#fix yourself

[mama-mia-bia]

[rememberdonteat]

Tak się czuję, gdy jem.

[your-heart-is-a-treasure]

Your external reality is just a reflection of your inner space.

Your external reality is like this house of mirrors. It can only reflect back to you, what you are feeling inside you. If you are feeling crummy about yourself, your will see realities that reflect this crummy feeling back at you through some physical manifestation. If you are feeling angry within, you will see your reality reflect this anger back at you through some person or a circumstance. Most people try to fight the external reality, they try to fix it and change it through their actions, without ever bothering to first sort out their inner feelings, their inner thoughts and their inner conflicts. Fighting the external reality is like punching the mirror – it serves no purpose other than reflect more anger and hatred.

It’s futile to keep wanting the external reality to be different without first sorting out the inner negativity.

[allmightluver]

Hmmmmm hate when my inbox says I have an ask and there’s NOT one

[placebrain]

[weewooviewer]

WHAT THE FUCK DID I JUST WATCH I DIDN'T THINK IT COULD GET WORSE THAN THE SNEAK PEEK BUCK WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[adimouze]

it's over

[wwenhlimagines]

Wardlow better not keep posting multiple times a day with his new girl.

Broke my heart finding out about his breakup and the fact he doesn't follow Ares the Warpup on Instagram anymore...

[etherealsign282]

"nobody is staying to teach me to be a good person" because nobody should have to unless they're qualified and want to. We aren't therapists, we aren't specialists. We're friends, family, loved ones. We deserve to be treated with love, dignity, respect, etc etc.

If we're being treated like shit, it's not our responsibility to continue holding your hand and tell you what you already know. I mean really, how do you expect us to help? We already tell you that you hurt us and how you hurt us. There's not much else we can do. The ball is in your court.

We can preach all we want about how ideally you should be doing x or y but unless you put in that conscious effort in the moment, it means nothing. *We* can't control your actions. *We* can't control your decisions. We can only give you the same advice we've been giving you, that you've conveniently forgotten every single time it needs to be applied (but you'll surely weaponize it in an out-of-context situation to everyone else).

We can't fix your memory, we can't fix your entitlement or your audacity, we can't fix your outbursts, we can't fix the justifications in your head, and we definitely can't fix you when you've decided *we* haven't done enough for *your* behavior. Because clearly you're dedicated to continuing to make your behavior everyone else's problem, even during the "healing" process.

You're justifying not being a good person with "well people aren't being good ENOUGH to automatically change me". This isn't Naruto. This is real life. There's no talk-no-jutsu here. You will not automatically get it and have it become an active part of you, from being told the same thing over and over.

So when you say "nobody stays to help fix me", you're not actually thinking about other people fixing you. You just want daily reminders that you can pin all emotional labor on, so you can blame them when you inevitably fail because you're not practicing the preaching you ASKED for. You're snoozing the alarm and then blaming the clock because you're late.

[dufrau]

i can’t believe @eskawrites just murdered me like that. i am slain. i have perished. just absolutely pulverized. ground into dust under the weight of a chapter of fanfiction. what a way to go.

[bat-eclecticwolfbouquet-love]

First it's bot accounts

Then it porn blogs invading ALLL tags

Then it's porn and bot acc following you

Then they message you

They spam everything

NOW they are commenting on posts telling people to click their blog

YET TUMBLR DOESNT FIX THIS SHIT. Cause they are to concerned about filter mature content from REAL artists and writers.

Are you fucking insane Tumblr.

[strawbsj]

Tumblr notifications been shit, I woke up from my nap and it showed that I had 96 notifications only 20 showed😭😭

[rememberdonteat]

[im-tempted]

My perpetual issue is I'm always so much better at sketching on good old paper

But it's so inconvenient

[twinkdrama]

hold my hand while i fix myself