#thats not proana

[cy3eruraaa]

Edtwt Abbreviations for New ppl!

Ana = Anorexia/anorexic BC: Body check BMI = Body index mass

Bonespo =. highly underweight ppl to the point u could see their bones for motivation to lose weight

Cal/ kcal = Calories Chubspo: Normal BMI to Overweight/obese ppl 4 Motivation! CW = Current weight

EW: End weight

Fatphobic/ Fatphobia = Dislike towards Overweight/ Obese ppl (in general)

Fatspo; Inspo to lose weight from obese ppl

GW: Goal weight

HW = Highest Weight

mia = bulimia

meanspo = mean motivation to lose weight

OMAD = one meal a day

proana = Support of Anaor3x1a

shtwt: Self Harm twt

SW: Starting weight sweetspo: Sweet motivation to lose weight UGW: Ultimate goal weight Ednotsherran: Tag on tiktok for Pro or cons abt EDS (Bullmia, Ana,etc)

Coaches: Coaches for helping you to lose weight but mostly are there just to see your nudes due to having a fetish

ana buddies: people to help you fast and lose weight like a buddy (online)

twt: Twitter

Ricecaketwt: Basically edtwt

edtok: the most insufferable place Thats all if I missed some please put them in the replies! :) <33

[mychem1cal1mbalance]

So sick of seeing so many rexies or EDed ppl just being shitty, so a few points to keep in mind - RANT

- having an Ed does not justify ur fatphobia. And yes if U view fat ppl as lazy or inherently bad, ur fatphobic. Like fat ppl don't give af abt u, just let them live 💀

- not everyone gives af about being skinny. It's literally U. STOP PROJECTING UR ED ONTO PPL!!!! Crazily enough, beauty is subjective 🤯 go touch grass, go see the diversity of body shapes and sizes who r pulling more bitches than u, and will continue to pull more bitches than u even when ur skinny. Most ppl don't give A FLYING FUCK abt their weight and diet, because they actually have lives!!!

- having anorexia isn't coquette. Log off. Seriously. I hope U shit urself on a bus after taking 20 laxatives. ((Not rlly, but I do hope U get a stomach cramp))

- "not proana" "block don't report this is my safe place!!" *Procedes to post Thinspo**procedes to post shit abt how starving makes u pure and eating is dirty*. THATS PROANA!!!!!!!!!! U r glorifying self harm, expect to be termed.

- majority of Ed's r not visible

- they won't like U better when ur skinny 😭

[3000s]

like i said before idc if someone with an ed blog for recovery follows me like thats cool dip ur toes into my space i hope u can heal but when the actual proana fatphobic blogs try to follow me its so crazy like you know i ❤️ obesity right

[lilcowzia]

I haven't been a public feedee for long, but I already have had my pics stolen by proana accounts for their fatspo. I'm assuming this has happened to you, so I'd like to ask how do you fight the urge to not send them suicide bait

(TW: ED discussion) honestly? i just know they're already completely miserable, lonely too. acts of aggression wont hurt these ppl as much as eating a french fry or smthin will cause them emotional distress, yanno, and thats. sad. theyre very sad people. this doesnt absolve them of the fatphobic abuse they commit as a result of their disorder, at all, but it does kind of take the wind out of my sails when i read the words of someone obviously sick and fueled by self hate. that being said, i wouldnt recommend sending bait like that anyway since it can get your account deleted on most sites. though i can understand lashing out as a reaction to the abuse ofc

also ill just be fr and say that when this happens to me i do usually feel like its a bit of a funny situation (for me, not them). like theyre soooo mad that... i eat good? like im soo sorry that im not hating every second of my life and avoiding the things that make me happy. thats my bad, no yeah it totally makes sense that you would hate looking like me. yeah its soooo icky and im not hot like, at allllll (definitely dont get aroused just from looking in the mirror 😶) lmao i should be like them instead because theyre so happy n aspirational 💀 lmao lmfao even

[strawbearyhoney]

Just say you hate ppl with eating disorders and go

if someone were to promote depression ( literally using a pro-depression tag and telling other people how to get more depressed and encouraging others to self harm and be miserable ) and i said ' tumblr should block that tag ' would you say i hated ppl who suffer froam depression . lol

i have ppl close to me who have suffered from eating disorders and i have a complicated relationship with food myself . its one thing for ppl struggling with an ed to have a space to talk about it , to connect with other people going through the same thing , even to vent about it / their challenging thoughts and talk about when they relapse . its another thing entirely to make posts like " fat ppl are ugly disgusting monsters you have to be skinny pale and frail to be worth anything or beautiful " and then plop urself right into an echo chamber of people obessing and nodding along liek yes yes i must be thin i must be thin all i want is to be thin im disgusting

you are going to die . full stop . you are going to die . your organs will fail and your hair will fall out and your teeth will wear down from the acid of you throwing up so often . you are going to die and it wont be pretty . you are going to die if you do not get out . eating disorders kill people , full stop . liek i need you to understand how serious this is . you either recover or youre dead . this isnt me saying " i dont liek that these people are talking about something thats bad " or " ppl struggling with this should have no spaces to talk about what theyre going through " , this is me saying " the pro ana tag is so incredibly dangerous and tumblr should block it liek theyve blocked countless of other way less harmful tags " . this is me saying im begging you to do some reserach to get out of the echo chamber and i know its not that easy and you cant just say ' wow ur right im healed now thanks ' , but you have to want to get better and that starts with cutting out " thinspo " and to stop encouraging eachother to slowly kill yourselves

liek there are a host of other problems too . the fatphobia is an obvious one , but also the colourism , racism , etc . the pro ana / thinspo communities are obsessed with reaching this ideal of a skinny pale waif , so many blog titles and urls are centered around being ~ fragile ~ and ~ pure ~ and they only ever focus on white girls ( or apparently kpop stars now ) . its an incredibly toxic place . " meanspo " is a thing now ?? i couldnt stomach too much of it

but without getting into the ~ discourse ~ or how ~ problematic ~ those communities are . putting that aside . youre going to die . full stop you either recover from an ed or it kills you . and some people with eds are suicidal and that wont deterr them , for some their goal is to wither away into nothingness . ppl with eds are not healthy , mentally or physically , and that is not a moral judgment , it is a fact . people get eds for all sorts of reasons , from trauma ( abuse , bullying , sa , etc ) , from being fat in a fatphobic world , because they latch onto food as something they feel liek they can control-- there's so many reasons , an endless amount of reasons . i am not here to shame anyone for having an eating disorder

that does not change my stance on the fact that the " pro ana / thinspo " tags ( and their copycats . #proana #proed #thinspi #thinspii #thinspø #thinsp0 #ed not sheeran #ed not sherran #ana miaa etc etc ) are dangerous and should be removed . similar to how someone going into tha #depression tag and promoting and encouraging others to kill themselves should be banned

srsly if someone went into tha #depression tag and started posting and commenting on others posts liek " kill yourself , its never going to get better , heres some accessible ways to die , heres some suicide inspo , heres cute suicide note ideas , kill urself just die prove everyone wrong , everyone will be so sorry and regret the way they treated you , just die " , people would mass report them and dogpile them and be angry at them and get them banned . but when pro ana ppl do it suddenly its " let us cope " lol ????? not all coping methods are good or healthy or should be encouraged / promoted . and self mutilation is one thing , but when you are actively harming others it cant be left alone

to quote Blythe Baird from her spoken word When The Fat Girl Gets Skinny : if you are not recovering , you are dying

[we1ghtless-w1sh]

hi. im not putting my name on this account but yall can call me waste. he/him. minor.

this is NOT a proana blog, this is mostly just so i can ramble ab having an ed. I am 100% pro-recovery.

anyway. thats it ig

[dietbloxydew]

intro post!! :3

i’m not new at all to tumblr but i’ve decided to make a “normal” account where i can post what i’d like, so i figured i’d introduce myself a bit!! :3

- hi!! i’m addison but my friends call me addie

- 19, he/it/she, bisexual genderfluid girlguy

- very much taken (12/27 <3)

- i’m a college student

- my interests include: greys anatomy, ARGs/analong horror, creepypasta, horror movies, hazbin hotel/helluva boss, warrior cats, dinosaurs, jurassic park, unsolved mysteries, taylor swift, tyler the creator, poetry, history, marvel/mcu, spiderman, wandavision

- i am super fixated on grey’s so thats probs what i’ll yap about the most however my interests are always changing so

- dni: basic ass dni shit (homophobic, transphobic, racist, trump humper, etc etc), fatphobes, “proana” blogs or whatever its called nowadays, antirecovery blogs, proshippers, anyone who’s here to be a dickhead

- byf: i’m a grown adult who thirstposts, i’m a furry though i don’t really actively talk about it , i’m an annoying swiftie who will never stfu about taylor swift and her music, i am open about my sexuality and gender and i am not here to get into discourse so if thats your goal dni, i cuss a lot and am unfortunately an oversharer. i’m also openly “cringe” in every single way and i refuse to apologize

- i’m not very active on here, but i do have insta!!! my @ over there is dietbloxypepper :3

- my dms are always open!!! i love talking to people however i’m also awkward so please be patient <333

[meatcute]

JUNJIE ☆ DATURA ♡ SENECA ◇ OMEN

22 ° he / her ° e.asian / white ° trans + bisexual

i recently remade! more info on my carrd!

this blog is 18+; minors please dont follow

i am tme and able-bodied. i aim to be safe for transfem, black, indigenous, nonwhite, sex worker, disabled, fat, jewish, and muslim people. im always learning and appreciate corrections, please talk to me if i mess up.

i block liberally. this blog is no place for terfs, transmeds, proana, proship, fash, etc. i dont want to participate in lgbtcourse; i will also block people who are weird about bisexuality. also i just block for things like "not liking your vibe," dont worry about it

i try to tag for triggers for mutuals but thats it. blacklist "#x!x!x!" if you dont want to see nsfw. dont send me asks about your donation posts, i will delete them, use the dm function instead.

[mossyotherkin]

Welcome

Hello! My name is Mossy or Oren I go by they/them pronouns and neos I dont want to list so heres a link to my pronouns page. This is a side blog for my therianthropy and otherkin related things! My main blog is an agere blog so I follow from there, that being said, there will most likely be things that could be scary to people who are regressed on this blog.

Some info:

• Minor

• I am a shapeshifterkin (main forms of fox/cat) and gobelinkin.

• I have autism, C-PTSD, anxiety, depression, fibromyalgia, sjogren's syndrome, and many other things that are currently in the process of being figured out

• I am native american, specifically Sihásapa Lakota or Blackfoot Sioux (both are names for the same thing)

• I speak English and a little bit of ASL and have been trying to learn Japanese and Lakota

• I love everything that has to do with forests and leaves and moss (hence my name)

• I also love liminal spaces

• My friend is in the process of raising money to get a trained service dog, you can support them here or by reblogging this post

Resource Lists:

I love doing list of resources for people! Feel free to request one based on your kintype. If you want to include specific things on the list go ahead! Or if you want specific things not on the list thats cool too. Sometimes I cant find specific things for certain kintypes so please be patient with me.

I may decline requests due to feeling uncomfortable or other factors. In that case I will dm you, the cause may be explained or may not. Before making a request check to see if I've already made it.

Masterlist

Resource lists typically include:

• Documentaries and shows

• Gear

• Video games

• Conservation projects on your kintype (if applicable)

• Picrews or other maker things

• Comics, books, or legends

• General info and ways to feel more connected to your kintype

• Really just anything that might be useful or give you species euphoria!

Things I will NOT put in or make resource lists about:

• nsfw

• living people

∙ South Park

(this section may be expanded)

My tags:

#mossys art - my art on this blog

#mossy rambles - random little things and textposts

#mossys sources - alterhuman resources

This blog is SAFE for:

• those with disorders such as DID, OSDD, BPD, ASD, ADHD, OCD, (C) PTSD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, clinical lycanthropy, ect.

• those with delusions and hallucinations

• alterhumans

• BIPOC

• those of any religion (my dni says christians but its only if you post christian content, it just makes me uncomfy because of things I've been through)

• sfw furries

• those with eating disorders as long as they are trying to recover and not spread unhealthy body image

• those who are plus size/fat (fat is not a dirty word!)

(will add to this)

DNI (uncensored):

• MAPs of any variant (even NOMAP)

• kin for fun

• trans-abled

• racist

• ableist

• sexist

• xenosatanism

• homophobic or exclusionist

• transphobic

• terf

• anti-therian/otherkin/fictionkin

• anti-sfw furry (this is only if you are against them, I dont want to interact with people who are actively hateful)

• anti-system

• thinspo or proana

• anti-agere/dre

• anti-petre/dre

• ddlg, abdl, or related things (even "sfw")

• post christian content

• post about anything nsfw

[ziggyevilguy]

I dont trust the word tenderqueer or anyone who uses it.

Theres a lot of talk around the word tenderqueer and i just wanna go on record saying i dont trust you if you use this word one bit. I deeply believe white queers who use their queerness to excuse racism or other problematic behaviour is a huge problem and ive met plenty of these kinds of people, its just that words like this are dangerous as fuck. The meaning is ambiguous enough and not imidiatly recognizable from the word which means you need to google what it means and thats where war starts. The homophobes, specifically alt-right and neo nazi groups on 4chan thrive in such ambiguity because they can turn the meaning around to whatever they want and if theyre loud enough they can become the search result before the people who actually care about this issue.

The meaning has already started shifting from racist white queers to "chronically online" queer people who "have never met a queer parson in real life" and more. This isnt a small issue, this is what i first heard when i looked up what this means. Bashing the online queer spaces with words like these is fucking dangerous, thats where the babygays reside, the not yet out trans folks, the young queer people with anxiety or autism. This is the most vulnerable part of this community and everyone is aching to find a way to attack these people without having done anything wrong, i was there for many years. I wont stand for you bitches once again attacking the most vulnerable people on the internet, the ones we sould be doing everything to protect from people outside our comunity.

This conversation can definately be had without a word like that and this kind of hatespeech. You guys still after all these years dont understand that BEING CRINGE DOESNT MEAN YOURE EVIL. Hating on people who are chronically online is hating on mentally ill people for their mental illness. The racist white queers most likely arent even the chronically online bitches, its the powerful white gays, the ones with money. Theres definatelly racist chronically online queers but they are most likely minors and will grow up and learn. Also they arent influencial, theres no reason for the conversation to be around these people when theres so many white queers with money and power who do the exact same thing and monotize off of it.

I also wanna say that i do support critisiziing specific communities for their inherent racism. Communities like coquette and lana del ray girlies have an inherent love for whiteness, smoking and drug idealization, and proana bullshit. Communities and fanbases can be overwhelmingly white and racist but i wont stand for anyone attacking the baby gays i swear. My point that the word tenderqueer does not need to exist and is extremely dangerous still stands.

Also i am getting huge kalvin garrah flashbacks from the word tenderqueer like you guys took transtrenders mixed it up a lil and were like yea thats the one.

[oleander-teacup]

ok i guess its time for me to make an actual pinned post

they/he/she pronouns!

hi im cyrus! i post things that are not always acceptable for minors so please dont follow me if youre a minor i wanna keep boundaries :)

im autistic and will go on posting sprees of my interests feel free to send me things you think i'll like or want to share with me!!

i tend to disappear from tumblr when i go through periods of high stress so if i vanish thats why haha

my partner is @stupid-elf and i love him very much :)

DNI:

- radfems

- proana

- MAPs

thats abt all i have to say :) love u and have a good day!!!!!

[failed-apple]

okay heres again my opinions on proed, and please read the whole post before commenting.

i think proana should be allowed to exist, just not on public social medias. private forums are a thing, i use one (im not gonna drop the name tho sorry. if you wanna find one you can use google/reddit). explanation:

proana is gonna exist no matter what. its existed online since the start of the internet (and probably before that in some way) and it doesn't seem to go away since its kind of a natural thing that comes with weight related eds to want to be triggered. with proed and proana i mean both possibly triggering stuff, relatability, acceptance, harm reduction and in a contained, safe space, thinspo and other purposfully triggering stuff. i have seen people one here that are very much tredding the line of encouraging eds, (posts like reasons to starve, meanspo, tips etc.) which is still proana and i get wanting to post it but public social media is definitely not the place for that. in ed forums there are different subforums for different things, so you can be on an ed forum without ever seeing thinspo, or things about purging or numbers if you want to. also, forums are moderated, and a lot of proana forums still dont allow harmful tips or encouraging other to get worse. even if its a space to post triggering stuff, its supposed to be a safe space for people with eds, and stuff like teaching people who to purge or encouraging long fasts (things ive seen on here) isnt making anyone safe.

and again: edforums are contained places and thats the important thing. the thing with proanablr/twt/tt/yt and so on is that its really easy to accidentally find, especially on social medias with algorithms. on tiktok anyone whos liked a vid about depression can easily get a vid about eds on their fyp, which could introduce them to the glamorizing eds tt to *what i eat in a day - restricting edition/300cal edition* and so on, which would make them more likely to develop an ed. people dont accidentally stumble upon a semiprivate proana website where you need to have been active a certain amount of time and posted a certain amount of posts to see the triggering stuff. and on tumblr, where theres not much of an algorithm, i still think people shouldnt post thinspo and stuff like that. yes, its a bit more difficult to stumble upon, but if youre on say bpdblr, you might not scroll through a whole blog before following it, and then you have proana stuff on your dash cause naturally people mix the stuff they post about. and even if youre already on edblr you might not want a bunch of triggering stuff, and cause of the nonworking filtering system cause everyone uses tags like @ na m1a anj0r3ks1@ and so fucking on, its impossible to filter out the triggering posts. when i have times i want to recover i want to be able to have a safe dash. so i try my best to not follow and unfollow everyone who post thinspo, but cause not everyone who does it are only-thinspo blogs its difficult to know who i can follow, and i accidentally follow a lot of triggering blogs.

what my blog is, is pro recovery. i try to post as little triggering things as possible, while also posting memes and things non disordered people possibly could find concerning, but with the more obviously triggering stuff, i post on the edforum, since that way theres no one accidentally stumbling upon it.

tldr: proana should exist, but only on closed moderated forums.

[anawkwardlady]

I think my issue with Dorian (ofherbsandaltars) is that, while I think their input on ED spaces and being out in public as a person suffering with ED is really needed (because those entitled ass commentary youtubers and influencers really seem to think you should at least look healthy to have the right to exist in public or that you owe recovery/journey transparency to literal strangers which... fuck you really), I also think they tend to victimize people who suffer with EDs and I don't think thats helpful. I think separated forums and subreddits are the lesser evil for ED communities because you are going to want to vent about stuff you don't want to put other people through. However lets not act like a a lot of proana are "just keeping it for themselves" and "just existing" on other platforms.

They use pictures and videos of unknowing people they find unattractive as goals for themselves to keep going, they treat people who have a healthy relationship with food like garbage, they openly call anyone who isn't skinny anorexic a wannabe or a faker. They're mostly humble bragging more than they actually hate their body. Like please have you ever seen ED twitter ? Most vile place on earth. Theres a really real, harmful hierarchy of disorders that doesn't help anyone and isn't supportive. They're not poor victims just harming themselves, they're actively harming others, especially fat people. I also don't like the insinuation that most "haters" are recovered people, it gives : "oh so you didn't have it as hard at the other ones" or as in "you must be bitter about them being sicker and skinnier than you". Actually it's more because they probably know how to cut the BS and see through the "innocent sick person" persona. I'm not recovered but I look normal and I'm not anorexic, I know what they think of me and I don't fall for it. They lose the mask real fast when they're criticized thats why I get insulted everytime a post like that is getting some notes.

Non disordered people being uncomfortable with seeing sickness and moralizing the whole thing is an issue - it's true.

Pro anas are not babies and are mostly not to the point of "loosing neurons", their sickness makes them bitter and vindictive, not a reason to let them do it - also true.

If you know me you know I mostly hate how "romanticizing" is thrown around because I think it's lazy and not often not used properly. However I think thats Dorian's issue, they’re really nostalgic which I understand but they romanticize their community and the good old days so hard they're a bit biased when talking about proanas and ED communities as a whole. I feel like these spaces are mostly sweet to you if you fit the right criterias.

[anticosmicist]

my time in the transgender community did nothing but further my internalized belief that my existence was inherently flawed and my body was "wrong". it lead to self hatred, cutting, suicidal ideation, disordered eating, literal psychotic breakdowns and delusions, substance abuse, and now that i've desisted, a fractured sense of self. all of which, by the way, i was told was just "a normal part of the transgender experience". intense disgust for yourself and acting on your own masochistic urges is "normal"?? does anyone else see how fucked up it is to promote this sort of culture to young people? its very reminiscent of proana/mia communities that also encourage the idea that one's body is wrong and must be changed. i'm probably going to lose followers for this but i don't care i owe it to myself to speak the truth. MY truth. i wish it wasn't considered literal fascism to do so but i guess thats just the world we live in

[mikoshiba]

some weird people reblog my posts i say something like omg my nose is bleeding because thats what you do on tumblr and 6 months later @angelicrotting6 reblogs that with #mental #proana

[yandere-romanticaa]

Do they read your content or smth? Or maybe theyre finding you through an old post or tag thats commonly used in the thinspo/proana community?

Quite a few have interacted with my stuff, some even spammed liked but I think they find me through my name? That's the only thing that makes any sense to me, my name is ana and they use the word "ana" often in their tags so maybe that's how they find me....