s), and I'll just go for genderqueer or nonbinary plus my pronouns. But it is nice to have things put into words. :)

💜💜💜

Submitted March 7, 2023

[losinmortalesperdidos]

// Just changed my sexuality and gender in my Twitter description to “Panplatonic aegosexual, nonbinary blurgender“. NOW this sounds satisfying.

[arsonist-frog]

Blurgender pride planet -> blurgender flag

Blurgender pride planet

What pride flag should I do next?

[sapphicriv]

Welcome!

Hi! I'm Remi! I'm 20 and I decided to restart my queer tiktok account and with that decided to make a Tumblr account. I have a very complicated identity with a lot of uncommon labels that aren't very well known, so I'm going to explain them. Source links will be in my next post

Firstly, my pronouns, as well as they/them, I also use:

ae/aer/aer/aers/aerself

ve/vem/ver/vers/verself

ve/vem/ver/vers/vemself

shey/sher/sheir/sheirs/sheirself

shey/shem/sher/shers/sherself

shey/shem/sher/shers/shemself

shey/sher/sheir/sheirs/sheirself

xe/xem/xer/xers/xerself

xey/xem/xer/xers/xerself

xhey/xhem/xher/xhers/xherself

GENDER:

This is very much still a work in progress, but recently there've been some major developments. I started using xenogenders!

The xenos I currently use are:

messgender: a gender in which someone has almost no idea of what their gender could be, or keeps finding terms that almost fit, but not quite, causing them to jump from label to label. They can’t tell if their gender is fluid or not, how many genders they have, or if they have a gender at all.

keysmashgender: a xenogender that one can only describe through a keyboard smash, such as afkjbdfvbkxfd. It feels chaotic, confusing, and unable to be described by normal words.

chaosgender: a gender identity where one's gender does a lot of confusing things and doesn't make sense to anyone, even to the person themselves. It could be thought of as a very complex gender, a very fluid gender, a gender which is difficult to understand or a gender which is hard to describe in one word.

staticgender: like TV static; fuzzy and incomprehensible. This gender may feel complicated or confusing. It may also feel fluid and everchanging.

blurian: a xenogender identity where one's gender feels blurry. One knows that the gender exists. but cannot figure out what it is

(QUESTIONING) blurgender: a type of genderfluid where one doesn't know what gender they are, because all the genders they are fluid between blur together and become indistinguishable from one another. Someone who is blurgender sort of knows what genders they are fluid between, but cannot tell the gender they are feeling at the moment.

The non-xenos I use are:

(QUESTIONING) Abinary:  refers to genders that are completely unrelated to maleness, masculinity, femaleness, or femininity, and is nowhere in between, being completely away from the binary, whilst still not always being genderless. Abinary genders may describe feeling any strength of gender whilst still being unrelated to the binary genders. The term abinary can be summarised as any gender that is unrelated to the binary.

Genderfade: a gender characterized by an individual's gender only being present when they are thinking about it, and their gender fades or melts away when they are not thinking about it.

aegogender: is the feeling of disconnection or separation of gender from an individual. This term can be combined with another gender, or it can be used on its own. My personal aegogender experiences are

Being genderless but having a vague or abstract connection to some gender.

Having a gender, but feeling disconnected or disassociated from it.

Quoigender:

a gender identity and umbrella term for those who do not fully understand, or want to define, their gender. My personal experiences with quoigender are:

Finding one's gender too confusing

One questioning their gender for so long that their questioning starts to become part of their identity

Not understanding gender at all

AROACE SPEC:

Aegosexual: a disconnection between oneself and a sexual target/object of arousal, I don't wanna get banned right off the bat, so I'm just gonna say I relate to all 3 points in the source

Bellusromantic: having interest in traditionally romantic things, such as kissing or cuddling, but not feeling romantic attraction, and not wanting a romantic relationship. A bellusromantic individual may enjoy or desire these activities in non-romantic contexts, but does not enjoy them in the context of a romantic relationship.

(QUESTIONING) Mutoicaro: a  term for when my aromantic orientation changes in response to a situation. For me, I'm primarily bellusromantic, however, if I were to meet a cupioromantic person, and I wished to be in a relationship with said person, I would, this therefore means I am:

arofluid: when one is fluid between aro-spec orientations. for me this is bellus and cupio

cupioromantic: an individual who may desire a romantic relationship, but may experience no romantic attraction.l

Quoiaroace: being both quoiromantic and quoisexual, meaning I don't understand what romantic attraction nor sexual attraction is

I relate to the following experiences:

Being unsure if you experience romantic or sexual attraction or not

Being unable to understand romantic and sexual attraction as a concept or feeling

Being unable to pin down a clear understanding of romantic and sexual attraction, so being unable to say whether or not you experience it

Struggling with romanticism and sexuality because it feels too complicated

Alterous attraction: for me this is a middle ground between platonic and romantic attraction

Omnialterous: experiencing alterous attraction to all genders with a preference

And that's it!

[entreldolorylanada]

FILL IN:

i like to be called: Bern

my favorite color is: Black and purple

gender: Nonbinary blurgender

my preferred pronouns are: They/them/theirs

one thing you should know about me: I’m either physically or mentally in a meh/eww/ugh place with some short periods of lucidity. Be patient.

one thing you should know about my muses: They’re complicated and great. They’re my kids.

first language: Russian. My muses here - Spanish (Castillan and Asturian).

second language: I know English obv, I learn Spanish (Castillan) and learn to at least understand Asturian. My muses speak English. Roque also knows German and French. 

HIGHLIGHT:

age range: under 13 | 14–17 | 18–22 | 23–25 | 26–29 | 30+ | 70+

am i okay with NSFW? yes | no | sometimes | not for this muse

my favourite / most common thing to RP is: angst | fluff | smut | crack | action | other

oc friendly? YES | no | depends (is this a question???)

RP blog: does | doesn’t | contains OOC posts. (A LOT)

[ablednt]

I was wondering if you could define systemfluid? The term feels almost-right but the definitions I've seen don't really match what I'm feeling. When I'm passively influenced or blurring with someone I absorb a little bit of their gender but it's not necessarily like my gender is changing. (Example: blurring with a bungender headmate. I'm not bungender, but I'm not *not* bungender, either.)

Sorry for not answering this sooner I don't actually use the term systemfluid myself so I couldn't give an exact definition

I don't know if we ever posted it i know we made flags years ago if we didn't get around coin it someone else may have instead already but there's also "blurgender" (and we had some for orientations too somewhere) we came up with blurgender cause due to passive influence and blurring none of us are ever fully just one thing. It's like we color in the lines but the papers oversaturated so it spills out a little bit.

[vesicelestial]

some of you may notice a cool new redirect screen on some of our posts... we've changed our url, but all old links should still work fine! blurgender was our url when we started out (and i didn't really know what the actual gender was) and we wanted something a bit more intrinsic to us instead.

we've also updated our page in general to be easier to navigate, primarily for mobile users

also for anyone awake, we have some plural terms (one gender and one vesil) queued for tomorrow, so look forward to them!

[themogaidragon]

Blurgender

Blurgender is a type of genderfluid where one doesn't know what gender they are, because all the genders they are fluid between blur together and become indestinguishable from one another. Someone who is blurgender sort of knows what genders they are fluid between, but cannot tell the gender they are feeling at the moment.

This term was coined by wiki user 12comets, and the flag was created at the same time by 12comets.

[pink-rabbit-fun]

Well, today my gender was less cloudy, and it randomly switched from blurgender to voidqueer at 11:21. Maybe that's why I went from a bunch of energy to feeling drained... Could be related, but I don't know lol.

[cubeflag]

Blurgender flag

(A polygender identity where one experiences multiple genders that blur together, making it difficult or impossible to identify what gender(s) one is experiencing at any given time.)

[imoga-pride]

hi! this may be a really abstract question but how does one determine their gender? I THINK im not a boy, girl, or completely neutral, but besides that it's a blur and I don't know why. I've just been using queer/nb to describe myself but it doesn't feel complete enough. similar problem with my sexuality :( how can I figure out what I am? (sending to around 3 blogs so I get multiple advices)

Aporagender/Aingender: Umbrella term for genders separate from male, female, and anything in between while still having a very strong and specific gendered feeling.

Abinary: genders that are completely unrelated to the gender binary (such as agender, quoigender, maverique or most xenogenders).

Maverique: gender characterized by autonomy and inner conviction regarding a sense of self that is entirely independent of male/masculinity, female/femininity or anything which derives from the two while still being neither without gender nor of a neutral gender.

Atrinary/Aternary: genders that are completely unrelated to the gender trinary/ternary of male, female and third-gender/aliagender/neutrois. 

Genderblur or Genderfade: Where your gender changes constantly but fades away into something else rather than making a hard or abrupt transition (ex. feeling like a girl, then slowly feeling more stargender than girl, then feeling only stargender, etc.).

Genderfuzz or Blurgender: A polygender identity where one experiences multiple genders that blur together, making it difficult or impossible to identify what gender(s) one is experiencing at any given time.

Fuzzgender or Fuzzygender: When you know that you’re a certain gender, but can’t explain why you are that gender.