#she/her nonbinary

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not all nonbinary people go by they/them or are strictly gender neutral

nonbinary people can go by he/him she/her neopronouns xenopronouns object pronouns

literally any pronouns they want

because nonbinary (to alot) isnt a gender

nonbinary folks can have any pronouns they want any name they want dress how they want gender affirm how they want

they can do anything they want

they can do what they want gives them gender euphoria and makes them happy

im nonbinary and my primary pronouns are he/him because it makes me HAPPY and EUPHORIC

nonbinary is not strictly gender neutral

it can be ANYTHING

nonbinary folks can also be gay or lesbian

not every single one of us is bi pan omni or poly(sexual)

the amount of times ive seen people say nonbinary folks cannot be lesbians because they arent women is BAFFLING

someone said that i cannot be gay because im not a man and am nonbinary (they were a fujoshi though so not very surprised)

gay means man or nonwoman strictly attracted to only men and or nonwomen

lesbian means a womam or nonman strictly attracted to women and or nonwomen

lesbian and gay are not strictly cis or trans terms

on behalf of all my nonbinary siblings brothers and sisters

leave

us

be

[tampire]

Yura of the Demon Hair

[bluepandadraws-log]

Happy "New Digital Circus Episode" Day have a Ragapom Sexuality and Gender Headcanon pic

[axolollipop]

the husbands ever <3

[lolliepops-rox]

This is my petition for people who create pins/stickers/other things with "she/they" & "he/they" to also include "she/he". I'm kind of sick of being excluded, and I'm sure there are plenty of others who feel the same.

[stars-obsession-pit]

Danny got out.

Danyal al Ghul was created by the League of Assassins alongside his brother Damian.

Created, not born. Though they were both grown in the same lab, Danyal always felt the status quo. Damian was the heir, the real son, the one they cared about. Damian got to be a person, the one for whom human terms like “born” would fit.

Danyal was just the extra. The bodyguard to die in his brother’s place and a spare should he be lost.

And Danyal died.

Shed his old life like a snake’s skin and vanished into the bustle of a crowded city.

They would tell Damian it was a mission that went wrong. A failure, like Danyal always was.

But Danyal would call it his first real success.

Danny Fenton loves their new life.

Jack and Maddie, for all their unsafe work practices, care for them. That’s far more than their blood “family” in the League ever did.

Far more than they felt they deserved for the longest time.

So when their brother reached out, tried to reconnect as if they were normal siblings instead of born tools, is it any wonder they lashed out, told him to never come back?

Danny got out. Danyal is dead, one ghost Danny is happy to put down forever.

[cozy-lake]

Nonbinary people can use they/them pronouns, or it/its, or neopronouns,

But they can also use he/him and she/her pronouns, and that doesn’t make them any less nonbinary.

Nonbinary people can present androgynously,

But they can also present masculinely or femininely, and that doesn’t make them any less nonbinary.

Nonbinary people can go on HRT and get surgeries to physically transition,

But they don’t have to, and that doesn’t make them any less nonbinary.

Nonbinary people can choose a new name/a different name from their birth name,

But they can also go by their birth name or some variation of it, and that doesn’t make them any less nonbinary.

There are no “rules” to being nonbinary. That’s kind of the whole point. Nonbinary people are nonbinary no matter how they present.

[buotella]

I ask every single one of you in this room, with the spaces that you’re in, and the lights that you hold, to point it in the direction of someone who just needs a little guidance.

Cynthia Erivo accepts the Stephen F. Kolzak Award at the 36th annual GLAAD Media Awards (x)

[laikabu]

i still really like transhet labru it’s just that people are so fucking annoying about transfem laios and misinterpret the intentions behind that headcanon/AU. it’s like everyone’s saying it’s impossible to discover being trans after 26 anymore

[inkskinned]

so one of the things that's so horrifying about birth control is that you have to, like, navigate this incredibly personal choice about your body and yet also face the epitome of misogyny. like, someone in the comments will say it wasn't that bad for me, and you'll be utterly silenced. like, everyone treats birth control like something that's super dirty. like, you have no fucking information or control over this thing because certain powerful people find it icky.

first it was the oral contraceptives. you went on those young, mostly for reasons unrelated to birth control - even your dermatologist suggested them to control your acne. the list of side effects was longer than your arm, and you just stared at it, horrified.

it made you so mentally ill, but you just heard that this was adulthood. that, yes, there are of course side effects, what did you expect. one day you looked up yasmin makes me depressed because surely this was far too intense, and you discovered that over 12,000 lawsuits had been successfully filed against the brand. it remains commonly prescribed on the open market. you switched brands a few times before oral contraceptives stopped being in any way effective. your doctor just, like, shrugged and said you could try a different brand again.

and the thing is that you're a feminist. you know from your own experience that birth control can be lifesaving, and that even when used for birth control - it is necessary healthcare. you have seen it save so many people from such bad situations, yourself included. it is critical that any person has access to birth control, and you would never suggest that we just get rid of all of it.

you were a little skeeved out by the implant (heard too many bad stories about it) and figured - okay, iud. it was some of the worst pain you've ever fucking experienced, and you did it with a small number of tylenol in your system (3), like you were getting your bikini line waxed instead of something practically sewn into your body.

and what's wild is that because sometimes it isn't a painful insertion process, it is vanishingly rare to find a doctor that will actually numb the area. while your doctor was talking to you about which brand to choose, you were thinking about the other ways you've been injured in your life. you thought about how you had a suspicious mole frozen off - something so small and easy - and how they'd numbed a huge area. you thought about when you broke your wrist and didn't actually notice, because you'd thought it was a sprain.

your understanding of pain is that how the human body responds to injury doesn't always relate to the actual pain tolerance of the person - it's more about how lucky that person is physically. maybe they broke it in a perfect way. maybe they happened to get hurt in a place without a lot of nerve endings. some people can handle a broken femur but crumble under a sore tooth. there's no true way to predict how "much" something actually hurts.

in no other situation would it be appropriate for doctors to ignore pain. just because someone can break their wrist and not feel it doesn't mean no one should receive pain meds for a broken wrist. it just means that particular person was lucky about it. it should not define treatment.

in the comments of videos about IUDs, literally thousands of people report agony. blinding, nauseating, soul-crushing agony. they say things like i had 2 kids and this was the worst thing i ever experienced or i literally have a tattoo on my ribs and it felt like a tickle. this thing almost killed me or would rather run into traffic than ever feel that again.

so it's either true that every single person who reports severe pain is exaggerating. or it's true that it's far more likely you will experience pain, rather than "just a pinch." and yet - there's nothing fucking been done about it. it kind of feels like a shrug is layered on top of everything - since technically it's elective, isn't it kind of your fault for agreeing to select it? stop being fearmongering. stop being defensive.

you fucking needed yours. you are almost weirdly protective of it. yours was so important for your physical and mental health. it helped you off hormonal birth control and even started helping some of your symptoms. it still fucking hurt for no fucking reason.

once while recovering from surgery, they offered you like 15 days of vicodin. you only took 2 of them. you've been offered oxy for tonsillitis. you turned down opioids while recovering from your wisdom tooth extraction. everything else has the option. you fucking drove yourself home after it, shocked and quietly weeping, feeling like something very bad had just happened. the nurse that held your hand during the experience looked down at you, tears in her eyes, and said - i know. this is cruelty in action.

and it's fucked up because the conversation is never just "hey, so the way we are doing this is fucking barbaric and doctors should be required to offer serious pain meds" - it's usually something around the lines of "well, it didn't kill you, did it?"

you just found out that removing that little bitch will hurt just as bad. a little pinch like how oral contraceptives have "some" serious symptoms. like your life and pain are expendable or not really important. like maybe we are all hysterical about it?

hysteria comes from the latin word for uterus, which is great!

you stand here at a crossroads. like - this thing is so important. did they really have to make it so fucking dangerous. and why is it that if you make a complaint, you're told - i didn't even want you to have this in the first place. we're told be careful what you wish for. we're told that it's our fault for wanting something so illict; we could simply choose not to need medication. that maybe if we don't like the scraps, we should get ready to starve.

we have been saying for so long - "i'm not asking you to remove the option, i'm asking you to reconsider the risk." this entire time we hear: well, this is what you wanted, isn't it?

[lvnesart]

genshin genderbends except I changed almost nothing lmao

[numberonetacostan]

Lightbulb's excellent egg detection

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[dentos-wife]

I had to ask customer support about Grima in CYL after making the top 20 but not being ranked and shockingly they responded to me (and some others on Reddit I saw) so here! Outright confirmation Grima doesn't fit into the male or female catergory

Diversity win, eldritch lab created dragon god's gender incomprehensible to human gender norms

[weaver-z]

Moral of the story: we need more children's media about girlbeasts who are fucked up and evil (affectionate)