#imrwtm

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I want to find out how many people are aromantic and/or asexual on Tumblr so i made this

[ratzforaster]

I dreamt of this meme last night

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I was today's years old when I realized that people actually think that other people are attractive.

Like

PEOPLE JUST LOOK AT A BODY AND BE LIKE : 'whoa I wanna date, hot, sexy, kiss kiss' ?!?!?

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I asked my alloallo friend (maybe alloro and ace they don't know rlly) why people cheat on their partners.

They said something along the lines of 'well they get bored but still love their partner but want to try something new cuz the spark from the start of the relationship isn't there anymore. They just wanna try somebody else to figure out if they still love their partner'

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Huh???

Just talk???? Why would you risk that there's a person who loves you so much will hate you because you did it with another person? If they'd talk, there's maybe a bit of hurt, yes, but it's all morally okay you know? Communicate!!!! If you don't communicate how would your partner know that you're getting bored and think abt other people? Like that's so fucked up

Aroace conclusion: just talk or break up ffs

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I wanna tell my friends how much I love them and that I wanna hang out with them constantly and talk to them the whole time and tell them they look great and tell them that I have a deep platonic crush on them but

They'll think I'm a weirdo

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"Actually my type is big and fluffy. You know like dogs and cats" is the most asexual/aromantic thing I heard today from an allo

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MY FRIEND JUST ASKED ME WHAT ITS LIKE TO BE PLATONICALLY IN LOVE. IM SO HAPPY. I'm so happy someone finally is interested in my aromantism and asked about it. IM SO FUCKING HAPPY RIGHT NOW YOU CANT IMAGINE

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I'm on a one week class trip and my roommates are talking about having their first time and sex stuff the whole time and falling in love. It's the only gossip that we get in this class.

I feel so bad that I can't talk with them about this. I feel kinda left out in this room since I'm the only queer in it. And then even an aromantic asexual.

[hello-im-queer]

Did anybody else have that experience where you had a full on crisis cuz you loved all your friends in a different way and didn't know why and also couldn't figure out the difference between platonic and romantic attraction? And you told your friend and they said 'huh but the difference is obvious? You wouldn't cuddle your friends?' and you said 'yes I would' ????

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I just finished Nine's series (I know I'm late :')) but damn that was some good stuff

I especially liked The Doctor Dances. The dancing of Rose and Nine made me so happy. I love them together they're the perfect example for a QPR. Since I'm aromantic myself it was so great to see them dance as friends. I'd love to dance with my friends too.

In conclusion: Nine is fucking cool, Rose is fucking cool, Jack is fucking hot

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I love in an aroace way and I love so much it fucking kills me from the inside and I wanna cry cuz I love so much and it's so beautiful

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Loving people so much your chest hurts>>>>

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So I'm playing a game with my two friends. 45 questions, everybody picks a number between 1 and 45. With questions like what's your fav colour, would you go out with your best friends boyfriend and such.

So when I pick a number thats a question with sex content my friend immediately says no I can't ask that question. Especially not Ratz.

And I just sit there, because that happens so often that they leave me out of conversations with "adult content" cuz I'm too asexual and couldnt answer it if I wanted it.

At least let me know the question. Don't leave me out of stuff or both call me too asexual for this. I'm so sick of this. They do this since I've came out to them. I hate it so much

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That aromantic desire to move in a big house with all of your friends but knowing that they will eventually all get a partner and will move out so that in the end your alone again.

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Want aromantic representation? Watch/read Bloom Into You!!!

I read three mangas of it and if the protagonist isn't aromantic then what

[hello-im-queer]

I would really like to come out as aroace to my mom and her boyfriend but he doesn't even accept me being transmasc because I dokt dress manly enough and don't act manly enough like a stereotypical man. (Fuck you)

I'm scared he and my mom won't accept me being aroace. He's always like 'oh yea sweat is a smell that sexually attracts your peers' (wtf).

The only one I told is my grandma from my mom's side. She's great really. My grandparents are the only ones who really accept me being trans and don't act like theyre faking it. My step mom is always so dramatic when she deadnames or misgenders me and said if she refers to me before I came out she'll deadname me (I almost cried at that. I know she lives me she's great too but that was so not in character of her. I didn't think she'd say that.) I told her, no, don't do that but she still insisted she would.

My grandparents on the other side correct each other and even called me their grandson and so on which made me the happiest thing on earth. But to come back to the main topic, I hate my mom and her boyfriend always being like 'oh you found a girlfriend/boyfriend yet?' (I told them I like girls) or making weird sex jokes.

I just want them to leave me alone with all their sex stuff. Why would you, a grown ass man, want to know about my sex/love life if you can't even have a stable one yourself?