#but it was still just as trans and it is for anyone else too

[daughter-of-sapph0]

what do you gain from sending cruel anons? satisfaction? approval from others? does someone pay you to do it? I never understood why you freaks do that bullshit. it's useless anyway.

I'm not publishing your anonymous ask. no one deserves to look at that slop.

it doesn't even hurt me. nothing you say to me can be worse than the pain I've already felt. your words mean nothing to me. you can tell me to kill myself all you want. you'll never be louder than the voice in my head who almost convinced me to do it.

I've already reached my lowest point in my life. I've gotten better. I love myself too much to let you take that away from me.

you, on the other hand, are sitting alone in your room and copypasting the same generic message to random trans people you see online, because your life has literally no value, because you will never do anything of note, because you're unworthy of any sort of affection from others, and you will die alone, unhappy, unfulfilled, unaccomplished, and your last dying wish as you sit on your death bed surrounded by no one is that you could have spent more time being a cruel heartless bigoted irredeemable cunt to people online.

meanwhile I'll be living my best life. I'll forget about your entire existence later this afternoon. I'll continue to spend time with the people I love, and help spread positivity to people who need it. I will outlast you. I'll live my life to the fullest while you rot in your isolation. I will outlive you. my legacy will continue after I'm gone while people will try and pretend that your ilk never existed. I will outlove you. I will be a reminder that your negativity and hatred is but a momentary stain on existence that will be washed away by unconditional love and support.

I'm no longer speaking to that anonymous asker. instead I address this to my followers, as well as anyone else who may see this post: do not answer anon hate ever. it's not worth it. those people do not care about your response, and only receive gratification from seeing you suffer.

I know a lot of you weren't online in ye olden days. but back then, we had rules for the internet. and one of them is to never feed the trolls. feeding the trolls mean they win. somewhere along the line some of them managed to convince people that blocking the trolls means they win. that's not true. blocking means you win because you'll never have to see their disgusting horrendous comments again. the block button is your best friend. use it.

if you get anon hate, delete it. block the sender (which I'm pretty sure now ip blocks whoever sent the ask), and if it continues, turn of anons, or even turn off asks in general. do not let them hurt you. do not engage. do not respond. do not answer them. they aren't looking for a debate. and you won't change their mind. answering their ask just exposes their slop to all your followers. and none of them want to see that shit.

remember that for every hateful anon message you get, there are 100 people who love you unconditionally and care about you. do not let the loud hateful minority win.

maybe what I'm doing counts as feeding the troll. I'm not directly answering their ask, but I'm still getting involved. but fuck it. I'm turning their hate into positivity. I'm using this as a moment to spread awareness to others.

if you're a person on the internet who's received hateful messages, especially if you're trans, I promise you that you're not alone. ignore them. find people who care about you and love you. I promise that the small annoying obnoxious voice does not represent the opinions of society as a whole. I promise that nothing they say is true. I promise that you are loved. unconditionally. forever. simply because you are you.

[redysetdare]

"This fandom is so queer friendly!" This fandom literally hates, bisexual, trans, nonbinary, and aspec people but ok.

[dont-offend-the-bees]

Fuck I hate being an adult. I need a more adult adult to help with the volatile emotional situation.

[lexicog]

traitor to the cause forgets national holiday every year KILL HIM

[wild-at-mind]

Had a really stupid conversation via minor emotional breakdown with a queer friend about what makes an LGBTQ person 'assimilist'. From what she said I'm kind of forced to draw the conclusion 'if you say you're not assimilist, then you're not'.

[synonymroll648]

practice transmasc sophie drawing :) 

[illogicalghost]

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[coridallasmultipass]

I am once again begging online shop payment processing companies to allow me to enter a separate name for shipping and separate name for billing!!

It's the same address, I'm just trans and have not legally changed my personal name, but I still prefer to receive mail as my preferred name! Like it's literally my professional name, I do business as my preferred name.

Annoying as fuck, and I don't want to chance my bank rejecting the payment (though I'm sure someone at my bank has put a note to allow it on my account by now, since I've contacted them a couple times before when I realized too late that the billing section didn't let me input another "address/name" section, and they said the payment was fine in those cases.)

Anyway, legal name changes should be free and non-advertised for everyone. Tbh, you should get a free name change every time you file your taxes on time as an incentive for good citizen behaviour. Once I am elected pres-

[lionblaze03-2]

sometimes I think about writing and singing music not because I’m an incredible singer but because no one has my fucking voice, especially in popular music, and its disheartening to be born a girl, told you’ll only get girl roles or try to voice match other girls, or ‘sing with the girls’ and then only be able to match male voices because you’re a fuckin tenor and not anything higher. I can’t think of any girl Broadway roles I can hit all the notes on. Most songs I love I have to pitch down for myself or use falsetto for singing along to. It bothers me a lot less now because I’m an adult who’s more secure in myself but as a teen in kids musical theatre it FUCKED with me, BAD style. And I know for a fact that even now when I hear people with a voice like mine singing I get excited and immediately invested in their work because they’re like ME, finally, for once. A brother in this world of being afab and having the voice of a recently pubescent boy forever. Maybe I should be that brother too.

[selvepnea]

Thinking about. That one post about art. And how it's never good enough. Since you're the one that made it. And how. It might relate to how I view myself?

[euphoriaface]

Blood Buddies Stuff :p pt.1: Nica

making a few general posts about the alterations to canon I made in my chucky au which I'll go into more depth about eventually :) keep in mind some of my au's big changes were made before the series was out so I'm still rewriting and changing things in the series to make sense in the new context but using the films as a blueprint this is just some context for my characterization of chucky and what nica means to my au:

- I don't think chucky should hate kids, I love how he just accepted that he had a kid in seed and I hate that don wrote him to be an ass to his kids. I like to think that charles had a baby doll as a child that he was rather fond of and got separated with after the murder of his parents

- he also never murdered his mom like he did in the show, as he said killing has been a family tradition for years and unfortunately marsha and peter were killed in their home when the police came to confront them about their suspected serial killings

- I changed how charles knows nica's family, in my au nica is chucky's biological daughter, this goes two ways considering I can see chucky being a cis or a trans man but for now I'll describe the cis au, he met sarah before the movie implies and he still has that cringe scene with sarah the night he's killed where in his anger over the police being called he figures if he can't have his baby then no one will

- chucky is woken up after the events of seed on the twins' 5th birthday, chaos happens as he takes the role of fatherhood but after 4 years go by chucky is bored and decides to go after people he has unfinished business with, the first person he goes after being sarah since he can't find mike norris' contact information lmao

- to his surprise his kid is alive so instead of trying to kill nica he's trying to take her back, he tries to get her to kill during cult the way he does with glen during seed because he wants to see if she's got it in her to kill

- since his powers are blood based he takes nica from the asylum by possessing her through their shared blood, he doesn't do anything cringe in her body and when he comes out to greet tiffany by the car she's like 'holy shit I guess she is your daughter... huh'

- tiffany didn't know about sarah/nica until cult's plot (I imagine when she called to rat him out she just gave the location of his apartment not knowing what he was hiding there) so I imagine chucky was getting the twins to help him track sarah/nica down through the internet because I know that bitch can NOT use a laptop

- nica absolutely does not have that shit from the season 1 finale happen to her that was fucked up :)

[timeisacephalopod]

Transphobia is fucking dumb because trans people are a group of people who want to do extensive cosmetic surgery on themselves (not all of them but still, y'all know what I'm getting at), use a new pronoun, and wear different clothes. And somehow this is treated as some Great Threat to women taking a shit because apparently cis women OR men just can't go in a bathroom and assault you and trans people specifically don't use bathrooms for shitting they use them for Assaulting People??

That's nonsense lmao, trans people by and large are a group that want to alter their own bodies in ways zero people have a right to limit unless they're also limiting cis people from cosmetic surgeries before having 3 psychiatrists notes saying they definitely want bigger tits. People who care about what trans people do to their own bodies should shut up and mind their business because unless it's your knob being operated on this isn't an issue anyone but an individual trans person needs to care about same as any other elective surgery. People get surgeries all the time and my life goes on, because other people doing shit to their own bodies ain't none my business or some sort of existential threat to society at large get a damn grip. Someone dressing In Ways and Using Pronouns and Doing Surgeries isn't exotic, the Kardashians do it all the time but no one bans them from doing that and given the body image issues they create claiming surgically constructed bodies are Just Naturally Them I actually think they're a bigger threat to society at large than any trans person.

[unproduciblesmackdown]

handshake w/anyone framed as "abnormal" but once again [trans] handshake [autistic] the way this is so parallel to me continually taking all winston's material in stride and in earnest as just more regular stuff that's probably even extra appealing, then be left to piece together that we're also all supposed to have always taken it all as a joke in the first place

[wild-at-mind]

If you ever see me becoming one of those transmisandry people, please fucking call me out immediately.

[littlebirdy0301]

I’ve noticed more trans people that don’t voice train or try to speak in a way that may help them “pass” better, & as someone who Got Tired of changing my voice and kinda just stopped a few years ago, it’s a validating thing to see :)

[theevilicecreamsoda]

Fucking hate my period, girl what are you DOING. CHANGING DATES ON ME FUCKING MISSING OUT ON ME LIKE HELP??? DISAPPEARED