#same for pans and bis

[homosexualslug]

if I had a nickel for every time seth green played the nice boyfriend of the bookish, nerdy girl who fights supernatural beings with her group of friends (called the scooby gang) led by her pretty but badass best friend (played by sarah michelle gellar) before she eventually came out as a lesbian, I'd have two nickels.

[elvhenmage]

this may not go over well but i want to say something before dav comes out because this GI article quote is really bothering me:

"As pansexual companions, they are attracted to people of any gender (or regardless of gender)."

bisexuality and pansexuality are functionally the same thing. both sexualities are defined by being attracted to people of any gender and/or regardless of gender. i don't care if you personally identify as pan, i’m not attacking the label itself here because that’s not the point. i’m just saying they mean the same thing and i'm asking all of you in advance (especially people who are not bisexual) to please be careful with the way you talk about bisexuality wrt pansexuality because it is unfortunately very common for pansexuality to be lauded as "more progressive" than bisexuality by people who don't know bi history.

bisexuality has been documented since at least the 70s to be trans/nb inclusive and to not be limited by gender or sexuality. pansexuality is not more progressive than bisexuality. they're the same. please do not bring back the "hearts not parts" mentality. okay? cool.

here's some links to check out: one, two, three, four, five

[justdavina]

Isis Valentina

Amazing transgender beauty! She's perfect in every way!

[tiny-huts]

I am in complete agreement with the Astarion is (and all the other companions are) pan crowd. He is canonically pan and that should not be erased. But every post about it really needs to have at least one comment devaluing his attraction to men and denying the fact that he seems to have a preference for men (which is accurate to the lived experiences of bi/pan people. MANY people have a preference). Also many people need to realize that most people are not upset that you are having Astarion kissing your lady Tav but that most people are upset that many (not all) astarion x f!Tav works completely erase his more feminine mannerisms and stuff him into a tasteless hetero male love interest box which is like djddjjdjd not great and I do not trust it

[tired-fandom-ndn]

Fandoms are so fucking biphobic sometimes, I'm going to SCREAM

[killyjae]

It's really weird to me that lesbianism, the ONE and ONLY orientation that has NOTHING to do with men, gets hijacked and bombarded with men and people attracted by men all the time, harassing us for not liking men and begging for us to include men.

[read-write-thrive]

the dead boy detective agency main four are a polycule on various points of the aromantic/asexual spectrum (in addition to their various sexualities), with the various side characters playing the roles of parental figures or talking stages. thank you for coming to my ted talk

[ashsirens]

ʙɪ ᴋᴏᴍᴀᴇᴅᴀ ɪᴄᴏɴꜱ ꜰᴏʀ ʙɪꜱᴇxᴜᴀʟ ᴠɪꜱɪʙɪʟɪᴛʏ ᴅᴀʏ.

[blujaydoodles]

I have no particular explanation as their player for why they view sexuality more or less the same way but have different labels except 'vibes, idk', but I do imagine it'd be less ambiguous in Gnomish

[synthsays]

Guys I fell down the fiddauthor rabbit hole 😨

(Look at the tags)

[i-eat-homeless-people]

guys guys hear me out

pan mike wheeler

[zerguette]

Oh god Madd took such a time to design...(Hours compared to Konrad, given this man has more lore than i intentes to give him ), hehe sunglasses boys deserve more love!!!

Also a hc, Bukowski twins are 190cm tall (Calvin 190cm, Konrad 191cm) while Madd is 197cm-198cm, so they are part of the tallest soldiers.

(psss psss they like to mock on Rupert, tower over him, loom ominously bc Rupert is 173cm tall, Even Charles is 187cm tall. I'll write more in the tags as I die)

[the-meme-monarch]

added a new point to my pinned bc these rude asses keep following me which shows me no one reads people's carrds. not even mine with my funny business man joke. anyway mspec people are literally just normal and you giving them shit for having a Slightly More Complex Experience Than Yours is stupid as hell. imo.

[moonsstan]

james when in love

[lestappenforever]

why are you bi

Because beautiful women exist, and unfortunately, so do beautiful men.

[spinobsessed]

I think that “bi/pan lesbian” is based on an outdated idea of lesbianism and is no longer necessary since being bisexual or omnisexual with a preference for girls is now an option, but I still respect it. I get that y’all wanna connect to our history and even if I find it a lil unnecessary, it’s still awesome, I support it, and I love breaking rules