#i'll make him any batfam member's sibling

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DP x DC Prompt #22

When Jason Todd had left his little brother to watch his mom while he did a supply run, he wasn't expecting to come back to a bunch of police.

Staying hidden, he learned that his mother had died and his brother had been taken to be put in the foster system. But they were looking for Jason too.

Running away, Jason vowed to find Danny.

But when they're reunited, they've both shared one thing: death.

[deaddovedecadence]

if requests are open, i'd like to ask for a fic of yandere batfam caring for a sick reader (i've got 1 foot in the grave rn 🤒) with forced infantilization (if that doesn't squick you out, hopefully) gn reader would be preferred. thank youuu 🙏

They are in fact open and fun fact, ive never done infantilization before so im super excited. I think what I'm doing to do is like a mini fic of each batfam member and how they're deal with you being sick. I'll totally do a gn! reader but they might come across as non binary.

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Alfred: not the worst but not the best. Fussing over you all the damn time whenever you have even the faintest bit of even a cold because he’s lost enough people, you will not be one of them. He tucks you in bed. and will read to the books he read when he was young, smiling to himself with you fall asleep from the drugged milk. Over all a 5/10

Bruce: Doesn’t really believe in it. Thinks that forcing you to be strong will make you, an oldest daughter even stronger. Still when you get sick he’s so gentle with you, cooing that he loves you and that soon you’ll be all better, that your dad is here now. It hurts so badly because you know who he is and yet he’s so fucking gentle with you. 5/10

Dick: Honestly he’s like this all the damn time. Says that because you were an oldest you ought to relive your childhood. Holds basic respect over you to make sure that you do what he wants when he wants because you know that he’ll go back to that coddling cooing cruelty if you don’t. When you’re sick it’s turned up to the max because he likes taking care of people who can’t fight back. Likes being able to hug you and hold you and love on you all he wants. 8/10

Jason: He’s definitely more gentle with you than he is with his siblings but definitely has rough edges. He sees you as someone that needs to be protected but in the manor you are more equal. He fusses when you’re sick for sure because even though he knows that you have the best medical care, he still remembers all the people he lost in crime ally. He’s not obvious about it because he doesn’t know how to be but yikes does this man watch over you like a hawk. 4/10

Cassandra: Thinks that you’re weak and needs her care in a way that her siblings and steph do not. Cass respects strength and the ability of people to take care of themselves ,and you in her eyes can not do that. So when you fight, she forces you down, humming sweet lullabies from cultures all over the world. When you’re sick it proves her point because the rest of them would have been over this by now. You need her. 7/10.

Tim: uses it to manipulate the fuck outta you. Tells you that you are weak, that your sickness is proof you need their love and attention. Will drug you to be dependent on them will you’re ill and probably made you sick in the first place so you’d learn that you belonged in the family, that there is no going back for you. Calls you a child even though you’re older then him.

Duke: They almost coordinate with Tim, making sure that you never suspect any of them. Duke’s power is words, they know how to spin them and manipulate them and make it so that you aren’t really sure of what’s real and what you dreamed up. A gaslighter to the max. Loves and respects you but thinks that you need to stay here, you aren’t strong enough to be a bat’s lieutenant. 7/10

Damian: While Dami does think that you are weak, he also thinks that. there is a value to you that the others do not quite understand. You soothe the family and act asa merger so that even when they anger each other, they come back for you. Damian is very intuitive and this allows him to understand you better even if he lacks empathy to those outside of his family. Even when you are ill he worries over you but demands you heal because you are strong. 0/10

[asongofstarkandtargaryen]

Any lgbt headcanons of the batfam? :)

I have too many of them to include on a single ask so I'll only list a couple of them here.

(please keep in mind that those are HEADCANONS. I don't want anyone screaming in my inbox that most of them aren't canon in the comic universe, I know that myself. But it's always nice to be creative with your favourite characters).

Also warning! not all of them are fluffy.

Tim first came out as bi to his older brother Dick. To the one person who always supports him and is there for him. And ofc Dick made him feel accepted (not because I headcanon Dick being also bi but because Dick will always make Tim feel accepted and loved. Period)

Everytime Damian and Tim are having brotherly fights the latter yells that Damian's actions "is a crime against lgbt + community". Which drives Damian mad because he's really a lgbt+ supporter and Tim knows it irritates Dami that's why he keeps saying it ( totally brotherly behavior).

But aside from their sibling fights if anyone dares to make an ill comment about his big brother Tim dating a boy in Damian's presence, they are gonna have their asses kicked.

Dick and Barbara are the both bi and in a relationship ( well the latter is also canon in main universe). Unlike, the stereotypes that bi people like to sleep around ( which are very harmful and wrong , imo) both Dick and Babs only had serious relationships in their lives and always needed love in order to have sex with someone.

Jason doesn't like sex due to the awful circumstances of his first time ( groomed by an older woman he trusted). For a long time he thinks something is wrong with him for not enjoying or wanting sex and maybe that is a side affect on his resurrection.

Once while he was drunk and crying he shared information about his dislike of sex and how he thought it made him abnormal with big sis Babs. She assured him that he's perfectly normal and ( after asking Cass' permission first) she got him in touch with the other batfamily member who doesn't like sex, aka Cass.

Cassandra, unlike Jason, doesn't have a traumatic experience for disliking sex. She doesn't even have strong negative feelings about sex, she simply doesn't feel the need to do it and that's why she never had or plans to have sex. Being a private person she only shared the fact that she's ace with Steph and Babs.

But she felt relieved to share that info with another person who was also possibly ace ( Jason) because sometimes you need to talk to someone who's like you. Jason also felt better after talking with Cass and now those two who previously rarely interacted have a stronger bond.

Steph never gave any labels to herself. In the past she enjoyed being in relationships (and having sex) with both boys and girls. But once she fells for Cass ( StephCass is always endgame) she doesn't care about not having sex with Cass due to the latter being ace. She wants to be in a relationship with Cass and she wouldn't change a thing about her girlfriend

Bruce is a supportive and proud dad. He wants to go to pride with all the batkids, carrying all their flags. He wants to be a good ally and he's not sure how he should show his support them best. Luckily for him he has both Selina and Kate to help him by giving him some tips.

[analviel]

Sometimes I'm in the mood for Damian learning to admit to insecurities and trust his family and growing up from the toxicity he'd been raised with but sometimes I also just want the Batfam to completely and utterly spoil him, let him get away with stuff, anyone who even so much gets mean with him gets their life ruined by a seventeen year old with a camera and even kids who are snide gets taught a mild if embarrassing lesson by his sister and brother (idk but Cass and Duke are the ones who most give the vibes of 'will throw hands with a three year old' especially side by side), any Rouge that gets a hit in at Robin also gets broken bones with it, heroes who show even disapproval of the new Batfamily member are suddenly involved in some kind of guerrilla war they're not quite sure of the rules of or if it's even happening, and public representatives who even imply distaste for him gets crushed under Brucie's boot, like, rather than Damian self-reflecting because he'd been chewed out and he hurt someone and he realized he maybe doesn't like to be doing that his whole life and understanding that he shouldn't act so obnoxious, he gets validation because if his family, maternal and paternal, blood and adopted, all agree that he's worth loving and he deserve everything he wants, then it must mean it's true and he eventually simultaneously is mellowed out by it but also gets worse in his entitlement. Like, he's the kid who this world has been promised to and he's got the siblings to give it to him if he wants it to. Like the bonds among them are secured this way. Damian can be as horrible or nice as he wants to but regardless it won't change his family's love for him and he gets comfortable in his place and his self and he can show his love for others because wether he appears weak or strong they'll still adore him, for the simple reason that he's the resident baby sibling.

(Of course, you may insert something about him being extra paranoid and terrified of having a younger sibling himself and being replaced.

But he won't, because Barbara can tell him a Bat-computer's worth of records of all the things Dick has let Tim get away with, and things Barbara has let Cass get away with, and the things Cass and Tim let Duke get away with.

Like, there's no going around the Batfam is a found family but it can also be a toxic found family environment, but rather than them hurting each other, they just indulge and encourage not just harmful habits but also rather cruel aspects of each other because of 'if it makes them happy and they're not killing anyone then it can't be that bad' mentality even if it means cooing over your little sister because she's so cute when she looks so satisfied and proud of herself for managing to break all the bones in a rapist's body without killing him.)

I'll admit I don't spend that much time thinking about Damian especially in regards to how much I think of Tim, but also I just read something of Damian that really emphasized to me how conditional his parents' (and save for a few most of the people he's surrounded by) love for him are, and that's not a new thing and not exclusive to him, but it's really so heartbreaking for the kid and i just suddenly want all the nice things for him. I think Damian deserves that and more, you know, as the baby of the Batfam.